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Eric Thompson welcomes Julie Will, one of Ninja Selling’s highly experienced coaches, to the podcast today to share valuable strategies for real estate professionals looking to enhance their business. Together, they explore the importance of creating a "start doing" and "stop doing" list, which provides a clear path to success by focusing on key activities that drive results. Julie also highlights the power of relationship-based selling, a core aspect of the Ninja Selling system, and shares how it transformed her career by helping her increase her income per hour while achieving a better work-life balance. Throughout the episode, listeners will discover how to effectively manage distractions and set boundaries, ensuring their time is spent productively. Our duo notes that, by tuning out industry "noise" and maintaining a positive mindset, agents can keep their focus on opportunities rather than obstacles. They also go on to highlight the power of building and managing a warm list—an essential tool for nurturing client relationships and boosting referrals. Staying in hyperflow and recognizing key life changes in clients are both emphasized as well as they allow agents to consistently add value, build trust, and drive long-term success. Tune in today for the expert advice offered on maximizing your own productivity and staying focused on meaningful growth. Enjoy more great advice in the community of 16000 other Ninjas with all levels of experience who collaborate, ask and answer questions, network, and more in the Ninja Selling Podcast group on Facebook at Ninja Selling Podcast Facebook. Leave a voicemail at 208-MY-NINJA if you’d like to offer more direct feedback. Be sure to check out Ninja Selling Events for upcoming installations and other events, and if you’d like personalized help in achieving your goals, visit Ninja Coaching to connect with one of our fantastic coaches. Episode Highlights: 00:00 Start Doing and Stop Doing Lists 01:05 Switching to a Relationship-Focused Approach 02:13 Power of the Ninja Selling System 02:50 Increase Income Per Hour, Improve Work-Life Balance 04:10 Coaching Others for Real Estate Success 05:23 Show Up Consistently for Growth 06:06 Be Intentional with Your Workday 07:14 Time Blocking for Success 09:16 Honor Time Blocks and Set Boundaries 10:15 Respect Your Time and Future Clients 12:00 Avoid Distractions, Focus on Growth 12:30 Stay Positive, Ignore Industry Noise 14:00 Focus on Opportunities, Not Obstacles 16:30 Build and Manage a Warm List 18:50 Add People Experiencing Life Changes 21:45 Stay in Hyperflow, Build Relationships for Referrals   Key Takeaways:   "Time block your schedule. Specific tasks at specific times eliminate confusion."   "Ignore the noise. Focus on your goals, not the distractions."   "Your future self will thank you for the work you do today."   "Be the source of education for your clients."   "Hyperflow means staying in touch and adding value consistently."   "What you focus on expands. Choose to focus on opportunities, not obstacles."   "Think of time blocks as meetings with your future self. Never blow them off."  

In today’s insightful episode of The Ninja Selling Podcast, hosts Rob Nelson and Larry Kendall dive into a range of thought-provoking topics arising from the premise, "If you could ask Larry Kendall anything, what would it be?" Fielding questions covering everything from personal development to real estate strategies, Larry reflects on the life-changing influence of Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill, explaining how a powerful mindset has been crucial in overcoming challenges and driving growth. He also emphasizes the role of gratitude and goal-setting, sharing insights from The Gap and the Gain and its alignment with the Ninja Selling system. Larry goes on to address key strategies for exiting the real estate business, introducing the "Golden Handoff" for smoothly transitioning client relationships during retirement. He underscores the importance of balancing professional achievements with personal fulfillment, highlighting community involvement and authentic connections as vital components of long-term success. Larry hints at potential updates to Ninja Selling, such as new approaches to social media and essential strategies like the value clarification question for sellers. The episode ends with a powerful reminder that a strong mindset, meaningful relationships, and community engagement are the foundations of lasting success in both life and business. More great advice can be found in the community of 16000 other Ninjas with all levels of experience who collaborate, ask and answer questions, network, and more in the Ninja Selling Podcast group on Facebook at Ninja Selling Podcast Facebook. Leave a voicemail at 208-MY-NINJA if you’d like to offer more direct feedback. Be sure to check out Ninja Selling Events for upcoming installations and other events, and if you’d like personalized help in achieving your goals, visit Ninja Coaching to connect with one of our fantastic coaches. Episode Highlights: 00:00 Transparency and Striving for Improvement in Podcasting 01:34 Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill 02:56 Larry's Early Business Experiences 03:01 Impact of Mindset and Personal Challenges on Growth 04:05 The Gap and the Gain and Its Alignment with Ninja Selling 05:16 Potential Additions to Ninja Selling 08:33 Overview of the ‘8 in 8’ Campaign 10:45 Strategies for Retiring from Real Estate Using "The Golden Handoff" 13:48 Larry's Admiration for Warren Buffett and His Principles 15:35 Larry's Upcoming Book, Ninja Leadership 19:08 Importance of Community Involvement and Building Relationships Key Takeaways: "You need to give. Giving back implies you don't give unless you have something." "The Ninja Selling system is based on universal principles. I wouldn't change anything." "Use social media as a database to look for pain and pleasure, then respond offline." "A range of value for a home depends on the marketing and negotiating skills of your realtor." "Build relationships through volunteering and community involvement. Business will follow." "Transitioning a business takes a plan and usually two or three years." Links: www.TheNinjaSellingPodcast.com Email: [email protected] Leave a voicemail at (208) MY-NINJA Ninja Selling www.NinjaSelling.com @ninjasellingofficial Ninja Coaching: www.NinjaCoaching.com @ninja.coaching Ninja Events www.NinjaSelling.com/Events The Ninja Selling Podcast Facebook Group Ninja Coaching Book Study Ninja Mastery Ninja Selling by Larry Kendall   Think and Grow Rich   The Gap and the Gain   Golden Handoff  

Rob and Peter are the hosts today, and together they explore the evolving dynamics of the real estate industry, focusing on how agents can navigate the "new normal." They discuss the significant structural changes impacting the market, offering strategies for thriving amidst fewer transactions and increased marketplace noise. Central to their advice is the importance of relationship-building and mastering core business practices like the "Ninja Nine," which are essential for long-term success in real estate. By leveraging these fundamentals, agents can maintain stability in uncertain times while driving business growth. Our hosts emphasize that in today’s competitive market, success boils down to two key aspects: generating business and effectively executing it. They review the power of tools like F.O.R.D. calls and relationship-building techniques, which many agents still struggle to master. To finish 2024 strong and position themselves for success in 2025, agents need to focus on nurturing client relationships, reconnecting with their database, and improving their expertise through live training like Ninja Now. As is highlighted here today, the path to success in real estate isn’t just about surviving—it’s about excelling through skillful, consistent execution. More great advice can be found in the community of 16000 other Ninjas with all levels of experience who collaborate, ask and answer questions, network, and more in the Ninja Selling Podcast group on Facebook at Ninja Selling Podcast Facebook. Leave a voicemail at 208-MY-NINJA if you’d like to offer more direct feedback. Be sure to check out Ninja Selling Events for upcoming installations and other events, and if you’d like personalized help in achieving your goals, visit Ninja Coaching to connect with one of our fantastic coaches. Episode Highlights: 00:00 Real Estate Market's Reaction to Structural Changes 01:27 Industry's Focus on Internal Discussions Over Consumer Impact 02:40 How to Finish 2024 Strong and Set Up for 2025 Success 03:35 Mastering the Ninja Nine System 05:00 The Two Key Challenges in Real Estate 06:51 Why Skill Development is Critical for Business Generation 07:14 Ninja Nine Business Generation and Client Nurturing Strategy 09:10 How Ninja Selling Operates as a Complete System for Real Estate 12:38 Overview of the New Ninja Now Course for Advanced Training 14:05 Navigating Distractions in the Real Estate Industry 15:07 Deep Dive into F.O.R.D Calls Strengthening Client Relationships 18:58 Demonstrating Value in Real Estate Conversations 20:00 Articulating and Creating Value for Buyers and Sellers 23:25 Key Focus Areas to Finish Strong in 2024 and Prepare for 2025 24:12 Nurturing Relationships by Creating Value through the Ninja Nine System 25:12 Final Thoughts on Ninja Now Key Takeaways:   "Nurturing relationships by creating value.”   "The most valuable gift you have to offer is yourself.“   "To finish 2024 strong and set up for success in 2025, focus on the Ninja Nine and creating value."   "Demonstrate your value by creating it, not just articulating it." Links: www.TheNinjaSellingPodcast.com Email: [email protected] Leave a voicemail at (208) MY-NINJA Ninja Selling www.NinjaSelling.com @ninjasellingofficial Ninja Coaching: www.NinjaCoaching.com @ninja.coaching Ninja Events www.NinjaSelling.com/Events The Ninja Selling Podcast Facebook Group Ninja Coaching Book Study Ninja Mastery Ninja Selling by Larry Kendall  

In this latest episode of the Ninja Selling podcast, host Eric Thompson is joined by Joe Robert and Brett Blanchard, the dynamic duo behind the NOLA Property Guys at Reve Real Estate in New Orleans. They discuss how they have successfully expanded their market share in a challenging real estate market by fully embracing the Ninja Selling system. Their conversation highlights the critical role of energy management, the benefits of a well-coordinated team, and the importance of focusing on essential activities that drive real estate success. Joe and Brett reveal how recommitting to the Ninja Selling principles revitalized their business, emphasizing the need to manage energy by eliminating distractions and doubling down on high-impact tasks. They discuss the power of real estate reviews, the effectiveness of phone calls in building client relationships, and the importance of leveraging each other's strengths in teamwork. As you will hear, the insights they share today provide valuable strategies for any real estate professional looking to thrive, even in a down market, making this installment of the Ninja Selling podcast yet another must-listen for all. Even more insightful strategies can be found in the community of 16000 other Ninjas with all levels of experience who collaborate, ask and answer questions, network, and more in the Ninja Selling Podcast group on Facebook at Ninja Selling Podcast Facebook. Leave a voicemail at 208-MY-NINJA if you’d like to offer more direct feedback. Be sure to check out Ninja Selling Events for upcoming installations and other events, and if you’d like personalized help in achieving your goals, visit Ninja Coaching to connect with one of our fantastic coaches. Episode Highlights: 00:55 Recommitting to the Ninja Path for Success 04:47 Leveraging Energy to Drive Business Growth 07:18 Importance of Complementary Strengths in Teams 10:19 Overcoming Fear of Making Phone Calls 11:47 Doubling Down on Efforts to Grow Market Share 13:40 The Power of Real Estate Reviews 18:12 Enhancing Client Relationships with Handwritten Notes 21:23 Using the Vibe Check to Save Time in Home Buying 24:35 Exploring New Orleans French Quarter History and Must Eat Dishes   Key Takeaways: "The system works when you work the system."   "Focus on things you can control. Let go of the noise around you."   "It's not them that's scared. It's us that's scared to make the call."   "When someone's on your heart, it's for a reason. Write them a note."   "Gumbo as a dish describes us as people. It warms your heart and soul."   "Double down on your efforts. Redouble your energy to grow market share."   "Perfection is the enemy of the good. If it's good, let it be good."   "The vibe check saves you time. Make sure the community feels right."   "Write more notes. People love getting mail." Links: www.TheNinjaSellingPodcast.com Email: [email protected] Leave a voicemail at (208) MY-NINJA Ninja Selling www.NinjaSelling.com @ninjasellingofficial Ninja Coaching: www.NinjaCoaching.com @ninja.coaching Ninja Events www.NinjaSelling.com/Events The Ninja Selling Podcast Facebook Group Ninja Coaching Book Study Ninja Mastery Ninja Selling by Larry Kendall   NOLA Property Guys  

Christine Moore, the top-tier realtor from Austin, Texas, and her Ninja Coach, Tracy Peterson- Nienaber, return to join Ninja Selling President, Eric Thompson, for today’s episode. Sharing her extraordinary journey of personal and professional growth, Christine reveals how she scaled her real estate business from $5 million to $18 million while navigating significant life challenges. As you will hear, her story exemplifies the power of the Ninja Selling system in fostering resilience and success, making it a compelling example of how mindset and strategic focus can transform both business and life. Christine delves into the critical strategies and mindset shifts that have defined her success, particularly during times of personal crisis. She discusses the importance of gratitude, time blocking, and commitment to her four pillars as key components in sustaining her business and finding purpose amid adversity. Her experience illustrates how coaching and the Ninja Nine system can be lifelines during difficult times, helping to maintain productivity and achieve ambitious goals. Join this stellar panel today and gain a better understanding of how a strong mindset and the right tools can lead to exceptional outcomes, even in the face of overwhelming challenges. Even more lifelines can be found in the community of 16000 other Ninjas with all levels of experience who collaborate, ask and answer questions, network, and more in the Ninja Selling Podcast group on Facebook at Ninja Selling Podcast Facebook. Leave a voicemail at 208-MY-NINJA if you’d like to offer more direct feedback. Be sure to check out Ninja Selling Events for upcoming installations and other events, and if you’d like personalized help in achieving your goals, visit Ninja Coaching to connect with one of our fantastic coaches. Episode Highlights: 00:00 Introduction to Christine Moore’s Journey 00:35 Christine Moore’s Business Transformation 01:47 Understanding the Impact of the Ninja Selling System 03:39 Achieving High Ranking in a Tough Market 04:46 Overcoming Market Challenges with Ninja Principles 05:22 Attracting High-Net-Worth Clients with Ninja Strategies 07:19 Managing Personal Crisis with a Ninja Mindset 09:55 Building Client Loyalty Amid Personal Challenges 10:15 Update on Christine’s Son’s Health 13:01 Balancing Passion Projects with Professional Focus 15:07 Embracing the Power of a Ninja Mindset 16:15 Overcoming Struggles with Real Estate Reviews 17:53 Taking the Next Step by Hiring an Assistant 19:44 Expressing Gratitude for the Ninja Community Key Takeaways:  "I'm not a perfect Ninja, but I have the perfect Ninja mindset."   "If you work the system, the system works."   "When you provide value, it pays off."   "You have to wake up every day and be very focused."   "You don't have to be perfect to succeed; stay true to the mindset."   "Simple tools can really help us in times of crisis."   "Find your passion and get involved, but don't overcommit."   "Ninja is about focus and doing what you do best." Links: www.TheNinjaSellingPodcast.com Email: [email protected] Leave a voicemail at (208) MY-NINJA Ninja Selling www.NinjaSelling.com @ninjasellingofficial Ninja Coaching: www.NinjaCoaching.com @ninja.coaching Ninja Events www.NinjaSelling.com/Events The Ninja Selling Podcast Facebook Group Ninja Coaching Book Study Ninja Mastery Ninja Selling by Larry Kendall   Christine's LinkedIn   Tracy's LinkedIn  

Larry Kendall is back in the host’s chair this week, and is excited to welcome the remarkable Jonathan Spears, a top real estate professional from northwest Florida, to the podcast. The youngest broker to break a billion dollars in sales, Jonathan shares his amazing journey here today - from entering real estate at 18 to now leading a team generating $500 million annually. Together, he and Larry discuss parallels between Florida and Colorado's second home markets, balancing work and family, and building strong client relationships.  Jonathan's story emphasizes the power of passion, strategic planning, and the importance of building and leading a successful real estate team. He illustrates the significance of adaptability and perseverance in overcoming market challenges, recounting his early days working for minimum wage and learning the market through broker price opinions, eventually transitioning into luxury real estate. Our guest also goes on to highlight the value of strategic marketing, effective self-auditing, and time management to achieve business success. Emphasizing a structured approach and leveraging individual team strength, Jonathan offers invaluable insights for real estate professionals aiming to balance their careers and personal lives in this must-listen episode of the Ninja Selling podcast. So many more incredible insights can be found in the community of 16000 other Ninjas with all levels of experience who collaborate, ask and answer questions, network, and more in the Ninja Selling Podcast group on Facebook at Ninja Selling Podcast Facebook. Leave a voicemail at 208-MY-NINJA if you’d like to offer more direct feedback. Be sure to check out Ninja Selling Events for upcoming installations and other events, and if you’d like personalized help in achieving your goals, visit Ninja Coaching to connect with one of our fantastic coaches. Episode Highlights: 0:00:00 Introduction 0:01:04 Market parallels: Florida and Colorado 0:02:13 Jonathan's early start 0:02:33 His business growth 0:04:42 Jonathan’s first year in real estate 0:09:21 Transition to luxury market 0:11:16 Building relationships with builders and developers 0:12:32 Marketing and PR 0:16:03 Balancing family life and business 0:18:12 Building a team 0:19:17 Hiring an assistant and expanding the team 0:22:03 Implementing Ninja Selling principles 0:24:16 Evolving team and brand 0:26:41 Monitoring performance and building quality relationships 0:28:08 Importance of quality conversations 0:29:32 Adapting to market changes 0:31:38 Generating business through relationships 0:32:05 Self-auditing for efficiency 0:36:39 Falling in love with routine 0:37:10 Final advice   Key Takeaways:  "Where you gravitate is what you'll cultivate." "Be an ambassador of your market." "Self auditing is about self accountability. Track your activities to find inefficiencies." "The biggest advice: always mind your vibe." "If you don't track, you don't care." "Fall in love with the boredom of the routine." "When you show up, show up fully. Let your passion influence those around you."   