Words That Win: How To Instantly Influence Anyone (use ethically)

The Walking Dead - Why Negan Is DoomedDiscover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression:http://bit.ly/2ES2uuwNegan is about to cause his own overthrow. It might not look like that from our last video, which discussed how effective his rule-based brutality was for controlling people, but he neglected one critical piece which will be his undoing.In this video, we’ll cover how Negan is likely to meet his end. The inspiration comes from CGP Grey’s recent video Rules for Rulers and of course the book it is based on The Dictator’s Handbook. Both are definitely worth checking out, especially since I’ll be repeating some of the main points here.0:32 Negan controls the keys to leadership and as a ruler0:32 Negan distributes wealth to his inner circle as a leader3:08 Negan minimizes key supporters as a leader and ruler6:00 Biggest mistake of Negan which will lead to his doom6:46 Although Negan could probably tell if something is amidstCGP Grey's Rules for Rulers: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rStL7niR7gs&utm_source=youtube&utm_campaign=Lead&utm_medium=NeganDoomedSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: https://goo.gl/lExR7uConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaonVideo Editor, Andre: http://www.goandre.comOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get your first audiobook and access to a monthly selection of Audible Originals for free when you try Audible for 30 days visit https://www.audible.com/charisma or text "charisma" to 500 500!Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeAvatar The Last Airbender is all about the journey of learning new skills, from novice to master. And despite being a cartoon, it’s very well written and there are lessons you can take from it to help YOU master almost any skill faster, whether you’re interested in business, sports, languages, music, or social skills (we’ll look at examples of each of these throughout the video.) That said, we’ve got to acknowledge that Avatar IS a cartoon. So in this video we’ll go over some things Avatar gets right and some things Avatar gets wrong, so that you can learn to master any skill way faster and avoid some common mistakes that will stall your learning process. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:28 - #1: Find the right teacher for you.3:07 - #2: Set goals that are a stretch for your abilities, but are within your abilities.4:29 - #3: Find a way to make practice fun.6:05 - #4: Don't let the ego get in the way of learning.8:08 - #5: Practice at least three times a week. --------------------------------------------------------------------------------#Avatar #AvatarTheLastAirbender #CharismaOnCommand-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff:Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

There are dangerous people in this world who will try to manipulate and control you.One tool they’ll use is gaslighting, a form of emotional abuse that makes you doubt your own reality. This lets them get away with things that most people wouldn’t tolerate in a relationship. So today you’ll learn 8 signs someone might be gaslighting you.One important thing to remember, gaslighting is a pattern. Especially with some of the more subtle signs from later in the video, seeing them once doesn’t necessarily mean you’re being gaslit. But be wary if you see these signs repeatedly. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:26 - #1: They attack your sanity0:53 - #2: They rewrite the past2:09 - #3: They minimize bad behavior3:01 - #4: They normalize bad behavior3:40 - #5: They use empathy hijacking4:35 - #6: They regularly deflect blame onto you5:59 - #7: They project their negative qualities onto you6:53 - #8: They make your emotional reaction the problem-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #gaslighting #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Why My Girlfriend And I Broke UpDiscover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression:http://bit.ly/2D3Jc7OIn which I tell the reasons behind my break up - at least as far as I can see them today.Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression:http://bit.ly/2mHvxckSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeHow To Get Respect Without Being A Bully - Jordan Petersonhttps://goo.gl/DLouohJordan Peterson recently expertly handled a debate during an interview with BBC's Channel 4 news (The video was called: Jordan Peterson debate on the gender pay gap, campus protests and postmodernism). And JBP did it without being a bull or being aggressive. So how do we get respect without being a bully? Well, we often think that getting respect and being aggressive go hand in hand. Because unfortunately, it’s often the bully that gets the most respect in the schoolyard and even in the workplace. But Jordan Peterson is an exemplar of a different way to generate massive amount of respect. So in this video we’re going to explore 3 main things he does that force people to respect you WITHOUT being a bully. Now, we focused a lot on respect in this video but that's actually just one out of four emotions that are going to create an amazing first impression on anyone cross-culturally. Now, if you're curious with the other three emotions that you want to create in that person are to make an amazing first impression, I made a video on that that breaks down what those four emotions are so that you can start using them today to consistently make killer first impressions. 0:30 Jordan Peterson calls it "pacing your reality"4:50 Jordan Peterson tells stories effectively6:54 Jordan Peterson uses archetypal storiesConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The fastest way to learn to express yourself confidently: https://bit.ly/028-25Diary Of A CEO Podcast: @TheDiaryOfACEO My Diary Of A CEO Episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zg4Ta7vXiIMMost people think charisma is about how you talk. But the real superpower lies in how you listen.In this video, we break down the subtle listening habits that make Steven Bartlett one of the most captivating conversationalists alive. You’ll learn how to hold silence, guide emotion, and create moments where people feel seen in ways they rarely do.0:00 - Intro1:14 - #1: Steven almost never interrupts3:52 - #2: Offer the least invasive support possible7:00 - #3: Offer an empathetic mirror8:51 - #4: Ask chunky questions9:32 - #5: Presence matters more than techniqueSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account:http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join Over 13,000+ Members At Charisma University:https://bit.ly/3SOo6gTSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeToday we’ll go over how to handle it when someone insults you.We’ll start with a couple classic “destroy” comebacks. These are great at winning over an audience and embarrassing the person who insulted you. Be warned though, they may make the target of your comeback hate you.Then we’ll cover some friendlier, more charismatic responses so that you come away looking cool and confident without making enemies. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:17 - #1: The high status reframe1:40 - #2: Accept the insult and use it against them2:54 - #3: Insult the insult3:27 - #4: Draw a boundary4:31 - #5: The "tit for tat" or "eye for an eye" method6:25 - #6: Show that you're unaffected8:18 - How do I build deep, unshakable confidence?Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Please consider donating to Charity: Water. Donating $30 gives someone access to clean water for 10 years. You can read more about the campaign and donate here:https://www.charitywater.org/charismaSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeWe all want to be liked and respected while being our unfiltered selves. And one of the fastest ways to make people like you is to make them laugh. That’s why in this video we’re going to talk about Andrew Schulz, a comedian who’s popular for his ability to make people laugh even while he’s making fun of them.⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 1:21 - #1: Start by joking about people you obviously like.2:48 - #2: Answer some questions with purposefully absurd answers.3:38 - #3: When teasing others, mix in compliments.5:00 - #4: Schulz will stereotype to get a laugh, but not in a hurtful way.8:00 - #5: Roast all political parties equally. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #AndrewSchulz #CharismaOnCommand-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Clips from the video:https://youtu.be/-60PjP4n2qAhttps://youtu.be/nS_6c4PyJvghttps://youtu.be/o5oW0ELFy9chttps://youtu.be/HkCBPHedjyQhttps://youtu.be/LimytC6bNZ0https://youtu.be/9BxFVciVOiMhttps://youtu.be/Jt34qFE0zkwhttps://youtu.be/EwRPx9F6G8ohttps://youtu.be/GHpvUxmvybYhttps://youtu.be/tETOEfOaNhwhttps://youtu.be/1ElO7EUdfOwhttps://youtu.be/dl2MQq4qO4Y Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff:Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join Over 17,000 Members At Charisma University:https://bit.ly/CoC-7TricksPersuasionSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeToday you’ll learn the art of persuasion. Specifically, 7 powerful principles that influence everyone’s decision making. Including your own.You’ll learn ethical ways you can apply these principles, AND just by being aware of them, you’ll now notice when someone uses them on you.I want to credit Robert Cialdini’s book Influence for first teaching me these. If you find today’s video interesting, you’ll definitely enjoy his book.⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:16 - #1: Social proof2:38 - #2: Scarcity4:41 - #3: Consistency6:27 - #4: Reciprocity8:11 - #5: Authority9:53 - #6: Liking10:15 - #7: Risk Mitigation10:59 - Only persuade for genuine good.Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Interested in learning more about Charisma University? Click here: https://goo.gl/QaKqLhYou’re going to spend thousands and thousands hours learning over the course of your life. What’s crazy is that despite the fact that we have all those hours sitting in the classroom, learning musical instruments, martial arts, business, language, whatever - no one teaches us how to optimize that learning experience.But there are principles that you can apply to any area of life you want to improve in. From beating people who have been training waaaaay more than I have in ju jitsu to watching our business grow exponentially in the last 6 months. So think of an area of your life that you want to start crushing the competition in and apply these 5 tips to learn 10x faster1. Measure the smallest possible victory2. Drill one thing at a time until it is unthinking habit.3. Shorter periods of study every day beat cramming4. When you are starting, try a million different things5. Debrief your successes and failuresSubscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices