When Someone Wants You

What Burned You Up? 5 Pick Conversations co-hosts Aaron and Ronnie close the season with personal updates, a look back at advice for adoptees navigating search and reunion, and listener-submitted burn-ups. We discuss solidarity in adoptee communities, voting and civic participation, dishonesty, and why people should avoid condemning others over private choices. We discuss social-media comparison, racial injustice and public desensitization, collective action, and practical ways to share financial burdens. We close with candid workplace complaints, including the ethics of working while sick and the friction of difficult coworker dynamics.Send us Fan MailGrab your drink and/or something to smokeAnd come sit at The FirepitFollow Us: Instagram @firepitconversationsTikTok @firepit_conversations Apple Podcast: Firepit ConversationsSpotify: Firepit ConversationsYouTube: @FirepitConversations-c9c  And all other major podcast platforms

This season we have addressed our adoptee community specifically. We've discussed knowing your why, managing your expectations, and setting boundaries. In this episode, we explore the journey of self-discovery, identity, and the impact of search and reunion in the context of adoption. We share our personal insights, challenges, and advice for those navigating similar experiences and discovering who they are/who they want to be through this process and after. Send us Fan MailGrab your drink and/or something to smokeAnd come sit at The FirepitFollow Us: Instagram @firepitconversationsTikTok @firepit_conversations Apple Podcast: Firepit ConversationsSpotify: Firepit ConversationsYouTube: @FirepitConversations-c9c  And all other major podcast platforms

In this episode, Mr. Drummond shares his inspiring journey from a challenging childhood in foster care and adoption to becoming a motivational speaker and podcaster. Discover his insights on resilience, identity, and the importance of sharing your story to impact others.Send us Fan MailGrab your drink and/or something to smokeAnd come sit at The FirepitFollow Us: Instagram @firepitconversationsTikTok @firepit_conversations Apple Podcast: Firepit ConversationsSpotify: Firepit ConversationsYouTube: @FirepitConversations-c9c  And all other major podcast platforms

In this episode, Ronnie and Aaron explore the emotional roller coaster of reconnecting with family through adoption, sharing personal stories, feelings, and advice on navigating these complex emotions.Send us Fan MailGrab your drink and/or something to smokeAnd come sit at The FirepitFollow Us: Instagram @firepitconversationsTikTok @firepit_conversations Apple Podcast: Firepit ConversationsSpotify: Firepit ConversationsYouTube: @FirepitConversations-c9c  And all other major podcast platforms

 In this episode, Anna shares her unique adoption story, experiences growing up as a transracial adoptee, and navigating family relationships and identity. We explore the importance of cultural connection, boundaries, and community for adoptees and their families.Send us Fan MailGrab your drink and/or something to smokeAnd come sit at The FirepitFollow Us: Instagram @firepitconversationsTikTok @firepit_conversations Apple Podcast: Firepit ConversationsSpotify: Firepit ConversationsYouTube: @FirepitConversations-c9c  And all other major podcast platforms

In this episode, Ronnie and Aaron explore the importance of boundaries in the context of family reunions, especially for adoptees. They share personal experiences, practical advice, and insights on maintaining peace and self-respect during complex relationships.Send us Fan MailGrab your drink and/or something to smokeAnd come sit at The FirepitFollow Us: Instagram @firepitconversationsTikTok @firepit_conversations Apple Podcast: Firepit ConversationsSpotify: Firepit ConversationsYouTube: @FirepitConversations-c9c  And all other major podcast platforms

In this episode, Big Mike shares his powerful journey as a transracial adoptee, exploring his upbringing, cultural identity, and the impact of discovering his biological family. Ronnie and Aaron facilitate a heartfelt conversation about race, family, and self-acceptance. Big Mike shares his personal journey through adoption, family challenges, mental health struggles, and resilience. This episode offers deep insights into the emotional complexities of adoption and the importance of self-love and healing.Send us Fan MailGrab your drink and/or something to smokeAnd come sit at The FirepitFollow Us: Instagram @firepitconversationsTikTok @firepit_conversations Apple Podcast: Firepit ConversationsSpotify: Firepit ConversationsYouTube: @FirepitConversations-c9c  And all other major podcast platforms

In this episode, Aaron and Ronnie sit down to discuss the often-overlooked realities of reunion journeys for adoptees. They delve into the unexpected challenges and emotional nuances that accompany these life-changing experiences. Many adoptees enter these situations with preconceived notions fueled by media portrayals of emotional reunions. They discuss the emotional complexities involved, highlighting that not every reunion will mirror the fairytale endings often depicted in movies and TV shows. Instead, both hosts encourage a more realistic approach—one that acknowledges the potential for disappointment but also offers hope for connection.Send us Fan MailGrab your drink and/or something to smokeAnd come sit at The FirepitFollow Us: Instagram @firepitconversationsTikTok @firepit_conversations Apple Podcast: Firepit ConversationsSpotify: Firepit ConversationsYouTube: @FirepitConversations-c9c  And all other major podcast platforms

The latest episode of Firepit Conversations, we do a deep dive into the complex interplay of race and identity with our featured guests, Rhiannon and Koko. This episode is not just a casual chat; it’s a heartfelt exploration of personal experiences and societal norms that shape our understanding of culture.Send us Fan MailGrab your drink and/or something to smokeAnd come sit at The FirepitFollow Us: Instagram @firepitconversationsTikTok @firepit_conversations Apple Podcast: Firepit ConversationsSpotify: Firepit ConversationsYouTube: @FirepitConversations-c9c  And all other major podcast platforms

Welcome back to Firepit Conversations, where we sit down to share stories that matter. In this new season, we focus on the adoptee community specifically. We want to give some advice and jewels of wisdow to help those embarking on their journey of search and reunion. No matter if you are at the very beginning of this process OR if you've been in it for decades, this is no walk in the park. So, we want to share the lessons that we have learned, insights about our own story, and the things that we did to help us along the way. Our first piece of advice, Know Your Why! Send us Fan MailGrab your drink and/or something to smokeAnd come sit at The FirepitFollow Us: Instagram @firepitconversationsTikTok @firepit_conversations Apple Podcast: Firepit ConversationsSpotify: Firepit ConversationsYouTube: @FirepitConversations-c9c  And all other major podcast platforms