Unpacking Narcissism: Nature vs. Nurture with Dr. Peter Salerno

Send us a textDr. Peter Salerno is back and discusses the complexities of Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD), emphasizing its hereditary nature and the role of trauma. He explores the manipulative tactics used by individuals with NPD, the challenges in identifying and treating personality disorders, and the impact of these disorders on relationships and the legal system. Dr. Salerno also highlights the importance of understanding the nuances of emotional abuse and the potential for change in individuals with NPD when provided with the right therapeutic interventions.TakeawaysNarcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) is hereditary, not solely caused by trauma.Trauma is neither necessary nor sufficient for the diagnosis of NPD.Narcissism operates on a continuum of severity, with varying degrees of traits.Manipulation and gaslighting are common tactics used by individuals with NPD.The legal system often fails to recognize the impact of personality disorders in divorce & custody cases.Children can exhibit traits of narcissism as early as age two.A supportive environment can mitigate the severity of narcissistic traits in children.There is hope for change in individuals with NPD through targeted therapeutic interventions.How to find Dr. Peter Salerno and his bookshttps://www.drpetersalerno.com/IG https://www.instagram.com/drpetersalerno/Dad to Dads Podcast on IG www.instagram.com/dadtodads

Send us a textLarry Hagner shares his profound insights on fatherhood, drawing from his personal experiences and the challenges he faced growing up without a traditional father figure. He emphasizes the critical role fathers play in shaping their children's lives and the generational impact of fatherhood. Larry discusses his journey from a troubled childhood to becoming a dedicated father of four, highlighting the importance of intentional parenting and continuous learning. He introduces his new book, 'The Pursuit of Legendary Fatherhood,' which aims to guide fathers in navigating the complexities of parenting and building strong family connections. The conversation also touches on the significance of community and support for fathers, encouraging them to seek knowledge and resources to improve their parenting skills.TakeawaysFatherhood is a generational responsibility.The absence of a father can lead to significant societal issues.Intentional parenting can change the trajectory of families.Experiencing abandonment shaped Larry's approach to fatherhood.Learning and growth are essential in parenting.The drift refers to the complacency many fathers feel in their roles.Community support is vital for fathers to thrive.Every father should actively seek knowledge to improve their parenting. How to find Larry Hagnerwww.thedadedge.com/IG www.instagram.com/thedadedge/Dad to Dads Podcast on IG www.instagram.com/dadtodads

Send us a textTerry Tucker shares his remarkable journey from being a Division 1 basketball player to a SWAT team hostage negotiator, and ultimately a cancer survivor. He discusses the importance of mindset, resilience, and the lessons learned through adversity. Terry emphasizes the significance of community, relationships, and the principles of sustainable excellence that guide his life. His insights on parenting and personal growth provide valuable takeaways for listeners.TakeawaysTerry Tucker's journey includes being a former D1 basketball player and a cancer survivor.He emphasizes the importance of mindset in overcoming challenges.Hostage negotiation is a team sport that relies on communication and understanding.Cancer has taught Terry valuable lessons about resilience and personal growth.The four truths for resilience are: control your mind, embrace pain, leave a legacy, and never quit.Building a supportive community is crucial for personal success.Terry's book, 'Sustainable Excellence,' outlines principles for leading an extraordinary life.Parents should teach their children the value of failure and learning from mistakes.It's important to challenge kids' beliefs and encourage critical thinking.Terry believes that adversity can lead to personal growth and a deeper understanding of oneself.How to find Terry Tuckerwww.motivationalcheck.comIG www.instagram.com/sustainableexcellenceauthorDad to Dads Podcast on IG www.instagram.com/dadtodads

