A Raw Lesbian Love Story with Raina and Laurie - No Swiping, Just Soulmates - WLW Dating

Ways I could help you meet your Future Partner:💎 Platinum Private Lesbian Matchmaking – For the woman who wants her FUTURE WIFE® delivered on a silver platter, I do all the screening so you can focus on falling in love.Explore Platinum Matchmaking: https://queercountryclub.com/private-lesbian-matchmaking-service ✨ Exclusive Lesbian Luxury Retreat at Canyon Ranch – A blissful weekend with an intimate group of extraordinary single queer women… curated to spoil your senses and reignite your belief in love and possibility.Apply to join The Luxury Retreat: https://queercountryclub.com/luxe-retreat ❤️ The Queer Country Club® – Our premier dating platform for monogamous queer women who are living amazing lives but missing just one thing… their FUTURE WIFE®.Apply to Join QCC: https://queercountryclub.com 🌈 Private Rising Coaching Session – If you're unsure of your next step but know in your gut you're ready to call in love, deepen self-trust, or design a life you’re proud of, I’m here to guide you.Book A Private Coaching Session: https://queercountryclub.com/private-coachingGot Qs? DM me on Instagram → @sophiaspallino https://instagram.com/sophiaspallino🔺Get Wisp Kitty Care 🐱 Proud Partnerhttps://bit.ly/sophiawisp 6 Signs You're Ready to Build a Monogamous Lesbian Relationship So, how do you know if you're ready for a monogamous lesbian relationship - and not just lonely or burnt out from dating? Here are six clear signs: 1. You're Clear on What You Want, and Communicate ItYou’ve stopped saying “I’m open to whatever happens” and started owning what you want: a committed, exclusive relationship. If you're ready to say this on your dating profile and in person, even if it scares some people off, you’re showing true emotional clarity.  2. You’ve Healed from Past RelationshipsYou don’t view love through the lens of past heartbreak anymore. Sure, you’ve been hurt, but you’ve processed it, reflected on it, and you’re no longer operating out of fear. As a monogamous lesbian, you don’t need to look for someone to “fix” the past - you’re looking to build something new. 3. You’re Comfortable with Emotional IntimacyMonogamy isn't just about exclusivity; it’s about vulnerability. If you’re comfortable letting someone in emotionally, being seen at your worst, and offering that same safety to a partner, you’re ready for a monogamous bond. 4. You’re Not Distracted by “What Ifs”You don’t find yourself constantly wondering if the grass is greener. You’re not attached to the idea of endless options or swiping forever. You're looking for depth, not novelty. 5. You’re Ready to Grow with One PersonYou understand that even great relationships require effort, compromise, and personal growth. You’re excited to evolve alongside someone rather than bounce from one connection to another.6. You’re Willing to Prioritize LoveYou’re a clear monogamous lesbian if you are willing to make room in your life for someone else - emotionally, mentally, and logistically. You’re not “too busy” to date; you’re intentionally creating space for partnership.

❤️Meet Your Future Wife inside my LESBIAN DATING CLUB https://queercountryclub.com☎️Want to be featured on the show? Call in! https://queerwomenrising.com/ask-sophia-spallino🔺Get Wisp Kitty Care 🐱 Proud Partnerhttps://bit.ly/sophiawisp✨Work with me as your COACHhttps://SophiaSpallino.com💬Slide into my DMshttps://www.instagram.com/sophiaspallino Let’s talk sexology, p*ssy stroking, sexual trauma, pleasure, and making peace with Darshana Avila.Yes, you might recognize today’s guest is someone you might recognize from Netflix’s Sex, Love & Goop, but that’s just the beginning of her story.Back in 2015, Darshana Avila was in a marriage and a career that no longer fit. She walked away from both, and now she’s an internationally celebrated speaker and Erotic Wholeness guide helping queer women and AFABs come back home to their bodies and their truth.Her work is trauma-informed, pleasure-centric, and radically real. 📲 Connect with my guest, Darshana Avila:Follow Darshana on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/darshana_avilaCheck out her website: https://darshanaavila.comJoin her free community: Galgasm!       

