The Broke Girl Mindset Disguised As A Rich Girl Mindset

What if the story you’ve been afraid to share is the key to your freedom? In this episode with Alexis Andra, we talk about how pain can be transformed into purpose, faith, and creativity. She shares surviving a childhood fire accident to founding her creative agency and how storytelling became her healing path. We also talk about owning your scars, healing religious and emotional wounds, building your faith in the dark, and breaking lifelong patterns of independence, shame, and protection. Get ready to see your past in a new light and remember, redefine faith, healing, and purpose. Check out our Sponsors: SKIMS - I finally tried SKIMS and I get all the hype. Shop SKIMS Fits Everybody collection at SKIMS.com and let them know we sent you in the dropdown after checkout. Brevo - the all-in-one marketing and CRM platform designed to help you connect with customers and grow your business. Get started for free today - go to www.brevo.com/happy Blinds.com - Blinds.com makes it easy to get the designer look without the showroom markups. Get an exclusive $50 off when you spend $500 or more with code EARN at checkout. Shopify - Try the ecommerce platform I trust for Glōci, Sign up for your $1/month trial period at Shopify.com/happy Headway - the #1 daily growth app that delivers key insights from the world’s best non fiction books in bite sized 15 minute reads and audio. Save 25% off when you go to makeheadway.com/happy. HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 Meet Alexis Andra, Founder of The Shift Creative, and host of Shift Happens. 04:45 Why every backdrop, color, and design tells an emotional story. 10:00 How podcasting can be a networking tool. 18:30 Lessons from hosting your own podcast. 28:30 How alignment and authenticity bring peace. 32:00 The mental battles of not feeling “enough”. 35:15 Surrendering isn’t always an overnight decision. 41:00 The logic that made Alexis “bet on God”. 43:30 Advice to someone afraid to share their story. 46:30 When is the right time to share a story? 53:45 How subconscious safety mechanisms keep you stuck in old responses. RESOURCES Listen to Alexis’ Shift Happens Podcast HERE! Join the Audacity Challenge HERE! Join the most supportive mastermind on the internet HERE! Check out our FREE 90-Day Business Blueprint HERE! Listen to my free SECRET PODCASTS SERIES - Operation: Rekindle This B*tch Get glōci HERE Use code: HAPPY at checkout for 25% off! FOLLOW Follow me: @loriharder Follow glōci: @getgloci Follow Alexis: @alexisnandra Follow The Shift Creative: @theshiftcreative

I’ve seen too many women miss out on life-changing opportunities because they’re confusing entitlement with empowerment, and calling it a “rich girl mindset” when it’s actually broke girl energy in disguise. In this episode, I talk about how to spot when free opportunities are actually more valuable than a paycheck, how to know what’s truly worth your time, and how to build momentum in your “internship era.” I also share the stories behind the free speaking gigs and media features that didn’t pay me upfront, but ultimately made me millions. If you’re turning down stages, interviews, or visibility just because they don’t come with a check, you could be blocking the leverage your brand needs. Check out our Sponsors: SKIMS - I finally tried SKIMS and I get all the hype. Shop SKIMS Fits Everybody collection at SKIMS.com and let them know we sent you in the dropdown after checkout. Brevo - the all-in-one marketing and CRM platform designed to help you connect with customers and grow your business. Get started for free today - go to www.brevo.com/happy Blinds.com - Blinds.com makes it easy to get the designer look without the showroom markups. Get an exclusive $50 off when you spend $500 or more with code EARN at checkout. Shopify - Try the ecommerce platform I trust for Glōci, Sign up for your $1/month trial period at Shopify.com/happy Headway - the #1 daily growth app that delivers key insights from the world’s best non fiction books in bite sized 15 minute reads and audio. Save 25% off when you go to makeheadway.com/happy. HIGHLIGHTS The controversial post that sparked this episode. Why wanting to get paid for everything is a broke girl mindset. The free speaking gigs that made me millions in revenue. The internship era mindset that set me for long-term success. The “Oprah Effect” and the value of being vouched for. How to know when speaking for free is worth it. RESOURCES Join the Audacity Challenge HERE! Join the most supportive mastermind on the internet HERE! Check out our FREE 90-Day Business Blueprint HERE! Listen to my free SECRET PODCASTS SERIES - Operation: Rekindle This B*tch Get glōci HERE Use code: HAPPY at checkout for 25% off! FOLLOW Follow me: @loriharder Follow glōci: @getgloci

