When You Can’t Call Mom: Godly Dating Advice | Season 4, Episode 4

When you can’t ask your mom for flirting advice… you call a friend like Alisa Gilstrap. This week, SeaJay, Erika, and Deborah chat with some of our favorite Jesus Culture team members, Alisa Gilstrap and Chloe Frye, about all things dating! From healthy guy/girl friendships, to showing interest without losing yourself, we talk about non-negotiables, shame-breaking conversations, and the difference between leading on and actually communicating. Follow along on social media for new episodes, updates, or to connect with us. We’d love to hear from you! Authentic You Women’s Community https://www.instagram.com/authenticyou.ay Jesus Culture Podcast Network https://www.instagram.com/jcpodcastnetwork To learn more about our Authentic You Women’s Community, check out our website: https://jesusculture.com/sacramento/communities/authentic-you For access to helpful resources visit: https://jesusculture.com https://www.youtube.com/@jesusculturepodcastnetwork

In this episode, SeaJay, Erika, and Deborah catch up on Deborah’s house renovation adventure. Then, SeaJay brings a relatable and empowering message about what it means to invite others in and show up with confidence when it’s your turn. It’s funny, it’s encouraging, and it might just be what you need today. Follow along on social media for new episodes, updates, or to connect with us. We’d love to hear from you! Authentic You Women’s Community https://www.instagram.com/authenticyou.ay Jesus Culture Podcast Network https://www.instagram.com/jcpodcastnetwork To learn more about our Authentic You Women’s Community, check out our website: https://jesusculture.com/sacramento/communities/authentic-you For access to helpful resources visit: https://jesusculture.com https://www.youtube.com/@jesusculturepodcastnetwork

In this episode, we’re honored to share a special message from one of our very own hosts, Deborah Giles! She dives into a powerful message on hearing God’s voice, the heart behind the prophetic, and why it’s more about obedience than perfection. But first…SeaJay, Erika, and Deborah take a moment to remember a recent loss of a beloved family dog—sharing sweet memories, heartfelt moments, and the joy and chaos pets bring to our lives. Follow along on social media for new episodes, updates, or to connect with us. We’d love to hear from you! Authentic You Women’s Community https://www.instagram.com/authenticyou.ay Jesus Culture Podcast Network https://www.instagram.com/jcpodcastnetwork/ To learn more about our Authentic You Women’s Community, check out our website: jesusculture.com/sacramento/communities/authentic-you     For access to helpful resources visit: https://jesusculture.com/ https://www.youtube.com/@jesusculturepodcastnetwork

We’ve all done it. We jump to conclusions without the full picture, fill in the blanks with assumptions and walk away feeling hurt, offended, or misunderstood. But what if there’s a better way? In this episode, SeaJay, Erika, and Deborah talk about breaking free from offense, choosing curiosity over criticism, and learning to assume the best in others. Let’s explore how to live with grace and not guesswork because the stories we tell ourselves aren’t always rooted in truth. Follow along on social media for new episodes, updates, or to connect with us. We’d love to hear from you! Authentic You Women’s Community https://www.instagram.com/authenticyou.ay Jesus Culture Podcast Network https://www.instagram.com/jcpodcastnetwork/ To learn more about our Authentic You Women’s Community, check out our website: jesusculture.com/sacramento/communities/authentic-you     For access to helpful resources visit: https://jesusculture.com/ https://www.youtube.com/@jesusculturepodcastnetwork

In this bonus episode, SeaJay, Erika, and Deborah are catching up, and pretty much nothing is off the table. They’re talking about what it’s like living with adult and teenage kids, the mystery of people who choose to sleep in tents (camping), and the surprisingly fun chaos of sharing calendars with friends and husbands. They also get into whether being a rule follower or breaker is really who you are or just the mood you’re in. To learn more about the Authentic You women’s community, check out our website: https://jesusculture.com/sacramento/communities/authentic-you/ For access to helpful resources, visit https://jesusculture.com/ Stay connected with us on social media for episode highlights, updates on upcoming releases, and news about the Authentic You women’s community: https://www.instagram.com/authenticyou.ay

In this inspiring episode, our friend Janessa Ford opens up to SeaJay, Erika, and Deborah about the journey to true freedom—learning to love herself, breaking free from shame, and speaking truth over darkness. She shares the power of words, the importance of blessing our bodies, and the challenges of raising daughters in an appearance-focused culture. Join us for an honest conversation about self-worth, healing, and embracing God’s truth over the world’s standards. To learn more about the Authentic You women’s community, check out our website: https://jesusculture.com/sacramento/communities/authentic-you/ For access to helpful resources, visit https://jesusculture.com/ Stay connected with us on social media for episode highlights, updates on upcoming releases, and news about the Authentic You women’s community: https://www.instagram.com/authenticyou.ay Episode Guest: Janessa Ford https://www.instagram.com/janessakatherine/

Proximity and timing are key ingredients needed to build friendships. In this episode, SeaJay, Erika, and Deborah talk about the importance of walking through life with others, and how trusting God in the process helps us navigate the highs and lows of relationships. Friendship takes bravery, vulnerability, and the willingness to not take things personally when the vibe just isn’t right. Join us as we discuss how to build deeper, God-led connections without the pressure of perfection. To learn more about the Authentic You women’s community, check out our website: https://jesusculture.com/sacramento/communities/authentic-you/ For access to helpful resources, visit https://jesusculture.com/ Stay connected with us on social media for episode highlights, updates on upcoming releases, and news about the Authentic You women’s community: https://www.instagram.com/authenticyou.ay

In this powerful episode, Tiina Fitzgerald, our friend and guest, shares her journey through the deep grief of being raised by her mom battling a mental health disorder and becoming a single mom after the sudden and tragic death of her daughter’s father. SeaJay, Erika, and Deborah talk with Tiina about how she turned to the Lord and community for support and how the mandate to “take every thought captive” helped her navigate the painful journey. Tiina reflects on the importance of holding both grief and gratitude, trusting God’s faithfulness, and finding healing through Him in the midst of loss. Her story is a powerful reminder that even in the darkest times, God’s comfort and presence can bring peace. To learn more about the Authentic You women’s community, check out our website: https://jesusculture.com/sacramento/communities/authentic-you/ For access to helpful resources, visit https://jesusculture.com/ Stay connected with us on social media for episode highlights, updates on upcoming releases, and news about the Authentic You women’s community: https://www.instagram.com/authenticyou.ay Episode Guest: Tiina Fitzgerald https://www.instagram.com/tiinafitz/

In this episode, Ruthie Ridley shares her journey from a nursing career, driven by external pressure, to building an influential online platform rooted in purpose. Starting with a small following and facing insecurity, fear, and isolation, Ruthie’s obedience to God’s call led to success—especially as she spoke out on cultural issues like racial injustice. She reflects on the importance of building something with God, staying faithful through the tough and uncertain moments, and finding true fulfillment when you align your work with eternal purpose. Ruthie’s story is a powerful reminder that success comes through obedience, perseverance, and partnering with God in everything you do. To learn more about the Authentic You women’s community, check out our website: https://jesusculture.com/sacramento/communities/authentic-you/ For access to helpful resources, visit https://jesusculture.com/ Stay connected with us on social media for episode highlights, updates on upcoming releases, and news about the Authentic You women’s community: https://www.instagram.com/authenticyou.ay Episode Guest: Ruthie Ridley https://www.instagram.com/ruthieridley/

In this episode, Becky Johnson chats with SeaJay, Erika, and Deborah about the challenges and blessings of raising pastors’ kids, the importance of spiritual covering, humility, and submission to God’s plan. True favor follows surrender. Through vulnerability and trust, they discuss how we often carry baggage into our relationship with God that needs to be shed for growth to occur. Becky’s story reminds us that God, not man, holds the keys to our ministry and our purpose. To learn more about our Authentic You women’s community, check out our website https://jesusculture.com/sacramento/communities/authentic-you/ For access to helpful resources visit https://jesusculture.com/ Stay connected with us on social media for episode highlights, updates on upcoming releases, and news about the Authentic You women’s community: https://www.instagram.com/authenticyou.ay Episode Guest  Becky Johnson https://www.instagram.com/beckyfoxjohnson/