Send us a textPamela Henry, author of 'Soul Custody: Sparing Children from Divorce,'  discusses the emotional and psychological impacts of divorce on both parents and children, the regrets many individuals face post-divorce, and the importance of understanding the deeper issues that lead to marital breakdowns. Pamela shares her personal journey, insights from her book, and strategies for couples contemplating divorce, emphasizing the need for empathy and the potential for healing through faith and self-reflection.Takeaways30% of people regret divorcing, indicating a need for deeper reflection before making such a decision.The concept of 'Soul Custody' emphasizes the importance of taking care of one's own emotional and spiritual well-being during and after divorce.Divorce can often stem from escapist tendencies, where individuals seek to avoid unresolved issues from their past.Common regrets after divorce often revolve around financial stress and loneliness rather than the impact on children.The emotional scars from divorce can have lasting effects on children, leading to feelings of sadness and abandonment.Focusing on the well-being of children can help couples navigate their own issues and potentially strengthen their marriage.Forgiveness plays a crucial role in healing after divorce, both for oneself and for others involved.Time is a critical factor in making decisions about divorce; giving oneself time can lead to better outcomes.Understanding the child's perspective in a divorce can foster empathy and better decision-making for parents.Seeking help and guidance, whether through therapy or spiritual support, can aid in healing and personal growth. How to find Pamela [email protected] Dad to Dads Podcast on IG www.instagram.com/dadtodads

Send us a textJames Walton shares his journey into prepping, highlighting the importance of self-reliance, community, and the emotional aspects of being prepared. He distinguishes between preppers and survivalists, discusses the integration of homesteading into prepping, and emphasizes the significance of teaching children survival skills. The discussion also touches on the impact of the pandemic on preparedness and the lifestyle changes that come with embracing a prepping mindset. James encourages listeners to view prepping as a way to enhance their quality of life rather than just a response to fear.Takeaways Prepping is a pathway to self-reliance and independence.The difference between preppers and survivalists lies in their approach and mindset.Homesteading is intertwined with prepping, focusing on sustainable living.Self-sufficiency provides peace of mind and security for families.Prepping can be a lifestyle that enhances quality of life.Teaching children survival skills fosters confidence and resilience.The emotional journey of prepping includes overcoming fears and anxieties.Building a community of like-minded individuals is crucial for support.Education and continuous learning are vital in the prepping journey.Prepping is not just about preparing for disasters, but also about enjoying life.How to find James Waltonhttps://prepper-broadcasting-network.podcastpage.io/Dad to Dads Podcast on IG www.instagram.com/dadtodads

Send us a textIn this heartfelt conversation, Stephen Panus, author of Walk On, shares his profound journey of grief following the tragic loss of his son, Jake. He discusses the impact of this loss on his family, particularly on his younger son, Liam, and how they have navigated their grief together. Stephen emphasizes the importance of community support, vulnerability, and the healing process, while also honoring Jake's legacy through the Walk-On Scholarship. The conversation touches on themes of resilience, spirituality, and the lessons learned from loss, ultimately inspiring listeners to cherish the little moments in life and support one another through difficult times.TakeawaysStephen Panus shares his journey of loss and healing.The importance of community support during grief.Grief is a universal experience that can take many forms.Jake Panus was a vibrant personality who left a lasting impact.The Walk-On Scholarship honors Jake's legacy and helps others.Vulnerability is a strength in the grieving process.It's essential to savor the little moments in life.Public speaking has become a way for Stephen to honor Jake.Faith and spirituality play a role in coping with loss.The journey of grief is ongoing and requires patience.How to find Stephen Panuswww.StephenPanus.comhttps://youtu.be/LN1rxJCjWGM?si=uGKX8hDrC1QFIDWnDad to Dads Podcast on IG www.instagram.com/dadtodads

