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Check Out Emotional Mastery:http://bit.ly/3ok86maSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeEllen Degeneres has been getting a lot of hate on the internet recently.This video isn't meant to be a commentary on her, one way or the other, but after seeing those hate videos, we thought you might want to know the most common types of jokes that make people dislike you, and some of the jokes you can make instead to make people like you.⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:14 - #1: Sharing their sensitive information to get a laugh.3:53 - #2: Making jokes designed to make the other person feel guilty.6:10 - #3: Teasing someone of lower status than you.--------------------------------------------------------------------------------#EllenDegeneres #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff:Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Link to tip to master your emotions: https://goo.gl/VTGFwiHow To Find Your PassionPeople often write me asking what they should do with their lives. They lack a sense of purpose. They have this sense that they should "follow their passion" but they don't really know what it means. Plus half the world is telling them that following a passion is stupid or misinformed. They encourage them to develop the skills they are already good at and that society values. That way they can get a good job and get paid.I'm all for developing skills that can land you gainful employment. But as to sticking to making that your sole focus? Screw that. And as for sticking only to what you're already good at? Screw that too. Start with what excites you. If you care enough, you'll put in the work to become fantastic in that field. And the way the world is going, you can get paid for most anything (hell, I make money talking about how celebrities exude charisma!) This video answers the question "How do I find my passion?" It is there is to help you overcome some of the hidden doubts you might have. The things that might be holding you back from discovering what your passion really is and committing to developing it. Ask yourself these 4 questions and write down the answers. Then pick the common thread and do it more. You'll be a happier person for it, and you might just get a chance to earn a living doing something you love.1. What makes you lose track of time?2. What do you spend money to do?3. Where do you fear judgment?4. What makes your heart race?Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The fastest way I know to make confidence, charisma and conversation effortless: 👉https://bit.ly/17-SmallTalkAnimWe’ve all been there - you’re in conversation, things are humming along nicely and then out of nowhere the awkward silence rears it’s head. At just that moment, your mind goes completely blank, you don’t know what to say and you can sense the other person’s eyes wandering as they look for someone else to talk to. That scenario sucks so here are 5 tips to make sure you never run out of things to say in conversation0:20 Play Reminds Me of0:54 Ask open-ended questions1:40 Use revival questions2:37 Make a complimentary cold read3:00 Flip the script and let them be the one to talk[Music by Exurb1a]: https://goo.gl/TjP4YN[Animation by Zeino]: https://goo.gl/344LHVSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Interested in learning more about Charisma University? Click here: https://www.charismaoncommand.com/c-universitySubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeToday we’re going to talk about Markiplier and his storytelling. And how you can make any story more interesting :-) https://goo.gl/eLRiqMIf you do storytelling well, you’ll find that people love having you around. It’s also much easier to talk about yourself in attractive or interesting ways. It also greatly helps your persuasion and makes it easy to have a group conversation.Why Markiplier? We’ve already covered some aspects of storytelling in our videos on Scott Harrison and Kevin Hart, so what I wanted to show you today isn’t how to tell a good meaty story well, but instead how to get people hooked even when your story isn’t super interesting by itself.So I picked a well known YouTuber named Markiplier because Markiplier is a great example of how to make ANYTHING more interesting. And these lessons transfer very well to storytelling.For those of you that don’t know Markiplier he got his fame as a Let’s Play Youtuber, where he recorded himself playing videos games. There are tens of thousands of people trying to do this, and Markilplier rose to the top because he can make any given moment seem interesting.0:24 Quick intro to Markiplier 0:45 How Markiplier starts his storytelling specifically to get listeners eager to hear him speak1:56 How Markiplier uses his voice to make a story sound more interesting. Especially useful in group conversation.4:54 Convey emotion when storytelling like Markiplier does and you'll be more captivating. Bonus, you're also much better at persuasion.8:46 should I do another video on Markiplier that’s about being likable / popular?Connect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join Over 13,000+ Members At Charisma University:https://bit.ly/3OcPZM6Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeIn this video we’ll go through the 5 female body language cues of attraction. These are what you should be on the lookout for to see if a woman is intrigued, interested or attracted to you. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:12 - #1: Look for the Marilyn0:53 - #2: She crosses into your intimate zone2:10 - #3: The direction her toes are pointed2:52 - #4: Look for a "touch-me"4:03 - #5: Look for a savor smileConnect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join Charisma University: https://bit.ly/014-25 Most people spend their lives wearing a mask—trying to be “good,” while hiding the parts of themselves they fear will be rejected. But those rejected parts don’t disappear. They become the shadow.This video breaks down the psychology of the shadow self, inspired by Fight Club and the work of Carl Jung.0:00 The Hidden Force Sabotaging Your Potential0:46 What Exactly Is the Shadow?3:59 How Defense Mechanisms Control Your Life7:17 The Dangers of Ignoring Your Shadow9:05 The Path to True IntegrationSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandVideo editing:Ajit SinghIkjot Singh Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Check out Charisma University:https://bit.ly/3DXCqhGSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe90 Day Fiance videos have been making the rounds on YouTube recently, and wow, there are some amazingly toxic relationships in that show.Unfortunately it can be hard to recognize when your own relationship is headed towards trouble until it's too late, so today we're going to cover 7 red flags that are early signs of a toxic relationship.⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:48 - #1: Prioritizing being attractive over being honest.1:50 - #2: Makes it a headache to not give them what they want.3:46 - #3: Their actions don't match their words.4:56 - #4: Your friends and family don't like your relationship.6:15 - #5: Toxic people will try to distance you from other people.7:44 - #6: We see our significant other as we want them to be.9:15 - #7: Your relationship is a roller coaster with extreme highs and lows.-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #Dating #90DayFiance #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff:Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The fastest way I know to build secure confidence and social skills:https://bit.ly/012-26-CenaMost people think confidence means looking strong, staying composed, and hiding anything that could make them seem weak. But the harder you try to control how others see you, the more fragile your confidence becomes. In this video, we break down John Cena’s five signs of secure confidence, and why they are the opposite of what most people expect.You’ll see why genuine enthusiasm draws people in, how silliness can signal deep self-acceptance, and why sharing your struggles can make others respect you more. Because real confidence isn’t about protecting a perfect image. It’s being comfortable enough to let people see your full range.0:00 - What is secure confidence?1:53 - Sign 13:27 - Sign 26:04 - Sign 37:35 - Sign 49:05 - Sign 5Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Please consider donating to Charity: Water. Donating $40 gives someone access to clean water for 10 years. You can read more about the campaign and donate here: https://charitywater.org/charismaSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeYe has been doing interviews recently, and they have not all gone well :-)It’s not uncommon for someone to get frustrated in a disagreement.  What’s rare is for you to argue with someone and have them walk away liking you MORE afterwards.But that’s exactly what happened in a conversation between Ye and Lex Friedman.So in today’s video, we’ll break down that conversation to show you 8 tips to change someone’s mind AND have them love you for it.⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:25 - First Mistake: Transitioning away from a topic without first listening0:55 - Second Mistake: Cutting someone off1:22 - #1: Listen deeply and make the other person feel heard2:25 - #2: Use a calm, slow voice4:00 - #3: Criticize specific behavior4:48 - #4: When you agree on something, tell them5:39 - #5: Express empathy6:23 - #6: Be vulnerable when you feel a negative emotion7:29 - #7: Accept playful breaks8:18 - #8: Give them a reputation they like and want to live up to10:35 - Help us make the world a better place-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #Ye #kanyewest #lexfridman #charismaoncommand --------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Thank you to our sponsor Audible! Get a free audio book download with a free 30 day trial by signing up at http://www.audible.com/charisma or texting "charisma" to 500-500.Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeThese are the three body language tips that anyone can use to be more attractive!https://goo.gl/pNhkkW Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression:http://bit.ly/2EnCABWNow, here are your three body language tips, plus a bonus, to instantly be more attractive! Like it or not, people are making snap decisions about you all the time and oftentimes, they do it without even letting you speak. Quite frankly, you do the same thing to them which is why in this video, Valentine's Day is coming so, we're going to do three subtle things that you can do to be more attractive with your body language — nothing to do with what you're saying. So I'm just gonna jump right into it; the first one is something that people do wrong and that is T-Rex arms. I'm gonna illustrate this with the story because I think it's the easiest way and it was one of the most vivid ways which I learned it. I was in Las Vegas with a friend of mine. I lived there; he came in to visit and if you've ever been to a Las Vegas Club, it can be overwhelming. So we got into this club, it was just the two of us, were not drinking, and he's not from there so, instantly, I see his body language lock down and he starts to get uncomfortable. To his credit, he starts to walk up, he sees a group of women, he walks up and says hello, and it didn't go well; his lack of confidence shines through and they disappear within pretty much 15-30 seconds. So I said, "It's alright, man. Don't sweat it. We'll have fun on the dance floor." We go to the dance floor and the same lack of confidence is shining through; he's not moving very much. He's kind of dancing in this little box like a T-Rex. 0:19 First body language that's done wrong is the T-Rex arms2:25 Second body language that's done wrong is the seeking behavior5:48 When groups go out 7:16 As a bonus body language tip, smilingConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices