Why So Many Gen Zs Can't Take a Joke with Ted and Courtney Balaker

In this episode, we talk about the value of work with David Bahnsen, Managing Partner and Chief Investment Officer of The Bahnsen Group, a wealth management firm based in Newport Beach, California overseeing $4 billion in client's assets,  David is also a  thought leader, and author of Full-Time: Work and the Meaning of Life. David wants to challenge one of society’s most accepted myths: that success means eventually not working. David makes a bold, and deeply personal case for why work isn’t just a way to earn a living, but a core part of living well. Drawing from his career in finance and his passion for theology, philosophy, and purpose, we discuss how our jobs can become our expressions of dignity, identity, and meaning. David offers a different way of looking at work, especially for those feeling stuck or pressured to “have it all figured out.” Mic drop moments: "The dignity of work is completely egalitarian." "It is absolutely untrue that AI can ever replace virtue. "Work is the meaning of our life. "Human beings have a remarkable ability to really like being praised at what they do" "It is our responsibility to be producers, creators, and innovators." Want to skip ahead? Just tap the timestamps to dive into specific sections: 02:44 - David's new book is called Full Time Work and the Meaning of Life 12:33 - Let's talk about the fallacy of retirement 18:12 - Very few people in finance like you are openly religious 20:02 - There's been a movement with colleges to glamorize socialism 29:14 - You can't win a primary being sane 37:08 - Why people should focus on what they're good at Check out our website: https://meantforyoupod.com Reach out to us: [email protected] Follow us on IG

Ada Palmer, is a sci-fi writer, historian, and someone who sees the world with an incredibly rare, long lens. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by the headlines, this episode might help. Ada believes we’re not living in a uniquely apocalyptic time—just a normally apocalyptic one. “We're living in a moment we must rise to, work hard on, do well where what we do matters,” she told me. “We have the ability to reduce 100% harm to 70% harm. We have that responsibility.” That line really stuck with us—because it’s so easy to feel powerless right now. But Ada’s message is the opposite: we do have agency, and what we do does matter. She also reminded us that fear isn’t new. “We are not more scared than our predecessors were 50 or 100 years ago. They were just as scared as we are. The stakes were just as high. The rewards of hard work were just as real. The penalties of messing up were just as disastrous.” Ada sees change not in election cycles, but in centuries. And that shift in perspective is powerful. We talk about why we need to stop chasing “total wins” and start celebrating the small, meaningful steps forward. Progress is almost always incremental, but that doesn’t make it any less real or important. From ancient Rome to climate policy, Ada brings in vivid historical parallels that made us see our moment differently. She doesn’t sugarcoat the challenges—we talk about the real stakes—but she offers something many of us arel craving: perspective, hope, and a reminder that we’ve come through hard things before. The part of our conversation that keeps echoing for us is this: Every generation has been called to save the world. They rose to the challenge. Now, it’s our turn.   🗣️ Quotes from Ada Palmer "We shouldn't think that we are living now in a uniquely apocalyptic moment. We're living in a normally apocalyptic moment." "Nothing is more similar to the future than the past." "Success isn't 100% victory. Success is mitigating the thing so that it's less bad when it happens." "Every generation has to save the world, and we can work hard at it and meet this occasion." Topics Discussed: 03:15 - Understanding the historical context of our current challenges 10:42 - The cyclical nature of apocalyptic moments throughout history 18:30 - Ada's journey as a historian and science fiction writer 25:50 - The impact of AI on society and the importance of policy 35:12 - How collective efforts can mitigate climate change 45:07 - The significance of partial victories in history 52:40 - Embracing resilience and responsibility in uncertain times   Check out our website: https://meantforyoupod.com Reach out to us: [email protected] Follow us on IG  

