It’s taken me longer than I’d like to admit to learn that “more” isn’t always the answer. More space, more stuff, more goals, more plans… they sound good in theory. But in reality? More often leads to burnout, not contentment. The more I tried to add, the more scattered I felt. And eventually, I had to ask myself the question no one wants to face: What if I already have enough and just didn’t notice?
So this is a reflection on enoughness. Not in a theoretical, minimalist sort of way, but in the real-life, real-mess, small-flat-with-kids kind of way. Because if there’s one place that’s taught me how to live inside the word enough, it’s this 650-square-foot home, with its shared bedrooms, balcony garden, books stacked in corners, and never-quite-empty laundry basket.
From “Passing Through” to Choosing to Stay
When we first moved in, it felt temporary. A stepping stone. Something we’d outgrow. That’s the story, isn’t it? That small homes are a phase to get through before you graduate to something bigger. Bigger house, bigger life. It’s what we’re told to aim for.
But somewhere along the way, I stopped waiting for the upgrade. I stopped planning the next move. I stopped thinking of this space as something I had to get out of and started seeing it as something I could grow into.
And that changed everything.
Small Space, Big Lessons
Living small has forced us to be deliberate. We can’t accumulate without consequence. Every item has to earn its keep. Every corner has to work. But that’s not a burden, it’s a gift. It’s made us intentional. It’s made us creative. It’s made us notice what we truly value and what we really don’t.
This home isn’t picture-perfect. It’s loud. Lived in. Sometimes chaotic. The laundry dries wherever there is space, the kids share a bedroom (ours!), and storage is… let’s call it “inventive.” But none of that feels like a limitation anymore. It feels like a choice. Not “we make it work,” but this works because we’ve chosen it.
And that? That’s enough.
Enoughness Is a Mindset
This way of living has changed how I see everything. It’s not about settling. It’s about rooting into what’s already here. Enoughness, for me, has become a kind of rebellion, a refusal to keep chasing just because the world says I should.
And it’s everywhere. It shows up in our home education, not as a curated Pinterest-perfect setup, but as learning that happens at the kitchen table, on the sofa, out on walks, in the real rhythms of our life. We don’t need a separate classroom or a shelf full of printables. We need books, conversation, curiosity and space to be together. That’s enough.
Cooking Slower & Living Deeper
In the kitchen, enoughness tastes like from-scratch meals made with simple ingredients and zero pressure to be impressive. Our kitchen isn’t huge. Our tools are basic. But the food is real, made with love, and often stirred while someone reads out loud or tells me a wild story about the Ice Age.
We grow what we can, even on a second floor balcony and our allotment. We preserve what we’re able to. We waste less. We eat better.
Building a Business That Doesn’t Burn Me Out
It’s also shaped the way I run my business. I’ve stopped buying into the idea that growth always means scaling. Bigger isn’t always better, not if it costs me my time, my values, or my presence with my family. I want my work to fit inside my life, not overtake it.
Enoughness in business means building something sustainable. Honest. Grounded. Something that pays the bills and makes an impact without requiring me to trade my whole self to keep it afloat. For me, that’s success.
Embracing enoughness has given me breathing room.
Margin.
The space to enjoy my life instead of constantly trying to upgrade it.
This Is More Than Enough
There’s this myth that living well means always levelling up. More square footage. More output. More ambition. But I think a lot of us are just tired. Full in all the wrong ways. Drowning in choices and clutter and pressure. And in that noise, it becomes almost impossible to feel present, to enjoy what’s actually here.
But when you choose enoughness? Things start to shift. The edges soften. The pressure loosens. Life starts to feel like something you’re in, not something you’re behind on.
Let Yourself Bloom Here
So if you’re reading this from a space that feels small, or temporary, or not what you thought it would be, I want you to know: you don’t have to wait for more to feel at peace. You don’t have to move house to feel rooted. You don’t have to keep chasing. You’re allowed to stop. To breathe. To look around and say, actually, this is good.
Once you stop chasing what you think you should have, you finally get to notice what you already do.
And sometimes, that’s where the real abundance lives.
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