Ep 9: Bye Bye

Sex PM co-hosts @sabinekhabiri and @big.c.energy are joined with @quarrywastaken @ian_james_63 to discuss the differences between bisexuality and pansexuality through their own lived experiences.  This one’s a heartwarming one and we think will be especially appreciated by anyone who identifies as bi or pan or queer.  Questions we discuss; when did you realise you were queer? How do you feel validated in your sexuality? How important is labelling your sexuality to you? What are your experiences with bi/pan-phobia? What would you tell your younger self about your sexuality now? Watch us discuss on Youtube: https://youtu.be/y6S3jeH31Hk Find us on Instagram: @sexxpm

It's Day 4 and we’re chatting STIs. Big Clit Energy quizzes Sabine on STIs and Sabine opens up about her experience with genital warts. Follow along to see how many questions you got right Disclaimer - Nicole works in sexual health promotion and is not a sexual health doctor or nurse. Always seek medical advice from a sexual health clinic if you have any symptoms of an STI Resources from the podcast: Resources: HPV, genital warts - https://eveappeal.org.uk/wp-content/uploads/2021/09/HPV-Guide-v14.pdf STI testing and window periods - https://sh24.org.uk/sexual-health/stis/sti-testing Syphilis - https://www.longtimenosyph.info HIV - https://www.tht.org.uk/hiv-and-sexual-health/about-hiv PrEP - https://prepster.info Find us on Instagram to see the video: @sexxpm Co-hosts: Sabine - @sabinekhabiri Nicole - @big.c.energy

It's Day 3 of our Covid Christmas Countdown. We discuss breaking down the shame we’ve felt about our own periods. Why do we think period blood is gross? There’s this one person on TikTok putting it on their face every month! So how much influence does the patriarchy have over our feelings towards our periods and period blood? And witness Sabine watering her plants with her bloody tampon. Find us on Instagram to see the video: @sexxpm Co-hosts: Sabine - @sabinekhabiri Nicole - @big.c.energy

It's Day 2 of our Covid Christmas Countdown and today we're playing 'Is that a sex toy review or just an every day object?'. Listen in to try and discover for yourself what you believe to be the difference between the Dyson Pet Hair Hoover and a dragon egg butt plug.  Find us on Instagram to see the video: @sexxpm Co-hosts: Sabine - @sabinekhabiri Nicole - @big.c.energy

Quick intro into what we've been up to since our last episode of Sex PM. We get to teasing what we may have in store for your Covid Christmas. Join us as we use our isolation for sexual awareness and merry chats.

Sex PM band together for one last time to stamp down on the lack of development that was Love Island 2021.    

This week we discuss Priya's superior intellectualism, the voting for the least compatible couple, the producers pushing Faye AGAIN, the heteronormative baby challenge and daddies day out. The final is looming and we chat about the cringe final dates and how they are a final push to vote for them, who do we think is going to win? And Jiberty 💔 #LoveIsland

We get struck by some technical difficulties which cuts our podcast short this week! Tune in to listen to us rant about the producers' choices e.g. cutting Sharon talking about being bisexual and dating as a mixed Asian woman, and potentially cutting a sex scene between Rachel and Brad (disclaimer: our sources are TikTok and the Sun...). We also cringe at Hugo's post Love Island TikToks and discuss the kink sex-positive rave we both went to last week. Tune in on Tuesday for a mid-week special! #LoveIsland

This week on Love Island, the guys try their hardest to get out of the doghouse and Toby and Tyla do a 180.  We discuss whether we put Kaz on a pedestal too early on into our podcast considering her behaviour this week, Hugo being kept on the show past his expiration date, Love Island's version of Gogglebox and the wrath of Faye! #LoveIsland 

*Special guest Ninma* @whenin.podcast Ninma is a Community Champion from the sexual health service Love Sex Life situated in Lambeth, Southwark and Lewisham. She also has her own podcast focused on travel, culture and society, and discussing the places and things that shape people's life experiences (see links below). This week we discuss Casa Amor; the lads' holiday mentality, the difference between how the girls and the boys behaved, Liam's disrespectful actions, Jake egging on the other islanders, and Toby being a SLOW learner. We also discuss THAT twisted postcard, the producers lack of duty of care towards the contestants and our predictions for next week! Apologies for our sketchy Zoom recording this week! Ninma's podcast - https://www.instagram.com/whenin.podcast/  Love Sex Life sexual health service - https://www.instagram.com/lovesexlifelsl/ #LoveIsland #sexandrelationships #realityTV