Guide to Independence: Lessons For Young Adults with Rob Finlay

Send us a textIn this heartfelt conversation, Stephen Panus, author of Walk On, shares his profound journey of grief following the tragic loss of his son, Jake. He discusses the impact of this loss on his family, particularly on his younger son, Liam, and how they have navigated their grief together. Stephen emphasizes the importance of community support, vulnerability, and the healing process, while also honoring Jake's legacy through the Walk-On Scholarship. The conversation touches on themes of resilience, spirituality, and the lessons learned from loss, ultimately inspiring listeners to cherish the little moments in life and support one another through difficult times.TakeawaysStephen Panus shares his journey of loss and healing.The importance of community support during grief.Grief is a universal experience that can take many forms.Jake Panus was a vibrant personality who left a lasting impact.The Walk-On Scholarship honors Jake's legacy and helps others.Vulnerability is a strength in the grieving process.It's essential to savor the little moments in life.Public speaking has become a way for Stephen to honor Jake.Faith and spirituality play a role in coping with loss.The journey of grief is ongoing and requires patience.How to find Stephen Panuswww.StephenPanus.comhttps://youtu.be/LN1rxJCjWGM?si=uGKX8hDrC1QFIDWnDad to Dads Podcast on IG www.instagram.com/dadtodads

Send us a textIn this episode Lucas Krump, co-founder of Evryman, discusses the challenges men face today, including loneliness, a lack of belonging, and the search for purpose. Lucas shares insights from his journey in founding Evryman, a movement aimed at empowering men to live healthier, more connected lives through shared experiences and emotional vulnerability. They explore the importance of emotional safety, the transformative power of retreats, and how men can navigate their fears and develop deeper connections with themselves and others.TakeawaysMen often struggle with loneliness and a lack of connection.The Evryman movement was founded to address men's emotional needs.Vulnerability is essential for emotional safety in relationships.Many men feel stuck in repetitive life patterns.Retreats provide peak experiences for self-discovery.Emotional labor is necessary for personal growth.Men need to practice articulating their emotions.Fear can be a catalyst for growth and focus.Connection with others is vital for mental health.The average of the top five people you spend time with influences your life. How to find Evrymanwww.evryman.comInstagram  https://www.instagram.com/evryman/Dad to Dads Podcast on IG www.instagram.com/dadtodads

Send us a textMen's mental health expert, Dr. Daniel David, discusses mother enmeshment and its negative impact on young men's mental health and development. He emphasizes the importance of healthy mother-son relationships, the need for independence, and the role of fathers in shaping male identity. Dr. David also introduces his coaching program aimed at helping mothers understand their sons' developmental stages and how to facilitate their growth into confident young men.TakeawaysMother enmeshment can hinder a son's independence.Healthy mother-son relationships are crucial for development.Mothers often struggle with letting go of their sons.Boys need to take risks to build resilience.Fathers play a vital role in male development.Mothers should avoid over-communicating with their sons.Setting boundaries is essential for healthy relationships.Moms need to affirm their sons' fathers.Coaching can help mothers navigate their sons' growth.Understanding developmental stages can improve mother-son dynamics.How to find Dr. David Daniel www.atlantamenscounselingtherapy.comor email Dr. David at [email protected] to Dads Podcast on IG www.instagram.com/dadtodads

Send us a textDamarius Bilbo shares his inspiring journey from professional athlete to successful sports agent, offering a behind-the-scenes look at the industry and the challenges that come with it. He opens up about the importance of faith, family, and fatherhood, and how he strives to maintain balance between his demanding career and personal life. Reflecting on his upbringing, Bilbo discusses the values he instills in his children and the lessons he's learned along the way. He also speaks about his role at Klutch Sports Group, the power of mentorship, and the importance of being truly present in his children's lives. Throughout the conversation, Bilbo emphasizes the value of learning from failure and the need for authentic connections, both professionally and personally. Thank you Damarius, for your friendship and for coming on the podcast.TakeawaysHow Faith, family, and fatherhood are the core values that guide Bilbo's life.Growing up without a father motivated him in sports as well as being present for his children.Mistakes are opportunities for growth and learning.How you learn more from failure than success in both sports and life.Every child should be encouraged to pursue their own happiness, not just follow in their parent's footsteps.How to find Damarius Bilbo on IG https://www.instagram.com/bilbo8/

Send us a textDetective Heidi Chance shares her extensive experience in combating human trafficking. She discusses her journey from being a police officer to focusing on the complexities of trafficking, including the vulnerabilities of victims, the role of the internet, and the emotional toll on law enforcement. Detective Chance emphasizes the importance of community awareness, parental guidance, and recognizing signs of trafficking, while also addressing the evolution of legal support for victims. The conversation concludes with resources for parents and the community to help combat this pressing issue.TakeawaysDetective Heidi Chance has over 25 years of law enforcement experience.Traffickers exploit vulnerabilities, not just socioeconomic status.The internet plays a significant role in modern trafficking.Victims often do not see themselves as victims due to brainwashing.Legal support for trafficking cases has evolved positively over time.Recognizing signs of trafficking can help save lives.Parents must engage in conversations about online safety with their children.Technology has made it easier for traffickers to target youth.The emotional toll of working in trafficking is significant for law enforcement.Community outreach and education are crucial in combating trafficking.How to find Detective Heidi Chance and order her book "Talk to Them"www.achanceforawareness.comOn IG www.instagram.com/a_chance_for_awareness/Dad to Dads Podcast on IG www.instagram.com/dadtodads/