Links: www.TheNinjaSellingPodcast.com Email: [email protected] Leave a voicemail at (208) MY-NINJA Ninja Selling www.NinjaSelling.com @ninjasellingofficial Ninja Coaching: www.NinjaCoaching.com @ninja.coaching Ninja Events www.NinjaSelling.com/Events The Ninja Selling Podcast Facebook Group Ninja Coaching Book Study Ninja Mastery Ninja Selling by Larry Kendall Spears Group

In today’s unique and informative episode, Rob Nelson and Eric Thompson delve into the strategies for living a drama free life. As the newly appointed head of Ninja Coaching, Eric brings his extensive 30-year experience in real estate and two decades as a Ninja to the forefront, sharing practical wisdom from his book, No Drama Zone. The discussion highlights how his calm and strategic approach has positively impacted his team, especially during the challenging period of 2020.  Throughout the episode, Eric identifies the three root causes of drama—dramatic people, low trust, and lack of clarity—and provides insights on how to address these to reduce chaos in life. The episode also explores the significance of adopting a proactive mindset, known as the player mentality, and the importance of setting clear boundaries and learning to say "no." By focusing on what you can control, Eric emphasizes, you can create a more peaceful and productive environment.  Listeners, today, are even treated to a special segment where Eric reads directly from his book, offering actionable advice on maintaining balance and focus in both personal and professional settings. And to help listeners even further, Eric invites them to embark on a transformative 100-day journey with daily lessons from his book, ensuring these principles become ingrained in their everyday lives. This episode has it all! Don’t forget that even more inspiring information and advice can be yours by joining the community of 16000 other Ninjas with all levels of experience who collaborate, ask and answer questions, network, and more in the Ninja Selling Podcast group on Facebook at Ninja Selling Podcast Facebook. Leave a voicemail at 208-MY-NINJA if you’d like to offer more direct feedback. Be sure to check out Ninja Selling Events for upcoming installations and other events, and if you’d like personalized help in achieving your goals, visit Ninja Coaching to connect with one of our fantastic coaches. Episode Highlights: 00:00:21 Introduction of Eric 00:01:54 His qualifications and experience 00:03:43 Eric’s tenure as president of The Group 00:05:23 His inspiration behind writing No Drama Zone 00:08:11 Three root causes of drama 00:10:57 Player vs. victim mindset 00:13:13 Real estate transactions and drama 00:14:17 The importance of clarity 00:18:41 The No Drama Zone audiobook and the Ninja Selling No Drama Zone 00:19:45 Eric’s reading of the first section of No Drama Zone Key Takeaways: "Drama sucks the life and soul out of us. Drama moves in where inspiration, focus, and clarity once lived." "There's an inverse relationship between trust and drama." "Players simply focus on the things that they can control, and they get fully in control of those things." "Without certainty and clarity, there is drama." "It's time to get over it. No more keeping score in your personal relationships." "Judging puts you on a path to be old and grumpy. Curiosity puts you on a path to be wise and cheerful." Links: www.TheNinjaSellingPodcast.com Email: [email protected] Leave a voicemail at (208) MY-NINJA Ninja Selling www.NinjaSelling.com @ninjasellingofficial Ninja Coaching: www.NinjaCoaching.com @ninja.coaching Ninja Events www.NinjaSelling.com/Events The Ninja Selling Podcast Facebook Group Ninja Coaching Book Study Ninja Mastery Ninja Selling by Larry Kendall Ninja Selling No Drama Zone  

The incomparable Larry Kendall takes over the hosting duties today to sit down for a fascinating conversation with the person who literally wrote the book on generating business referrals without asking. Stacey Brown Randall, national speaker and author of, of course, Generating Business Referrals Without Asking joins Larry to discuss the art of cultivating referrals without the awkwardness of asking and share the secrets of building a thriving referral-based business.  Stacey shares her journey from a failed business to becoming an expert in referrals, emphasizing the power of building genuine relationships. Along the way, she and Larry explore the nuances of referral marketing, including the importance of understanding your referral sources and creating memorable and meaningful connections. Together, they delve into the concept of "hot zones" for referrals and how to plant "referral seeds" effectively, and Stacey rounds things out by discussing her comprehensive system for generating referrals, including personalized thank-you notes and strategic communication to nurture relationships. So many more incredible insights can be found in the community of 16000 other Ninjas with all levels of experience who collaborate, ask and answer questions, network, and more in the Ninja Selling Podcast group on Facebook at Ninja Selling Podcast Facebook. Leave a voicemail at 208-MY-NINJA if you’d like to offer more direct feedback. Be sure to check out Ninja Selling Events for upcoming installations and other events, and if you’d like personalized help in achieving your goals, visit Ninja Coaching to connect with one of our fantastic coaches.   Episode Highlights: 0:00:05 Introduction to the episode and Stacey 0:01:05 Shared philosophies 0:02:54 Stacey's career journey 0:06:22 Writing the book and launching a podcast 0:08:50 Referral generation philosophy 0:12:13 Planting ‘referral seeds’ 0:16:22 The torture of not getting referrals 0:18:19 Hot zones for referrals 0:23:49 Integration with Ninja Selling 0:24:06 Stacey's resources and programs 0:26:22 Final advice on referral sources 0:27:29 Final thoughts and farewell   Key Takeaways: "Referrals only come from relationships, but relationships need ongoing connection." "It's about being memorable and meaningful in your outreach." "Planting referral seeds isn't just about saying, 'Thank you for your referrals.' It's about showing genuine appreciation and creating a memorable experience." "Identify who your referral sources are and decide if you need to take better care of them because they take care of your business." "A referral is not about you getting a new client; it's about helping someone solve a problem." "Referrals are abundant if you can figure out how to earn them and plant the referral seeds." "In a business built on relationships, it's crucial to show that you genuinely care beyond just business transactions." "Tracking and understanding your referral sources is the first step in enhancing your referral strategy." Links: www.TheNinjaSellingPodcast.com Email: [email protected] Leave a voicemail at (208) MY-NINJA Ninja Selling www.NinjaSelling.com @ninjasellingofficial Ninja Coaching: www.NinjaCoaching.com @ninja.coaching Ninja Events www.NinjaSelling.com/Events The Ninja Selling Podcast Facebook Group Ninja Coaching Book Study Ninja Mastery Ninja Selling by Larry Kendall Stacey Brown Randall

Celebrated Master Ninja Instructor and co-creator of the Ninja Installation, Don Tennessen, joins Rob on the podcast for today’s examination of Ninja Selling's "Five Magic Questions," a crucial tool for building client relationships by prioritizing their needs and interests. Together, they note that, unlike traditional sales methods that focus on the salesperson, Ninja Selling emphasizes asking insightful questions, fostering a genuine connection with clients.    Don and Rob explore how this approach not only builds rapport but also uncovers potential business opportunities by focusing on personal aspects such as Family, Occupation, Recreation, and Dreams (F.O.R.D). They go on to offer a practical demonstration of using these questions to engage clients naturally, illustrating their effectiveness in both personal and professional contexts. The pair also stress the importance of adapting and practicing these questions, being attentive and flexible, and tailoring conversations to the unique situations of each client. Join Don and Rob today and learn how well-practiced skills can lead to more natural and meaningful conversations, setting the stage for successful outcomes. Plenty more strategies for success can be found in the community of 16000 other Ninjas with all levels of experience who collaborate, ask and answer questions, network, and more in the Ninja Selling Podcast group on Facebook at Ninja Selling Podcast Facebook. Leave a voicemail at 208-MY-NINJA if you’d like to offer more direct feedback. Be sure to check out Ninja Selling Events for upcoming installations and other events, and if you’d like personalized help in achieving your goals, visit Ninja Coaching to connect with one of our fantastic coaches. Episode Highlights: 0:00 Start 0:24 Introducing the Five Magic Questions 2:30 Relationship-building focus 2:52 The F.O.R.D. framework 4:27 Role-playing the F.O.R.D. questions 8:08 Adapting to changing circumstances 13:04 Practicing the questions 13:41 Resources and community engagement Key Takeaways:   "Build relationships by focusing on them, not yourself. Ask questions, don't just answer."   "Pay attention to others. People love talking about their favorite subject: themselves."   "Asking great questions reveals changes in people's lives, leading to business opportunities."   "Practice the Five Magic Questions to make conversations natural and not awkward."   "A house for every kid: Buy a rental property young, let tenants pay, and fund college with it."   "Understand that people have options. Ask questions to discover their hopes and dreams."   "Always follow the lead of the person you're talking to. It's not about scripts, but connection." Links: www.TheNinjaSellingPodcast.com Email: [email protected] Leave a voicemail at (208) MY-NINJA Ninja Selling www.NinjaSelling.com @ninjasellingofficial Ninja Coaching: www.NinjaCoaching.com @ninja.coaching Ninja Events www.NinjaSelling.com/Events The Ninja Selling Podcast Facebook Group Ninja Coaching Book Study Ninja Mastery Ninja Selling by Larry Kendall Don Tennessen  

Ninja Selling’s CEO Rob Nelson is back again today, and this time he is joined by Peter Parnegg, an author and Ninja Selling Instructor boasting more than 4 decades of experience in the real estate industry. Together, they explore the transformative power of asking the right questions in sales, complete with a discussion of how the Socratic method, a core element of Ninja Selling, differs from traditional sales presentations by focusing on inquiry rather than scripts. They note that this approach not only creates value for clients but also builds deeper connections and trust.  Emphasizing the importance of having a diverse set of skills to handle unexpected situations with elegance, Peter goes on to highlight the key elements of Ninja Selling: Mindset, Skillset, and Actions. He also delves into his book, Why Bother Asking?, which focuses on the power of questions in creating meaningful connections. Our guest goes on to explain how clarifying ambiguous terms and focusing on genuine interactions can transform sales and personal relationships. Wrapping up with Peter sharing the significance of the Ninja Selling key symbol, which represents the energetic connections within the Ninja community, today’s episode underscores the truth that being seen and heard, and helping others feel the same, is essential not only for a successful business but for a fulfilling life as well. An outstanding opportunity to be seen and heard can be found in the community of 16000 other Ninjas with all levels of experience who collaborate, ask and answer questions, network, and more in the Ninja Selling Podcast group on Facebook at Ninja Selling Podcast Facebook. Leave a voicemail at 208-MY-NINJA if you’d like to offer more direct feedback. Be sure to check out Ninja Selling Events for upcoming installations and other events, and if you’d like personalized help in achieving your goals, visit Ninja Coaching to connect with one of our fantastic coaches. Episode Highlights: 00:00 Start 00:23 Introduction 04:14 Presentation vs. socratic presentation 05:46 The creation of value through questions 06:39 Elegance in sales 09:22 Core elements of Ninja Selling 10:00 Buyer and Seller Processes 11:13 Words that mean nothing 14:38 Writing a book on questions 17:28 The importance of connection 19:42 The Ninja Selling key symbol   Key Takeaways: "People love to buy and they don't want to be sold. Stop selling and start attracting." "Creating value is through asking questions that lead to clarity." "Most salespeople have a very small bag of shot selection. Build a bigger toolbox for elegance." "The paydirt of being alive is ultimately our interactions with human beings." "When you say ‘big’, tell me what that means to you. Always clarify words that mean nothing." "People are loyal to you when they know you, like you, and trust you." "Most of us listen with the intent to reply rather than with the intent to understand." "The way we connect better is by asking people about what's important to them." "Fulfillment comes from being seen, being heard, and helping others feel seen and heard."   Links: www.TheNinjaSellingPodcast.com Email: [email protected] Leave a voicemail at (208) MY-NINJA Ninja Selling www.NinjaSelling.com @ninjasellingofficial Ninja Coaching: www.NinjaCoaching.com @ninja.coaching Ninja Events www.NinjaSelling.com/Events The Ninja Selling Podcast Facebook Group Ninja Coaching Book Study Ninja Mastery Ninja Selling by Larry Kendall   Peter Parnegg