The First-Time Mom Starter Pack

This week on, Mel is joined by a special guest while Becs is on maternity leave! Ashley, one of Mel’s closest childhood friends and a Certified Nurse Midwife, joins us for an honest conversation about miscarriage, infertility, and trying to conceive.Mel opens up about her recent pregnancy loss, while Ashley shares her medical knowledge and answers questions submitted by YOU! We talk about the emotional side of TTC, navigating pregnancy loss, and how to support those going through it.Whether you’ve experienced these struggles yourself or want to better understand them, we hope this conversation reminds you that you’re not alone. 🤍A gentle note: This episode includes discussions of miscarriage, infertility, and pregnancy loss. Please listen with care.

Becs shares the story of one of the craziest relationships from her past. What started out seemingly normal quickly turned into red flag after red flag… and eventually, things got scary.We’re talking about the moments she should’ve seen coming, the breakup that took a wild turn, and everything that happened in between. Buckle up for this one. 👀🚩Content warning: This episode includes discussion of an unhealthy relationship, threatening behavior, and physical violence. Please listen with discretion.

In this episode, it starts with birth prep and how to induce labor, and ends with weird kiss stories that we probably should’ve kept to ourselves..Grab a Dr Pepper and join us for some real bestie girl chat. Welcome to another Messy Minute. 🫶

The headphone game, a little chit-chat, and then somehow complete chaos ensued. This one is short, sweet, and ended very differently than we expected.Let’s just say… we literally could not continue. Enjoy 😂

Having your first baby is SO exciting… and also completely overwhelming. There are approximately one million things people tell you that you “need” before your baby arrives, but what do you actually need?In this episode, we’re breaking down the first-time mom must-haves, from the things you’ll use constantly to the things you can totally skip. We’re talking newborn essentials, postpartum must-haves, feeding, diapers, sleep, and all the little things we wish someone had told us about before becoming moms.If you’re pregnant with your first baby, building your registry, or just wondering what you actually need to survive those first few weeks—we’ve got you. 🤍

We’ve been friends for a LONG time, but our friendship hasn’t always looked the way it does now.In this episode, we’re telling the full story of Becs & Mel — early years of friendship, drifting apart, reconnecting, and how our friendship became stronger than ever.It’s a little nostalgic, a little messy, and very us. 🫶🏼

In this episode, we’re getting real about what marriage looks like—from how we met our husbands, to conflict and communication, the arguments that come with sharing a life, and those seasons when you start feeling more like roommates than a couple.We’re sharing the marriage advice that’s actually helped us, what we’ve learned from our own mistakes, and how to bring the connection, fun, and friendship back when life starts getting in the way.If you’re married, engaged, dating, or just curious about what happens after the “I do,” this one is for you. 💍🤍

You asked, so we’re diving into motherhood! From postpartum to mom guilt, balancing marriage, funny kid stories, and everything in between—we’re sharing the parts we love, the parts that have been hard, and the things we wish someone would’ve told us before becoming moms.

In this episode of Messy Minutes, we’re opening up about one of the most difficult experiences we’ve had as creators.What started as a supportive follower slowly turned into a relationship filled with blurred boundaries, manipulation, and life threats. As things escalated, we made the difficult decision to step away—but it didn’t end there. The situation eventually involved another member of our community who was a minor, making it even more concerning.We’re sharing what happened, how it affected us behind the scenes, what we learned about setting boundaries online, and why it’s so important to recognize when a parasocial relationship has become unhealthy.Trigger warning: This episode discusses emotional manipulation and suicidal threats. Our goal isn’t to shame anyone, but to share our experience honestly and encourage healthier boundaries between creators and their communities.

We laughed so hard in this episode. From fun games to anonymous embarrassing stories (plus a couple of our own 👀), this episode is packed with hilarious moments and lots of bestie banter. Grab a snack and come hang out with us!