You don’t have to follow the “timeline.” You can start your dream, your business, or your next chapter right now. In this episode, I sit down with Tara Electra, founder of Unruly Agency and host of the Billion Dollar Baby podcast, to talk about reinventing success, healing through manifestation, and building a business that reflects your worth. She shares about her biggest mission to break “age” as a label and create a movement where no one lets numbers define their worth or potential. We talk about self-worth, the power of manifestation, learning to charge your value, and how to stop overgiving in your work and relationships. Get ready to challenge your limits and create a life on your terms. Check out our Sponsors: SKIMS - I finally tried SKIMS and I get all the hype. Shop SKIMS Fits Everybody collection at SKIMS.com and let them know we sent you in the dropdown after checkout. Brevo - the all-in-one marketing and CRM platform designed to help you connect with customers and grow your business. Get started for free today - go to www.brevo.com/happy Blinds.com - Blinds.com makes it easy to get the designer look without the showroom markups. Get an exclusive $50 off when you spend $500 or more with code EARN at checkout. Shopify - Try the ecommerce platform I trust for Glōci, Sign up for your $1/month trial period at Shopify.com/happy Headway - the #1 daily growth app that delivers key insights from the world’s best non fiction books in bite sized 15 minute reads and audio. Save 25% off when you go to makeheadway.com/happy. HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 Meet Tara Electra, founder of Unruly Agency. 05:00 How early limiting beliefs shape your drive to build your dream life. 09:15 Healing through manifestation and inner work. 13:45 Strategies for monetizing and scaling your business. 19:45 How do you choose to charge your worth even when it feels scary? 22:30 Challenges of leadership and overcoming betrayal. 30:30 What do you look for when hiring, and the most important trait of great team members? 33:45 The “think bigger” mindset and aligning your values with your ambition. 37:45 Tara’s three universal laws for happiness and fulfillment. 41:45 What is a question that you wish more people would ask you? RESOURCES Learn more about Unruly Agency HERE! Join the Audacity Challenge HERE! Join the most supportive mastermind on the internet HERE! Check out our FREE 90-Day Business Blueprint HERE! Listen to my free SECRET PODCASTS SERIES - Operation: Rekindle This B*tch Get glōci HERE Use code: HAPPY at checkout for 25% off! FOLLOW Follow me: @loriharder Follow glōci: @getgloci Follow Tara: @taruhhh

Too often we treat friendship as something nice to have, but in this episode, Chris and I are reminding you that it’s actually one of the most powerful tools for success, happiness, and longevity in both business and life. We’re breaking down the real reasons why maintaining and intentionally creating new friendships will transform your energy, your marriage, and even your bank account. You’ll hear stories from our own lives from the friendships that carried us through hard seasons, and learn why proximity to like-minded people is the ultimate hack for growth. If you’ve been feeling lonely on your entrepreneurial journey or craving more genuine connection, this episode will show you how to attract, nurture, and keep the kind of relationships that make every area of life better. Check out our Sponsors: SKIMS - I finally tried SKIMS and I get all the hype. Shop SKIMS Fits Everybody collection at SKIMS.com and let them know we sent you in the dropdown after checkout. Brevo - the all-in-one marketing and CRM platform designed to help you connect with customers and grow your business. Get started for free today - go to www.brevo.com/happy Blinds.com - Blinds.com makes it easy to get the designer look without the showroom markups. Get an exclusive $50 off when you spend $500 or more with code EARN at checkout. Shopify - Try the ecommerce platform I trust for Glōci, Sign up for your $1/month trial period at Shopify.com/happy Headway - the #1 daily growth app that delivers key insights from the world’s best non fiction books in bite sized 15 minute reads and audio. Save 25% off when you go to makeheadway.com/happy. HIGHLIGHTS How to find & build friendships that fuel your happiness, success, and longevity. Ways I’ve found friends I actually gel amazing with. How having meaningful friendships has strengthened our marriage. You don’t have to be burnt out (what I learned from the founder of Poppi.) Our hack for bringing more joy into our life. How your friendships are impacting your joy, finances, romantic relationship, and more. Fun ways we’ve expanded our network and attracted bigger opportunities. RESOURCES Apply for the our Elite Entrepreneur Mastermind  - got to Chrisharder.me/mastermind Join the Audacity Challenge HERE! Join the most supportive mastermind on the internet HERE! Check out our FREE 90-Day Business Blueprint HERE! Listen to my free SECRET PODCASTS SERIES - Operation: Rekindle This B*tch Get glōci HERE Use code: HAPPY at checkout for 25% off! FOLLOW Follow me: @loriharder Follow Chris: @chriswharder Follow glōci: @getgloci

What if everything you’ve been taught about work-life balance is a lie? In this episode, I sit down with Loretta Soffe to talk about being the breadwinner in marriage, the radical choice her husband made to become a full-time dad in the early 2000s, and how discipline, fitness, values, and intention help you build a life you truly love. We also break down the Compatibility Code that helps couples grow through decades of change. Get ready to rethink balance, partnership, ambition, and motherhood in a whole new way. Check out our Sponsors: SKIMS - I finally tried SKIMS and I get all the hype. Shop SKIMS Fits Everybody collection at SKIMS.com and let them know we sent you in the dropdown after checkout. Brevo - the all-in-one marketing and CRM platform designed to help you connect with customers and grow your business. Get started for free today - go to www.brevo.com/happy Blinds.com - Blinds.com makes it easy to get the designer look without the showroom markups. Get an exclusive $50 off when you spend $500 or more with code EARN at checkout. Shopify - Try the ecommerce platform I trust for Glōci, Sign up for your $1/month trial period at Shopify.com/happy Headway - the #1 daily growth app that delivers key insights from the world’s best non fiction books in bite sized 15 minute reads and audio. Save 25% off when you go to makeheadway.com/happy. HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 Why the idea of “balance” is total BS. 05:15 How do you raise kids who want to hang out with you? 10:00 How did you flip the script on traditional parenting roles? 15:00 The judgment, stereotypes, and joy of reversing traditional roles. 20:15 Teamwork, humility, and the “no division of labor” rule in marriage. 26:30 Leadership lessons Loretta used at home. 29:00 How to help your kids build confidence. 33:15 Why can’t you give everything 100% all the time? 39:30 How Loretta landed her biggest consulting contract. 45:00 Imposter syndrome, readiness, and saying YES before you feel ready. 49:15 How do you stay on purpose even when you're being judged? 52:45 Loretta’s value-based decision-making framework. 56:15 Fitness and rituals for mental clarity and resilience. 01:03:30 Postpartum tip to regain energy, focus, and a sense of self. 01:06:30 The Compatibility Code for lasting relationships. 01:14:30 Your core values matter more than perfect balance. RESOURCES Get your copy of Loretta’s book, Balance is Bullshit HERE! Learn more from Loretta HERE! Join the Audacity Challenge HERE! Join the most supportive mastermind on the internet HERE! Check out our FREE 90-Day Business Blueprint HERE! Listen to my free SECRET PODCASTS SERIES - Operation: Rekindle This B*tch Get glōci HERE Use code: HAPPY at checkout for 25% off! FOLLOW Follow me: @loriharder Follow glōci: @getgloci Follow Loretta: @​​loretta_soffe

These three rich girl rules have completely changed my life and built the foundation of everything from my business and network to the peace and freedom I experience every day. These aren’t just money rules; they’re identity rules. The habits, standards, and mindset shifts that turn you into the kind of woman who attracts success instead of chasing it. You’ll learn how to protect your energy, build powerful connections before you need them, and stay in the game long enough to win big. If you’ve ever wondered why some women seem to magnetize opportunity, wealth, and freedom with ease, this episode is exactly how to start becoming her.  Check out our Sponsors: SKIMS - I finally tried SKIMS and I get all the hype. Shop SKIMS Fits Everybody collection at SKIMS.com and let them know we sent you in the dropdown after checkout. Brevo - the all-in-one marketing and CRM platform designed to help you connect with customers and grow your business. Get started for free today - go to www.brevo.com/happy Blinds.com - Blinds.com makes it easy to get the designer look without the showroom markups. Get an exclusive $50 off when you spend $500 or more with code EARN at checkout. Shopify - Try the ecommerce platform I trust for Glōci, Sign up for your $1/month trial period at Shopify.com/happy Headway - the #1 daily growth app that delivers key insights from the world’s best non fiction books in bite sized 15 minute reads and audio. Save 25% off when you go to makeheadway.com/happy. HIGHLIGHTS Learn the mindset that turns you into a success magnet. Discover how to focus energy where it matters most. Build a powerful network before you actually need it. Master the art of adding value in every room. Embrace long-term consistency for lasting wealth and freedom. Elevate your standards to attract money, peace, and purpose. RESOURCES Get on the Glōci VIP List HERE to be the first to try Glōci’s brand new flavors! Join the Audacity Challenge HERE! Join the most supportive mastermind on the internet HERE! Check out our FREE 90-Day Business Blueprint HERE! Listen to my free SECRET PODCASTS SERIES - Operation: Rekindle This B*tch Get glōci HERE Use code: HAPPY at checkout for 25% off! FOLLOW Follow me: @loriharder Follow glōci: @getgloci

Ever found yourself stuck in a mental spiral, replaying a moment, conversation, or decision that didn’t go the way you wanted? I’ve been there. In this episode, I share the mindset shift that helps me stop the loop and reclaim my energy, the belief I use to reframe past decisions, how I move out of victim energy and into leadership, and why your lowest moments might be the reason someone else keeps going. Get ready to break free from negative spirals and build unstoppable energy! Check out our Sponsors: SKIMS - I finally tried SKIMS and I get all the hype. Shop SKIMS Fits Everybody collection at SKIMS.com and let them know we sent you in the dropdown after checkout. Brevo - the all-in-one marketing and CRM platform designed to help you connect with customers and grow your business. Get started for free today - go to www.brevo.com/happy Blinds.com - Blinds.com makes it easy to get the designer look without the showroom markups. Get an exclusive $50 off when you spend $500 or more with code EARN at checkout. Shopify - Try the ecommerce platform I trust for Glōci, Sign up for your $1/month trial period at Shopify.com/happy Headway - the #1 daily growth app that delivers key insights from the world’s best non fiction books in bite sized 15 minute reads and audio. Save 25% off when you go to makeheadway.com/happy. HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 Even winter seasons are part of your transformation. 07:00 How you view your habits impacts your results. 14:00 How to create the relationships you want.  18:45 The magic of mutual support in friendships. 25:00 Life is only as rich as your relationships. 27:45 What people are really buying from you. 31:00 Your story is someone else’s survival guide. RESOURCES Join the Audacity Challenge HERE! Join the most supportive mastermind on the internet HERE! Check out our FREE 90-Day Business Blueprint HERE! Listen to my free SECRET PODCASTS SERIES - Operation: Rekindle This B*tch Get glōci HERE Use code: HAPPY at checkout for 25% off! FOLLOW Follow me: @loriharder Follow glōci: @getgloci

We all have seasons where the business feels heavy or life feels like it’s moving faster than we can keep up. But the truth is, stress and overthinking don’t create a breakthrough. In this episode, Chris and I check in with each other about what’s been working, what’s been hard, and how we’ve learned to reset when we hit those off days. We talk about the mindset shifts that keep Chris motivated through setbacks, and what keeps us grounded, grateful, and in touch with our dreams. Get ready to learn how to keep joy and creativity at the core of your growth journey. Check out our Sponsors: SKIMS - I finally tried SKIMS and I get all the hype. Shop SKIMS Fits Everybody collection at SKIMS.com and let them know we sent you in the dropdown after checkout. Brevo - the all-in-one marketing and CRM platform designed to help you connect with customers and grow your business. Get started for free today - go to www.brevo.com/happy Blinds.com - Blinds.com makes it easy to get the designer look without the showroom markups. Get an exclusive $50 off when you spend $500 or more with code EARN at checkout. Shopify - Try the ecommerce platform I trust for Glōci, Sign up for your $1/month trial period at Shopify.com/happy Headway - the #1 daily growth app that delivers key insights from the world’s best non fiction books in bite sized 15 minute reads and audio. Save 25% off when you go to makeheadway.com/happy. HIGHLIGHTS Why creativity and play are business strategies, not distractions. How to reconnect with ease and divine inspiration when stress takes over. Chris’s two habits that keep his dreams front and center. How to lead yourself (and your team) through tough weeks. The physical activity and positive “propaganda” to shift energy. RESOURCES Join our Elite Mastermind HERE! Join the Audacity Challenge HERE! Join the most supportive mastermind on the internet HERE! Check out our FREE 90-Day Business Blueprint HERE! Listen to my free SECRET PODCASTS SERIES - Operation: Rekindle This B*tch Get glōci HERE Use code: HAPPY at checkout for 25% off! FOLLOW Follow me: @loriharder Follow Chris: @chriswharder Follow glōci: @getgloci

