hating on dating (apps)

On this week’s episode of Margin Notes I am joined by Rebecca Thimmesch of Chic! to talk about Raya, cultural capital, celebrity spottings, and what it’s like dating as a woman in the creative industries. Subscribe to her newsletter on food and other similar fun and sexy things at chicletter.substack.com. You can find the companion piece for this episode, Rayafication, on my Substack at katebugos.substack.com. Subscribe on Substack and wherever you listen to podcasts! This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit katebugos.substack.com

Join me and Halima Jibril as we discuss tanning beds, afros, Ariana Grande, the revolutionary importance of having a lie in, and much more! You can find Halima’s work on Dazed Digital, and you can find her on Twitter (or X, if you must) and Instagram. You can read the companion piece to this podcast, Bella Fascista: Racism, Fatphobia, and the new Christofascist Americana, on my Substack. This podcast is available via Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or Substack. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit katebugos.substack.com

Content warning for discussions of rape and sexual violence.Join me and Sarah Fletcher as we dig into Dworkin’s work on pornography, heterosexuality, and political polarity, and explore its relevance to modern life. You can find Sarah on Twitter and Instagram, and you can find her latest book here at Cheerio Publishing. This podcast is also available on Spotify and Apple Podcasts, just search Margin Notes or follow the links! This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit katebugos.substack.com

Join me and Sofie Lea talking about the capitalist and gendered implications of dating apps and why we’re sick of them. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit katebugos.substack.com

In this episode I’m joined by the lovely and insightful Reanar and Sarah to discuss ethical non monogamy and polyamory, using my recent essay as a jumping off point. Warning that this discussion is a little NSFW, also I am unnecessarily mean to balding men in their early 30s about 15 minutes in? I can only apologise, boys. Reanar’s substack is here, and if you’re listening to this before April 15th you can grab tickets for Sarah (aka DJ Baby Guinness) & friends at Corsica right here. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit katebugos.substack.com

This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit katebugos.substack.com