Let's Talk About Fantasy

In this NEW episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Allison Dayton and Darice Auston of the Lift+Love podcast to talk about how parents can best support their LGBTQ children. Together they discuss love vs trust, the importance of getting clear about what your job as a parent is (and what it isn’t), and how to show up at church with love and integrity, even when not everyone sees things the same way you do.

Single, LDS, and wrestling with how to think about sexuality and chastity? In this NEW episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Diana Brown and Mallory Everton of The Soloists podcast to talk about obedience and integrity, how to stay hopeful in the face of disappointment, and what it looks like to own our choices about sexuality as single adults.

In this episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Dr. Darcy Sterling of We Need to Talk to break down why fantasies can be so scary to share (or even hear). They discuss why it’s tempting to soften or backpedal what we reveal, what doing so costs us, and why it can be healthy to play with the darker aspects of self.

In this episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Dr. Dave and Dr. Liz of the Stronger Marriage Connection podcast to talk about her book, That We Might Have Joy. They discuss why intimacy is so challenging, why “never say no” is terrible marriage advice, and why the friction in marriage is often exactly what our soul needs to grow.

In this NEW episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Jen Banks of the A is for Adversity podcast to talk about how adversity refines character, why intimacy takes more courage than most of us expect, and how the way we handle not getting what we want shapes our marriages.

In this NEW episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife answers listener questions about pornography, touching on why trying to control a spouse's use tends to backfire, the difference between trust and forgiveness, and how couples who see porn in fundamentally different ways can stay in honest conversation instead of retreating into their own camps.

In this episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Kendra Nielson of the Fulfillment Therapy podcast to talk about how shame and dissociation show up in intimacy, why self-betrayal erodes desire, and what it actually takes to reclaim a sense of belonging to yourself when there has been trauma in your past.

In this episode, Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife joins Peggy Fletcher Stack and David Noyce of the Mormon Land Podcast to address older singles and how they can navigate the complex realities and decisions they face with integrity.

Today we are re-releasing this popular podcast from the archive. In it, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Dr. Corey Allan of the Sexy Marriage Radio Podcast to discuss duty sex and what couples can do to bring more desire, passion, and aliveness to their intimate relationship.

In this NEW episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Dr. Corey Allan of Sexy Marriage Radio to talk about her book, That We Might Have Joy. They discuss why changing a marriage is about behavior, not ideas, the higher and lower desire dynamic, and the pull to hide behind roles instead of revealing who we actually are in our relationships.