How to Avoid the Wrong Guy

😍 JOIN OUR NEWEST FREE MUSLIM MARRIAGE ACCELERATOR COMMUNITY: ⁠https://www.skool.com/muslimmarriageaccelerator⁠👉 The fastest & simplest solution to finding a compatible guy with THE EXACT STEPS YOU NEED TO GET MARRIED THIS YEAR! https://www.mindful-muslimah.com/blueprint/👉 Do you want to Fast Track Your Spouse Search with LIVE Help? Qualify for FREE CALL here: https://www.mindful-muslimah.com/qualify-20-minute-call/ 👉Get the Exact Questions & Method that Will Help You Find a Good Guy Within 7 Days https://www.mindful-muslimah.com/compatibility-bundle/ -------------------This episode is all about helping you recognize who’s worth your time — and who isn’t.Whether you're dating for marriage or trying to break old patterns, this conversation guides you through red flags, green flags, and the mindset shifts that lead to healthier choices. You’ll hear real stories, relatable experiences, and gentle but firm reminders about self-worth, boundaries, and emotional maturity.By the end, you’ll know exactly what to look for in a partner — and how to protect your energy from people who aren’t serious or aligned with your values.------------------TIMESTAMPS:00:00 – 01:30 — Purpose & Introduction01:31 – 05:00 — Spotting Time-Wasters Early07:01 – 12:00 — Red Flags You Can’t Ignore12:01 – 17:00 — Green Flags & Healthy Traits17:01 – 22:00 — Personal Lessons & Real Transformations22:01 – End — Resources, Support, and Next Steps------------------❤️ Follow Mindful Muslimah for more tips and updates: Website: ⁠https://www.mindful-muslimah.com/ ⁠Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/mindfulmuslimah/‬⁠🎙️ Listen to the most famous podcast for Muslim women to date (7.2 Mil): ➡️ On Spotify https://open.spotify.com/show/3tVDwPd7LYYwQM7gEHMprF➡️ On Apple https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/mindful-muslimah-speaks/id1447820372➡️ On YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@MindfulMuslimah Any questions?Send me a DM via IG at @MindfulMuslimahSend us an email at [email protected]

😍 JOIN OUR NEWEST FREE MUSLIM MARRIAGE ACCELERATOR COMMUNITY: ⁠https://www.skool.com/muslimmarriageaccelerator⁠👉 The fastest & simplest solution to finding a compatible guy with THE EXACT STEPS YOU NEED TO GET MARRIED THIS YEAR! https://www.mindful-muslimah.com/blueprint/👉 Do you want to Fast Track Your Spouse Search with LIVE Help? Qualify for FREE CALL here: https://www.mindful-muslimah.com/qualify-20-minute-call/ 👉Get the Exact Questions & Method that Will Help You Find a Good Guy Within 7 Days https://www.mindful-muslimah.com/compatibility-bundle/ -------------------This episode breaks down the real markers of long-term compatibility — the things that matter far more than job titles, achievements, or how “religious” someone looks on the outside.We dig deep into growth mindset, emotional maturity, and how people handle failure, feedback, and discomfort — the traits that determine whether someone can actually grow with you in a marriage.You’ll also hear a real-life story of a sister who ignored the early signs — and what we can all learn from it.If you want to know whether someone is truly ready for a healthy, evolving marriage, this episode gives you the exact questions and behaviors to look for.------------------TIMESTAMPS:00:00 – 02:15 — Why Growth Mindset Matters More Than Anything02:16 – 05:30 — 3 Signs of Emotional Maturity You Can Spot Early05:31 – 08:00 — How They Handle Failure08:01 – 11:45 — Feedback: The Ultimate Green or Red Flag11:46 – 14:30 — A Real Story: She Missed the Signs14:31 – End — Final Reminder: Choose Growth, Not Comfort------------------❤️ Follow Mindful Muslimah for more tips and updates: Website: ⁠https://www.mindful-muslimah.com/ ⁠Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/mindfulmuslimah/‬⁠🎙️ Listen to the most famous podcast for Muslim women to date (7.2 Mil): ➡️ On Spotify https://open.spotify.com/show/3tVDwPd7LYYwQM7gEHMprF➡️ On Apple https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/mindful-muslimah-speaks/id1447820372➡️ On YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@MindfulMuslimah Any questions?Send me a DM via IG at @MindfulMuslimahSend us an email at [email protected]

😍 JOIN OUR NEWEST FREE MUSLIM MARRIAGE ACCELERATOR COMMUNITY: ⁠https://www.skool.com/muslimmarriageaccelerator⁠👉 The fastest & simplest solution to finding a compatible guy with THE EXACT STEPS YOU NEED TO GET MARRIED THIS YEAR! https://www.mindful-muslimah.com/blueprint/👉 Do you want to Fast Track Your Spouse Search with LIVE Help? Qualify for FREE CALL here: https://www.mindful-muslimah.com/qualify-20-minute-call/ 👉Get the Exact Questions & Method that Will Help You Find a Good Guy Within 7 Days https://www.mindful-muslimah.com/compatibility-bundle/ -------------------Struggling to find a spouse in 2025 — even with more options than ever?You’re not alone. In this episode, Mindful Muslima breaks down why the modern marriage process feels so overwhelming and what you can actually do to navigate it with clarity, confidence, and faith.We’ll talk about the paradox of choice, pressure from social media, fear of making the wrong choice, and why today’s dating landscape feels harder than ever for Muslim women. You’ll also learn the steps to building a proven system so you’re not relying on chance or getting stuck in endless overthinking.If you’re tired of guessing, feeling confused, or losing hope — this episode is your roadmap.✨ You deserve a clear, halal, and emotionally healthy path to marriage.------------------TIMESTAMPS:00:00 – 00:11 — Why Marriage Is Harder in 202501:03 – 01:16 — Hyperconnected but Lonely01:17 – 01:39 — Superficial Interactions, Zero Connection01:39 – 01:55 — Too Many Options = Too Much Pressure01:55 – 02:08 — Fear of Settling & Comparison02:31 – 02:53 — The Myth of “Certainty” in Marriage03:22 – 03:40 — Everyone Struggles (They Just Don’t Post It)04:01 – 04:14 — You Don’t Even Know What “Healthy” Looks Like04:30 – 04:53 — The Pressure to “Get It Right”05:35 – 05:47 — You Don’t Need a Perfect Background07:06 – 07:22 — Building Confidence, Not Fear10:27 – 10:37 — You Can Get Married in 2026-----------------❤️ Follow Mindful Muslimah for more tips and updates: Website: ⁠https://www.mindful-muslimah.com/ ⁠Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/mindfulmuslimah/‬⁠🎙️ Listen to the most famous podcast for Muslim women to date (7.2 Mil): ➡️ On Spotify https://open.spotify.com/show/3tVDwPd7LYYwQM7gEHMprF➡️ On Apple https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/mindful-muslimah-speaks/id1447820372➡️ On YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@MindfulMuslimah Any questions?Send me a DM via IG at @MindfulMuslimahSend us an email at [email protected]

