Discovering Your True Self: Who Are You When No One is Watching?

In this episode of 'A Little Zen, A Little Mess,' we explore why people are more guarded today and how this impacts our connections. Highlighting the prevalent emotional armor people wear due to past hurts, anxiety, and the pressures of modern life, the episode discusses the importance of creating spaces where individuals feel seen and safe. Featuring a heartwarming story about a tea stall owner who provides a judgment-free zone, the episode offers practical advice on fostering genuine connections through empathy, patience, and presence. Tune in to learn how small actions can significantly impact and help us reconnect in an overwhelming world. 00:00 Introduction: Welcome to A Little Sin, A Little Mess 00:18 The Guarded Nature of Modern Conversations 01:36 The Impact of Guardedness on Connection 02:05 A Story of Safe Spaces: Kaka's Tea Stall 03:57 Creating Safe Spaces in Everyday Life 05:15 The Power of Vulnerability and Consistency 05:39 Conclusion: Keep Your Heart Open Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome to 'A Little Zen, A Little Mess.' In this episode, we delve into a profound Japanese philosophy that suggests everyone has three faces – one shown to the world, one to family and friends, and a third, truest face known only to oneself. The host invites viewers to introspect and reflect on their true selves when no one is watching. Highlighting societal roles and personal reflection, the episode encourages finding and embracing one's authentic self. Tune in for a gentle nudge towards self-discovery and inner truth. 00:00 Introduction and Japanese Philosophy of Three Faces 00:34 Reflecting on Your True Self 01:02 Societal Roles and Personal Identity 02:15 Private Life Within Public Life 03:04 Invitation to Self-Discovery 04:01 Conclusion and Final Thoughts Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of 'A Little Zen, A Little Mess,' we explore the profound concept of 'Mudita' from Indian and Buddhist philosophy. Mudita is the joy we feel for others' happiness and success. Through the heartwarming story of two childhood friends, Anaya and Mira, we learn how Mudita fosters a sense of abundance, grace, and love while freeing us from ego and comparison. Join us in practicing this transformative virtue and find joy in the success of those around you. Tune in for an inspiring five-minute journey into the essence of Mudita. 00:00 Introduction and Greetings 00:14 Exploring the Concept of Mudita 00:44 A Heartwarming Story of Friendship 02:29 The Essence and Practice of Mudita 03:58 Conclusion and Farewell Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of 'A Little Zen, A Little Mess,' we dive into the concept of acting our age and breaking free from societal norms. With anecdotes ranging from nosy neighbors to an 85-year-old K-drama enthusiast, we explore the beauty and magic present in every phase of life. Join us as we reflect on the importance of maintaining curiosity, kindness, and self-compassion, regardless of our age. Remember, age isn't just a number; it's the collection of years the world has enjoyed your presence. So, live fully, love loudly, and dance like no one's watching. Tune in and let's navigate life together! 00:00 Welcome to a Little Zen, a Little Mess 00:43 Judgment and Age: Are We Acting Our Age? 02:00 Defying Age Norms: Real-Life Examples 02:45 The Indian Perspective on Age 03:26 Embracing Every Phase of Life 04:06 Curiosity and Compassion: The Ageless Traits 04:35 Conclusion: Age is Just a Number Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join us in this episode as we explore the deceptive sense of knowledge provided by social media. Despite absorbing quick updates from various platforms like Instagram, YouTube, and Threads, we often realize in deeper conversations that we've only scratched the surface. We'll discuss how our minds are not built to handle the overflow of information and why it's essential to ask deeper questions and seek more profound experiences. Take a moment to reflect on your recent social media learnings and ask yourself if you truly understand the subject. Tune in for a brief yet enlightening discussion on the importance of pausing and reflecting in our chaotic digital lives. 00:00 Welcome and Introduction 00:22 The Illusion of Knowledge 01:11 The Depth of Understanding 02:16 The Oversimplification of Complex Topics 03:00 The Impact of Information Overload 03:43 A Simple Thought for the Day 04:07 Conclusion and Final Thoughts Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, we explore the soulful concept of Anam Kara, or 'soul friend,' derived from ancient Gaelic. Through the beautiful story of Mira and Radha, we delve into the deep, unconditional bond that transcends time, distance, and life's changes. Join us as we reflect on the significance of such rare connections and how they touch our lives. Don't forget to cherish and reach out to your own anam kara. Stay rooted, stay real, and be soulful. Thank you for joining us! 00:00 Introduction and Greetings 00:09 The Concept of Anam Kara 01:26 A Heartwarming Story of Friendship 03:37 Reflections on the Story 04:40 Closing Thoughts and Farewell Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this heartfelt video, we explore the true essence of legacy, shifting the focus from grand gestures to the quieter, everyday interactions that leave lasting imprints on people's lives. Using poignant examples, including a touching story about Mr. Shenoy, a retired school teacher, we celebrate the power of kindness, consistency, and the small acts that create a meaningful legacy. Join us as we reflect on how our simple moments of kindness and presence can make the world a softer, more connected place. 00:00 Introduction and Greetings 00:07 What is Legacy? 00:39 The Small Things That Matter 02:18 A Story of Mr. Shenoy 03:38 The Real Legacy 04:39 Conclusion and Final Thoughts Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week, we explore something quietly magical — the parallel lives we all live inside our minds. The “what ifs,” the “maybe somedays,” the soft daydreams and bold alternate versions of ourselves that live in silence but shape us deeply. Whether they’re born of joy, regret, or hope, these imagined lives aren’t just fantasies — they’re reflections, blueprints, and sometimes, gentle guides. Take a breath, slow down, and join me in honoring the sacred stories we carry within — because maybe it’s time to live a little of them, today. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome to A Little Zen, A Little Mess — formerly the Hello Sunshine podcast — where we get real about finding balance in the beautiful chaos of life. It's not all incense and affirmations; sometimes it's overflowing laundry, racing thoughts, and figuring it out as we go. Each week, join us for soulful insights, unfiltered stories, and gentle reminders that you don’t have to be perfectly peaceful to live a mindful, meaningful life. Because being human is the practice. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this heartfelt episode, we explore the French word trouvaille, a lucky find and how these unexpected joys often show up in everyday life. Through a personal story of rediscovery, the episode reminds us to embrace life’s small, beautiful surprises. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices