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M's the Word: Mum Hacks & Mum Guilt Back-to-school season brings a very specific kind of chaos — and with it, a fresh wave of mum guilt. In this episode of M's the Word, Sarah, Gemma, Shelley and Jade come together for an honest, unfiltered chat about the realities of juggling motherhood and work. They talk about where mum guilt tends to creep in the most, which part of the back-to-school routine they each find hardest to manage, and whether that guilt ever really fades once you're back at your desk. Plus, they share the practical mum hacks that have actually stood the test of time in their own homes — no fluff, just what works. Whether you're heading back to the school run this September or navigating the guilt of being a working mum, this episode is a reminder that you're not doing it alone.

And just like that, we've reached the final step. Exchange & Completion - the moment you've been waiting for! In this last episode of On The Ladder, our exclusive series for first-time buyers in the UK, I'm joined by the brilliant Gemma Bennett to talk you through exactly what happens at the finish line. We cover: - What exchange actually means (and why it's such a big deal)  - What happens between exchange and completion - What to expect on completion day - funds, keys, and that surreal moment it becomes yours - The jobs you don't want to forget - buildings insurance, removals & final checks If you've been with us from episode one, thank you. If you're jumping in here at the end, welcome - go back and watch the full series, we've designed it to hold your hand from saving that deposit right through to getting the keys. You've got this. And we're so proud of you for getting On The Ladder.  

🎙️ Out today on M's the Word! 1.8 million homeowners are coming off a fixed rate this year, are you one of them? In this episode, we dive into everything you need to know about remortgaging in 2026, from timing your move to using your home's equity to your advantage. 🔑 In this episode: Remortgaging in 2026, what's changed? 1.8 million people are coming off fixed rates this year Are clients coming in earlier this year, or still leaving it too late? What does "locking in a rate" actually mean? How you can extend your home using your mortgage Other smart ways to use your mortgage to help you financially Can you clear debt with your mortgage? 🎯 Case study: Judith's dilemma, her fixed rate ends in 4 months, she's got credit card debt and wants to extend her kitchen. Should she wait for rates to drop? If you're wondering whether now's the right time to remortgage, this episode will help you get to the right decision for you. 

Work-life balance comes with a lot of tabs, and one of the biggest ones is constantly running: meals. "What's for dinner?" - the dreaded end-of-day question can turn into a real source of stress when you're juggling everything else on your plate (pun intended 😉).  But nutrition for us and our families matters too much to skip the conversation. So in this episode of M's The Word, we're talking meal prep: how we plan, what actually works for us, and simple tips to make it a calm, enjoyable part of the week instead of a last-minute scramble.

How to Buy a Home With Just a £3,000 Deposit | Shared Ownership Explained In this episode, Sarah and Gemma break down shared ownership, one of the most overlooked ways to get on the property ladder with a fraction of the deposit you'd normally need. Shared ownership lets you buy a portion of a property (anywhere from 10% to 75%), while paying rent on the remaining share to a housing association or developer. It means a much smaller deposit and a much lower barrier to entry. In this episode you'll learn: - What shared ownership actually is - How the percentages and rent work - A real example: buying 25% of a £250,000 home for just a £3,125 deposit - Who shared ownership is best suited for If you've been priced out of buying because of deposit savings, this episode is for you. 

You've saved for the deposit. You've got the keys. You're picking out mugs and tea towels in Ikea. But then... the bills start. Curtains. A kettle. Cleaning supplies. The stuff nobody puts on a moving-in checklist, and it can quietly add up to several hundred pounds, right when your budget's already stretched thin.   In this episode of On The Ladder, our exclusive series for first time buyers, I talk through why a "home setup fund" should be part of your budgeting from day on, not an afterthought once you've already moved in.  We cover:  ✅ Why the deposit isn't the last big cost ✅ How much to realistically set aside for home essentials ✅ How to avoid relying on credit cards to get settled ✅ Simple ways to start building your setup fund early If you're a first time buyer (or about to be one), this episode could save you a lot of financial stress in those first few weeks in your new home. 🔔 Subscribe for more from On The Ladder, helping first time buyers get on the property ladder with confidence.

47 tabs open. Voice-noting while making dinner. Replying to emails on the school run. Sound familiar? In this episode of M's The Word, we're tackling multitasking — the habit so many of us wear as a badge of honour, but one that might be costing us more than we realise. Plenty of us proudly call ourselves multitaskers, certain that doing several things at once makes us more productive. But the science tells a different story: while our brains can handle simple, automatic actions at the same time, they aren't built to focus on more than one attention-heavy task at once. So why do we keep doing it? Is this really how we want to live, and more importantly, is it what we want to teach our children? We dig into why multitasking has become the norm (especially for busy mums), what's actually happening in our brains when we juggle tasks, the pressure to do it all, and whether there's a better way. So, which are you - a proud multitasker or a one-job-at-a-time triumph? We'd love to hear from you. Enjoyed this episode? Follow M's The Word wherever you get your podcasts, and leave us a rating and review - it really helps others find the show.

Do you feel guilty when you prioritise joy? If it doesn't fall into the category of productivity or making money, does it get relegated in your head? Somewhere between responsibility, motherhood and bills, so many of us stopped making time for the things that light us up. In this episode of M's The Word, Sarah Tucker is joined by Jade, Gemma and Shelley to talk about Muse Medicine — the creative, playful, "just because" moments that bring you back to yourself. The goals, the ambitions and the masterplans are all valid, and as ambitious, driven women we cherish the choice to pursue them. But life is lived in the moments in between, and sometimes you need a little muse medicine to smooth out your edges. When you aren't measuring or judging your contribution, you're simply present — doing something that lights you up. In this episode we discuss: Why joy so often gets relegated behind productivity and profit The guilt that comes with doing something "just because" How motherhood, responsibility and bills changed our relationship with play Finding your way back to the things that make you feel creative and lit up So tell us, what's your muse medicine? Connect with us: Instagram: @the_mortgagemum Website: www.themortgagemum.co.uk

In this episode of On The Ladder, our exclusive series for first-time buyers, we're talking about one of the most overlooked steps in the home-buying process: the survey. It might feel like an extra cost you don't need, but a survey can reveal hidden issues like structural damage, damp, and subsidence before you commit to buying. Skip it, and you could be signing up for expensive surprises down the line. Watch to find out what surveyors actually check for, the different types of surveys available, and why this step could save you thousands as a first-time buyer. 🪜 New episodes of On The Ladder every month, subscribe so you don't miss out!

Could your child BUY a home instead of renting at university? In this episode of On the Ladder, we're exploring the Buy for University mortgage from Loughborough Building Society, and it could be a game-changer for students and their families. With tuition fees at £9,535 a year and average student rent now around £563 a month, so many parents are asking: is there a smarter way? A Buy for University mortgage allows a student to buy a property near their uni, live in one room, and rent the spare rooms to fellow students, often helping to cover the mortgage payments along the way. In this episode, we cover: ✅ What a Buy for University mortgage actually is, and how it works ✅ Who can apply, and the property restrictions to know about (max 3 bedrooms) ✅ How renting rooms to other students can help cover the costs ✅ Whether it could be the right step for your family On the Ladder is our exclusive series for first-time buyers, created by Sarah Tucker, founder of The Mortgage Mum, here to hold your hand through every step of your home-buying journey. If you found this helpful, don't forget to like, subscribe and share with someone who needs to see it, and if you have any questions, pop them in the comments. Find out more: https://www.theloughborough.co.uk/