#198 5 Signs You’re Romanticizing Emotional Unavailability

This episode picks up where Tuesday’s leaves off. We’ll explore the subtle ways emotional unavailability can sneak into your relationships — and how you might be mistaking intensity, longing, or “almost” moments for real connection. This one’s meant to help you see the patterns, not shame yourself for them, so you can start choosing differently next time. - - - - - - - - Want that chapter checklist just Click Here! For more information on the the "From Devastated to Divorced" Course, click the HERE! Find the Prompt Journal Digital Downloads HERE! ( but they there are also included in the course, YES all 5!) Great news! Now you can find everything you need in one spot! want to listen to this podcast off of apple, visit www.JosieFalcon.com Want to know about my services, you guessed it visit www.JosieFalcon.com you can email me at [email protected] If you want to just send me a quick note, you can find me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/Josie.Falcon And lastly, If you would like to interact with me and share with others please join my Facebook group  "Separation, Divorce & Starting Over"

This classic Whitney Houston song may sound beautiful, but when you peel back the lyrics, it’s really about waiting, settling, and building your world around someone who isn’t choosing you and is not even a faithful person. In this episode, we’ll talk about how emotional neglect can wear a disguise that looks a lot like love, and how to start reclaiming your own energy when you’ve been giving it all away.   Watch the music video here! - - - - - - - - Want that chapter checklist just Click Here! For more information on the the "From Devastated to Divorced" Course, click the HERE! Find the Prompt Journal Digital Downloads HERE! ( but they there are also included in the course, YES all 5!) Great news! Now you can find everything you need in one spot! want to listen to this podcast off of apple, visit www.JosieFalcon.com Want to know about my services, you guessed it visit www.JosieFalcon.com you can email me at [email protected] If you want to just send me a quick note, you can find me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/Josie.Falcon And lastly, If you would like to interact with me and share with others please join my Facebook group  "Separation, Divorce & Starting Over"

In this episode I want you to feel it is packed with practical phrases to use when the pressure mounts. If you’ve ever felt that unspoken (or very spoken) expectation to “prove” your love — with actions, sacrifice, or silence — this episode will help you set boundaries without guilt. - - - - - - - - Want that chapter checklist just Click Here! For more information on the the "From Devastated to Divorced" Course, click the HERE! Find the Prompt Journal Digital Downloads HERE! ( but they there are also included in the course, YES all 5!) Great news! Now you can find everything you need in one spot! want to listen to this podcast off of apple, visit www.JosieFalcon.com Want to know about my services, you guessed it visit www.JosieFalcon.com you can email me at [email protected] If you want to just send me a quick note, you can find me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/Josie.Falcon And lastly, If you would like to interact with me and share with others please join my Facebook group  "Separation, Divorce & Starting Over"

This song might be one you’ve slow danced to or belted out in the car, but when you listen closely, the lyrics reveal a not-so-great message: love has to be proven, and words aren’t enough. This episode breaks down how this idea can show up in our real-life relationships and what to look out for when "proving love" turns into people pleasing. Find the music video for "MORE THAN WORDS" here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UrIiLvg58SY - - - - - - --  Want that chapter checklist just Click Here! For more information on the the "From Devastated to Divorced" Course, click the HERE! Find the Prompt Journal Digital Downloads HERE! ( but they there are also included in the course, YES all 5!) Great news! Now you can find everything you need in one spot! want to listen to this podcast off of apple, visit www.JosieFalcon.com Want to know about my services, you guessed it visit www.JosieFalcon.com you can email me at [email protected] If you want to just send me a quick note, you can find me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/Josie.Falcon And lastly, If you would like to interact with me and share with others please join my Facebook group  "Separation, Divorce & Starting Over"

This one hits close to home. Whether it’s a relationship, a version of the past, or even a story we’ve told ourselves about love, it’s easy to romanticize what we wanted something to be. In this episode, I’ll walk you through a few quiet red flags that often go unnoticed when we’re looking backward through rose-colored glasses. - - - - - - --  Want that chapter checklist just Click Here! For more information on the the "From Devastated to Divorced" Course, click the HERE! Find the Prompt Journal Digital Downloads HERE! ( but they there are also included in the course, YES all 5!) Great news! Now you can find everything you need in one spot! want to listen to this podcast off of apple, visit www.JosieFalcon.com Want to know about my services, you guessed it visit www.JosieFalcon.com you can email me at [email protected] If you want to just send me a quick note, you can find me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/Josie.Falcon And lastly, If you would like to interact with me and share with others please join my Facebook group  "Separation, Divorce & Starting Over"

