Ep #398: Eating When "Nobody Will Know"

Do you look forward to eating certain foods, or eating a lot, when nobody will know? It can be frustrating to feel so secretive, and maybe even shameful about this. You want to be able to just eat in the open, without judgement. So how can you do that? That's what I'll tell you in this episode. So listen up if you want to be more open with your eating and stop waiting for people to go away.     Interested in working with me? Go to http://www.coachkir.com/group to get all the information you need!   Find show notes and more information at https://coachkir.com/398   WHAT YOU WILL LEARN: Why you want to eat when nobody will know What to do if people are judging you for what or how much you eat How to stop wanting to eat excessive amounts of food How to get more pleasure out of less food How to feel more comfortable eating what and how much you want out in the open     FEATURED IN THIS EPISODE Awesome Free Stuff The Stop Binge Eating Group Coaching Program Episode #259: Describing Urges and Emotions Episode #359: How to feel better without eating Episode #392: Why You Overly Restrict Your Food, and How to Stop Episode #388: What It Really Means to Have Unconditional Permission to Eat What You Want

Do you usually find yourself eating when you are transitioning from one thing to the next, or when you have downtime between things? If so, then this episode is for you.   I'm going to share the top reasons why people do this and I'll also share some practical tips, that don't take a lot of time, for getting through these times without eating. Listen in to find out what they are.     Interested in working with me? Go to http://www.coachkir.com/group to get all the information you need!   Find show notes and more information at https://coachkir.com/397   WHAT YOU WILL LEARN: Why you eat during transitions and downtime How you can begin to calm yourself down quickly How you can get yourself feeling a little more pumped up, and more neutral or positive quickly What to do if you're waiting but don't have a lot of time to do anything   FEATURED IN THIS EPISODE Awesome Free Stuff The Stop Binge Eating Group Coaching Program Episode #352: Being With Yourself Episode #212: Resting

Yolanda struggled with binge eating since she was a kid. Like so many people, restriction, emotions, and body image kept the cycle going for years.   She tried so many things to control her eating and lose the weight - seriously, you'll hear her list tons of strategies. Some worked for a while, she even had significant weight loss, but the bingeing always came back.   Until she discovered the real key, which you're going to hear about in this episode.   Now, her relationship with food, herself, and her body has transformed in ways she never imagined.   In this episode, Yolanda shares her story, the breakthroughs that finally worked, and the lessons anyone struggling with food can apply. So listen in to hear my conversation with Yolanda, a true success story.   Interested in working with me? Go to http://www.coachkir.com/group to get all the information you need!   Find show notes and more information at https://coachkir.com/396   WHAT YOU WILL LEARN: Why Yolanda started binge eating How binge eating affected her throughout the years The main things she did to stop binge eating Her advice for anyone else who has struggled with binge eating FEATURED IN THIS EPISODE Awesome Free Stuff The Stop Binge Eating Group Coaching Program  

Do you ever binge just to get it out of your system? It can feel nice to get the relief but, when you do this, you're only getting it out of your system FOR NOW. It will be back. Unless, you do something to break this cycle.   In this episode, I'm showing you how you'll break the cycle. You're going to stop bingeing to get it out of your system and do something else instead. What is it? Listen in to find out.     Interested in working with me? Go to http://www.coachkir.com/group to get all the information you need!   Find show notes and more information at https://coachkir.com/395   WHAT YOU WILL LEARN: How you can get free coaching next week What it actually means when you're feeling urges to and are thinking about bingeing Why you feel urges to binge eat Why you should binge to get it out of your system and what to do instead How to stop the cycle of feeling urges and bingeing   FEATURED IN THIS EPISODE Awesome Free Stuff The Stop Binge Eating Group Coaching Program FREE GROUP COACHING Episode #388: How to Give Yourself Unconditional Permission to Eat What You Want and Not Binge

Grazing can be an annoying and confusing habit. Sometimes it's hard to figure out why you're doing it, which also makes it hard to figure out how to stop doing it. So in today's episode, I'm going to share the most common reasons why people do it. I'll also help you to stop doing it. This doesn't have to be something you continue doing, and if you start, you can stop. Listen in to find out how you'll do it.     Interested in working with me? Go to http://www.coachkir.com/group to get all the information you need!   Find show notes and more information at https://coachkir.com/394   WHAT YOU WILL LEARN: Why you graze on food Why it can be confusing in the moment to understand why you're grazing The first step you need to take to stop yourself from continuing to eat when you're grazing What you can do if your grazing is related to your emotions One of the most useful things you can incorporate into your eating mindset How to start reconnecting to your hunger signals   FEATURED IN THIS EPISODE Awesome Free Stuff The Stop Binge Eating Group Coaching Program  

There have been so many times that people in my program have gone through breakups or divorces and just like with any other highly emotional experience, they might be feeling a strong desire to overeat or binge so they can escape the uncomfortable feelings they're feeling.   When this happens, it's important that we talk about how to manage the feelings they're feeling, rather than just eating to avoid them, and how to handle the breakup itself.   And what happens most of the time, is that in addition to the help I give to my clients, I also send them to Breakup Coach Dorothy's podcast, How To Get Over Your Ex, for additional tools, insights, tips, strategies, and concepts that will help them navigate their breakup. Dorothy is just so knowledgable about how to handle breakups that I cannot not tell them about her!   So, because I have referred her so many times, I wanted to bring her onto the podcast to share her wisdom with all of you who I haven't had the chance to refer to her.   If you're going through a breakup, or went through one awhile ago but still aren't over your ex, then this episode is for you. And even if you're not or haven't, it could still be helpful for you to listen because you might have a breakup someday and maybe not just with a romantic partner but a friend, or a job, or something else. You can gain some knowledge and prepare yourself for the possibility now. Or, you might learn something that you can share with a friend who is going through it or who will in the future. No matter where you are with breakups, there will be something you can takeaway from this episode to help yourself or someone else.   Interested in working with me? Go to http://www.coachkir.com/group to get all the information you need!   Find show notes and more information at https://coachkir.com/393   WHAT YOU WILL LEARN: Common mistakes people make when trying to get over their ex What you really need to do in order to get over your ex, without it "just taking time" How you can decrease desire and attachment for your ex What to do if you don't want to get over your ex, you just want to get back together with them   FEATURED IN THIS EPISODE Awesome Free Stuff The Stop Binge Eating Group Coaching Program How to Get Over Your Ex Podcast with Breakup Coach Dorothy Breakup Coach Dorothy's Instagram Breakup Coach Dorothy's Website  

Being too restrictive with food is one of the main causes of binge eating. If you've tried to stop being so restrictive but have had a hard time doing it, it might be because you're also doing something else. What is it? That's what I'm sharing in this episode.   When you work on why you want to overly restrict, and address why your desire to do it is there, then it will make it so much easier for you to stop doing it, which will make it easier for you to stop binge eating. So listen in to find out why you're being too restrictive and what you can do to make stopping easier.     Interested in working with me? Go to http://www.coachkir.com/group to get all the information you need!   Find show notes and more information at https://coachkir.com/392   WHAT YOU WILL LEARN: What it means to be "too restrictive" and how it causes you to binge eat What can make it hard to stop being too restrictive with food What you can do to make it easier for you to stop being too restrictive with food and to start being more relaxed and less obsessed     FEATURED IN THIS EPISODE Awesome Free Stuff The Stop Binge Eating Group Coaching Program  

When you're trying to apply the knowledge you have about stopping binge eating, and you're trying to think differently, your old thoughts that perpetuate binge eating might be really loud. They might take over and win.   If that happens, how do you make your new thoughts louder and quiet the old ones? That's what I'm showing you how to do in this episode. So listen in to find out how you can think more like a binge-free person and think more like the eater you want to be.     Interested in working with me? Go to http://www.coachkir.com/group to get all the information you need!   Find show notes and more information at https://coachkir.com/391   WHAT YOU WILL LEARN: Why your old binge and diet thoughts are so loud and dominant in your mind Why you might have a hard time believing the thoughts that will help you to stop binge eating What you can do to make your old thoughts quieter and new thoughts (and knowledge) louder     FEATURED IN THIS EPISODE Awesome Free Stuff The Stop Binge Eating Group Coaching Program  

If you just binged, and there is food leftover, you might want to throw it away so you can start fresh. You might also decide that you are NOT buying that food again….which you might decide to do if you don't have any food leftover too. But is this the right thing to do? And if you don't do that, what should you do? Those are the questions I'm answering in this episode today.   If you've wondered what's the best next steps then listen to this episode. And just so you know, I'm not just going to tell you to not throw it away and to keep buying it. This answer is more nuanced than that.     Interested in working with me? Go to http://www.coachkir.com/group to get all the information you need!   Find show notes and more information at https://coachkir.com/390   WHAT YOU WILL LEARN: Why it might not be the best idea to throw away your leftover food after a binge Tips that can help you to change your relationship with the foods you binge on so you can buy and eat them without bingeing on them Something really important that you must do if you do decide to not eat a food you binged on again     FEATURED IN THIS EPISODE Awesome Free Stuff The Stop Binge Eating Group Coaching Program Episode #388: How To Give Yourself Unconditional Permission to Eat What You Want and Not Binge

Today's episode is for the moms!   You'll hear a conversation I had with Pam Howard, who is a mom and who coaches moms, that will help you to prioritize yourself so you can do the work to stop binge eating. We also talk about overcoming mom-guilt, stress-eating, and examples of food restriction and intuitive eating with her own kids.   Then after our conversation, I'm sharing some thoughts and strategies that can help you to help your kids have a healthy relationship with food.   If you've ever been concerned about your kids taking on your unhealthy eating habits, or if you've ever had a hard time making time for yourself to work on yourself, then this episode is for you!   Interested in working with me? Go to http://www.coachkir.com/group to get all the information you need!   Find show notes and more information at https://coachkir.com/389   WHAT YOU WILL LEARN: How to make more time to work on yourself and not feel guilty How to handle stress as a mom so you're not stress eating all the time Personal examples of restriction and intuitive eating with Pam's kids How you can help your kids to have a healthy relationship with food What to do if you notice your kids are eating a lot How to have more fun and pleasure as a mom   FEATURED IN THIS EPISODE Awesome Free Stuff The Stop Binge Eating Group Coaching Program Pam Howard's Website Pam Howard's Instagram Less Drama More Mama Podcast