How To Stop Kink Shaming Yourself

Step into the intriguing world of the Chardmore Society, where the Suited Male and Naked Female parties challenge conventional social norms. Ever wondered what really happens behind those exclusive doors? From the unique dress code (yes, it’s as literal as it sounds) to the eclectic crowd and the carefully curated vibe, we’ll uncover the details that make these events so fascinating. How do you get in, who should attend, and is it worth the hype? Plus, we’ll explore what’s served, what’s BYO, and whether the experience lives up to its mystique. Dive into the untold story and decide for yourself.IN THIS EPISODEWhat is the Chardmore Society?What's a Suited Male, Naked Female party like?What's the crowd like?Where is the party hosted?Do you need to get vetted to attend this party?What's the dress code like - and is it really that literal?Food and drinks: what's served at the location and can you bring your own drinks?Who should attend this party?The final verdict: is Chardmore Society Suited Male And Naked Female worth going to?

Ever find yourself feeling shame around your kink? You're not alone. In this episode, we're diving into what kinks and fetishes really are and why the shame you’re feeling likely isn’t coming from where you think it is. You'll get a straightforward 3-step formula to help you stop shaming yourself for what turns you on, plus some insights into where to find the right kind of support when you're ready to leave the shame behind. Get ready to redefine the way you think about desire—judgment-free.IN THIS EPISODEWhat are kinks and fetishes?The true reason you feel shame (hint: it's not what you think!).The 3-step formula to stop shaming yourself for your kink.Where to get support to deal with kink shame.LET'S CONNECTBecome a Patreon supporter and get access to exclusive content: https://www.patreon.com/LoveBeyondLimitsFollow Desire on OnlyFans: https://onlyfans.com/desireenmFollow Purity on OnlyFans: https://onlyfans.com/u391846081Follow Desire on FetLife: https://fetlife.com/users/17909350Follow Purity on FetLife: https://fetlife.com/users/18339196

Sometimes, ending a relationship is the healthiest choice, but it doesn’t make it any easier. In this episode, we’re unpacking the signs that it’s time to let go, how to navigate the emotional rollercoaster, and ways to handle a breakup with as much respect—and as little mess—as possible. Whether you’re noticing red flags or just feeling stuck, we’ll walk through what it takes to break up in a way that leaves both people with their dignity intact. If you’re questioning your relationship, this one’s for you.IN THIS EPISODEThe two main signs you're headed for a breakup with your partner The top 4 reasons couples stay together long after the relationship is overHow to minimise the financial and motional impact of a breakupWhen to know it’s time to breakupThe number one red flag you’re marrying the wrong personHow to breakup in a healthy way

You meet someone new, there’s a spark, you’re vibing—and then it hits. What you thought was “a date” is, to them, just “hanging out.” In the world of ethical non-monogamy, even the words we use can get messy fast. Between trying to figure out if it’s a date or just casual, dealing with the twists of hookup culture, and clashing with different dating norms around the world, things can get confusing. Today, we’re diving into what all these labels really mean, why they matter, and how to make sure everyone’s on the same page before things get complicated.IN THIS EPISODEDate VS Dating: What's the difference?Different dating cultures worldwide - and the confusion they generate.Hookup culture and its impact on dating.Making your intentions clear when asking someone on a date - and avoid being friend-zoned. How to communicate what you want in a relationship before you ask the person out.LET'S CONNECTBecome a Patreon supporter and get access to exclusive content: https://www.patreon.com/LoveBeyondLimitsFollow Desire on OnlyFans: https://onlyfans.com/desireenmFollow Purity on OnlyFans: https://onlyfans.com/u391846081Follow Desire on FetLife: https://fetlife.com/users/17909350Follow Purity on FetLife: https://fetlife.com/users/18339196

Casual sex gets hyped up as fun, liberating, and carefree, but is it really that simple? In this episode, we explore why many women find themselves engaging in casual sex, even when they aren’t fully on board. We’ll also take a look at the emotional, mental, and physical costs that can come with it—things that often get overlooked.We’re breaking down the differences between casual hookups and friends with benefits, and why some FWB arrangements can work better than you’d expect. If you’ve ever wondered whether casual sex is really worth it, this episode dives into the details you won’t want to miss.IN THIS EPISODEDesire shares her experiences with casual sex: what she thought would happen VS what really happened.Why do women engage in casual sex (even when they don't really want to)?The high mental, emotional, and physical costs of casual sex for women.Friends with benefits VS regular hookups: what's the difference?Positive friends with benefits stories: why they work.

