Sex That Feels Like A Drug

There is so much bad sex advice out there. And, sadly, a lot of people hear it, try it and things end up worse than they were.Sex With Sue's, Sue McGarvie has been a leading expert on this since the early 90s and on today's episode of Turned On With Sue And John, she addresses a lot of the bad advice, and sets the record straight on what DOES work!Including new sex ideas to hear things up and the wet and wild upgrade using fruits! And she'll introduce you to the "gum job" a candy that actually helps you give a better blow job!We're also going to send Hollywood to the naughty corner because a lot of what it has taught us is just... Well... Hollywood fiction.For our swinger friends - a new mega-swinger-centre is being built - we'll tell you where and we'll also tell you how to explore it FREE! You're welcome!This week's sex in the news includes a man arrested for stealing and then trying to re-sell boner pills at one of the largest swinger hot spots in the world, and a strongman who not only pulled car with his dick, he did it while his dick was on fire.And, a question about face sitting from someone worried that her partner may suffocate.Finally, our friends from the Adult Fun Superstore in Ottawa Canada (adultfun dot ca) introduce us to the new Delightful Vulva And Breast Pump from Shots!We're online @ www.turnedonpodcast.comOn Fetlife: TurnedOnPodcastJohn on Fetlife: MegahurtsEmail Sue: [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Have you ever just been in the presence of someone, even just in passing, and get an undeniable, overwhelming feeling of desire for them? Instantly?Today's conversation is all about lust.Merrium-Webster defines it as:usually intense or unbridled sexual desire : lasciviousnessan intense longing : cravingto have an intense desire or need : crave specifically : to have a sexual urgeWe'll also reveal what sex workers have to say about the subject.Sue's experienced lust. John too. Have you? Tell us your story of lust at our links below!Also today... We dispel some swinger myths - and there are a lot of them!We talk to the team at Lelo about some of their incredible toys, and Raven from The Adult Fun Superstor (adultfun.ca) introduces you to her toy of the week - the Aluna Femme Fun!Plus - The three secrets that will make your sex life better immediately, sex in the news this week and loads more of the sex education you wish someone would have given you years ago!Our website: www.turnedonpodcast.com (subscribe to Sue's newsletter, send your questions, rate our podcast and more)Turned On on Fetlife: TurnedOnPodcastJohn on Fetlife: MegahurtsSue's email: [email protected]'s email: [email protected] Photo: Photo by Klara Kulikova on Unsplashhttps://unsplash.com/@kkalerry?utm_source=unsplash&utm_medium=referral&utm_content=creditCopyText Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

The flowing hair, the six pack abs, the tall dark and handsome figure who looks like he belongs on the cover of a romance novel... He is not what women really want.We'll even take a huge dick and fat wallet out of the equation.Today, Sex With Sue's Sue McGarvie reveals the things that women REALLY want from a man. We'll dive into "Looksmaxing" and even "dickmaxing" on this episode.Also today, the exit strategy for swingers, because sometimes you've had enough of the lifestyle, need to take a break, or have discovered that it's just not for you anymore. You always hear about how to get IN, but how do you gracefully find your way out?We even get you caught up on sex in the news - including the latest about sex in space, 83 year old Iris is banging a lot of younger men, a new survey looks at what is ruining things in the bedroom for Canadians, and outdated sex laws that are still on the books in the USA right now.And our friends at The Adult Fun Superstore introduce us to the latest a fun, new toy for couples from WeVibe!Our website: www.turnedonpodcast.comOn Fetlife: @TurnedOnPodcastSue: [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Today’s oral presentation is all about… Oral!
We’ll introduce you to Jasmine, who partnered with Sue last weekend for an entire workshop devoted to oral sex!  As a working professional, she’ll let you in on all kinds of tips (pardon the pun) and tricks! Sue also discusses some of the biggest oral sex myths on this episode as well as her “sassy sex secret” of the week; the frozen grape trick!  This sounds SOOOO fun!For our swinger friends, we get into all the things swinging has taught us, and others in the lifestyle. If you’re new to swinging, these are some of the things you’ll experience as you play more!Some incredible questions from YOU again this week.  One listener cannot visualize things in their mind and wants to know if that’s normal.  We promise you, it is, and we have some work-arounds for you to try!  Another listener is frustrated trying to orgasm, often spending up to an hour with no success.  They’d like Sue’s recipe for “scream cream” please.  Sue happily shares that today.Finally, we address some comments found on Reddit on the topic of oral sex and also what research has to say on the matter! Sue’s Newsletter: https://www.turnedonpodcast.com/newsletterQuestions for Sue: [email protected] website: https://www.turnedonpodcast.comUs on Fetlife: https://fetlife.com/TurnedOnPodcastJohn on Fetlife: https://fetlife.com/MegahurtsAnd our friends at the Adult Fun Superstore: www.adultfun.ca Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Perhaps you see more of it because of the algorithm... Especially if you're in the lifestyle already and tend to search a lot of content on ethical non monogamy. But, swinging does seem to be much more common online and in the public discourse than ever. Has it become TOO mainstream? We dive into that today.Also this week, listeners ask if their love of seeing sweaty women at the gym is unusual, loads of questions about grooming in advance of a live seminar Sue is conducting this week about oral sex, and another listener wants to know about swinger burnout.Sue will also let you in on what she'd include in your summer sex festival survival pack, and on her Sassy Sex