What if your biggest reinvention came after your biggest failure? In this episode, I sit down with Julie Wainwright, the founder of The RealReal, who proves that resilience and reinvention have no age limit. We talk about the realities of risk-taking, why timing matters, and how setbacks can set the stage for your next breakthrough. Julie also shares what it means to “rebirth” yourself in midlife, why resilience is more valuable than a safety net, and how women can expand their vision by daring to think bigger. Remember, your second half can be your strongest half if you’re brave enough to believe it. Check out our Sponsors: SKIMS - I finally tried SKIMS and I get all the hype. Shop SKIMS Fits Everybody collection at SKIMS.com and let them know we sent you in the dropdown after checkout. Brevo - the all-in-one marketing and CRM platform designed to help you connect with customers and grow your business. Get started for free today - go to www.brevo.com/happy Blinds.com - Blinds.com makes it easy to get the designer look without the showroom markups. Get an exclusive $50 off when you spend $500 or more with code EARN at checkout. Shopify - Try the ecommerce platform I trust for Glōci, Sign up for your $1/month trial period at Shopify.com/happy Headway - the #1 daily growth app that delivers key insights from the world’s best non fiction books in bite sized 15 minute reads and audio. Save 25% off when you go to makeheadway.com/happy. Airbnb - Start making money by listing your home on Airbnb with an experienced Co-host, find a co-host at airbnb.com/host HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 Meet Julie Wainwright, founder of The RealReal. 04:45 How early responsibilities build resilience and self-trust. 10:00 How continual learning and adaptability opened doors even after major setbacks. 15:15 What was your first big risk? 20:00 Lessons from Pets.com and navigating the sting of public failure. 24:00 How Julie started The RealReal from her house with one employee. 30:30 Why fewer than a dozen women (non-celebrities) have built billion-dollar businesses. 35:30 Advice for women entering male-dominated industries. 42:00 Why so many women get stuck in the “negative loop” of entrepreneurship. 48:45 What Pharrell’s sweatshirt taught Julie about reinvention. 51:15 Amazon named this as one of the Best Books of 2025. RESOURCES Grab your copy of Julie’s new book Time to Get Real HERE! Learn more about The RealReal HERE! Join the Audacity Challenge HERE! Join the most supportive mastermind on the internet HERE! Check out our FREE 90-Day Business Blueprint HERE! Listen to my free SECRET PODCASTS SERIES - Operation: Rekindle This B*tch Get glōci HERE Use code: HAPPY at checkout for 25% off! FOLLOW Follow me: @loriharder Follow glōci: @getgloci Follow Julie: @realrealjulie

I’m revealing the secret of the unsexy truth behind every “overnight” success: boring, consistent follow-through. After nine years of podcast reps, the years I spent coaching fitness clients, mentoring business owners and building businesses myself, I’ve seen firsthand why real results show up around months 4 to 6 and how repetition rewires your brain in 90 to 120 days. This episode is here to help you honor your seasons, reframe the mundane as proof you’re becoming her, and choose one simple action to do daily this week that will build the success you want. DM me your “boring” mundane commitment you’re making for accountability to put in the reps. I’m telling you, magic is waiting for you in the mundane. Check out our Sponsors: SKIMS - I finally tried SKIMS and I get all the hype. Shop SKIMS Fits Everybody collection at SKIMS.com and let them know we sent you in the dropdown after checkout. Brevo - the all-in-one marketing and CRM platform designed to help you connect with customers and grow your business. Get started for free today - go to www.brevo.com/happy Blinds.com - Blinds.com makes it easy to get the designer look without the showroom markups. Get an exclusive $50 off when you spend $500 or more with code EARN at checkout. Shopify - Try the ecommerce platform I trust for Glōci, Sign up for your $1/month trial period at Shopify.com/happy Headway - the #1 daily growth app that delivers key insights from the world’s best non fiction books in bite sized 15 minute reads and audio. Save 25% off when you go to makeheadway.com/happy. Airbnb - Start making money by listing your home on Airbnb with an experienced Co-host, find a co-host at airbnb.com/host HIGHLIGHTS What actually creates the big breakthroughs (it might not be what you think). When you can expect results after dedicating yourself to work towards a goal. Identity shift sustains habits; quick fixes don’t last. How to rewire your brain in 90–120 days. Ways to get real results by honoring rest and consistency. RESOURCES Join the Audacity Challenge HERE! Join the most supportive mastermind on the internet HERE! Check out our FREE 90-Day Business Blueprint HERE! Listen to my free SECRET PODCASTS SERIES - Operation: Rekindle This B*tch Get glōci HERE Use code: HAPPY at checkout for 25% off! FOLLOW Follow me: @loriharder Follow glōci: @getgloci