This months prompt and how best to use it: “When you think about love, what stories have you carried with you — and where did they come from? A song? A movie? Something you were told growing up?” Take a few quiet minutes to reflect on the romantic beliefs you’ve internalized over the years. Which ones shaped how you loved — or stayed — in your relationship? Are there ideas that no longer feel true? Which ones still feel like a part of you, and which ones are asking to be rewritten? You’re not blaming yourself — you’re just getting curious. Because healing your story often starts with noticing who helped write it. - - - - - - --  Want that chapter checklist just Click Here! For more information on the the "From Devastated to Divorced" Course, click the HERE! Find the Prompt Journal Digital Downloads HERE! ( but they there are also included in the course, YES all 5!) Great news! Now you can find everything you need in one spot! want to listen to this podcast off of apple, visit www.JosieFalcon.com Want to know about my services, you guessed it visit www.JosieFalcon.com you can email me at [email protected] If you want to just send me a quick note, you can find me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/Josie.Falcon And lastly, If you would like to interact with me and share with others please join my Facebook group  "Separation, Divorce & Starting Over"  

When you start showing up as the version of yourself that’s finally honest, it can rattle a few cages. In this episode, I’m giving you five things to say when someone makes you feel guilty, wrong, or too much for growing. These aren’t snappy comebacks. They’re grounding reminders to help you stay rooted in who you’re becoming. - - - - - - --  Want that chapter checklist just Click Here! For more information on the the "From Devastated to Divorced" Course, click the HERE! Find the Prompt Journal Digital Downloads HERE! ( but they there are also included in the course, YES all 5!) Great news! Now you can find everything you need in one spot! want to listen to this podcast off of apple, visit www.JosieFalcon.com Want to know about my services, you guessed it visit www.JosieFalcon.com you can email me at [email protected] If you want to just send me a quick note, you can find me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/Josie.Falcon And lastly, If you would like to interact with me and share with others please join my Facebook group  "Separation, Divorce & Starting Over"

This episode is a little fire, a little heart. We’re exploring what it really means to stop shrinking yourself for the comfort of others, and how that shift can feel both empowering and lonely. If you’ve been second-guessing who you’re becoming because someone doesn’t get it, this one is for you. - - - - - - --  Want that chapter checklist just Click Here! For more information on the the "From Devastated to Divorced" Course, click the HERE! Find the Prompt Journal Digital Downloads HERE! ( but they there are also included in the course, YES all 5!) Great news! Now you can find everything you need in one spot! want to listen to this podcast off of apple, visit www.JosieFalcon.com Want to know about my services, you guessed it visit www.JosieFalcon.com you can email me at [email protected] If you want to just send me a quick note, you can find me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/Josie.Falcon And lastly, If you would like to interact with me and share with others please join my Facebook group  "Separation, Divorce & Starting Over"

Let’s be honest. Most of us have a silent scoreboard in our heads when it comes to healing. This episode unpacks five sneaky ways you might be judging your journey unfairly, and how to gently shift your focus back to what actually matters: peace, clarity, and your pace. - - - - - - --  Want that chapter checklist just Click Here! For more information on the the "From Devastated to Divorced" Course, click the HERE! Find the Prompt Journal Digital Downloads HERE! ( but they there are also included in the course, YES all 5!) Great news! Now you can find everything you need in one spot! want to listen to this podcast off of apple, visit www.JosieFalcon.com Want to know about my services, you guessed it visit www.JosieFalcon.com you can email me at [email protected] If you want to just send me a quick note, you can find me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/Josie.Falcon And lastly, If you would like to interact with me and share with others please join my Facebook group  "Separation, Divorce & Starting Over"

This episode is a deeper look at why you might still be feeling stuck or low, even when you’ve been actively journaling, reflecting, and going to therapy. I talk about why emotional growth doesn’t always feel like confidence right away, and how your worth is not something you earn. You already have it. The challenge is learning how to see it again. - - - - - - - - - - Want that chapter checklist just Click Here! For more information on the the "From Devastated to Divorced" Course, click the HERE! Find the Prompt Journal Digital Downloads HERE! ( but they there are also included in the course, YES all 5!) Great news! Now you can find everything you need in one spot! want to listen to this podcast off of apple, visit www.JosieFalcon.com Want to know about my services, you guessed it visit www.JosieFalcon.com you can email me at [email protected] If you want to just send me a quick note, you can find me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/Josie.Falcon And lastly, If you would like to interact with me and share with others please join my Facebook group  "Separation, Divorce & Starting Over"