EP 18: Are You Parenting From Your Traumas?

Join us for an engaging discussion on family dynamics and identity exploration as I, Ariel, welcome my amazing cousin Cameron to the podcast. Together, we reflect on our experiences growing up as Black women and the powerful influence of family on shaping our identities. In the *Her Voice, Her Story* segment, I celebrate Cameron, not only as a remarkable cousin but also as a cherished friend.   We dive into the generational differences within our family, exploring the older generation's preference for privacy and formality compared to our more open, candid approach. This conversation shines a light on the structured nature of our family gatherings, steeped in tradition and etiquette, while also highlighting how our understanding of these dynamics has shifted over time.   We also explore the complexities of parenting and communication styles, reflecting on the lessons learned from our own upbringing and how they now shape our approach to raising children. Emphasizing the value of open communication, we challenge traditional views that equate gentle parenting with weakness. Instead, we advocate for fostering environments where children feel heard, respected, and empowered to express their needs and boundaries confidently.       Follow Ariel: Instagram: @‌the_arielb TikTok: @‌the_arielb Website: This Too Shall Pass Podcast ‌ Watch Full Video On YouTube ‌ Email your letters/advice questions to [email protected] Join the email list HERE and dont miss an episode or Exclusive merch drop This podcast is produced and edited by Idea to Launch Productions

Hey Tribe!! We know it’s been a while, but we’re back with a brand new episode of This Too Shall Pass! This week, we’re diving into the topic of child support. Now, I want to be clear—I’m not an attorney. What I’ll be sharing is based on my own experience navigating the child support system here in Florida.   In this episode, we answer listener questions on everything from starting the process to dealing with situations where the other parent lives in a different state or even another country. The insights we share aren’t just for single moms—fathers out there are also doing their best with the tools they have, trying to ensure the best possible outcomes for their children. Tune in, take a listen, and walk away with some valuable information on this important topic!   Follow Ariel: Instagram: @‌the_arielb TikTok: @‌the_arielb Website: This Too Shall Pass Podcast ‌ Watch Full Video On YouTube ‌ Email your letters/advice questions to [email protected] Join the email list HERE and dont miss an episode or Exclusive merch drop This podcast is produced and edited by Idea to Launch Productions

Join me, Ariel, on this week's episode of "This Too Shall Pass," where I share my unexpected journey from being let go from my job to discovering the power of social media as a source of multiple income streams. I'll open up about the unsteady yet hopeful transition and tackle a listener's question about high-yield savings accounts. Learn about my experiences with American Express and UFB Bank, and gain insights into how these accounts work. We'll also explore the challenges of maintaining gratitude while juggling motherhood, with children ranging from preschool to high school, and finding financial stability amidst life's unpredictability.   In our discussion on personal health and family dynamics, we touch on the complexities of balancing personal health, motherhood, and personal growth. Hear about my struggles with weight gain, the importance of understanding family health history, and the challenges of stepping out of my comfort zone. We'll also embrace the joys of summer with kids and the simplicity of daily life without school-year stress. Plus, I share the mixed emotions surrounding a co-parent's move to Florida and the intricate dynamics of extended family relationships. And, for a lighter note, get ready to laugh at the humorous and awkward moments that come with dating.       Follow Ariel: Instagram: @‌the_arielb TikTok: @‌the_arielb Website: This Too Shall Pass Podcast ‌ Watch Full Video On YouTube ‌ Email your letters/advice questions to [email protected] Join the email list HERE and dont miss an episode or Exclusive merch drop This podcast is produced and edited by Idea to Launch Productions

  How do you navigate the challenging maze of survival guilt while raising five kids on your own? Discover the raw and emotional journey of a single mother who finds hope and inspiration through community support and personal growth.    This week's episode of "This Too Shall Pass" is a heartfelt exploration of my life, as I grapple with the complex emotions tied to survival guilt and the unwavering gratitude I have for those who help my family thrive. Listen as I share how the Orlando City Rec center has been a beacon of opportunity for my children, especially my 16-year-old son, Andre, and my 13-year-old daughter, Haley. Their stories highlight the indispensable role of community programs and mentorship in shaping the futures of young lives.       Follow Ariel: Instagram: @‌the_arielb TikTok: @‌the_arielb Website: This Too Shall Pass Podcast ‌ Watch Full Video On YouTube ‌ Email your letters/advice questions to [email protected] Join the email list HERE and dont miss an episode or Exclusive merch drop This podcast is produced and edited by Idea to Launch Productions

How do different parenting styles shape our children’s emotional resilience and safety awareness? Join me, Ariel, as I navigate the intricate world of single parenting alongside my daughter Aaryn and my sister Akilah. We dive into the complexities of managing conflicts, emphasizing the importance of communication over physical discipline. Aaryn shares her personal growth story, and we highlight the invaluable feedback from our dear listeners who have become a part of our supportive community.     Gentle parenting, effective communication, and the nuances of sibling relationships take center stage, offering insights that go beyond traditional parenting methods. This episode is a heartfelt exploration of family dynamics, personal growth, and fostering resilience through open and honest communication.   Follow Ariel: Instagram: @‌the_arielb TikTok: @‌the_arielb Website: This Too Shall Pass Podcast ‌ Watch Full Video On YouTube ‌ Email your letters/advice questions to [email protected] or call 321-300-6082  Join the email list HERE and don’t miss an episode or Exclusive merch drop This podcast is produced and edited by Idea to Launch Productions