😍 JOIN OUR NEWEST FREE MUSLIM MARRIAGE ACCELERATOR COMMUNITY: ⁠https://www.skool.com/muslimmarriageaccelerator⁠👉 The fastest & simplest solution to finding a compatible guy with THE EXACT STEPS YOU NEED TO GET MARRIED THIS YEAR! https://www.mindful-muslimah.com/blueprint/👉 Do you want to Fast Track Your Spouse Search with LIVE Help? Qualify for FREE CALL here: https://www.mindful-muslimah.com/qualify-20-minute-call/ 👉Get the Exact Questions & Method that Will Help You Find a Good Guy Within 7 Days https://www.mindful-muslimah.com/compatibility-bundle/ -------------------Are you thinking about using Muzz / Mismatch to find a spouse — but worried about wasting years of your life, getting hurt, or ending up in another “ick” experience?In this episode, I break down real stories from 10,000+ Muslim women, the good, the bad, and the heartbreaking… plus why some sisters get married from these apps and others walk away more confused than ever.In this video you’ll learn:• What Muslim women really experience on Mismatch/Muzz• The hidden red flags and time-wasters you must avoid• Which features help protect you (and which don’t)• Why marriage app results vary so widely• The 3 things successful sisters do before they ever swipe• How to use any app as a halal database, not a place to get emotionally attachedIf you want to stop wasting time, avoid heartbreak, and approach marriage in a halal, confident, strategic way — this one is for you.-----------------TIMESTAMPS:00:00 – 02:30 — Intro to the Podcast02:31 – 10:00 — Different Experiences on Marriage Apps10:01 – 18:00 — App Features & Challenges18:01 – 25:00 — Strategies for Success25:01 – 32:00 — Personalized Challenges32:01 – End — Conclusion & Call to Action------------------❤️ Follow Mindful Muslimah for more tips and updates: Website: ⁠https://www.mindful-muslimah.com/ ⁠Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/mindfulmuslimah/‬⁠🎙️ Listen to the most famous podcast for Muslim women to date (7.2 Mil): ➡️ On Spotify https://open.spotify.com/show/3tVDwPd7LYYwQM7gEHMprF➡️ On Apple https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/mindful-muslimah-speaks/id1447820372➡️ On YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@MindfulMuslimah Any questions?Send me a DM via IG at @MindfulMuslimahSend us an email at [email protected]

😍 JOIN OUR NEWEST FREE MUSLIM MARRIAGE ACCELERATOR COMMUNITY: ⁠https://www.skool.com/muslimmarriageaccelerator⁠👉 The fastest & simplest solution to finding a compatible guy with THE EXACT STEPS YOU NEED TO GET MARRIED THIS YEAR! https://www.mindful-muslimah.com/blueprint/👉 Do you want to Fast Track Your Spouse Search with LIVE Help? Qualify for FREE CALL here: https://www.mindful-muslimah.com/qualify-20-minute-call/ We're doing a Limited Time HUGE Giveaway by giving one sister ➡️ 1-FULL YEAR of coaching to ❤️ help with getting married with Mindful Muslimah for FREE!🥳 Enter to WIN here: https://www.mindful-muslimah.com/giveaway/👉Get the Exact Questions & Method that Will Help You Find a Good Guy Within 7 Days https://www.mindful-muslimah.com/compatibility-bundle/ -------------------Let’s be brutally honest — the matchmaking industry doesn’t profit when you get married… it profits when you don’t. 💔After 25 years of helping women get married without wasting years or thousands of dollars, Mindful Muslima exposes the truth about matchmaking — why it fails, how it preys on your hope, and what actually works if you want to finally find a good husband.This is not a rant — it’s a reality check every Muslim woman deserves before giving another cent to a broken system.TIMESTAMPS:00:00:00 – 00:00:21 | The Truth About Matchmaking00:00:21 – 00:00:41 | The Fantasy of Outsourcing Love00:01:38 – 00:02:00 | The Matchmaker Myth00:02:29 – 00:03:41 | Problem #1 00:04:11 – 00:05:15 | Problem #2 00:05:15 – 00:06:21 | Problem #3 00:06:21 – 00:07:25 | Problem #4 00:07:25 – 00:07:43 | Problem #5 00:08:42 – 00:09:18 | Danger #1 00:09:18 – 00:09:40 | Danger #2 00:09:40 – 00:10:03 | Danger #3 00:10:23 – 00:10:48 | Danger #4 00:11:20 – 00:12:23 | Danger #5 12:23 | The Real Solution------------------❤️ Follow Mindful Muslimah for more tips and updates: Website: ⁠https://www.mindful-muslimah.com/ ⁠Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/mindfulmuslimah/‬⁠🎙️ Listen to the most famous podcast for Muslim women to date (7.2 Mil): ➡️ On Spotify https://open.spotify.com/show/3tVDwPd7LYYwQM7gEHMprF➡️ On Apple https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/mindful-muslimah-speaks/id1447820372➡️ On YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@MindfulMuslimah Any questions?Send me a DM via IG at @MindfulMuslimahSend us an email at [email protected]

😍 JOIN OUR NEWEST FREE MUSLIM MARRIAGE ACCELERATOR COMMUNITY: ⁠https://www.skool.com/muslimmarriageaccelerator⁠👉 The fastest & simplest solution to finding a compatible guy with THE EXACT STEPS YOU NEED TO GET MARRIED THIS YEAR! ⁠https://www.mindful-muslimah.com/blueprint/⁠👉 Do you want to Fast Track Your Spouse Search with LIVE Help? Qualify for FREE CALL here: ⁠https://www.mindful-muslimah.com/qualify-20-minute-call/ ⁠👉Get the Exact Questions & Method that Will Help You Find a Good Guy Within 7 Days ⁠https://www.mindful-muslimah.com/compatibility-bundle/⁠ -------------------You think you’re ready for marriage — but what if the truth is that you’ve made the search your identity? In this raw, faith-based talk, Mindful Muslima breaks down the #1 hidden reason so many Muslim women stay stuck — not because there are no good men, but because of how they’re choosing.You’ll discover how confusing feelings with facts leads to heartbreak, and why your “butterflies” might actually be anxiety — not chemistry. It’s time to shift from emotional decisions to faith-based clarity.If you’re serious about getting married this year, this episode will wake you up and show you what’s really blocking your path.Grab your coffee ☕ and your notebook — this one’s deep.TIMESTAMPS:00:00 – 00:00:10 | Real Talk — The Harsh Truth00:00:10 – 00:00:26 | When Searching Becomes Your Identity00:00:26 – 00:00:48 | The Fear of Actually Finding Him00:01:26 – 00:01:44 | The #1 Thing Sabotaging Your Search00:01:44 – 00:01:57 | Feelings vs. Facts00:01:57 – 00:02:16 | The Big Confusion00:02:16 – 00:03:04 | Hannah’s Story — The “Butterflies” Trap00:03:04 – 00:03:59 | What Butterflies Really Mean00:04:00 – 00:04:45 | The Truth About Why You’re Still Single00:04:45 – 00:05:57 | Aisha’s Story — How Everything Changed00:05:57 – 00:07:32 | The System That Actually Works00:07:32 – 00:08:09 | How Real Love Grows00:08:09 – 00:10:14 | The Broken System of “Vibes” Dating00:10:14 – 00:11:21 | Feelings Can’t Vet Porn, Anger, or Ego00:12:24 – 00:13:28 | Seeing Your Blind Spots00:14:41 – 00:15:19 | The Hard Truth for Introverts00:15:19 – 00:15:54 | Why You’re Overthinking Marriage------------------❤️ Follow Mindful Muslimah for more tips and updates: Website: ⁠https://www.mindful-muslimah.com/ ⁠Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/mindfulmuslimah/‬⁠🎙️ Listen to the most famous podcast for Muslim women to date (7.2 Mil): ➡️ On Spotify https://open.spotify.com/show/3tVDwPd7LYYwQM7gEHMprF➡️ On Apple https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/mindful-muslimah-speaks/id1447820372➡️ On YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@MindfulMuslimah Any questions?Send me a DM via IG at @MindfulMuslimahSend us an email at [email protected]

😍 JOIN OUR NEWEST FREE MUSLIM MARRIAGE ACCELERATOR COMMUNITY: ⁠https://www.skool.com/muslimmarriageaccelerator⁠👉 Strengthen your marriage HERE: https://mindfulmuslimah.myflodesk.com/rllwtz1thl👉 6 tips for a Healthy Marriage: https://mindfulmuslimah.myflodesk.com/6-tips-pdf-------------------Most marriages don’t fall apart because of cheating or money problems — they fall apart because of contempt. In this powerful breakdown, we uncover the hidden habits that silently kill marriages and reveal the communication shifts that can save them.This episode is a must-watch for anyone who wants to heal, rebuild, or strengthen their marriage through emotional intelligence, faith, and real connection.TIMESTAMPS:00:00 – 00:00:07 | The Shocking Truth About Divorce00:00:08 – 00:00:18 | Subtle Signs of Contempt00:00:35 – 00:00:46 | It’s Not Lack of Love — It’s Communication00:00:47 – 00:01:07 | Communication = Power00:01:07 – 00:01:28 | The Tone That Builds or Breaks00:01:29 – 00:01:56 | The Power of a Woman’s Role04:09 – 07:40 - Pattern #1: “You Never” — The Death Trap07:41 – 09:24 - The ACW Formula10:16 – 13:52 - Pattern #2: The Masculine Energy Problem14:00 – 18:07 - Pattern #3: When Honesty Becomes Emotional Violence18:07 – 18:31 - Full-Circle Moment: Contempt Kills------------------❤️ Follow Mindful Muslimah for more tips and updates: Website: ⁠https://www.mindful-muslimah.com/ ⁠Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/mindfulmuslimah/‬⁠🎙️ Listen to the most famous podcast for Muslim women to date (7.2 Mil): ➡️ On Spotify https://open.spotify.com/show/3tVDwPd7LYYwQM7gEHMprF➡️ On Apple https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/mindful-muslimah-speaks/id1447820372➡️ On YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@MindfulMuslimah Any questions?Send me a DM via IG at @MindfulMuslimahSend us an email at [email protected]

😍 JOIN OUR NEWEST FREE MUSLIM MARRIAGE ACCELERATOR COMMUNITY: ⁠https://www.skool.com/muslimmarriageaccelerator⁠👉 The fastest & simplest solution to finding a compatible guy with THE EXACT STEPS YOU NEED TO GET MARRIED THIS YEAR! https://www.mindful-muslimah.com/blueprint/👉 Do you want to Fast Track Your Spouse Search with LIVE Help? Qualify for FREE CALL here: https://www.mindful-muslimah.com/qualify-20-minute-call/ 👉Get the Exact Questions & Method that Will Help You Find a Good Guy Within 7 Days https://www.mindful-muslimah.com/compatibility-bundle/ -------------------“I ignored every red flag Allah put in front of me. Married him anyway. Cried every night for three years.”If you’ve ever wondered how to truly know if someone is right for you before marriage — this is the episode that will change everything. Mindful Muslima shares the exact question (and 5 powerful follow-ups) that would’ve saved her years of pain — and can help you avoid the same heartbreak.This is your crash course in Islamic vetting, emotional intelligence, and self-awareness — so you don’t mistake chemistry for compatibility ever again.Grab your notebook — this one’s a masterclass. 🖊️TIMESTAMPS: 00:00:00 – 00:00:33 | The Mistake That Changed Everything00:01:00 – 00:02:07 | Free Coaching Giveaway Announcement 🎁00:02:07 – 00:02:32 | The Mission Behind the Podcast00:02:32 – 00:03:46 | The Story Begins: 199800:03:46 – 00:04:14 | Meeting Amina — The Modern Muslimah Struggle00:04:14 – 00:05:06 | The One Question That Reveals Everything00:05:06 – 00:06:36 | How to Ask It Naturally (Not Like an Interview)00:06:36 – 00:07:51 | Spotting Red Flags in Their Answer00:07:51 – 00:09:00 | Example of an Emotionally Mature Response00:09:00 – 00:10:32 | The Power of Follow-Up Questions00:10:32 – 00:13:00 | When He Calls You ‘Too Intense’ or ‘Interrogating’00:13:00 – 00:15:19 | Building Your Own Vetting Questions00:15:19 – 00:16:20 | Final Lessons & Reminder------------------❤️ Follow Mindful Muslimah for more tips and updates: Website: ⁠https://www.mindful-muslimah.com/ ⁠Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/mindfulmuslimah/‬⁠🎙️ Listen to the most famous podcast for Muslim women to date (7.2 Mil): ➡️ On Spotify https://open.spotify.com/show/3tVDwPd7LYYwQM7gEHMprF➡️ On Apple https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/mindful-muslimah-speaks/id1447820372➡️ On YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@MindfulMuslimah Any questions?Send me a DM via IG at @MindfulMuslimahSend us an email at [email protected]

😍 JOIN OUR NEWEST FREE MUSLIM MARRIAGE ACCELERATOR COMMUNITY: ⁠https://www.skool.com/muslimmarriageaccelerator⁠👉 Strengthen your marriage HERE: ⁠https://mindfulmuslimah.myflodesk.com/rllwtz1thl⁠👉 6 tips for a Healthy Marriage: ⁠https://mindfulmuslimah.myflodesk.com/6-tips-pdf⁠---------------------A truly healthy relationship isn’t built on feelings alone—it’s built on deen, respect, and understanding. 🌙 In this video, we explore the hidden psychology behind lasting love, framed through the wisdom of Islam.💡 You’ll learn:- The mindset shifts that strengthen bonds- How mercy (rahmah) and patience create stability- The role of taqwa in building trust and harmonyWhen hearts align with Allah, relationships flourish with peace and balance. ✨--------------TIMESTAMPS:00:00 - 01:08 - Introduction01:08 - 03:00 - Generative Drive3:00 - 05:35 - The Role of Mentalization in Relationships05:35 - 08:10 - The Power Dynamics and Relationship Health08:10 - 11:12 - Trauma Bonds and Healing11:12 - 18:10 - Practical Scenarops and Solutions-------------❤️ Follow Mindful Muslimah for more tips and updates: Website: ⁠https://www.mindful-muslimah.com/ ⁠Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/mindfulmuslimah/‬⁠🎙️ Listen to the most famous podcast for Muslim women to date (7.2 Mil): ➡️ On Spotify https://open.spotify.com/show/3tVDwPd7LYYwQM7gEHMprF➡️ On Apple https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/mindful-muslimah-speaks/id1447820372➡️ On YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@MindfulMuslimah Any questions?Send me a DM via IG at @MindfulMuslimah

😍 JOIN OUR NEWEST FREE MUSLIM MARRIAGE ACCELERATOR COMMUNITY: ⁠https://www.skool.com/muslimmarriageaccelerator⁠👉 The fastest & simplest solution to finding a compatible guy with THE EXACT STEPS YOU NEED TO GET MARRIED THIS YEAR! https://www.mindful-muslimah.com/blueprint/👉 Do you want to Fast Track Your Spouse Search with LIVE Help? Qualify for FREE CALL here: https://www.mindful-muslimah.com/qualify-20-minute-call/ --------------In Islam, your worth isn’t measured by your past—it’s measured by your taqwa and your return to Allah. 💫 This video is a reminder that even if you’ve made mistakes, Allah’s mercy is greater than your sins.💡 We’ll talk about:- Why your value is not lost- The power of sincere repentance (tawbah)- How to rebuild self-respect and move forward with dignityNo judgment, only guidance and hope. 🌙#Islam #SelfWorth #Tawbah #RelationshipAdvice-----------------TIMESTAMPS:00:00 - 01:32 - Introduction01:33 - 02:45 - Key Concepts and Definitions02:46 - 05:00 - In-Depth Analysis05:01 - 08:00 - Expert Opinions and Interviews08:01 -12:00 - Takeaways-----------------❤️ Follow Mindful Muslimah for more tips and updates: Website: ⁠https://www.mindful-muslimah.com/ ⁠Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/mindfulmuslimah/‬⁠🎙️ Listen to the most famous podcast for Muslim women to date (7.2 Mil): ➡️ On Spotify https://open.spotify.com/show/3tVDwPd7LYYwQM7gEHMprF➡️ On Apple https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/mindful-muslimah-speaks/id1447820372➡️ On YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@MindfulMuslimah Any questions?Send me a DM via IG at @MindfulMuslimah