Secrets it's the $4 Hardware Store / Drug Store toy that you can't pass up!Plus, the gang at the Adult Fun Superstore in Ottawa Canada introduce us to the toy their employees chose as this week's staff pick!Subscribe to Sue's newsletter and hear every episode of Turned On at www.turnedonpodcast.comFetlife: TurnedOnPodcastJohn on Fetlife: MegahurtsQuestions for Sue: [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What makes you feel desired? A touch? A text? Holding hands? Today we talk about how to open up to your partner about what YOU need from them in order to feel desired... And sexy!On this episode we offer up some examples of questions you can ask them, or even ask yourself in order to start getting more of what you need in order to feel connected.Sue will also give you 10 Desire Builders; things you can put into practice to develop that closer bond, and we'll discuss the things that men and women want when it comes to desire. They're not always the same, and, some of the things you have been doing to express your desire, may not be things that your partner even recognizes as your love language.On our "So You're A Swinger" segment this week, we'll help you go from chatting to scoring at the next swinger event you attend. PLUS - John shares details of his tour of what he calls "the most perfect, elegant, and fully equipped exclusive lifestyle club" he's ever seen! Indulgence VIP in Owen Sound, Ontario Canada. https://www.indulgencevip.comThis is a fun conversation that we hope helps you have some fun conversations of your own this week!Thanks for getting Turned On With Sue And John!Our website: www.turnedonpodcast.comFetlife: @ TurnedOnPodcast (show) | @ Megahurts (John)Sue: [email protected]: [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ballmaxing. It was the subject of an article published a few days ago that caught our attention and it's something Sue gets a lot of questions about.For a variety of reasons, people love to experiment with their privates! From injecting saline into the balls, to inserting sounding instruments into the urethra, to weights, to rings, to pills and countless other things that many find make things feel oh-so-much-better.We'll even share some of the things people on Reddit have admitted they're into or have tried. A Barbie arm? Really? Really!For our swingers this week, a talk about bio-hacking to be a player.... And a look at some of the weird things that are bound to happen in the lifestyle.Sue's Sexy Sex Secret this week: the fake exit and other things that will get you smacked or have the O of your life. Online: www.turnedonpodcast.comOn Fetlife: @TurnedOnPodcastJohn on Fetlife: @MegahurtsSue: [email protected]: [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It's a hot topic on Reddit right now... How awkward and weird humans are about our sexual desires, kinks, and behaviors around sex.On this episode we get into WHY we're so weird.From how we eroticize, literally, everything from spread sheets to bed sheets, to aliens. We discuss what it is that attracts so many of us to people who many would refer to as "the crazy ones" and our weird sex quirks.For our swinger friends, a conversation about herpes and Sue's Sexy Sex Secret this week introduces you to the KIVIN METHOD.And, we have a VERY fun guest on the show today - Ted Buras - creator of CollabGPS, a creator networking app designed to help content creators find collaborators, plan shoots and manage projects. CollabGPS.com | TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@collabgps | IG: https://www.instagram.com/collabgps | X: https://x.com/collabgpsAnd find us on your preferred podcast platform, on Youtube and on Fetlife @TurnedOnPodcast - our website where you can subscribe to Sue's newsletter, interact with the show, and read hundreds of kinky confession from our listeners is www.turnedonpodcast.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Today, in a nutshell, we're going to address why most sex feels... Fine... But not amazing.You're going to get amazing tips on how to slow things down, how to connect better, and by the end of this episode you'll have incredible tools to put to use to better understand why your body responds the way it does before, during and after sex, and Sue will even set you up with 14 things you can do to up your pleasure all over.We answer two incredible questions from you, our listener/viewer this week. One person wants to know about post-orgasm clarity, and another is looking for tips on how to manage their sexual energy so that nobody in their dynamic feels short changed.Sue's Sassy Sex Secret this week is a tip she learned from the other "Sex With Sue" Sue Johansen... It's the Pulse & Peanut Butter Trick!For our swinger friends, this week's So You're A Swinger Segment is an absolute eye opener - The laundry list. The things you should discuss after every lifestyle encounter and WHEN you should discuss them. This is invaluable!Thank you clubm4.com in Toronto for partnering with us for our swinger segments!Plus - we have two of the HOTTEST Kinky Confessions we've ever received on this show! WARNING: Your panties will get wet. You may want to remove them now as a preventative measure.This and so much more on the podcast that gives you the sex education you wish someone pulled you aside years ago and gave you!We're online at www.turnedonpodcast.comFetlife: @TurnedOnPodcastJohn on Fetlife: @MegahurtsSue: www.sexwithsue.com Email: [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It's National Superhero Day today and your Superhero Of Sex - Sue McGarvie is here to talk about the sex that feels like a drug. The kind that can turn into a problem.Sue and John discuss what people mean when they say "sex addict" plus compulsive masturbation and the "addictive partner phenomenon." What is is about that person who you can't stop thinking about? Also how early porn use can predict your mental health and, Sue's Sassy Sex Secret of the week: The chapstick / lip gloss trick!We're online at www.turnedonpodcast.com and on Fetlife: TurnedOnPodcastEmail Sue at: [email protected] John at: [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.