How To Spark Interest In Every Conversation

Check out Charisma University:https://bit.ly/3FJXCsASubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeWe've all been there, you see someone that you want to meet, but you aren't quite sure what to say. You get nervous and overthink it, and eventually you don't say anything at all.That scenario is awful, so in this video you're going to learn 5 easy ways to start a conversation in any situation. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:16 - #1: "Hey, I don't think I've met you yet, I'm..."0:43 - #2: "Hey, I know this is totally random, but..."1:25 - #3: The "Tourist" Technique.2:12 - #4: The "Ben Franklin".2:53 - #5: The spontaneous complement.--------------------------------------------------------------------------------#CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff:Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How Negan Rose To Power In The Walking DeadDiscover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression:http://bit.ly/2Bj8DjHNegan is one of the most ruthless leader in the world of the Walking Dead. He literally brings Rick Grimes to his knees. And perhaps what’s most scary about him, is that people like him are not just dominant in social interactions (even over guys like Daryl) but they oftentimes DO become leaders in our own world, especially in times where security is so hard to find, like in the Walking Dead. In this video we’ll break down what traits make Negan such a dominant force, why those make him a natural leader, and how you can handle those traits when you encounter them in real life - without the baseball bat named Lucille obviously.By the way, spoilers through mid season 7 of the Walking Dead AND some graphic images, because we’re talking about Negan here.00:30 Negan's body language plays a role3:22 Negan makes the rules clear5:38 Negan doesn't just punish, he also rewards7:06 Negan builds a cult of personalitySubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaonVideo Editor, Andre: http://www.goandre.comOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The Diary of a CEO podcast:https://youtu.be/zg4Ta7vXiIMI went on The Diary of a CEO, and it didn’t go how I expected… In this video, I break down what happened and what this experience taught me about charisma, confidence, and being truly authentic.Timestamps:0:00 - Intro0:24 - My charisma mistakes0:45 - How I wound up there2:15 - The question that got me...3:36 - Body language analysis4:50 - The interview drops5:54 - The phases of learning9:21 - Wrapping upSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Click here if you want to learn more about Charisma University: https://www.charismaoncommand.com/c-university/https://goo.gl/DB5aYdSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeOr if you want that Insta Music: Instagram: @CharlieHoupertI'm Charlie Houpert of Charisma on Command and welcome To My Draw My Life! Music: https://www.bensound.comConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Thank you to Audible for sponsoring this video! New Audible members get a 30-day free trial. Visit http://www.audible.com/charisma or text "charisma" to 500 500 to try Audible today!Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeRecently Steven Crowder and Ethan Klein got together to discuss the pros and cons of listening to the CDC.In today’s video, we’re going to break down how that conversation got so heated and what you can learn from it. Specifically we’ll go over 5 common habits you may have that are making friends dislike you when you argue. We’ll also go over some positive ways you can be more persuasive and make people like you even during a disagreement.⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro2:01 - #1: Don't aim for a "gotcha" moment3:48 - #2: Don't repeatedly talk over someone4:49 - #3: Stop using ad hominem attacks8:01 - #4: Stop strawmaning8:49 - #5: Be willing to consider that you're on the wrong side--------------------------------------------------------------------------------#h3h3 #stevencrowder #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff:Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join Over 16,500 Members At Charisma University:http://bit.ly/47PI0SKSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeIn today’s video you’ll learn 6 habits that will make people love being around you. With examples from a celebrity that seems almost universally loved: Ryan Gosling.⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:07 - #1: Have fun0:21 - Absurd analogies1:09 - The mind's eye method1:37 - Deadpan humor2:52 - The fake walkoff3:24 - #2: Tell funny embarrassing stories3:58 - Emphasize you're aware it was embarrassing4:59 - Call attention to your awkward moments5:51 - #3: Create authenticity6:36 - Compliment authenticity when you see it7:10 - #4: Make people feel good around you7:22 - Show that you like who they are8:06 - Combine the compliment with a joke8:58 - #5: Be playfully humble10:05 - #6: Self validation11:26 - How can you gain unshakable confidence?12:15 - The quickest way to build confidence-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand #RyanGosling--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Check out Charisma University:https://bit.ly/3EtiP9CSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeToday we are looking at some comebacks! We're going to see what we can learn from the way people responded in today's clips to particular offenses and insults, and what you can learn in your own life if somebody comes at you in a way that you find a bit too aggressive.⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:15 - Comeback #1: Andy Richter1:15 - Comeback #2: Bo Burnham1:55 - Comeback #3: UK Parliament3:27 - Comeback #4: Donald Trump4:02 - Comeback #5: David Letterman5:14 - Comeback #6: Jaime Lannister5:38 - Comeback #7: Howard with the comeback6:25 - Comeback #8: Donald Trump vs Jeb Bush7:08 - Comeback #9: Conan O' Brien-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff:Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join Over 13,000+ Members At Charisma University:https://bit.ly/3CzfIMySubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeIf you’re an introvert, you may think that you’re destined to suffer socially. But one of today's MOST popular celebrities is a self-proclaimed introvert.Even more amazing, Zendaya captivates people without pretending to be extroverted, which can feel exhausting and fake.So today, you’ll learn 4 easy tricks to be charming as an introvert, without changing your personality.Our writing assistant and resident introvert Hadley will walk you through them. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:23 - #1: Front load your enthusiasm1:07 - #2: Use hand signals to capture attention2:00 - #3: Speak through a smile2:26 - #4: Listen with the intention of laughing-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #Zendaya #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

A 'Trick' That Gives You INSANE Confidence: https://bit.ly/2DxyfvUElliott Hulse is an extraordinary motivational speaker. He gives advice in such a way that his viewers are inspired not only to listen to the end of his videos, but to change their lives. And on a crowded platform like Youtube, Elliott manages to speak for upwards of 10 minutes, with long pauses while captivating his audience the entire time. Not many speakers are have the confidence to pull that off.We all have moment's in our lives where people come to us for advice. Yet oftentimes, despite our best efforts, that advice goes unheeded. We can change that. By following Elliott Hulse's charismatic techniques and intelligent structure we can learn to "open up" our listener so that they are receptive to the advice we have to give. So check it out and learn how to give advice that actually motivates people to change.Link to confidence tip: http://bit.ly/COC-ConfidenceYTDLink to Elliott Hulse's final video in breakdown: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-Xgjb8spwewSubscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Click here to enter your name for free coaching here: https://gleam.io/competitions/5tsJp-charisma-on-command-1-hour-coaching-session-giveawayThis video will give you 4 go-to techniques for making small talk with anyone :-) https://goo.gl/KEbUrjSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeDiscover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression:http://bit.ly/2Dj4QSeWhat’s the goal of small talk? Think of small talk as a way to A.) learn about each other or learn what’s new with each other, B.) see if you connect on anything and want to form or strengthen a relationship, and C.) enjoy yourself.This video will show you how to do that without asking a bunch of questions and making it feel like an interview, and avoid forced conversation or awkward silences.0:56 What's the point of small talk?1:37 How to combine a compliment & a cold read to replace a boring question with interesting, fun conversation2:59 The kinds of questions that lead to excited conversation that flows naturally vs. the questions that lead to awkward silences4:36 My favorite conversation game that is easy to work into conversation without it seeing weird, and makes small talk enjoyable for both people5:44 How to guide the conversation towards things you're interested in, by eliciting their advice/opinionConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices