This or That

In this conversation we explore our experiences and misconceptions surrounding foreplay, highlighting the emotional and physical aspects of intimacy - as well as the differences we've personally experienced in heterosexual relationships vs. a queer relationship. We dive deeper into the journey of foreplay, the role of expectations, and the importance of communication and authenticity in relationships.

Kirby and Ember return after a two-month hiatus to share their journey of engagement, elopement, and the challenges of planning a wedding. They discuss the intricacies of the proposal, the magical moments of their engagement, and the fun-filled bachelorette party in Vegas. The couple reflects on their wedding day, the importance of communication in their relationship, and their commitment to living authentically as a married couple. They also touch on their future plans and the evolution of their identities.

We're back! 3 weeks post top surgery, and falling back into a normalcy. We've missed you all. As always, thanks for hangin' with us through all the adventures of life. Xo.

We are just days away from Kirby getting top surgery and the emotions are HIGH. As the day approaches, feelings are coming to surface - and while this is an extremely exciting time, it is also a very vulnerable time. In this episode we both open up about where our heads are at and how we have learned new ways to lean on each other and love one another more deeply. Thank you for sticking with us through the journey. We love and appreciate every one of you.

Join us for a quick catch-up as we share our weekend events with you and touch on some of the most recent things we have learned as not only a couple but as two mothers raising sons together as well.

National #comingout day has come and gone and we are here to re-surface some of what we navigated when coming out. How did we go from husband to wife - who did we tell first? What was our biggest fear in saying it out loud? These are just a few of the things we touch on in this episode. No matter what stage of the process you’re in - keep going - and remember, coming out has no timeline.

Time for an intimate Q+A! As Kirby's surgery date inches closer, so do the big feelings and a good healthy check-in can be so beneficial.

The idea of using our sexuality, as lesbians, for the male "gaze" is no longer something we can stand behind - and in this episode we talk about our "graduation" process through understanding that the only person we need acceptance from is ourselves. When you can truly live a life for you - and let go of society's expectations - you'll fall in love with yourself all over again.

Join us for a game of THIS or THAT, queer edition, obviously.

Where do you see yourself in one year? Three years? Or 5? What type of picture would you paint for yourself and your relationship? In this episode we share all of our dreams, goals, aspirations and plans not only for ourselves but for and within our relationship as well because in the type of world we are living in - sometimes you have to find a happy to focus on to get you through. How many do you think we had in common? 🥹