 ❤️Meet Your Future Wife where Raina and Laurie met… inside my LESBIAN DATING CLUB https://queercountryclub.com 💎Learn more and apply to join us on our next Luxury Single Lesbian Retreathttps://queercountryclub.com/luxe-retreat 📲 Follow their love story that Raina shares!www.Instagram.com/Raina_notfit 🔺Get Wisp Kitty Care 🐱 Proud PartnerOnline Sexual and Reproductive Health | Wisp ✨Work with me as your COACHhttps://SophiaSpallino.com 💬Slide into my DMsInstagram (@sophiaspallino) What if your person is already inside the same dating platform as you… Just waiting for a message?This week on Queer Women Rising, I’m joined by Raina and Laurie, a couple who found each other through the Queer Country Club®, a platform built for lesbians and queer women looking for intentional, monogamous love.From first messages to cross-state travel, they share how their relationship unfolded with patience, warmth, and clarity. Want to meet your Future Wife™ like they did?Join the Queer Country Club® today!QueerCountryClub.com

❤️Meet Your Future Wife inside my LESBIAN DATING CLUB https://queercountryclub.com☎️Want to be featured on the show? Call in! https://queerwomenrising.com/ask-sophia-spallino🔺Get Wisp Kitty Care 🐱 Proud Partnerhttps://bit.ly/sophiawisp✨Work with me as your COACHhttps://SophiaSpallino.com💬Slide into my DMshttps://www.instagram.com/sophiaspallino Don’t try this at home. Two Lesbians. One carrot. It was fun until it wasn’t.Trigger warning: this episode includes my experience with sexual assault.

❤️Meet Your Future Wife inside my LESBIAN DATING CLUB Skip the initiation fee and join QCC through Jaime: ⁠https://queercountryclub.com/wlw-club?am_id=jaime9948⁠☎️Want to be featured on the show? Call in! https://queerwomenrising.com/ask-sophia-spallino🔺Get Wisp Kitty Care 🐱 Proud Partnerhttps://bit.ly/sophiawisp✨Work with me as your COACHhttps://SophiaSpallino.com💬Slide into my DMshttps://www.instagram.com/sophiaspallino She created one of the most iconic sapphic spaces on the internet… but that’s not where the story ends.📲 Connect with my guest, Jaime Messina.Follow Jaime on Instagram: Jaime Messina | Mindset & Empowerment CoachCheck out her site & coaching offers: Jaime Messina | Mindset & Empowerment CoachWe talked about:– What it’s like to coach others while still healing yourself– The love story that took her by surprise– Building sapphic spaces that actually feel safe– Recognizing internal homophobia– What she’s creating nextIf you’re a lesbian or queer woman building a life of love, peace, and purpose… this one’s for you.

❤️Meet Your Future Wife inside my LESBIAN DATING CLUB https://queercountryclub.com☎️Want to be featured on the show? Call in! https://queerwomenrising.com/ask-sophia-spallino🔺Get Wisp Kitty Care 🐱 Proud Partnerhttps://bit.ly/sophiawisp✨Work with me as your COACHhttps://SophiaSpallino.com💬Slide into my DMshttps://www.instagram.com/sophiaspallino Today, I dive into the truth of lesbian age gap relationships, the real, raw, and often misunderstood dynamics between women of different generations. Whether you're crushing on someone older, dating someone younger, or just curious how these relationships actually work… this episode is for you.You’ll learn:Why age gap love between women feels so different from straight dynamicsThe benefits of dating someone in a different life stageThe very real challenges, and how to overcome themHow to make your relationship work, long-term, regardless of ageWhat makes these connections so powerful, so sexy, and so worth it

❤️Meet Your Future Wife inside my LESBIAN DATING CLUB https://queercountryclub.com☎️Want to be featured on the show? Call in! https://queerwomenrising.com/ask-sophia-spallino🔺Get Wisp Kitty Care 🐱 Proud Partnerhttps://bit.ly/sophiawisp✨Work with me as your COACHhttps://SophiaSpallino.com💬Slide into my DMshttps://www.instagram.com/sophiaspallino 📲 Work with Lauren Courtney and Buy her Book “Glow Up Your Chakras”Follow Lauren on Instagram: Instagram (@iamlaurencourtney)Check out Lauren’s website: Lauren Courtney Heals | Holistic Healing & Chakra Therapy 🏳️‍🌈 When the love of your life dies… do you ever really come back the same?This episode is for the lesbians and queer women who’ve been cracked open by heartbreak, walked the messy path of dating married people, and are looking for real magic—within and in partnership.Back in 2016, Lauren Courtney’s first love passed away, leaving her heartbroken and believing she would never love again. Through her spiritual awakening and the messy dating adventures that followed, she discovered that true love begins within. As she healed, she realized that self-love and inner alignment are the foundation for deep, meaningful connections. Now, as a healer, author, and spiritual guide, she helps others clear emotional blocks, awaken their intuition, and cultivate the love they seek, starting from within.