Get ready to dive into the dating scene like never before! This episode spills the secrets on what really makes you stand out to women. We’ll chat about showcasing your unique qualities, understanding what women want, and shifting your mindset to boost your confidence. Whether you're after a casual fling or something more serious, these tips will help you catch her eye and score more dates. Tune in and learn how to make a lasting impression!IN THIS EPISODEThe number one question you need to answer before you ask a woman out.3 reasons why women play hard to get (hint: we pay a higher price for casual sex).The real reason women engage in casual sex when they don't enjoy it (this is more common than you think!).What women look for in a sexual partner.The fast-track to getting a kinky play partner (it's NOT what you think!).It's not about you, it's about them: The mindset shift that'll help you get more dates.How to organise a great first date that impresses your partner and sets you up for success.What men who get a lot of dates do that everyone else doesn't - and how you can stand out too.LET'S CONNECTBecome a Patreon supporter and get access to exclusive content: https://www.patreon.com/LoveBeyondLimitsFollow Desire on OnlyFans: https://onlyfans.com/desireenmFollow Purity on OnlyFans: https://onlyfans.com/u391846081Follow Desire on FetLife: https://fetlife.com/users/17909350Follow Purity on FetLife: https://fetlife.com/users/18339196

If you’re into glamorous kink socials, then Dominium Vita might just be your vibe. Picture a luxurious venue setting the mood for an elegant and sensual evening. But is it all it’s cracked up to be? Who’s actually attending these events, and what kind of vibe can you expect? Is there a dress code, or can you show up in your favorite leather jacket? We’re breaking down everything you need to know: membership, ticket prices, and whether this fancy night out is really worth it.IN THIS EPISODEWhat is Dominium Vita? The venue - luxury settings for sensual evenings.Who attends Dominium Vita socials?Is there a dress code?The bar: how long does it take to get a drink?Do you need a membership to attend Dominium Vita events?Let's talk pricing: how much are the tickets?Dominium Vita social: who is it for?The final verdict: is it worth going to the Dominium Vita social?

Ever heard of veto power? It’s that move where you say “nope, not happening” to something your partner wants to do or someone they want to see. But should you actually be using it? We’ll break down why vetoing might not be the best idea for your relationship and give you better options to handle those uncomfortable situations. From finding ways to accept your partner’s choices to talking things out without starting a fight, we’ve got practical tips to help you avoid a power struggle. Plus, we’ll dive into the healthy alternatives when compromise feels impossible.IN THIS EPISODEWhat is veto power? Why do partners exercise the power of veto?Should you ever veto your partner's choices/desires? Here's why it's not always the best idea.3 options to use instead of exercising veto power.What does accepting your partner's choice really mean.How to tell your partner you don't want them to see someone or do something you're not comfortable with - without causing a fight.How to brainstorm alternative solutions to vetos and reach an outcome both partners are happy with. The healthy and ethical alternative to veto if you can't find a solution both partners are happy with.

So, you’ve finally got that first Dom and Sub date lined up—exciting, right? But before you dive in, there are some key dos and don’ts you’ve got to know to make sure things go smoothly. We’re talking about how to ask a sub out the right way, when to bring up your kinks without scaring them off, and the difference between taking the lead and coming on too strong. Let's dive in!IN THIS EPISODEThe right way to ask a sub out (get this wrong and you risk ending up on a vanilla date!).Taking the lead VS domming: what's the difference?What should you talk about on a dom and a sub date?When it's the right time to introduce the kink conversation (spoiler: don't open with this!).The best question to start the kink conversation with.What to ask your date to find out if your kinks are compatible - and most importantly, if they want to explore them with you.Should you play on the first date?The number one thing to avoid on a first dom and sub date.

Thinking about going to your first sex party but not sure what to expect? We’re diving into everything you need to know before you step into that world. From choosing the right type of party and figuring out what to wear, to understanding the vibe of the crowd (spoiler: it’s not all models and six-packs). It’s all here, so you can walk in feeling confident and ready for a night to remember.IN THIS EPISODEThe different types of sex and kinky parties: which one is right for you?What do you wear at a sexy party?What kind of crowd can you expect to find at sex parties? (Hint: not everyone has a six pack).How to connect with other attendees before the party (especially if you're nervous about going alone).Going with your partner? The number one thing to discuss before heading to the party to avoid jealousy and fights.All you need to know about consent.Should you bring your own toys to the party?Is voyeurism allowed at parties?Alcohol and drugs policies at sex parties - what you need to know.Should you get tested for STDs before attending a sex party?3 VALUE BOMBSNot sure what to wear? Check out the dress code and inspiration boards shared by the organisers, so you can pick an outfit that'll make you stand out while feeling comfortable in your own skin.Going with a partner? Make sure to chat about your desires, boundaries, and what you both expect, so you can enjoy a night of naughty fun without any drama.Always ask before touching or initiating play with someone. If you break consent, you'll be permanently banned.