748: Train Your Trust

"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes it's the quiet voice that says, 'I will try again tomorrow.'" – Mary Anne Radmacher   In this episode of The High Performance Mindset, Dr. Cindra Kamphoff shares how courage is built in the small, everyday moments, not just the big ones. Because fear will always be there… but it doesn't have to stop you.   You'll learn how to: Take action even when you don't feel ready Quiet the "what if" thoughts holding you back Build courage through simple, daily steps Stay grounded under pressure with a Power Pause If you've been hesitating or overthinking something important, this episode will help you take that next step. Because confidence doesn't come before courage, it comes because of it.   Tune in and ask yourself: Where do you need to choose courage over comfort today?   To download our full study report, visit: confidencestudy.com To Request a Free Breakthrough Call with a Mentally Strong Coach, visit: http://www.freementalbreakthroughcall.com/ To learn more about the Mentally Strong Institute, visit: https://mentallystronginstitute.com/ To learn about Dr. Cindra Kamphoff's speaking and coaching, visit: https://cindrakamphoff.com/ To follow Dr. Cindra on Instagram, visit: Cindra Kamphoff, PhD (@cindrakamphoff) • Instagram photos and videos

Quote of the Week: "Becoming is better than being." — Carol Dweck   What if your potential isn't limited by your talent or ability, but by what you believe is possible?   In this episode, Dr. Cindra Kamphoff explores how a growth mindset helps you embrace challenges, learn from setbacks, and continue improving. You'll learn how one simple word—yet—can shift your perspective, and why awareness is the first step to recognizing when you've slipped into a fixed mindset. When you notice your thoughts, you can choose growth instead of staying stuck.   In This Episode: What a growth mindset is and why it matters How awareness helps you catch fixed mindset thinking Why adding "yet" can increase confidence and resilience How to focus on progress instead of perfection Power Phrase: "I am not there yet, but I am always growing."   Remember, you're not stuck, you're simply in progress.   To download our full study report, visit: confidencestudy.com To Request a Free Breakthrough Call with a Mentally Strong Coach, visit: http://www.freementalbreakthroughcall.com/ To learn more about the Mentally Strong Institute, visit: https://mentallystronginstitute.com/ To learn about Dr. Cindra Kamphoff's speaking and coaching, visit: https://cindrakamphoff.com/ To follow Dr. Cindra on Instagram, visit: Cindra Kamphoff, PhD (@cindrakamphoff) • Instagram photos and videos

In this episode of The High Performance Mindset, Dr. Cindra Kamphoff sits down with Kristin Gustafson, a board-certified coach, exercise physiologist, speaker, and author of The GPS Mindset: Grit, Purpose, and Strength. Kristin shares her inspiring journey from elite endurance athlete to navigating life-changing diagnoses including dystonia and multiple sclerosis—and how those experiences became the foundation for her mission to help others rise through adversity.   Throughout the conversation, Kristin explains how unexpected detours can challenge identity, confidence, and purpose, but also become opportunities for growth and transformation. She introduces her GPS Mindset framework—Grit, Purpose, and Strength—and discusses why resilience is built through the "boring reps" of everyday life, not just big moments of motivation.   Kristin also shares practical strategies for reconnecting with purpose during difficult seasons, strengthening both mental and physical resilience, and becoming "Detour Ready" when life takes an unexpected turn. Her message is a powerful reminder that challenges do not define us—they can refine us.   This episode will leave you encouraged to trust your own strength, embrace the journey in front of you, and keep moving forward even when the path changes unexpectedly.   You'll Learn: Why adversity can become a catalyst for growth and purpose What the GPS Mindset—Grit, Purpose, and Strength—really means Why grit is built through consistent daily habits and "boring reps" How to reconnect with purpose when you feel stuck or lost The connection between mental and physical strength What it means to become "Detour Ready" Strategies to build resilience through unexpected life challenges How to navigate identity shifts and confidence struggles with courage Episode Resources & Links Learn more about Kristin Gustafson Learn more about the Mentally Strong Coach Certification Learn more about The Mentally Strong Institute Register for the Mental Performance Summit Request a Free Mental Breakthrough Call Download the Confidence Research Study

In this episode of the High Performance Mindset, Dr. Cindra Kamphoff explores why saying no is essential for protecting your peace, energy, and priorities. High performers understand that focus requires boundaries, and every yes comes at a cost. Cindra shares practical strategies to help you confidently say no, avoid overcommitting, and create more space for what matters most. In this episode, you'll learn: Why saying yes too often leads to overwhelm How boundaries help you stay focused and energized Questions to ask before committing Practical ways to say no with confidence Why "Every no protects a bigger yes" Power Phrase: "I say no with confidence so I can say yes to what matters most."   Quote: "You have to decide what your highest priorities are and have the courage to pleasantly, smilingly, non-apologetically say no to other things." – Stephen Covey   To learn about the Mentally Strong Certification, visit: https://mentallystronginstitute.com/certification/ To Request a Free Breakthrough Call with a Mentally Strong Coach, visit: http://www.freementalbreakthroughcall.com/ To learn more about the Mentally Strong Institute, visit: https://mentallystronginstitute.com/ To learn about Dr. Cindra Kamphoff's speaking and coaching, visit: https://cindrakamphoff.com/ To follow Dr. Cindra on Instagram, visit: Cindra Kamphoff, PhD (@cindrakamphoff) • Instagram photos and videos

In this episode of The High Performance Mindset, Dr. Cindra Kamphoff sits down with Drew Moldenhauer, an international speaker, leadership trainer, and founder of Blue Ethos Specialized Training, to explore what it takes to communicate, lead, and perform effectively when the pressure is highest. Drawing from nearly two decades in law enforcement, higher education, and leadership development, Drew shares how high-performing teams build trust, navigate conflict, and stay composed in high-stress situations. He explains why communication can either escalate or de-escalate tension within seconds and why emotional control is often the foundation of effective leadership. Throughout the conversation, Drew discusses the concept of "high stakes teamwork" and why psychological safety, empathy, and accountability must coexist for teams to thrive. He also shares practical strategies leaders can use immediately to strengthen communication, build trust, and help teams stay calm and focused under pressure. Drew's message is especially relevant in today's world, where stress, conflict, and uncertainty can easily pull teams apart instead of bringing them together. His approach reminds us that leadership is not just about authority—it's about human connection, self-regulation, and creating environments where people feel seen, heard, and supported. This episode is a powerful reminder that the best leaders are not those who avoid pressure, but those who learn to lead themselves and others effectively through it.     You'll Learn: • What "high stakes teamwork" really means and why it matters • Common communication mistakes people make under stress • Why emotional control is critical for leadership and performance • How empathy and accountability work together in strong teams • Practical ways to stay calm and think clearly under pressure • How leaders can build trust and psychological safety immediately • Why resilience and self-awareness shape effective leadership     Episode Resources & Links Learn more about Drew Moldenhauer: https://drewthespeaker.com/ Learn more about the Mentally Strong Institute: https://mentallystronginstitute.com/ Register for the Mental Performance Summit: https://mentalperformancesummit.org/ Request a Free Mental Breakthrough Call with Dr. Cindra or her team: https://freementalbreakthroughcall.com/ Download the Confidence Research Study: https://confidencestudy.com/  

In this episode, Dr. Cindra Kamphoff explores how your self-talk impacts your confidence, resilience, and performance. Inspired by a recent coaching conversation, she shares why high performers often struggle with harsh self-criticism—and how self-compassion actually helps you improve faster. You'll learn: The difference between your inner critic and inner coach What self-critical thinking does to your brain Why self-compassion builds resilience under pressure A simple tool to shift your mindset in the moment The 3 Ns: Notice your self-talk Name it Next best thought Power Phrase: "I choose to be my own coach, not my own critic."   To download our full study report, visit: confidencestudy.com To Request a Free Breakthrough Call with a Mentally Strong Coach, visit: http://www.freementalbreakthroughcall.com/ To learn more about the Mentally Strong Institute, visit: https://mentallystronginstitute.com/ To learn about Dr. Cindra Kamphoff's speaking and coaching, visit: https://cindrakamphoff.com/ To follow Dr. Cindra on Instagram, visit: Cindra Kamphoff, PhD (@cindrakamphoff) • Instagram photos and videos

In this episode, Dr. Cindra Kamphoff shares the story behind Hank's Hope, a project inspired by her father's 51-day fight in the ICU and the "win wall" her family created to capture small victories each day.   Cindra explores why celebrating small wins is essential for building confidence, resilience, and hope. Drawing from performance psychology and confidence research, she explains how focusing on progress—not perfection—helps train your brain to recognize growth and build belief in yourself.   In This Episode: Why small wins matter The difference between "the gap" and "the gain" How celebrating progress builds confidence Simple ways to track your daily wins Power Phrase: "Confidence grows when we acknowledge our progress, not just our perfection."   Learn more about Hank's Hope at Mentally Strong Kids: mentallystrongkids.org/hanks-hope/

In this episode of The High Performance Mindset, Dr. Cindra Kamphoff sits down with Dr. Armin McCrea-Dastur—leadership and performance consultant, Founder of Diamond Consulting, and expert in both business and sport psychology—to explore what it takes to perform at a high level across every environment.   Drawing from more than 30 years of experience in leadership development, organizational performance, and sport psychology, Armin shares a unique perspective on how the skills developed in athletics directly translate into success in business and life. From working with global brands like Ray-Ban, Kraft Foods, and Cadbury to supporting elite athletes and teams—including the University of North Carolina Men's Basketball program during their 2005 championship season—Armin explains how mindset, identity, and self-trust shape performance in critical moments.   You'll also hear practical strategies to manage second-guessing in the moment, build confidence in unfamiliar situations, and recognize the competitive advantage athletes already possess. Armin also reflects on her own journey stepping away from competitive skating and how that experience shaped her passion for helping others navigate performance, transition, and leadership with greater clarity.   This episode is a powerful reminder that the mindset skills built through sport don't end when competition does—they become the foundation for thriving in every arena of life.   You'll Learn: How performance principles apply across sport, business, and leadership Why athletes often struggle with identity after sport How to stop overthinking and trust yourself under pressure What separates high performers in unfamiliar environments Why self-awareness and adaptability are critical for long-term success   Episode Resources & Links Learn more about Diamond Consulting: https://www.diamondconsultingcorp.biz/ Learn more about the Mentally Strong Institute: https://mentallystronginstitute.com/ Request a Free Mental Breakthrough Call with Dr. Cindra or her team: https://freementalbreakthroughcall.com/ Download the Confidence Research Study: https://confidencestudy.com/

"Trust yourself, you know more than you think you do." – Benjamin Spock   What if the biggest thing holding you back… isn't your ability, but your trust in it?   In this episode, we dive into a powerful question high performers face all the time: "Have I done enough, and can I trust it when it matters most?"   You'll hear a real story from an elite athlete preparing for a major moment, and the simple shift that changed everything. We explore: Why self-trust is a skill (not something you're born with) How hesitation and overthinking quietly sabotage performance The surprising truth: confidence doesn't come before action, it comes from it Plus, a few simple mindset shifts you can start using immediately: How to act before you feel ready A better way to respond when doubt creeps in The one question that builds real belief fast Why your inner voice might be the key to everything If you've ever second-guessed yourself, overthought a decision, or wondered if you're truly ready—this episode is for you.   Power Phrase: "I train my trust. I act with belief, even before I feel it."   To download our full study report, visit: confidencestudy.com To Request a Free Breakthrough Call with a Mentally Strong Coach, visit: http://www.freementalbreakthroughcall.com/ To learn more about the Mentally Strong Institute, visit: https://mentallystronginstitute.com/ To learn about Dr. Cindra Kamphoff's speaking and coaching, visit: https://cindrakamphoff.com/ To follow Dr. Cindra on Instagram, visit: Cindra Kamphoff, PhD (@cindrakamphoff) • Instagram photos and videos

In this episode of The High Performance Mindset, Dr. Cindra Kamphoff sits down with Danae Frentz—a mental performance professional and self-compassion researcher—to explore a powerful idea that challenges how many high achievers think: being hard on yourself isn't what drives success—self-compassion is. Drawing from nearly a decade of research and applied work in sport and performance psychology, Danae shares how self-compassion helps athletes and performers regulate emotions, recover from setbacks, and sustain high performance without burnout. She explains that self-compassion isn't about lowering standards—it's about responding to challenges in a way that fuels growth, resilience, and confidence. Throughout the conversation, Danae breaks down the science behind self-compassion and its connection to performance, well-being, and emotional regulation. She highlights how perfectionism and a harsh inner critic often block growth—and how shifting your inner dialogue can actually help you perform better, not worse. Danae also shares her personal journey with perfectionism and how learning to practice self-compassion transformed both her performance and well-being. Together, we explore the common misconceptions that keep people stuck—like the fear that being kind to yourself will make you complacent—and why the opposite is actually true. You'll walk away with simple, practical tools you can use immediately—especially in moments of failure or self-doubt—including how to respond to your inner critic and what to say to yourself when things don't go as planned. This episode is a powerful reminder that you don't have to be your harshest critic to succeed—you can be your strongest ally. You'll Learn: What self-compassion really is—and what it's not  How self-compassion improves performance, resilience, and emotional regulation  The connection between perfectionism and self-criticism  Why being hard on yourself can actually hold you back  A simple way to respond to mistakes with more effectiveness and less judgment  How self-compassion and confidence work together  One small step you can take today to be kinder—and more effective—with yourself      Episode Resources & Links Learn more about the Mentally Strong Institute: https://mentallystronginstitute.com/ Download the National Confidence Research Study: https://confidencestudy.com/ Request a Free Mental Breakthrough Call with a Mentally Strong Coach: https://freementalbreakthroughcall.com/ Learn more about Danae Frentz and her work: frentzmentalperformance.ca