The Secret History of R.E.M.

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Introducing Selena Gomez & Benny Blanco EXCLUSIVE: Their Love Story Like You’ve Never Heard Before from On Purpose with Jay Shetty.Follow the show: On Purpose with Jay ShettyHow did Selena and Benny first meet? What makes their love story unique? On today’s episode of On Purpose, Jay sits down with global superstar Selena Gomez and acclaimed music producer Benny Blanco where they share their love story like they never have before. They open up about their personal journey—one that didn’t start with an immediate spark. Their story is full of humor, mixed signals, and that moment when it all clicked. Benny once thought Selena didn’t like him, while Selena, protecting her heart, kept her distance. But as their friendship grew, they built something real—a relationship rooted in trust, respect, open communication, and always supporting each other. Their story is a true testament that love unfolds when the timing is right. Together, Jay, Selena, and Benny reflect on the power of embracing love, letting go of past fears, and choosing a partner who helps you grow. Their journey serves as a beautiful reminder that love often comes when you least expect it—but when it’s right, you’ll know. In this interview, you'll learn: How to Build a Strong Friendship Before Dating How to Communicate Openly in a Relationship How to Maintain Trust in a Long-Distance Relationship How to Support Your Partner’s Emotional Needs How to Balance a Busy Career with a Healthy Relationship Selena and Benny’s story reminds us that true love isn’t defined by grand gestures or perfection—it’s about finding someone who sees you for who you are, supports you through life’s challenges, and makes even the simplest moments feel special. With Love and Gratitude, Jay Shetty Join over 750,000 people to receive my most transformative wisdom directly in your inbox every single week with my free newsletter. Subscribe here. Join Jay for his first ever, On Purpose Live Tour! Tickets are on sale now. Hope to see you there! What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 01:10 Male Friendships Can Be Challenging 03:01 First Meeting & Deep Conversations 08:48 How It All Started 16:32 Opening Up to Love Again 18:57 It All Happens for a Reason 21:08 Finding Genuine Love 27:13 Be Kind to Yourself 33:37 Don’t Let Negativity Dictate Your Life 37:55 Cultivating Relationships with Trust 48:22 This is How Emotionally Mature Relationships Work       57:08 The Proposal  01:05:29 Wedding Planning 01:06:26 Recording an Album Together 01:13:17 Future Family Plans 01:18:03 Selena and Benny on Fun Questions Episode Resources: Selena Gomez | Website Selena Gomez | Facebook Selena Gomez | Twitter Selena Gomez | Instagram Selena Gomez | YouTube Benny Blanco | TikTok Benny Blanco | Instagram Benny Blanco | YouTube Benny Blanco | Twitter Benny Blanco | FacebookSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.DISCLAIMER: Please note, this is an independent podcast episode not affiliated with, endorsed by, or produced in conjunction with the host podcast feed or any of its media entities. The views and opinions expressed in this episode are solely those of the creators and guests. For any concerns, please reach out to [email protected].

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