Jenny Wood, former Google executive, leadership coach, and author of Wild Courage, joins us to talk about what it really takes to grow your career, whether you're in the early stages or navigating a mid-career reset. With her candid approach, Jenny shares how to apply your experience and find your courage. In this episode, we cover practical, no-nonsense strategies for standing out at work, communicating with your boss, building a network that actually supports you, and tapping into the kind of courage that deepens with age. If you've ever felt overlooked, underestimated, or simply ready for more—this conversation is for you.   Careers: Looking for career clarity, inspiration, or a reset? Check out our other caereer related podcasts  💖 Kathy Caprino, author of The Most Powerful You, breaks down the 7 power gaps holding back 98% of women and 90% of men—and how to close them. Lauren McGoodwin, founder of Career Contessa, talks about entitlement in the workplace and why chasing the “perfect job” can lead us astray. Julian Guthrie shares the untold story of the first female venture capitalists in Silicon Valley—and how they changed the game. Courtney Martin challenges traditional definitions of success and offers a more honest, human vision of achievement. Joan Barnes, founder of Gymboree, opens up about resilience, entrepreneurship, and recovering from bulimia while building a beloved brand. Jane Boulware reflects on her journey from Iowa farm life to an executive role at Microsoft—and what early retirement really looks like. Topics Discussed: 03:33 - Jenny Wood shares her story about tapping into wild courage in to meet her husband in the NY Subway 06:39 - Go after what you want and get it 12:24 - "Woo with you" is a technique used by introverts to influence others 15:11 - What do you think are the most important traits for success 18:18 - The biggest leap in Silicon Valley is moving from middle manager to executive 23:43 - You have to have courage to reach up to your boss's boss 26:57 - Brutal is the power of no to protect your time, energy and priorities 33:08 - How AI could affect middle managers 34:37 - Which AI tools Jenny is using and how she is using them 44:25 - For moms who left the workforce to raise kids, how do they get back 51:08 - You show up as an introvert on Myers Briggs, but nobody believes it 55:40 - What the entrepreneurial path feels like for Jenny 58:53 - Jenny's current revenue stream is 70% keynote speaking and 10% newsletter sponsorship   Jenny Wood [jennywood.com](https://jennywood.com) Wild Courage [Wild Courage Book](https://jennywood.com/wild-courage) ChatGPT [OpenAI ChatGPT](https://openai.com/chatgpt) ConvertKit [ConvertKit](https://convertkit.com) Marshall Goldsmith [Marshall Goldsmith](https://marshallgoldsmith.com)

Natasha Sizlo was having a terrible year. Fresh off a divorce, bankruptcy, the end of a passionate relationship, and then the news came about her beloved father’s devastating terminal illness. When a friend suggested an astrology reading, Natasha’s first instinct was a hard pass. But, Natasha relented, and the reading led her towards a year of magic, the kind of year that turns into a romantic comedy on the big screen and a best-selling book. All Signs Point to Paris by Natasha Sizlo. Hire Natasha to be your real estate agent If you enjoyed this podcast, check out our most powerful and inspiring conversations from the podcast featuring women who’ve taken bold risks, rebuilt their lives, or spoken the truths most of us keep quiet. These women are brilliant examples of living the life meant for you. Starting Over, Resilience, Overcoming: Nicole Avant on a Mindset of Gratitude and Service Bethany Hamilton on Faith, Waves, and Fearlessness: Bethany Hamilton’s Unshakable Journey” Claire Bidwell Smith, Finding Peace After Grief Dara Kurtz, How Dara Crushed Cancer and Changed Her Life Annette Ross was Meant for love, after overcoming a tragic accident during the birth of her second child that left Anette unable to walk, Annette went on to create a beautiful life with five daughters and the love of her life Travel: Jeannie Ralston, The Unlikely Lavender Queen: A Memoir of Unexpected Blosssoming Life Stories and Culture: Laura Belgray, author of Tough Titties, on growing up loud, weird, and real Kat Timpf, Truth Bombs and Punchlines: Kat Timpf on Humor That Hurts (and Heals) Tiffany Shlain on reclaiming time with Tech Shabbats Zibby Owens on bookfluencing and being a literary connector Mental Health Lori Gottlieb (Maybe You Should Talk to Someone) on why you really should talk to someone Serving Others Heidi Kuhn, founder of Roots of Peace, on turning grief into global impact Dr. Leana Wen, Lifelines: A Doctor's Journey in the Fight for Public Health Jessica Honegger on Going Scared and Choosing Purpose Over Comfort Relationships Amy Chan, “The Love Rehab You Didn’t Know You Needed” and the Psychology of Love Eve Rodsky (Fair Play) on burnout, breakdowns, and building a movement   Favorite Quotes from Natasha: "I just have to go to find everybody with his exact same birth chart because the one has to still be out there." "Once I started believing, I started seeing." "To live an authentic life, that's a beautiful thing." "If it's mentionable, it's manageable." "Sounds like you're going to Paris. I'll meet you there."  

Are you living a psychologically rich life? In this episode we discuss what it means to be psychologically rich and how you can generate more richness. In "Life in Three Dimensions: How Curiosity, Exploration, and Experience Make a Fuller, Better Life", Shigehiro Oishi, Professor of Psychology at the University of Chicago,  shares his research and the ways leading a psychologically rich life can transform how you prioritize your days and goals. As Shige shares, “a  psychologically rich life is a life filled with diverse, unusual, interesting experiences that change your perspective; a life with twists and turns; a dramatic, eventful life instead of a simple and straightforward one”. For those of you who feel that something is missing from your lives, or that your dreams and goals don't fit with societal expectations, this conversation is for you. Shige Oishi has given us the language and concept for living our lives in search of experience, adventure, learning and connection.  Please share this episode with a frriend and follow us on Instagram at @meantforyoupod You can Sign up for our newsletter here Visit our website at www.meantforit.com Guest ideas? Partnership ideas? Comments? Email us directly at [email protected] Get Shige's book  Topics Discussed: 05:07 - The the three pillars of a happy life  14:13 - How narrating your experiences enriches the experience 20:12 - A psychologically rich day involves a wide range of emotions 22:18 - Happiness used to be good luck and fortune, but now happiness is personal success 25:41 - Happiness is more like a batting average 32:03 - Happiness is not the intensity but the frequency of positive emotion 36:13 - As we age, curiosity and, and exploration wane, and how to balance it 39:09 - psychological richness mindset can help deal with difficult life situations  

