Ep 230: Grief Doesn't Give a F*ck About Your Business

Scaling Your Business... WITH WHAT F*CKING TIME?!I'm recording this podcast from my CAR while running errands to renovate our basement into a Pilates studio/playroom for my girls. LOL.Because I'm now a widowed mother of two, my girls need every ounce of me right now, I'm doing hours of therapy & healing work, AND we're scaling Breadwinner Energy®.So when women tell me they want to make more money, grow their businesses, make a bigger impact & still have an actual LIFE...My question is always WITH WHAT FUCKING TIME?!I've spent over 10 years building businesses, and I've also spent a lot of those years in survival mode.From growing up in poverty to working every hour of the day because I was terrified of going BACK to poverty, to navigating motherhood, abusive relationships, divorce & now grief.For a long time, my body didn't even know how to fucking relax.And learning how to slow down, have hobbies, be creative & actually ENJOY the life I've built has been a whole journey of its own.Because I don't want to spend my entire life working just because I know how to make money.I want to raise my children. I want to renovate my house. I want to have hobbies. I want time to heal. I want to make a bigger impact & grow my business WITHOUT needing to be involved in every single little thing.And I want other women to have that kind of freedom tooIN THIS EPISODE, WE'RE TALKING ABOUT:Why I'm recording a podcast from my iPhone in my car instead of waiting for the perfect studio, equipment or setup.What it actually looks like to scale a business while raising two children, navigating grief & prioritizing healing.How growing up in poverty & spending years in survival mode affected my relationship with work, money, productivity & rest.Why I literally tell the women in my programs to GET A HOBBY outside their businesses.Building a business that allows you to take time away, have a life & still make money while your clients continue getting results.Why I refuse to follow all the rules about what a woman, mother or business owner is supposed to look like.Why what's TRENDY in business isn't always sustainable, especially when you're building something you want to last 10 or 20 years.Building around your actual story, skills, experiences & the results you help people create.How I've built my businesses through relationships, referrals, collaborations, reciprocity & actually giving a fuck about my clients.Why different seasons of life require different levels of capacity, and why your business needs to account for that.I also get into something I'm VERY passionate about inside Breadwinner Energy Academy®Your business does not have to look like everybody else's business.Inside BUILT BEYOND YOU, my 3-day live experience, I'm teaching you how to turn your story, skills & results into signature IP, a recognizable methodology & a business that can grow beyond your personal time and energy.Because you can build an entire business around ONE body of work instead of constantly selling more of yourself.December 1–3, 2026General Admission: $55Optional VIP Day 4: $97, with live coaching, Q&A & personalized business feedback.JOIN THE BUILT BEYOND YOU WAITLIST: https://breadwinnerenergy.co/waitlist Get on the list for event details & registration updates.Follow me at @itstaydaniels_llcI'm sharing the basement playroom/Pilates renovation, motherhood, my life & what it actually looks like to build and scale Breadwinner Energy® in this season.And before I go, I want to thank every single woman who's been part of this community, supported me, sent messages & continued showing up.I cannot tell you how much it means to me.I love you guys. Thank you for being here.xxTay ❤️BUILT BEYOND YOU | DECEMBER 1–3, 2026https://breadwinnerenergy.co/waitlistCOME HANG OUT WITH ME ON INSTAGRAM https://www.instagram.com/itstaydaniels_llc/

I Became a Widow at 33. The Business I Built Gave Me the Freedom to Grieve.Content Warning: This episode discusses suicide loss, grief, widowhood, and mental health.I don't even know how to start this episode, honestly.Five months ago, I lost my husband to suicide. At 33 years old, I became a widow and a mother of two little girls navigating a life I never imagined we'd have.And this is my first episode back.There are parts of my story I'm not ready to share. Parts I'm still trying to understand. And parts that belong to my children, not the internet.But I did want to come back and talk about something I've spent the last decade teaching women.Building a business that gives you the freedom to actually LIVE your life. Even when life is fucking brutal.Over the last five months, I've taken time away from my business. I've moved, bought a home, restructured my team, navigated things I never thought I'd have to navigate & leaned on the women and community I've spent years building.And through all of it, Breadwinner Energy® has continued to operate, grow & serve our clients.Holy shit. We actually built something here.For years, I've talked about time freedom, financial independence, business ownership, relationships & building something beyond yourself.I understood why those things mattered before.But I understand them in a completely different way now.In this episode, I'm sharing what these last five months have looked like, how grief has changed my relationship with money, ambition & motherhood, and why building a sustainable business is about so much more than making another dollar.Inside this episode, we're talking about:Becoming a widow at 33 and returning to entrepreneurship while grievingWhy having a business that doesn't depend on you every day mattersThe financial freedom that allowed me to move, buy a home & access care for my familyHow Breadwinner Energy continued growing while I stepped awayThe relationships, referrals & community that supported me through lossWhy successful women entrepreneurs can still find themselves trapped inside businesses that require everything from themWhat it actually means to build wealth, ownership & choice as a Breadwinning WomanWhy I'm coming back to host BUILT BEYOND YOU this DecemberI also share what I've been witnessing inside BWE Academy® as women build businesses around their expertise, create recognizable work, make sales & take more time to actually live their lives.Because life is going to happen.Motherhood. Divorce. Illness. Loss. Travel. Rest. Whatever the f life decides to throw at you.And I want more women to have the resources, relationships & freedom to make choices when it does.This episode is emotional. I cry. I lose my train of thought. I talk about business because it's part of what gives me purpose right now.And I'm just really fucking grateful to be back.To every woman who has supported me, checked on me, worked with me, listened to this podcast or been part of the BWE community: thank you.You have no idea how much you've meant to me.You've already built a business. You've made money, served clients & changed lives.But does your business still need YOU for every dollar?Join me for BUILT BEYOND YOU, a 3-day live experience where we'll explore how to turn your story, skills & expertise into signature intellectual property, a recognizable methodology & a business that can grow beyond your time.December 1–3, 2026General Admission: $55Optional VIP Day 4 coaching experience: $97Join the waitlist: https://breadwinnerenergy.co/waitlist Instagram: @itstaydaniels_llcIf you've been listening to the Breadwinner Energy® podcast, I'd love to hear from you. Tell me what this podcast has meant to you or what building a business beyond yourself would make possible in your life.Thank you for being here. ❤️xxTay

You keep telling me you want the stages, money, visibility, collaborations, freedom and massive business... but does the business you're building actually match those dreams?You keep telling me you want the stages, the podcast, the book, the collaborations, the referrals, the visibility, the money, the impact + the business that gives you actual freedom.But does the business you actually built support ANY of those dreams?Because you cannot tell me you want to become the go-to woman in your industry while your business still takes 13 minutes + a fucking decoder ring to understand. 😂And you cannot tell me you want to scale while you've built a business completely dependent on you delivering custom 1:1 work to every person who walks through the door.In this episode, we're looking at the gap between the future you keep saying you want + the business you're actually building to get there.We're talking about:Why your current business model may not support the life you say you wantThe difference between being known for your modality + being known for a resultWhy Tarot, Human Design, somatics, embodiment, hypnosis, breathwork + coaching tell me HOW you work, not WHY I need to hire youHow to become known for ONE thing without throwing away your depth, certifications, lived experience + weird shit 😂Why unclear business positioning makes referrals, collaborations, podcast opportunities + visibility harderWhy you don't need another certification when the real problem is your positioningBuilding a recognizable personal brand around your movement instead of your servicesHow your story + lived experience become part of your intellectual propertyWhy some businesses stay trapped in 1:1 even when the Founder says she wants to scaleThe decisions women building bigger businesses eventually have to makeWhat it actually means to build a business that can hold your visionBecause the question isn't just:What do you want?It's:Does the business you're building have any fucking chance of getting you there?And if the answer is no?Good.Now we know what needs to change. 🔥One of the biggest pieces of this conversation is the work I teach inside Breadwinner Energy Academy® through All Paths Lead to Rome:Your story.Your skills.Your lived experience.Your medicine.The problem you solve.The result you create.All leading back to ONE recognizable thing you're known for.Your modalities stay.Your depth stays.Your weird shit stays. 😂We just stop making your people decode all of it before they understand why they need you.Want to actually work through it?JOIN BWE ACADEMY® NOW for the September 2026 LIVE Building Bootcamp with Tay https://breadwinnerenergy.co/academy

Danielle Eyman quit her 24-year nursing career in 24 hours. No backup plan. No runway. Just a deep knowing & a human design chart she finally understood.Eighteen months later — $1.2 million in online sales.in this episode, Tay & Danielle go deeper than the trends to talk about what human design actually is when you use it as a wealth-building tool, not a personality quiz.Danielle breaks down the five wealth codes she used to rebuild her entire life: energy type, strategy, authority, profile lines, & sun gate. They talk about what it really means to be a 6/2 profile (hint: it's not about waiting), why alignment takes courage, & how women can use their human design chart to escape financial & personal situations that no longer serve them.If you've been circling human design but never went all the way in, this is the episode.what you'll hear:Why Danielle walked away from nursing after a lawsuit & never looked backThe five wealth codes & how Danielle used them to hit $1.2M in 18 monthsStarting with $55 chart readings & scaling to $10,000 intensivesThe biggest misconception about the 6/2 profileWhy "alignment" isn't passive, it's the hardest thing you'll doHow women in hard situations can use human design to create exitsLeading from sacral authority vs. fear-based decisionsDanielle's non-logical path to building a 7-figure businessconnect with Danielle:IG - @thedanielleeymanWebsite - danielleeyman.comWealth Codes: Link: https://danielleeyman.com/thewealthcodesystem-7251Follow Tay on IG: https://www.instagram.com/itstaydaniels_llc/ Join the Fire Pit: https://www.skool.com/breadwinner-energy-club-7485

YOUR STORY = HOW TO MAKE YOUR SPIRITUAL BUSINESS TANGIBLE SIMPLE & SCALABLEFree Masterclass: As a psychic business strategist I do not teach the game of business. I teach roots. Reciprocity. Rest. Relationships. A completely different way of doing business built from your actual story, your actual lineage, your actual lived experience.You have a skill that makes money, but also a story, lived experience, and cultural roots that changes BLOODLINES You hear all the time "share your story" but you don't see the connection between your skills (that you lead with) and your storySo you share tips, you know your good at what you do, but people don't buy vibes without clear specific tangible results.& they don't buy results without feelings & connection..you need both. connected. clear. in one sentence.Your story is not the warm up to your business. It is not the inspiring caption before the real content. It is not the vulnerability post you share once a month to seem relatable. The pain you survived is the exact pain your client is sitting in right now. The thing you figured out the hard way is the transformation they are paying for. The way you see the world because of what you have lived through is the lens that makes your work uncopyable. Nobody else has your story. Which means nobody else can build your business.How to excavate the specific lived experience that becomes your methodology. Not your whole life story. The exact pieces that map directly to the result you create.How to turn that story into one clear tangible result that your entire business is built around. One result. One through line. Everything else attaches to it.How to make your spiritual gifts, your psychic abilities, your healing work, your lineage simple enough that someone who has never heard of you understands exactly what you do and why they need it in the first 30 seconds.How to build a scalable business from that. Not more 1:1. Not more hours. A model that grows without you grinding.And the energetic piece of making your business simple, scalable, & tangible without it you don't become a match for the business you are building or the strategy will collapse every single time.Are you next? You are a healer, coach, psychic, guide, or spiritual entrepreneur who knows your work is sacred and intimate so you don't think it can scale without losing that pieceYou have been in this industry for years and keep starting over.You are done leading with buzz words and ready to lead with your actual story.You want a business that feels like an extension of youA model that lets you LIVE your life not be strapped to being a business owner more than doing what you LOVE

BWE Academy® is more than doubling in price tomorrow. In this bonus episode Tay breaks down exactly why, what is inside the program, & what becomes possible when you stop making decisions for where you are right now & start making them for the life you actually want.In this episode:Why the price is going from $2222 to $5997 & why it still feels like a stealThe client story that made the decision undeniableWhat BWE Academy® LIVE actually is & what you build in 2 daysWhat your first 90 days, 9 months, & full year inside Academy looks likeWhy you keep talking yourself out of the thing you know is for youThe student who went from mind drama & no niche to booked out & knowing exactly what she is doing in 6 monthsToday is the last day to join at $2222.Tomorrow it goes to $5997.Join here: breadwinnerenergy.co/academyQuestions? DM Tay on Instagram: @itstaydaniels_llc____________________________________________________________healer business coach spiritual entrepreneur business scalable business for healers turn your story into a business business coach for healers online business for spiritual entrepreneurs how to build a scalable business as a healer how to turn your lived experience into a business business coaching for medicine women how to scale a healing business without ads group coaching program for spiritual entrepreneurs healer business model without burnout Indigenous business coach lineage liberator business ancestral wisdom business shadow work business coach psychic business strategist All Paths Lead to Rome method Breadwinner Energy Academy BWE Academy story based business model roots to revenuehealer stuck in 1:1 work spiritual business not converting how to niche down as a healer why healers don't make money scalable offer for coaches business model for empaths stop trading time for money coaching

25 minutes. your entire business model TOP to bottom in this episode tay breaks down the exact method she has used for 10 years to help healers, coaches & spiritual entrepreneurs build a simple scalable business from their story without ads, a large audience, or traditional business advice.what you will learn:why one clear specific tangible result answers every business question you have been askinghow all paths lead to rome works & why your entire business should point to one placethe momentum wheel what happens when you talk to one person about one thing for 90 days straighthow to get leads through collaborations, summits, podcasts & guest coaching without adswhy your ideal client is always a past version of you & how to find herthe simple funnel free content, low ticket, signature scalable offer, licensingresources mentioned:All Paths Lead to Results — $97 course + workbook — https://breadwinnerenergy.co/mini-course Roots to Revenue Free Masterclass breadwinnerenergy.co/rootsBWE Academy® breadwinnerenergy.co/academyBreadwinner Energy® Podcast Ep 225: All Paths Lead to Resultsconnect with tay:instagram & threads: @itstaydaniels_llcwebsite: breadwinnerenergy.co

All Paths Lead to…RESULTS: The Reason You Aren't Making More MoneyYou are posting. You are showing up. You have offers. & you are still not making the money you know you should be making.In this episode Tay breaks down the number one reason healers, coaches, mentors & service providers are not making consistent sales — & it has nothing to do with your content strategy, your audience size, or your prices.You do not have a clear, simple, tangible, one sentence result that you get people. That is it. That is the whole problem.Tay shares how she went from a 6 figure launch to burning her entire business down — team, tech, overhead & all — to rebuild something simple, rooted & built for real impact. She breaks down her All Paths Lead to Rome method & shows you exactly how to find your ONE core result so your entire business model, your offers, your content & your sales conversations finally make sense.Plus Tay does a live Roots Reading on a woman she met on Threads & shows you exactly what this looks like in real time.If you take nothing else from this episode take this. One clear, simple, tangible result. Everything else builds from there.What You'll Learn in This Episode•  Why more content will NOT fix your sales problem — & what actually will•  The #1 reason coaches & healers are not making consistent money right now•  What "one clear tangible result" actually means & how to find yours•  Why vague words like "embodiment," "confidence," & "more time" are killing your sales•  The All Paths Lead to Rome method — how to build your entire business around ONE result•  Why Tay burned down a 6 figure business & what she built instead•  The difference between your skill & your result — & why most people are leading with the wrong one•  A live Roots Reading from Threads — watch Tay name someone's entire business in real time•  Why group offers convert better than 1:1 when your result is clear•  How to stop shape-shifting with clients & start leading from a clear simple processMentioned in This Episode•  BWE Academy® breadwinnerenergy.co/academy•  Free Roots to Revenue Masterclass breadwinnerenergy.co/roots•  Follow Tay on Threads & Instagram — @itstaydaniels_llc•  Ep 145–185 — Business model & why it might be betraying youConnect with TayInstagram & Threads: @itstaydaniels_llcWebsite: breadwinnerenergy.coFree Masterclass: breadwinnerenergy.co/rootsBWE Academy®: breadwinnerenergy.co/academySubscribe & Leave a ReviewIf this episode landed — share it with one woman who needs to hear it. Leave a review on Apple Podcasts. It keeps the fire burning & gets this work into more hands.business coaching for healers, how to make money as a coach, signature offer, scalable offer, group coaching program, roots to revenue, breadwinner energy, business model for coaches, how to find your niche, one core result, all paths lead to rome, business clarity, coaching business strategy, how to sign more clients, lived experience business, Indigenous business coach, Tay NocktonickBreadwinner Energy® Built for the First Breadwinner of Your Bloodline

In this episode, Tay sits down with hypnotherapist Morgan Zack for a raw, unfiltered conversation on subconscious healing, trauma, addiction, and why mindset work alone is not enough for true transformation.This is about what happens when women realize they’ve been trying to think their way out of wounds that were never created in the conscious mind in the first place.Morgan shares her deeply personal story of growing up in chaos, addiction, survival mode, and eventual rock bottom—and how it led her into the world of hypnotherapy and subconscious reprogramming.Morgan is a life coach, a certified NGH Hypnotist, and a SOM mindfulness practitioner. Morgan’s main focus is to help empower her clients from feeling like they are a victim of their own life to feeling empowered, happy, and creating the life of their dreams. Morgan also has a deep, compassionate understanding of addiction, and through her own journey to sobriety feels it’s her calling in life to show others they can reclaim their lives as well.  Morgan struggled with addiction and mental health for 20 years of her life. She sought out the traditional modalities of help; from psychiatrists, psychologists, talk therapists to  NA and AA and yet  never found any way out of feeling depressed, anxious and fully addicted to many substances. After many years of frustration of being put on and off of medications, and talking through her problems and never finding resolve, she turned to a mentor who worked with alternative healing modalities. Through working with this mentor she grew an understanding of the parasympathetic nervous system, breathing techniques, and meditation. By learning these techniques Morgan was able to naturally calm herself down enough. She eventually was able to feel her built up emotions safely which then allowed her to release many years of built up feelings and trauma.  Morgan was able to become sober and eventually come off of all medications and fully be herself again. She later landed into using hypnosis to help heal any left over limiting beliefs she had about gaining the life she wanted; and she has never looked back since. Together, Tay and Morgan break down why so many high-achieving women feel stuck even after doing all the therapy, coaching, journaling, and mindset work… and what actually changes the game at the root level.Why most healing work fails when it only targets the conscious mindThe difference between conscious vs subconscious healing (and why it matters for your results)How trauma lives in the body not logic, mindset, or affirmationsWhy affirmations can make you feel worse if your core beliefs are still unhealedThe role of addiction, survival, and nervous system wiring in business + relationshipsHow childhood programming shapes your money, identity, and leadership todayWhat hypnotherapy actually does in the subconscious mindWhy so many women are building businesses from survival instead of embodimentThe shift from performative action → embodied leadershipHow deep subconscious work changes everything: body, business, relationships, and self-worthhttps://www.instagram.com/miss.morganzack/Connect with Morgan on Tiktokhttps://www.tiktok.com/@miss.morganzackCurious about 1:1 work? Book a consultation herehttps://morganzackcoaching.thrivecart.com/30-min-hypnosis-consultation-call/Want to learn more about Morgan, check out her website!https://www.morganzack.com/Looking to start your transformation journey but are not sure about 1:1 work yet? https://www.morganzack.com/becoming-youFollow Tay on IGhttps://www.instagram.com/itstaydaniels_llc/

In this Episode Tay Nocktonick interviews Amber Renee & they talk about Embodied Leadership vs Performative Power & how women have been conditioned to be performative instead of Powerful. Amber Renée is Headmistress of the House of Eros Money Power, mentor to powerful women who lead provocative movements, and keeper of the keys to a taboo world where eros and leadership are one.For over 11 years, Amber has devoted her life and work to the art of eroticism, power, money, leadership, and guiding women into the deepest layers of their power, desire, and influence.She has mentored hundreds of visionary women leaders, runs a global business, and hosts a podcast, Eros Money Power, with over 129,000 downloads worldwide—where erotic power, leadership, and revolutions are seduced into reality.Lead From Your Erotic Edge 8-part audio course for women leaders ready to shape the world, influence culture, and lead a revolutionary movement from your most provocative edge—your erotic power.https://missamberrenee.com/edge/Website: https://missamberrenee.com/Instagram:   / theamberrenee  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/share/16E3eS...Eros Money Power Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast...Follow Tay on IG: www.instagram.com/itstaydaniels_llc embodied leadershipperformative powerfeminine leadershipwomen in leadershipembodied feminine powerleadership for womenfeminine embodimenterotic leadershipwomen entrepreneursnervous system regulationfemale empowermentwomen in businessdark feminine energywomen’s leadership podcastpowerful womenself leadershipleadership mindsetpersonal powerauthentic leadershipwomen’s empowerment podcastembodied leadership vs performative powerhow women are conditioned to performfeminine leadership for women entrepreneurshow to stop people pleasing in businessperformative femininity in womenhow to become a powerful woman leadernervous system regulation for female leadersembodied feminine power in businesserotic power and leadershipauthentic feminine leadership podcastleadership and desire for womendark feminine leadershipfemale leadership and self worthwomen healing good girl conditioninghow to lead without performingfemale entrepreneur mindset podcast