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Emine Ibrahim’s verbatim speech, given at a Green Party-led London council chamber last week

Chair, Cabinet Members,

I want to speak tonight about the importance of protecting single-sex provision for women and girls experiencing violence and abuse.

For me, this isn’t an abstract policy debate. It is personal.

I came to Haringey as a little girl in 1986 with my mum and my sister, fleeing domestic violence. Before specialist domestic-abuse provision existed in anything like the form we recognise today, we were placed in hotels — notably in Holborn and St Pancras.

We were there alongside other women and girls, sharing facilities in circumstances where privacy and security were extremely limited. I remember women and girls having to stand guard at bathroom doors for one another, simply to protect our collective dignity.

Domestic violence provision has come a very long way since then. We should be proud of that progress — and determined not to lose it.

Single-sex provision isn’t an incidental feature of VAWG services. For many women it is an essential part of feeling safe enough to disclose what has happened to them, to rebuild trust and to begin recovering from trauma.

Women don’t arrive at rape-crisis centres or domestic-abuse services because everything is going well. They seek those services at perhaps the greatest hour of need and vulnerability in their lives.

At that moment, the responsibility of the service must be to meet the needs of the woman seeking help.

Requiring a traumatised woman, as a condition of accessing desperately needed support, to be inclusive of or affirm another vulnerable person’s identity places an additional burden upon her at precisely the moment when she should be asking nothing more complicated than: am I safe here?

I believe that is an abuse of power.

This does not mean that other vulnerable people should be left without support. They should receive appropriate, properly funded and compassionate services too. But one vulnerable person’s needs should not be met by overriding the boundaries and needs of another.

Haringey should therefore not move away from commissioning single-sex services simply because they are single-sex.

Where the law permits single-sex provision, the Council should commission it confidently, protect it and promote it — not merely as an exemption to be tolerated, but as a legitimate pathway to trauma recovery.

We have travelled a long way from women and girls standing guard outside hotel bathrooms to preserve one another’s dignity.

Please don’t allow us to drift backwards.

Cllr Tehseen Khan’s actions during the meeting hinted at a close alignment with trans activists. Following the session, where Emine presented a petition advocating for single-sex provision in the borough, the protesters became increasingly aggressive. Consequently, Emine required a security escort to exit the building safely.

The Dyke Project are deranged gender warriors. They formed in response to me and Kathleen Stock setting up the Lesbian Project.

Lies from Cllr Tehseen Khan. What a prize wazzock.



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