Filmmakers Courtney and Ted Balaker discuss their latest documentary surrounding the mental health crisis among Gen Z.  Their film based on the  book, The Coddling of the American Mind, by Jonathan Haidt   and Greg Lukianoff, was made to spark critical discussions, including conversations across college campuses. We discuss the alarming trends in Gen Z's mental health, the role of social media, and the impact of educational environments that often prioritize emotional safety over intellectual freedom and critical thinking. Please listen to this enlightening discussion that will alert you to concerning Gen Z cultural trends. Please share this episode with a friend!  Follow us on Instagram at @meantforyou  Sign up for our newsletter here  Visit our website at www.meantforit.com  Guest ideas? Partnership ideas? Comments? Email us directly at [email protected] Links from conversation The Coddling of the American Mind: How Good Intentions and Bad Ideas Are Setting Up a aGeneration for Failure  by onathan Haidt and Greg Lukianoff  Ted and Courtney's film Company Little Pink House Can we take a Joke

Yardena Shwartz, an award-winning journalist and Emmy-nominated producer, joins us to discuss her book, Ghosts of a Holy War. Yardena’s book focuses on the 1929 Hebron massacre, allowing us to see the shocking parallels between the historical events of 1929 and the October 7th massacre in Israel. Hebron, an ancient city with archeological finds going back some 5,000 years, is in the controlled territory of both governments. For thousands of years, Hebron has had great religious importance for both Jews and Muslims. Despite Yardena’s credentials, and her book’s relevance to the current news cycle, “Ghosts of a Holy War” book has been largely ignored by mainstream media and literary circles. It is not a stretch to assume that the historical information revealed in this book goes against the dominant stories in mass media, that seek  sources that support their simplified oppressor and oppressed narrative.  As history repeatedly shows us, if we don’t understand the past, we are doomed to repeat it. The misinformation leading to the 1929 massacre, and the way the massacre was interpreted by the world, is a repeat of what we have seen since October 7. We have seen denials of the recorded atrocities on October 7, misinformation and marches praising the violence as glorious resistance. How can we end the cycles of violence in the region if we don’t understand the root causes? It feels like we are trying to cure cancer by taking an Advil and screaming about the pain. Yardena’s book shares the historical root causes of the cancer of violence that has plagued the region since 1929. Yardena’s book also recounts stories of friendship and muslim families that protected their neighbors. The Jewish families and students in Hebron were not prepared for the violence because they lived peacefully and happily with their neighbors. In 1929, just as today, misinformation from leaders with bad intentions, fueled horrifying fury, and religiously driven violence.  We hope that more people decide to learn the history of the region through credible journalists and historians, instead of repeating dangerous misinformation and lies. For the sake of every innocent child, please make time to find the historical truth.  PLEASE HELP US OUT BY SHARING THIS EPISODE WITH A FRIEND! Follow us on Instagram at @meantforyoupod Sign up for our newsletter here Visit our website at www.meantforit.com Guest ideas? Partnership ideas? Comments? Email us directly at [email protected]  

When we discuss topics related to our government, we often ask ourselves, what would Sharon say? We decided to ask Sharon McMahon,, America's favorite government teacher,  to help us understand why teaching students about how the US Government works has been defunded and de-prioritized. Sharon shares her insights on the reality that many students graduate without a proper understanding of how their government operates, often having only a single semester of civics education. We discuss the dangerous consequences of this knowledge gap, not just for individual citizens, but also as a national security threat and a threat to our democracy. How can we make America great again when we don't know how it works? How can we expect to see change when our students don’t understand how our government functions or the importance of local elections, and what it actually takes to make meaningful and lasting change. If we don't educate our citizens we shouldn't be surprised by a divided and cynical populace that opts out and screams why bother when it’s all rigged. We explore the benefits of a stronger civics curriculum that is consistent across states and the challenges  in getting there due to our decentralized education system. Did you know that education requirements are left to each to decide or that we have 50 separate state school boards including 14,000 local boards?   Please listen to and share with your community. Quotes: "We have under-educated our citizens for existence in a very complex democracy." "We need to understand the problem before we can make meaningful change." "The civil rights movement didn’t just happen because a bunch of members of Congress were like, what the right thing to do?"  -Sharon McMahon "How are we supposed to make America great again if we don’t understand how it works?" ----Polina Rubin Zoom In: 06:49 Why aren't people saying in government that maybe we should prioritize civics education 08:10 The United States has an incredibly decentralized education system compared to other democracies 13:27 Whether the federal government should be involved in curriculum decisions is hotly debated 20:37 Elimination of Department of Justice or Department of Education could negatively impact students 23:23 Thoughts on the costs of education in the US compared to other countries 29:31 Every other developed nation takes far more steps to abate childhood poverty than we do 31:51 If you have two parents, you're more likely to not be in poverty   PLEASE HELP US OUT BY SHARING THIS EPISODE WITH A FRIEND! Follow us on Instagram at @meantforit https://www.instagram.com/meantforit/?hl=en Sign up for our newsletter here: https://meantforit.substack.com/ Visit our website at www.meantforit.com Guest ideas? Partnership ideas? Comments? Email us directly [email protected]

