Ep 807: Church Girl Problems

Being the “good girl” sounds beautiful… until real life starts lifing.We’re unpacking church girl problems from growing up as the “saved,” “well-behaved,” “set apart” girl to navigating dating, boundaries, identity, and real-world experiences as an adult woman of faith.We’re talking about the pressure to be perfect, the fear of getting it wrong, the things we were taught (and what we had to unlearn), and the tension between honoring God and actually living a full, honest life.If you’ve ever felt stuck between who you were raised to be and who you’re becoming… this one is for you.Because being a good girl doesn’t mean losing yourself and holiness and wholeness should go hand in hand.💍 Celebrate With NiaHoneyfund: https://www.honeyfund.com/site/stokes-smith🎙️ Join Patreon for bonus and exclusive episodeshttps://Patreon.com/YourFavoriteAunties✨ Shop Merchhttps://YFAShop.com💖 Support the ShowPayPal: https://paypal.me/yfaPodCashApp: $YFAuntiesPodZelle: [email protected]📺 Subscribe on YouTubeYouTube.com/@YourFavoriteAuntiesPodcastFollow Us@YourFavoriteAuntiesPod@ShaMarianRobinson@_NiaDanielle📬 Mail1321 Upland Dr. #10361Houston, Texas 77043Don’t forget to like, comment, and share with a friend who loves love 🤎✨See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

You say you want better… but are you actually doing what it takes to get it?This week, the Aunties get real about accountability… the kind we expect from ourselves, from each other, and from the people around us. We’re talking about what it looks like to be checked in love, how to receive correction without getting defensive, and why growth requires more than just saying you want it.We unpack the difference between support and enablement, how friendship accountability can sharpen or strain a relationship, and the role the outside world plays in holding us to a higher standard. Because let’s be honest… everybody wants accountability until it’s time to be accountable.If you’ve ever said “I’m working on it,” this episode might lovingly ask… are you really?Tap in for honest conversation, real-life examples, and the kind of perspective that will have you checking yourself and your circle.💍 Celebrate With Nia Honeyfund:https://www.honeyfund.com/site/stokes-smith🎙️ Join Patreon (bonus & exclusive episodes)https://Patreon.com/YourFavoriteAunties✨ Shop Merchhttps://YFAShop.com💖 Support the ShowPayPal: https://paypal.me/yfaPodCashApp: $YFAuntiesPodZelle: [email protected]📺 Subscribe: YouTube.com/@YourFavoriteAuntiesPodcastFollow us:@YourFavoriteAuntiesPod@ShaMarianRobinson@_NiaDanielle📬 Mail:1321 Upland Dr. #10361Houston, Texas 77043Don’t forget to like, comment, and share with a friend who loves love 🤎✨See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Dating as a “good church girl” can come with a lot of rules, expectations, and teachings that shape how we approach relationships. In this episode, the Aunties sit down with special guest Torah Cents to unpack what many Christian women were taught about dating, men, and relationships and what might need to be unlearned.From purity culture and church messaging to real-life dating experiences, we explore the misconceptions that can keep women stuck, confused, or settling for less than they deserve. We talk about the difference between wisdom and fear-based dating advice, the importance of self-awareness, and how women of faith can approach dating in a healthier, more empowered way.If you’ve ever felt like your dating life has been shaped by teachings that didn’t fully prepare you for real relationships, this conversation is for you. Join us as we discuss how to break old patterns, embrace new perspectives, and start dating with clarity, confidence, and intention.IG: @TorahCentsGrab your tea, it’s time to talk about it.💍 Celebrate With Nia Honeyfund:https://www.honeyfund.com/site/stokes-smith🎙️ Join Patreon (bonus & exclusive episodes)https://Patreon.com/YourFavoriteAunties✨ Shop Merchhttps://YFAShop.com💖 Support the ShowPayPal: https://paypal.me/yfaPodCashApp: $YFAuntiesPodZelle: [email protected]📺 Subscribe: YouTube.com/@YourFavoriteAuntiesPodcastFollow us:@YourFavoriteAuntiesPod@ShaMarianRobinson@_NiaDanielle📬 Mail:1321 Upland Dr. #10361Houston, Texas 77043Don’t forget to like, comment, and share with a friend who loves love 🤎✨See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Sometimes the very thing we pray for guidance from God can also bring a surprising amount of anxiety and pressure.In this episode of Your Favorite Aunties Podcast, Sham and Nia get honest about the emotional and spiritual tension that can come with seeking God’s direction for your life. From wondering if you’re truly hearing God correctly to feeling the weight of making the “right” decision, we unpack the very real anxiety that can show up when you’re trying to walk in obedience.We talk about the pressure Christians sometimes feel to get every step right, the fear of missing God’s plan, and how to navigate the space between faith, discernment, and overthinking. Because let’s be honest trusting God sounds simple… until you’re the one who has to actually make the move.If you’ve ever prayed for clarity, asked God for a sign, or wrestled with whether you’re walking in purpose or just overanalyzing every decision, this conversation is for you.💍 Celebrate With Nia’s Honeyfund:https://www.honeyfund.com/site/stokes-smith🎙️ Join Patreon (bonus & exclusive episodes)https://Patreon.com/YourFavoriteAunties✨ Shop Merchhttps://YFAShop.com💖 Support the ShowPayPal: https://paypal.me/yfaPodCashApp: $YFAuntiesPodZelle: [email protected]📺 Subscribe: YouTube.com/@YourFavoriteAuntiesPodcastFollow us:@YourFavoriteAuntiesPod@ShaMarianRobinson@_NiaDanielle📬 Mail:1321 Upland Dr. #10361Houston, Texas 77043Don’t forget to like, comment, and share with a friend who loves love 🤎✨See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

This week, Your Favorite Aunties welcome back Christian sexologist Brittany Broaddus-Smith for a real, grown, and necessary conversation the church doesn’t always know how to have.We’re unpacking sexual hygiene, healthy sexual conduct, and the truth about how purity culture and church messaging have shaped the way many believers experience sex and intimacy. From the gaps in sex education within Christian spaces to the shame many people quietly carry, this episode gets honest about what’s helping… and what’s hurting.If you’ve ever struggled with sexual shame, confusion around intimacy, or wondered what healthy, God-honoring sexuality actually looks like, this conversation is for you.Grab your tea, it’s time to talk about it.💍 Celebrate With Nia Honeyfund:https://www.honeyfund.com/site/stokes-smith🏆 Vote Your Favorite Aunties (Podcast of the Year)https://blackchristianinfluencers.typeform.com/to/VAi3QQYv?typeform-source=www.bciexperience.com🎙️ Join Patreon (bonus & exclusive episodes)https://Patreon.com/YourFavoriteAunties✨ Shop Merchhttps://YFAShop.com💖 Support the ShowPayPal: https://paypal.me/yfaPodCashApp: $YFAuntiesPodZelle: [email protected]📺 Subscribe: YouTube.com/@YourFavoriteAuntiesPodcastFollow us:@YourFavoriteAuntiesPod@ShaMarianRobinson@_NiaDanielle📬 Mail:1321 Upland Dr. #10361Houston, Texas 77043Don’t forget to like, comment, and share with a friend who loves love 🤎✨See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Engagement season is beautiful… and complicated.This week, the Aunties talk about the other side of the ring — the part people don’t always say out loud. Nia checks in on Sham as they get honest about what it feels like when your best friend receives the very blessing you’ve been praying for yourself.From joy and celebration to comparison, insecurity, and emotional growth, we unpack how to hold space for your friend while also holding space for your own heart.We also get real about what happens after “yes.”The pressure, the planning, the expectations, the financial conversations, and the moment it hits — oh wow… I’m actually about to get married.If you’ve ever been single around married friends, engaged around single friends, or navigating changing friendship dynamics during a new life season, this conversation is for you.Because love doesn’t just change relationships… it changes friendships too.💍 Celebrate With NiaHoneyfund:https://www.honeyfund.com/site/stokes-smith🏆 Vote Your Favorite Aunties (Podcast of the Year)https://blackchristianinfluencers.typeform.com/to/VAi3QQYv?typeform-source=www.bciexperience.com🎙️ Join Patreon (bonus & exclusive episodes)https://Patreon.com/YourFavoriteAunties✨ Shop Merchhttps://YFAShop.com💖 Support the ShowPayPal: https://paypal.me/yfaPodCashApp: $YFAuntiesPodZelle: [email protected]📺 Subscribe: YouTube.com/@YourFavoriteAuntiesPodcastFollow us:@YourFavoriteAuntiesPod@ShaMarianRobinson@_NiaDanielle📬 Mail:1321 Upland Dr. #10361Houston, Texas 77043Don’t forget to like, comment, and share with a friend who loves love 🤎✨See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

We’re back and Nia has a ring!It’s Season 8 premiere, Nia shares the story behind her engagement how the relationship grew, what led to the proposal, and the lessons learned along the way… plus a little tea 👀If you’ve ever wondered how you know it’s your person, this episode is for you.💍 Celebrate With NiaHoneyfund:https://www.honeyfund.com/site/stokes-smith🏆 Vote Your Favorite Aunties (Podcast of the Year)https://blackchristianinfluencers.typeform.com/to/VAi3QQYv?typeform-source=www.bciexperience.com💕 Galentine’s Virtual Event (Friday the 13th)Tickets:https://www.eventbrite.com/e/galentines-night-with-your-favorite-aunties-tickets-1981531292437?aff=oddtdtcreator🎙️ Join Patreon (bonus & exclusive episodes)https://Patreon.com/YourFavoriteAunties✨ Shop Merchhttps://YFAShop.com💖 Support the ShowPayPal: https://paypal.me/yfaPodCashApp: $YFAuntiesPodZelle: [email protected]📺 Subscribe: YouTube.com/@YourFavoriteAuntiesPodcastFollow us:@YourFavoriteAuntiesPod@ShaMarianRobinson@_NiaDanielle📬 Mail:1321 Upland Dr. #10361Houston, Texas 77043Don’t forget to like, comment, and share with a friend who loves love 🤎✨:.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

The Aunties play a fun (and slightly messy 👀) Fill-in-the-Blank game that sparks all kinds of girl talk. We reflect on this past year the highs, the hard lessons, the growth, and the glow-ups while sharing our hopes and encouragement for the new year ahead.Whether you’re celebrating a finish line or crawling into 2026, this finale will give you a dose of joy, honesty, and motivation to step into your next chapter bold, blessed, and supported. 🥂✨Tap in and get ready to laugh, reflect, and dream with us one more time this season!✨ Want Auntie Merch?Shop now: YFAShop.com🎙️ Join the Aunties on PatreonExclusive content + BTS: Patreon.com/YourFavoriteAunties💖 Support the Podcast• PayPal: paypal.me/yfaPod• Cash App: $YFAuntiesPod• Zelle: [email protected]📬 Mailing AddressNia Smith1321 Upland Dr. #10361Houston, TX 77043📸 Stay Connected• Podcast IG: @YourFavoriteAuntiesPod• Shammy: @ShamarianRobinson• Nia: @_NiaDanielleSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Your Favorite Aunties dive deep into the real emotions that come with the holiday season from joy and excitement to grief, loneliness, and seasonal depression. We’re holding space for those navigating their first holiday without someone they love, big life transitions, or just trying to push through mentally.We discuss:• The truth about seasonal depression during the holidays• How to embrace joy even when you’re grieving• Faith, therapy & medication and removing the shame• Managing expectations and protecting your peace• How to show up for people who are strugglingWhether this time of year fills your heart or feels heavy you belong here. ❤️ ✨ Want Auntie Merch?Shop now: YFAShop.com🎙️ Join the Aunties on PatreonGet exclusive content + behind-the-scenes: Patreon.com/YourFavoriteAunties💖 Support the Podcast• PayPal: paypal.me/yfaPod• Cash App: $YFAuntiesPod• Zelle: [email protected]📬 Mailing AddressNia Smith1321 Upland Dr. #10361Houston, TX 77043📸 Stay Connected• Podcast IG: @YourFavoriteAuntiesPod• Shammy: @ShamarianRobinson• Nia: @_NiaDanielleSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this week’s episode of Your Favorite Aunties Podcast, TT Sham and TT Nia are diving into gratitude, growth, and getting through the holidays. With Thanksgiving tomorrow, the Aunties get real about what they’re thankful for this season relationships, lessons, blessings, and the quiet ways God shows up.But we’re also keeping it honest: the holidays aren’t joyful for everyone. We talk openly about seasonal depression, loneliness, emotional overwhelm, and how to protect your peace when life is life-ing. From faith to boundaries to giving yourself grace, the Aunties share real tools for navigating the holiday season, staying grounded, and finding joy even in hard moments.If you’ve been feeling grateful and a little heavy at the same time, this episode is for you. Grab your plate early, tap in, and let the Aunties walk you into Thanksgiving with love, laughter, and perspective.✨ Want Auntie Merch?Shop now: YFAShop.com🎙️ Join the Aunties on PatreonGet exclusive content + behind-the-scenes: Patreon.com/YourFavoriteAunties💖 Support the Podcast• PayPal: paypal.me/yfaPod• Cash App: $YFAuntiesPod• Zelle: [email protected]📬 Mailing AddressNia Smith1321 Upland Dr. #10361Houston, TX 77043📸 Stay Connected• Podcast IG: @YourFavoriteAuntiesPod• Shammy: @ShamarianRobinson• Nia: @_NiaDanielleSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.