What does parenthood look like without the traditional authoritative fear often emphasized in our culture? Join us on "This Too Shall Pass" as we explore the raw and honest journey of single motherhood within the black community. From the cultural nuances of enjoying an espresso martini to the laughter-filled yet revealing conversations it sparks, we share personal stories that highlight the struggles and triumphs of parenting five children solo. Carla and Paola join me as we shift the conversation to my apprehensions about re-entering the dating scene, navigating the murky waters of online dating, and exploring the hesitant yet hopeful forays into platforms like Hinge.   Our conversation takes a deeper turn as we discuss the importance of co-parenting, personal growth, and the unique challenges of raising children, particularly boys. We reflect on the influence of upbringing on love languages and the struggle to foster independence and responsibility in our kids while maintaining love and support. Personal anecdotes reveal the pressures of being the eldest sibling and balancing household chores, emphasizing the need for positive and respectful parent-child relationships. Through it all, we navigate the societal and familial expectations that shape our parenting journey, striving for a balance that allows our children to flourish.     Follow Ariel: Instagram: @‌the_arielb TikTok: @‌the_arielb Website: This Too Shall Pass Podcast ‌ Watch Full Video On YouTube ‌ Email your letters/advice questions to [email protected] or call 321-300-6082  Join the email list HERE and don’t miss an episode or Exclusive merch drop This podcast is produced and edited by Idea to Launch Productions

Join me on a journey through the complexities of personal growth and parenting as we navigate the tough waters of breaking generational curses. Listen in as I share my candid experiences as a single mom of five, handling everything from the importance of self-check-ins to the challenges of maintaining discipline and the power of non-verbal communication in teaching our children life lessons. From the trenches of single parenthood to the front lines of family dynamics, this episode is a heartfelt exploration of the trials and triumphs that shape us. Follow Ariel: Instagram: @‌the_arielb TikTok: @‌the_arielb Website: This Too Shall Pass Podcast ‌ Watch Full Video On YouTube ‌ Email your letters/advice questions to [email protected] Join the email list HERE and dont miss an episode or Exclusive merch drop This podcast is produced and edited by Idea to Launch Productions

Hey tribe we’re back as promised with another episode! Listen in as we explore the evolving challenges of parenting in the digital era, where the virtual playgrounds have become the new norm, creating a generational shift in children's social and play habits. We talk about the impact this has on family life and the importance of understanding and respecting our children's individual preferences. I also address the tricky landscape of real estate in Orlando, voicing the frustrations many face with the rental and housing market, and inviting you to weigh in with your experiences and solutions.   So grab your headphones and let's navigate these topics together, fostering a space for learning, laughter, and a reminder that through it all, we're not alone.   Follow Ariel: Instagram: @‌the_arielb TikTok: @‌the_arielb Website: This Too Shall Pass Podcast ‌ Watch Full Video On YouTube ‌ Email your letters/advice questions to [email protected] Join the email list HERE and dont miss an episode or Exclusive merch drop This podcast is produced and edited by Idea to Launch Productions

Can we ever truly heal from the scars of our past, or is it more about the miles we put between ourselves and the memories that once pained us? Get ready to unwrap this question as I, Ariel, take you through my own personal expedition of healing, single motherhood, and the brave steps toward new beginnings in love.    Join me for an episode where we celebrate my son Andre's sweet 16 and grapple with the joys and challenges of raising five unique spirits, each with their own story and co-parenting dynamic. Amidst the festivities and reflections, we also ponder the impact of companionship and community in our lives, especially when faced with the longing for a partner's support on this wild ride called family.     ‌ Follow Ariel: Instagram: @‌the_arielb TikTok: @‌the_arielb Website: This Too Shall Pass Podcast ‌ Watch Full Video On YouTube ‌ Email your letters/advice questions to [email protected] Join the email list HERE and dont miss an episode or Exclusive merch drop This podcast is produced and edited by Idea to Launch Productions

Listen in as I kick off the year with raw reflections on single motherhood and the relentless quest for personal growth. With the fresh canvas of 2024 before us, I share the complexities of navigating absent fathers and child support, while setting my sights on spiritual fortitude, health, and financial savvy. It's about making our money work for us, building a fortress of support, and shattering stereotypes.    Join me in setting the stage for a year of transformation and invite you to share your own top three aspirations for this exciting new chapter.     Follow Ariel: Instagram: @‌the_arielb TikTok: @‌the_arielb Website: This Too Shall Pass Podcast ‌ Watch Full Video On YouTube ‌ Email your letters/advice questions to [email protected] or call 321-300-6082  Join the email list HERE and don’t miss an episode or Exclusive merch drop This podcast is produced and edited by Idea to Launch Productions