❤️Meet Your Future Wife inside my LESBIAN DATING CLUB https://queercountryclub.com☎️Want to be featured on the show? Call in! https://queerwomenrising.com/ask-sophia-spallino🔺Get Wisp Kitty Care 🐱 Proud Partnerhttps://bit.ly/sophiawisp✨Work with me as your COACHhttps://SophiaSpallino.com💬Slide into my DMshttps://www.instagram.com/sophiaspallino Today’s episode is your cheat sheet for getting a girl to actually respond to you in the DMs.Save these. Copy/paste them. Send them. You’re welcome.1️⃣ “You seem like someone who actually knows what she wants. Am I right or should I keep scrolling?”Why it works: It flatters her decisiveness without being generic. And that playful little challenge? It makes her want to prove you right, or cheekily prove you wrong. 2️⃣ “Okay I have to ask… are you the big spoon, little spoon, or ‘depends on the night’?”Why it works: This skips all the small talk. It’s cheeky, flirty, and dives into playful intimacy without being over the top. It’s irresistible to respond to. 3️⃣ “Something tells me you’re not the type to settle. What’s a green flag you always look for?”Why it works: It makes her feel like a woman with high standards…which we love. It also gives her a moment to show emotional depth without needing to get super vulnerable too fast. 4️⃣ “I’d bet good money you’re a softie under that confident energy. Am I wrong?”Why it works: This gently teases her while giving her the perfect opening to reveal more about herself. It’s confident, direct, and it invites a real connection. 5️⃣ “Your vibe feels intentional… what’s something you wish more women noticed about you right away?”Why it works: This tells her you’re not just here for surface-level attraction. You want to see her. And that? That’s magnetic.

❤️Meet Your Future Wife inside my LESBIAN DATING CLUB https://queercountryclub.com☎️Want to be featured on the show? Call in! https://queerwomenrising.com/ask-sophia-spallino🔺Get Wisp Kitty Care 🐱 Proud Partnerhttps://bit.ly/sophiawisp✨Work with me as your COACHhttps://SophiaSpallino.com💬Slide into my DMshttps://www.instagram.com/sophiaspallino Can your heart keep up with the digital nomad life?Our queer guest, Yvonne Wilson, has experienced a transformation that is nothing short of inspiring. In 2018, she hit rock bottom—binge drinking, drowning in debt, and renting rooms in strangers’ homes—but by 2019 she reinvented her life with the help of a money coach. After paying off 15k in collections and embracing the digital nomad lifestyle, Yvonne now travels the world and empowers others as a Certified Financial Educator. Her journey of financial and emotional rebirth is wild! 📲 Connect With Yvonne Wilson.Follow Yvonne Wilson On Instagram: http://Instagram.com/themoneymaestro_Website: stan.store/yvonnewilson

❤️Meet Your Future Wife inside my LESBIAN DATING CLUB https://queercountryclub.com☎️Want to be featured on the show? Call in! https://queerwomenrising.com/ask-sophia-spallino🔺Get Wisp Kitty Care 🐱 Proud Partnerhttps://bit.ly/sophiawisp✨Work with me as your COACHhttps://SophiaSpallino.com💬Slide into my DMshttps://www.instagram.com/sophiaspallino What makes love last through the years? Nearly 9 years in, Stacey and Alice have some wisdom to share!What are the odds? You match with someone on a dating app… only to find out they’ve been walking the same campus halls as you! Stacey and Alice’s love story is proof that sometimes, fate and logging into a dating platform go hand in hand. 💕 📲 Connect with my guest, Stacey & Alice:Follow them on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/les__adventures