Send us a textIn this episode Lucas Krump, co-founder of Evryman, discusses the challenges men face today, including loneliness, a lack of belonging, and the search for purpose. Lucas shares insights from his journey in founding Evryman, a movement aimed at empowering men to live healthier, more connected lives through shared experiences and emotional vulnerability. They explore the importance of emotional safety, the transformative power of retreats, and how men can navigate their fears and develop deeper connections with themselves and others.TakeawaysMen often struggle with loneliness and a lack of connection.The Evryman movement was founded to address men's emotional needs.Vulnerability is essential for emotional safety in relationships.Many men feel stuck in repetitive life patterns.Retreats provide peak experiences for self-discovery.Emotional labor is necessary for personal growth.Men need to practice articulating their emotions.Fear can be a catalyst for growth and focus.Connection with others is vital for mental health.The average of the top five people you spend time with influences your life. How to find Evrymanwww.evryman.comInstagram  https://www.instagram.com/evryman/Dad to Dads Podcast on IG www.instagram.com/dadtodads

Send us a textMen's mental health expert, Dr. Daniel David, discusses mother enmeshment and its negative impact on young men's mental health and development. He emphasizes the importance of healthy mother-son relationships, the need for independence, and the role of fathers in shaping male identity. Dr. David also introduces his coaching program aimed at helping mothers understand their sons' developmental stages and how to facilitate their growth into confident young men.TakeawaysMother enmeshment can hinder a son's independence.Healthy mother-son relationships are crucial for development.Mothers often struggle with letting go of their sons.Boys need to take risks to build resilience.Fathers play a vital role in male development.Mothers should avoid over-communicating with their sons.Setting boundaries is essential for healthy relationships.Moms need to affirm their sons' fathers.Coaching can help mothers navigate their sons' growth.Understanding developmental stages can improve mother-son dynamics.How to find Dr. David Daniel www.atlantamenscounselingtherapy.comor email Dr. David at [email protected] to Dads Podcast on IG www.instagram.com/dadtodads

Send us a textDamarius Bilbo shares his inspiring journey from professional athlete to successful sports agent, offering a behind-the-scenes look at the industry and the challenges that come with it. He opens up about the importance of faith, family, and fatherhood, and how he strives to maintain balance between his demanding career and personal life. Reflecting on his upbringing, Bilbo discusses the values he instills in his children and the lessons he's learned along the way. He also speaks about his role at Klutch Sports Group, the power of mentorship, and the importance of being truly present in his children's lives. Throughout the conversation, Bilbo emphasizes the value of learning from failure and the need for authentic connections, both professionally and personally. Thank you Damarius, for your friendship and for coming on the podcast.TakeawaysHow Faith, family, and fatherhood are the core values that guide Bilbo's life.Growing up without a father motivated him in sports as well as being present for his children.Mistakes are opportunities for growth and learning.How you learn more from failure than success in both sports and life.Every child should be encouraged to pursue their own happiness, not just follow in their parent's footsteps.How to find Damarius Bilbo on IG https://www.instagram.com/bilbo8/

Send us a textDetective Heidi Chance shares her extensive experience in combating human trafficking. She discusses her journey from being a police officer to focusing on the complexities of trafficking, including the vulnerabilities of victims, the role of the internet, and the emotional toll on law enforcement. Detective Chance emphasizes the importance of community awareness, parental guidance, and recognizing signs of trafficking, while also addressing the evolution of legal support for victims. The conversation concludes with resources for parents and the community to help combat this pressing issue.TakeawaysDetective Heidi Chance has over 25 years of law enforcement experience.Traffickers exploit vulnerabilities, not just socioeconomic status.The internet plays a significant role in modern trafficking.Victims often do not see themselves as victims due to brainwashing.Legal support for trafficking cases has evolved positively over time.Recognizing signs of trafficking can help save lives.Parents must engage in conversations about online safety with their children.Technology has made it easier for traffickers to target youth.The emotional toll of working in trafficking is significant for law enforcement.Community outreach and education are crucial in combating trafficking.How to find Detective Heidi Chance and order her book "Talk to Them"www.achanceforawareness.comOn IG www.instagram.com/a_chance_for_awareness/Dad to Dads Podcast on IG www.instagram.com/dadtodads/