202: Tough or Unconditional Love?

Why don’t I care? Is there nothing I care about? Or do I no longer care about the things that could prevent me from doing what I feel called to do? Have you also learnt not to care? In episode 208, I share: Additional thoughts about episode 207 My new passion for classic cars Why we should take an interest in our kids’ interests even if we don’t think we will like them Why we shouldn’t let other people’s opinions decide how we live our lives A couple of books and a TV show Jumping rope or skipping for exercise How we learn by diving into rabbit holes and having conversations Fabulous ways to learn art history And loads of unschool thoughts about loads of things   Show Notes   Podcasts Da Ladies Fixing the World podcast Virtual Kitchen Table podcast   Books Lola in the Mirror by Trent Dalton Practical Theology by Peter Kreeft   TV Series Fake or Fortune?   People Mel Robbins    Music Camouflage by Joseph O’Brien   Blog Posts How to Beat Time Who Jolts Us Forward Without Permission Strewing to Share Passions and Keep Our Bonds Strong   My Unschooling Books Curious Unschoolers Radical Unschool Love The Unschool Challenge My Amazon Author Page   If You’d Like to Support My Work Buy Me a Coffee: Sue Elvis Receive access to my password-protected blog posts and my thanks!   My Blog Stories of an Unschooling Family    

I’m back and I’m fangirling! Will I stay? Will I find a new focus for my podcast? Will I find a co-host? Will I get enough sleep? And who am I fangirling over? This week, I’m sharing thoughts on  unschooling as a business doing things for free ageing unschoolers who might have unique skills to offer our superpower- unconditional love competing and persuading  social media and lots of other things.   Show Notes    Websites Stories of an Unschooling Family Sandra Dodd’s website Cecilie Conrad’s website Erin’s website, Everlearning   Podcasts Da Ladies Fixing the World podcast Self Directed podcast Virtual Kitchen Table podcast   Unschooling Community Virtual Kitchen Table Community Book From Strength to Strength by Arthur Brooks   Blog Posts Why I’m Content to Be a Blogger and Not an Instagram Influencer Do You Need to Follow an Older Unschooler? (Part 1) Do You Need to Follow an Older Unschooler? (Part 2) How to Write a Million Unschool Love Stories A Genuine Invitation for Christian Unschoolers The Problem with Being Too Nice   If You’d Like to Support My Work Buy Me a Coffee: Sue Elvis Receive access to my password-protected blog posts and my thanks!        

Today, on my birthday, I’m chatting about ageing, experimenting, taking risks, encouraging others, and other things.  Show Notes I mentioned: The Self Directed podcast with the Conrads Episode 65 of the Self Directed podcast: Sue Elvis / Stories of an Unschooling Family  The Unschooling Together community Podcast episode 3, Getting Older, Admitting One’s Age, Lines and Wrinkles The Video Version of this episode on YouTube    My Unschooling Books Curious Unschoolers: Kindle Curious Unschoolers: paperback Radical Unschool Love: Kindle Radical Unschool Love: paperback The Unschool Challenge: Kindle The Unschool Challenge: paperback  My Amazon Author Page   Where You Can Find Me Unschooling Community The Unschooling Together community Youtube Sue Elvis Blogs Stories of an Unschooling Family Wholy Souly Instagram https://www.instagram.com/stories_ofan_unschoolingfamily/stories_ofan_unschoolingfamily      

I’m back with my author daughter Imogen! In this episode, we’re chatting about… Writing and how Imogen is promoting and selling her YA novels Collaboration and how we achieve more when we work together The ups and downs of social media We also share some news and tell a couple of stories, including the one about my frightening Frida Kahlo eyebrows!   Show Notes We mentioned The Virtual Kitchen Table podcast The Self Directed podcast with the Conrads The Unschooling Together community The Christian Unschooling group and Zoom discussions within the Unschooling Together community. Writing podcasts with Imogen: episodes 181 and 183   My Unschooling Books Curious Unschoolers: Kindle Curious Unschoolers: paperback Radical Unschool Love: Kindle Radical Unschool Love: paperback My Amazon Author Page   Where You Can Find Me Unschooling Community The Unschooling Together community Youtube Sue Elvis Blogs Stories of an Unschooling Family Wholy Souly Instagram https://www.instagram.com/stories_ofan_unschoolingfamily/stories_ofan_unschoolingfamily   Where You Can Find Imogen Blog Write.Rewrite.Read Instagram write.rewrite.read Youtube Imogen Elvis Books The Crystal Tree The Shattering Song Frost Hands   Thank you for listening to this episode!          

This week, I’m talking about: Desires and Expectations Are desires good? Are expectations about control? Can our expectations spoil our family celebrations? Challenges Should we give our kids space to set their own challenges? Do we need to challenge ourselves too? Books Do people judge us on our book choices? Can sharing the books we’re reading lead to some stimulating unschooling conversations? The Santa Myth Is it wrong to pretend Santa brings gifts to our kids? Is that lying? Should we eliminate Santa from our Christmas celebrations? Or is it possible to include the magic of Santa with the true meaning of the season? 2023 What were the highs and lows of my year? Does blogging about our kids lead to problems? Should adults make time for their passions and interests? Can we feel lost when our kids grow up? How do we move on? What do we do while we’re working out what to do next? Is it important we’re successful in a big way? Stories I’m sharing a story about books, people’s opinions, and the difficulties of parenting: Is it Risky to Share Our Book Collections? What Will People Think? I’m also sharing a story about the Santa myth and family traditions from my book, The Unschool Challenge. Please visit my blog, Stories of an Unschooling Family, to leave a comment or say hello.   This is my last episode for 2023. Thank you for listening. I hope you have a very happy Christmas!   My Unschooling Books The Unschool Challenge: Kindle The Unschool Challenge: paperback Curious Unschoolers: Kindle Curious Unschoolers: paperback Radical Unschool Love: Kindle Radical Unschool Love: paperback My Amazon Author Page

This week, I’m talking about right and wrong… If we think something is right, should we do it? Do we have to push through any difficulties we might encounter? Perhaps we can’t give up unless we’re willing to do something we know is wrong. And if we do that, we won’t feel at peace. The big question is: is unschooling the right thing to do? If it is, we shouldn’t be concerned about the future. Whatever happens, regardless of the outcome, we’ll know we did what we should have done.  Also, how do kids learn right from wrong if we always love them regardless of their behaviour? Are the critics right? Are unschooling parents irresponsible? Or do our strong connections allow us to guide our kids? I have lots of stories and comments to share with you!   Show Notes Please visit my blog Stories of an Unschooling Family, to read my blog post, Unschooling: Doing What Is Right. It contains this episode’s show notes!   My Unschooling Books The Unschool Challenge: Kindle The Unschool Challenge: paperback Curious Unschoolers: Kindle Curious Unschoolers: paperback Radical Unschool Love: Kindle Radical Unschool Love: paperback My Amazon Author Page  

Do good parents stay firmly in control of their children, demanding obedience, good behaviour and respect? Do they practise tough love? Or are there problems with this method of parenting? Is there some other way of raising kids to be good people who want to do what is right? Is it okay to parent with unconditional love?   This week, I’m sharing a few stories on this topic. I also have a request or plea for help.   Show Notes Please visit my blog, Stories of an Unschooling Family, to read my post,  Tough or Unconditional Love?Parent or Friend?  It contains today’s show notes.   My Unschooling Books The Unschool Challenge: Kindle The Unschool Challenge: paperback Curious Unschoolers: Kindle Curious Unschoolers: paperback Radical Unschool Love: Kindle Radical Unschool Love: paperback My Amazon Author Page  

Is unschooling about drifting aimlessly through each day? Do unschoolers waste time? Or do they live intentionally responding to their needs and making sure they achieve the things that are relevant and important to them? Do unschoolers direct their lives instead of letting life direct them? Is that the meaning of true freedom? Does the word ‘planning’ have a place in unschooling? This week, I’m discussing these questions and more while telling a few stories.   Show Notes Please visit my blog, Stories of an Unschooling Family, to read my post,  Do Unschoolers Drift Aimlessly Through Each Day? It contains today’s show notes.   My Unschooling Books The Unschool Challenge: Kindle The Unschool Challenge: paperback Curious Unschoolers: Kindle Curious Unschoolers: paperback Radical Unschool Love: Kindle Radical Unschool Love: paperback My Amazon Author Page      

It is what it is. An interesting episode or not. I don’t suppose it matters. All that’s important is love. Show Notes Please visit my blog, Stories of an Unschooling Family, to read my post, Preventing Childhood Trauma with Unconditional Love. It contains today’s show notes.   My Unschooling Books The Unschool Challenge: Kindle The Unschool Challenge: paperback Curious Unschoolers: Kindle Curious Unschoolers: paperback Radical Unschool Love: Kindle Radical Unschool Love: paperback My Amazon Author Page    

Is it irresponsible to trust and unschool teenagers? When unschoolers reach the teenage years, is it time for something else? Or could unschooling be exactly what our older kids need? Could it keep them safe? This week, I’m discussing these questions and more, sharing lots of thoughts, stories and resources. Show Notes Please visit my blog, Stories of an Unschooling Family, to read my post,  Could Unschooling Be Exactly What Teenagers Need to Do? It contains today’s show notes.   My Unschooling Books The Unschool Challenge: Kindle The Unschool Challenge: paperback Curious Unschoolers: Kindle Curious Unschoolers: paperback Radical Unschool Love: Kindle Radical Unschool Love: paperback My Amazon Author Page