Send us a textIn this inspiring episode of the Daddy Dad's Podcast, Robert interviews David Jones, who became a national sensation for hiking 17 miles through the destruction of Hurricane Helene to attend his daughter's wedding. David shares his incredible journey, the challenges he faced, and the determination that drove him to battle through treacherous conditions to fulfill his promise to his daughter. The conversation delves into themes of love, grit, and the lengths a father will go to for his family, offering valuable lessons for all dads.TakeawaysDavid hiked through hurricane destruction to attend his daughter's wedding.He faced numerous obstacles but remained determined to reach his goal.The journey was not just physical but also a testament to a father's love.David's mantra was to walk his daughter down the aisle, which kept him motivated.He emphasizes the importance of having a vision and mission in life.David's experience highlights that we are capable of more than we think.He encourages dads to push their limits and not be afraid of challenges.The story illustrates the power of faith, community and support during tough times.David's journey serves as an inspiration for fathers everywhere.He believes love drives grit and determination. How to find David Jones www.theexcellenceadvisory.comDad to Dads Podcast on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/dadtodads/

Send us a textEntrepreneur and Best Selling Author, Rob Finlay discusses his book 'Hey Dad...Everything You Should've Learned About Life (But Didn't)', which serves as a heartfelt guide for young adults transitioning into independence. He shares personal anecdotes about parenting, the lessons learned from his own children, and the importance of equipping them with essential life skills. The discussion emphasizes the significance of allowing children to experience failure, the role of parents in fostering independence, and the value of teaching practical skills. Rob also highlights the need for parents to be present and involved in their children's lives, ensuring they grow into compassionate and capable adults.TakeawaysTeaching life skills is crucial for independence.Parents should allow their children to experience failure.Engaging with adults helps children develop social skills.The importance of budgeting and financial literacy is emphasized.Parents should focus on raising decent human beings.How to find Rob Finlay and order his latest book www.robfinlay.comInstagram https://www.instagram.com/robjfinlay/Dad to Dads Podcast on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/dadtodads/

Send us a textIn this episode of the Dad to Dad podcast, Dr. Jann Blackstone discusses her expertise in co-parenting, blended families, and the importance of communication and acceptance in these dynamics. She shares insights from her book, 'The Bonus Family Handbook,' emphasizing the need for collaboration between parents and the role of bonus parents in children's lives. The conversation covers various topics, including discipline, conflict resolution, and the impact of parental alienation, providing valuable advice for navigating the complexities of modern family structures.TakeawaysThe term 'bonus parent' is more inclusive than 'step-parent'.Effective co-parenting requires communication, acceptance, respect, and empathy.Discipline in blended families should be coordinated between parents.Children should not be put in the middle of parental conflicts.Open communication about dating and new partners is essential.Parents should avoid bad mouthing each other in front of children.Establishing a conflict resolution forum can help families navigate issues.Acceptance of each family member's individuality fosters a positive environment.Children need to feel secure and loved by all parental figures.Parents should prioritize the child's needs over personal grievances.How to find Dr. Jann BlackstoneOn IG https://www.instagram.com/bonusfamilies/www.bonusfamilies.comDad to Dads on IG https://www.instagram.com/dadtodads/

Send us a textSummaryIn this conversation, Michael Pereira shares his journey as a father navigating the challenges of raising a child with autism. He discusses the emotional rollercoaster of diagnosis, the importance of acceptance, and the need for proactive planning for the future. Michael emphasizes the significance of community support, celebrating small victories, and the necessity of being informed and prepared as parents. His advocacy work through his blog, The Autism Voyage, aims to provide resources and support for families facing similar challenges.TakeawaysMichael Pereira emphasizes the importance of community support for families with special needs children.Acceptance of a child's diagnosis is crucial for effective parenting and planning.Parents should focus on celebrating small victories in their child's development.It's essential to seek information and be proactive in addressing a child's needs.Michael's journey highlights the emotional challenges faced by parents during the diagnosis phase.The importance of being aligned with a partner in navigating parenting challenges is crucial.Planning for the future, including financial and care considerations, is vital for parents of special needs children.Michael advocates for a curious mindset when seeking information about autism and related resources.Each child on the spectrum has unique strengths and needs that should be recognized and nurtured.The Autism Voyage blog serves as a resource for parents seeking guidance and community support. 

Send us a textJohn Kennedy Vaughan of Shields of Strength, shares his journey of understanding love and its profound impact on his life and relationships. He discusses the importance of selflessness in fatherhood, the challenges modern fathers face, and the necessity of discipline in parenting. Kenny emphasizes that love is not just a feeling but a commitment to act in the best interest of others, particularly in the context of family. He also highlights the significance of faith in overcoming fear and the transformative power of love in shaping our lives and relationships.TakeawaysUnderstanding how love radically changes life.Fear can disqualify all preparation and clarity of thought.A loving father prioritizes his family's needs above his own.Discipline is necessary for a child's well-being.Love is not just a feeling; it's a commitment to act.The why behind our actions determines their impact.Gentleness in parenting should not come at the cost of discipline.A strong man is humble and selfless.Children need to know they are loved despite their actions.Jesus embodies the true essence of love.