Episode 377: What the H*ll Am I Doing Here?

A message from a single man looking to enter the lifestyle spurs a conversation on the balance between being honest and being kind... We also talk about how single men hold other single men accountable at our events, and our thoughts on why that doesn't happen more often. Plus, big life changes are teased.... To enter the Shivers holiday giveaway, comment under the Shivers post on our Instagram, https://instagram.com/fpspodmedia or our X, https://x.com/fpswingers. Winner will be chosen next Monday, January 22nd at 8 pm PST! Get started on your peptide or GLP-1 journey by scheduling a consultation with us at https://revitaglowmeds.com To hear more about Brenna's new professional world, join our Patreon community at https://patreon.com/frontporchswingers Get a FREE month of Kasidie access! Click on the Kasidie banner at https://frontporchswingers.com Join us for an upcoming event, including our Wifey.com sponsored AVN party: https://members.frontporchswingers.com  

A trip down memory lane reminds us of the things that felt very taboo and naughty before getting into the lifestyle. And how truly vanilla they seem now. We talk sex shops, strip clubs and more! Plus, what MOVES us to continue in the world of ethical non-monogamy? Check us out at https://revitaglowmeds.com for all your peptide and weight loss med needs.  See our upcoming events: https://members.frontporchswingers.com Try Kasidie FREE for a whole month! Click on the Kasidie banner at https://frontporchswingers.com Join our Patreon community for weekly bonus episodes! https://patreon.com/frontporchswingers  

A jam packed and very vulnerable episode about Brenna's imposter syndrome in the lifestyle, fears for our future as a hotwife couple, and some very honest epiphanies from recent weeks. Plus... the return of Worst of the Week TIMES TWO! Join us for an upcoming event: https://members.frontporchswingers.com Get on the Peptide train! Schedule your free consultation at https://revitaglowmeds.com Try Shivers gummies at 15% off with code FPS at https://shivers.store Join our Patreon community to get bonus episodes on video! https://patreon.com/frontporchswingers Get a FREE month of Kasidie access when you click on the Kasidie banner at https://frontporchswingers.com  

As two proud members of the LGBTQ community, we have some very strong opinions about inclusivity in the lifestyle. Nowhere is this more important that at lifestyle events and clubs. We discuss sexuality representation, as well as some new discoveries in our own world with regards to sexual orientation.  Join us for an upcoming event: https://members.frontporchswingers.com Schedule your free consultation with Brian for peptides, weight loss meds, and TRT at https://revitaglowmeds.com Get a free month of Kasidie access! Just click on the Kasidie banner at https://frontporchswingers.com Get bonus content weekly when you support the show on Patreon! https://patreon.com/frontporchswingers  

We spent a weekend in Detroit to host the Real Hotwives of Detroit at Hidden Agenda. And the experience has spurred MANY conversations between us about club quality and the standard lifestylers should demand from club owners and event organizers. Plus, a little bit on the naughtiness Brian got up to.... Get on the peptide train! https://revitaglowmeds.com Join us for an upcoming event: https://members.frontporchswingers.com Get bonus episodes and more by joining our Patreon community! https://patreon.com/frontporchswingers Try Kasidie FREE for a whole month! Click on the Kasidie banner at https://frontporchswingers.com Get 15% off your first Shivers order with code FPS at https://shivers.store  

A message on our kink profile has had our heads spinning.... And asking questions like, "Is it really just a numbers game in the lifestyle?" Plus, Brenna had a procedure done that apparently is pissing off some of our followers.... Join us for an upcoming event: https://members.frontporchswingers.com Check us out at https://revitaglowmeds.com for your free peptide, TRT, or medical weight loss consultation. Get TONS of bonus content by joining us at https://patreon.com/frontporchswingers Try Kasidie FREE for a whole month! Just click on the Kasidie banner at https://frontporchswingers.com  

After a 5 year hiatus from swapping with couples, we did it! Hear our thoughts on the experience, and if we plan to continue pursuing couple play in the future. Plus, this foursome might have Brenna considering a brand new type of play... Join us for an upcoming event: https://members.frontporchswingers.com Try Kasidie FREE for a month! Click on the Kasidie banner at https://frontporchswingers.com Get a free TRT, peptide, or weight loss consultation today at https://revitaglowmeds.com Get 15% off your first Shivers order with code FPS at https://shivers.store  

Cognitive dissonance is a real thing. And social programming very much impacts how others view us as non-monogamous people. But does all of that programming just go out the window when we get into the lifestyle? We think not... Allow us to explain on this week's episode of the Front Porch Swingers Podcast! For weight loss meds, peptides, and TRT, check us out at https://revitaglowmeds.com Join us for an upcoming event: https://members.frontporchswingers.com Get weekly bonus videos of the podcast from our living room by joining us at https://patreon.com/frontporchswingers Try Kasidie FREE for a month! Click on the Kasidie banner at https://frontporchswingers.com  

Brian gets VERY vulnerable this time around.... He discusses how some of his past experiences, both romantic and sexual, have shaped who he is as a lifestyler, and why he is as cautious as he is. Plus, we discuss how this has impacted our relationship over its 8 years.  For more conversations like this, join us on Patreon for bonus episodes! https://patreon.com/frontporchswingers Get 10% off your first order when you mention the podcast at https://revitaglowmeds.com Get 15% off our favorite pleasure-enhancing gummies with code FPS at https://shivers.store Join us for an upcoming event: https://members.frontporchswingers.com Try Kasidie FREE for a whole month! Click on the Kasidie banner at https://frontporchswingers.com  

Through conversations online recently, we may have found ourselves in some hot water with a particular opinion... So we discuss in depth: Is physical attraction the most important thing in the lifestyle? And maybe more importantly, should it be? As usual, buckle up for an unfiltered ride... Visit us at RevitaGlow Meds for peptides, HRT, TRT, and medical weight loss products: https://revitaglowmeds.com Join us for an upcoming event: https://members.frontporchswingers.com Get bonus episodes and other exclusive content at https://patreon.com/frontporchswingers Try Kasidie FREE for a month! Click on the Kasidie banner at https://frontporchswingers.com