Like both of us (your co-hosts Polina and Yelena) Viktoria was born in the Soviet Union. VIktoria immigrated to the USA from Kiev with her family when she was 10. After getting interested in politics a few years ago, Viktoria started a highly successful Instagram page (communistsurivivor) , as a place to share her experiences and political opinions. Viktoria’s childhood in the former Soviet Union has shaped her politics and inspired her to share the realities of life under communism. We hope that Viktoria’s thoughts on the differences between life in the Soviet Union and the opportunities available in the U.S. encourage you to apply a critical eye when you come across communist and anti-capitalist propaganda. If you have experience of living under an oppressive regime, and when you grow up listening to the stories of how your parents and grandparents struggled, you are more likely to treasure the immense privileges that come with freedom. We feel this perspective is particularly relevant in today's heated climate, where many college students in the West are expressing hatred for their own country without a basic understanding of the historical realities and struggles that led to their freedoms. Viktoria on Instagram   PLEASE HELP US  OUT BY SHARING THIS EPISODE WITH A FRIEND! Follow us on Instagram at @meantforit Sign up for our  newsletter here  Visit our website at www.meantforit.com, Guest ideas? Partnership ideas? Comments? Email us directly at [email protected]   Notable Quotes: "Being a Communism survivor is something that definitely molds you into a certain way of being." "We won the lottery because we were able to not only come here, but we have the relativity of the two worlds that make us so grateful and so patriotic." "If you're not involved in politics, politics is going to get involved in you." "The problem with communism is that it doesn't take human nature into account."  Topics Discussed: 02:35 The Telepathy Tapes 03:59  Adolescence on Netflix 05:55 Intro to Viktoria 16:20  Communism will never work with humans because it's incompatible with human nature 21:27 Most people in the west don't recognize the patterns of anti-government protests 21:53 Victoria started Communism Survivor after becoming passionate about politics 25:35 Advice for those trying to grow their Instagram accounts 33:22 Being banned on Instagram several times 39:50 Trump's treatment of Ukraine 50:12 Vktoria's career in integrative nutrition

We are thrilled to share our conversation with respected broadcaster Erin Molan. Throughout the world, many people have discovered Erin for fearless commentary and stance on the Israel-Gaza conflict.  As she does in her videos,  Erin discusses the importance of condemning Hamas and standing against terrorism, emphasizing that true support for children in Gaza means advocating for the eradication of the group that endangers their lives and future. We discuss the erosion of Judeo-Christian values in Western society and how the erosion of these principles can lead to moral confusion and the acceptance of violence.  Erin shares why she does this work for her daughter’s future, and the future of all children. We discuss the role of the media in shaping narratives, and the responsibility we all have to protect the values of freedom and safety for future generations. This is not just a conversation about politics; it's a call to action for everyone who believes in a just world. Erin's new show on X A few of Erin's videos: Failure on a global scale… more hostages freed but the sh_t show rolls on… Erin Molan’s take! Erin Molan unloads on UN official Francesca Albanese over 'insane' response ‘Unrelenting idiocy’: Erin Molan calls out the West’s ongoing insanity on Israel   PLEASE HELP US  OUT BY SHARING THIS EPISODE WITH A FRIEND! Follow us on Instagram at @meantforYOU Sign up for our  newsletter here  Visit our website at www.meantforit.com, Guest ideas? Partnership ideas? Comments? Email us directly at [email protected] ************************** Show Notes: 00:00 Why condemning Hamas and standing against terrorism is the best gift any of us can give 04:55 Moving away from Judeo Christian values 07:14 How is it controversial to be against terror 10:40 No Other Land won for Best Documentary despite being full of falsehoods 14:25 The two side narrative  18:55 You are allowed to change your opinion when more information is presented to you 24:17 This is an existential fight