The System You Never Win

In this episode, we explore the heartbreaking truth that rescuing, fixing, and sacrificing yourself will never make someone love you the way you deserve to be loved. If your partner isn't capable of showing up for you, no amount of your effort, emotional labor, or self-abandonment will change that. Every relationship begins with you, and that includes the decision to stop drowning in someone else's dysfunction and start building a life rooted in self-respect.www.HeatherCatherineCarter.com

The last 3 stages of coming to terms of where your marriage or relationship is headed. www.HeatherCatherineCarter.com

There are 5 distinct stages a person goes through when in a relationship or marriage with a narcissist or someone with borderline personality disorder. Or, with someone who has severe narcissistic tendencies. They will surprise you!In this episode, I deep dive into the first two stages. www.heathertransforms.com

There is one thing I wanted to do equally as much as my passion and career now. But I discovered that, to teach, coach, guide, and mentor people in my equal passion, I first had to do what I do now: help people discover who they really are through rewiring, healing, and personal development. "Miracles come in moments. Be ready and willing." Wayne DyerOne of my best episodes! I know this to be true because I felt it when recording.

The Let Them Theory does not work in this situation. If you use it, it will only exacerbate the problem. “Break the Toxic Cycle in Love: 3 Steps to Stop Repeating the Same Fight”. Only a few days left to register for this live workshop! Click here to save your spot!

There are two types of victims. Learn about each and the Victim role in-depth. You don't want to miss this one!

These three patterns begin in childhood and, once recognized, can be observed in either yourself or someone you know. It is impossible to have a healthy marriage or relationship with this little person conducting the orchestra.

You didn't know you made this implicit agreement to be a part of this system with your partner, spouse, parent, child, or friend; the system trains you to give the other person what they ask for without them having to ask.

Why is finding the love, connection, and life you desire and deserve feel so hard? Let's talk about it. Click here for your free call.

Your abandonment wound creates fears which keep you stuck in a relationship with the Narcissist or someone with severe Narcissistic tendencies. Let's pull apart your abandonment fear NOW!What is your main wound? Mother, Father, or Abandonment. Find out by taking my quiz and learn how to heal it. Click here!