When it's right it's easy | Self-Help Myth Debunked

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In this final episode of our Shadow Work series on Enneagram and Coffee, we explore the inner world of Type Nine—the Peacemaker. We dive into the common shadows of self-numbing, passivity, and anger repression, and how these patterns show up in daily life. Through practical exercises and insights from other Enneagram types, we uncover how Nines can reconnect with their true desires, voice, and personal power. If you’ve ever struggled to assert yourself or felt disconnected from your own needs, this episode is for you. Grab your coffee, and let’s get into it! Call/Text Your Enneagram Questions into (828) 338 - 9127 Grab a copy of my books at www.thehonestenneagram.com & www.theenneagramletters.com Check out my youtube channel for more behind-the-scenes content www.youtube.com/sarajanecase Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of Enneagram and Coffee, we continue our Shadow Work series with a deep dive into Enneagram Type Eight—the Challenger. We explore the often-hidden struggles of emotional repression, control, and fear of vulnerability, and how these patterns shape daily life. Through thoughtful reflection and practical shadow work practices, we’ll uncover how Eights can begin to soften, trust, and reconnect with their emotional world without losing their powerful presence. If you’ve ever felt like strength means going it alone, this episode is for you. Grab your coffee, and let’s get into it! Call/Text Your Enneagram Questions into (828) 338 - 9127 Grab a copy of my books at www.thehonestenneagram.com & www.theenneagramletters.com Check out my youtube channel for more behind-the-scenes content www.youtube.com/sarajanecase Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of Enneagram and Coffee, we continue our Shadow Work series by exploring the hidden struggles of Enneagram Type Seven—the Enthusiast. We dive into common shadows like avoidance of pain, impulsivity, and the fear of missing out, uncovering how these patterns shape daily life. Through practical exercises and insights from other Enneagram types, we discuss how Sevens can cultivate stillness, embrace emotional depth, and find fulfillment beyond constant stimulation. If you’ve ever felt restless, scattered, or afraid of being stuck, this episode is for you. Grab your coffee, and let’s get into it! Call/Text Your Enneagram Questions into (828) 338 - 9127 Grab a copy of my books at www.thehonestenneagram.com & www.theenneagramletters.com Check out my youtube channel for more behind-the-scenes content www.youtube.com/sarajanecase Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of Enneagram and Coffee, we continue our Shadow Work series by exploring the hidden struggles of Enneagram Type Six—the Loyalist. We dive into common shadows like anxiety, self-doubt, and authority struggles, uncovering how these patterns shape daily life. Through practical exercises and insights from other Enneagram types, we discuss how Sixes can cultivate trust in themselves, embrace uncertainty, and find true inner security. If you’ve ever felt stuck in cycles of worry or second-guessing, this episode is for you. Grab your coffee, and let’s get into it! --- Call/Text Your Enneagram Questions into (828) 338 - 9127 Grab a copy of my books at www.thehonestenneagram.com & www.theenneagramletters.com Check out my youtube channel for more behind-the-scenes content www.youtube.com/sarajanecase Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of Enneagram and Coffee, we continue our Shadow Work series by exploring the hidden struggles of Enneagram Type Five—the Investigator. We dive into the common shadows of emotional detachment, over-intellectualization, and the fear of depletion, uncovering how these patterns shape daily life. Through practical exercises and insights from other Enneagram types, we discuss how Fives can embrace vulnerability, connection, and presence. If you’ve ever felt like you need to know more before engaging with the world, this episode is for you. Grab your coffee, and let’s get into it! Call/Text Your Enneagram Questions into (828) 338 - 9127 Grab a copy of my books at www.thehonestenneagram.com & www.theenneagramletters.com Check out my youtube channel for more behind-the-scenes content www.youtube.com/sarajanecase Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Call/Text Your Enneagram Questions into (828) 338 - 9127 Grab a copy of my books at www.thehonestenneagram.com & www.theenneagramletters.com Check out my youtube channel for more behind-the-scenes content www.youtube.com/sarajanecase This episode is all about small joys, big lessons, and finding balance. I’m kicking things off with three little things making life better (spoiler: Aquaphor healing balm stick is a game-changer). Then, I’m diving into the seven dimensions of wellness—what’s working, what’s not, and what’s next in my spiritual, social, emotional, physical, intellectual, environmental, and occupational well-being. Plus, a big February takeaway: trusting my own value and setting boundaries with myself, not just others. Turns out, the fear of not being valued wasn’t reality—it was just me standing in my own way. Let’s reflect, reset, and head into March with clarity. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Call/Text Your Enneagram Questions into (828) 338 - 9127 Grab a copy of my books at www.thehonestenneagram.com & www.theenneagramletters.com Check out my youtube channel for more behind-the-scenes content www.youtube.com/sarajanecase In this episode of Enneagram and Coffee, we continue our Shadow Work series by diving deep into the experience of Enneagram Type Four. We explore the hidden parts of the Four’s identity, the challenges of self-comparison, emotional intensity, and the longing for significance. Through practical shadow work exercises and insights from other Enneagram types, we uncover ways for Fours to embrace their full selves with compassion. If you’ve ever felt like you were “too much” or “not enough,” this episode is for you. Grab your coffee, and let’s get into it! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today, I'm sharing my top 10 takeaways from Secure Love by Julie Menanno—a powerful book on attachment and breaking negative relationship cycles. We’ve talked about attachment theory before, but this book made it feel so clear, applicable, and even relieving. Think of this episode as us having coffee while I excitedly overshare my favorite insights, from the "goodness of fit" concept to the 80/20 rule for secure relationships. Plus, I explore how attachment connects to the Enneagram and personal growth. Let me know what you think—text the podcast line at 828-338-9127! Call/Text Your Enneagram Questions into (828) 338 - 9127 Grab a copy of my books at www.thehonestenneagram.com & www.theenneagramletters.com Check out my youtube channel for more behind-the-scenes content www.youtube.com/sarajanecase Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In today’s episode of Enneagram and Coffee, we continue our Shadow Work series with a deep dive into Type Three—the Achiever. We explore the hidden aspects of Type Three’s personality, how their strengths can become shadows, and practical ways to integrate these repressed parts with compassion. From inauthenticity to the fear of failure, we’ll unpack how these shadows show up in work, relationships, and self-talk. Plus, we’ll look at how other Enneagram types can guide Type Threes toward deeper self-acceptance. Tune in for actionable shadow work practices and encouragement to embrace your worth—beyond achievement. Call/Text Your Enneagram Questions into (828) 338 - 9127 Grab a copy of my books at www.thehonestenneagram.com & www.theenneagramletters.com Check out my youtube channel for more behind-the-scenes content www.youtube.com/sarajanecase Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices