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Check out Charisma University:http://bit.ly/46svHczSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeWe’ve all been there before, you’re talking to someone you like and you can’t quite tell if they’re flirting with you or just being friendly. You might feel this uncertainty when talking to someone you’ve just met, or maybe with someone you’ve known for a while but have trouble reading. Either way, in this video we’ll go through 6 subtle signs you can look for to figure out if someone is attracted to you.  ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro.0:49 - #1: Watch for preening.2:21 - #2: Pay attention to a drag or lingering touch.3:18 - #3: Focus on frequent, unnecessary little touches.4:29 - #4: Look for the direction someone points their body.5:42 - #5: See if they lean their body towards you.6:48 - #6: Notice the "smiling eye dart".Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff:Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join Over 17,000 Members At Charisma University:https://bit.ly/CoC-CharismaMistakesSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - #1: Bully banter1:53 - #2: Mocking someone's mistakes2:51 - #3: The negative Nancy4:23 - #4: Disrespectful distractions5:36 - #5: Repeatedly talking over someone7:32 - #6: Inauthenticity-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand #AndrewSchulz #Fullsendpodcast--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Click here to get the exercise to build confidence & commitment in less than 1 minute https://goo.gl/aBYMNWHow To DESTROY Self DoubtSelf-doubt can be crippling. And it doesn’t matter if the doubt comes from within or if other people’s negative comments begin to affect you. Sometimes you can get into a spin cycle of doubt and negativity that absolutely crushes your confidence.What’s worse is that we “know” we shouldn't doubt ourselves. We know it’s not helping us. But that doesn't change the way it feels. The negative comments still affect us. Or our own self talk continues to hold us back so that we don’t perform like we know we can.In this video I am going to teach you 5 things that will help you deal with self doubt, especially when it’s the kind of self-doubt that just gets played over and over again in your head without a way out. I recognize that all the motivational speeches in the world haven’t made this problem go away so I want to give you things that are battle tested things that actually change how you feel.The 5 tips are1. Exercise to change your state2. find the lesson3. Change your environment and filter4. Embody the removal of the negative feelings5. Get righteously pissedHopefully those help you regain your confidence and sanity and get you back on track.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression:http://bit.ly/2APRHgD5 Common Phrases That Kill Your CharismaHow To Win Any Argument: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=smhta1x_OfASubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeWelcome to another Charisma on Command video where we talk about phrases that kill your charisma. In the past, I've spoken a lot about phrases that you're gonna want to add to your vocabulary in order to become more charismatic and persuasive. But the truth is far more common are phrases that you currently have in your vocabulary that are killing your charisma, that are making you far less persuasive, and that are getting people to fight with you.So in last video, I discussed some of the things you definitely want to say in order to persuade people, but far more common are the things you definitely DON’T want to say. So in this video I want to share 5 things I hear all the time that make people much less likable and less likely to be able to persuade anyone.0:25 Charisma tip one is to tweak, "No problem" 1:33 Charisma tip number two is to not say, "You messed up"3:19 Charisma tip three is the Preemptive disqualification4:36 Don't say, "You always/never" followed with a negative comment6:15 Being specific can also help with charisma and show confidenceConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2EbS7jOHow To Be The Life Of ANY Party - feat. Jim CarreyIf you want to be the life of the party, there are really only two things you need to doFirst, you need to be able to captivate people who you might not knowAnd second, you need to be able to make people with senses of humor laughThe problem is you might not know how to captivate strangers or make people with different senses of humor laugh. Wit might get some people but be lost on others. Amazing storytelling can hook a group, but it can be hard to get people to listen in the first place.So in this video, I want to cover 6 easy ways to become the life of the party and make people with lots of different senses of humor laugh. These are things ANYONE can do, you don’t have to be a comedic geniusTo illustrate these principles, we’ll be looking at Jim Carrey, because his style lends itself to learning quickly. We'll learn to:1) Create a character2) Use specificity 3) Commit4) Use surprise5) Find the funny philosophySubscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Link to 3 ways to start a conversation video: https://goo.gl/a58xcWThe BIGGEST Mistake People Make In DatingThere is one thing that ruins more relationships than any others. And while the examples I give are from my own life, this is true for men and women, straight, gay, it doesn't matter.That thing is neediness. It often looks like obsessiveness, meaning you start imagining what it would be be boyfriend and girlfriend after one encounter, discussing kid names, giving larges gifts, talking to them about your future together in early dates, or when you spend all day thinking about why they didn’t get back to that text you sent. And it’s repulsive. And it’s the biggest thing that messes it up right after you meet someone you really like.And I want to give you three simple things and one harder thing that you can do to fight neediness - because if you’ve got it, it can kill a relationship before it begins. Trust me, I’ve experienced it plenty of times. Keep in mind this specific advice is for early in a relationship0:51 Trying to contact them every single day2:37 Pleading when they can't meet up3:55 Changing your schedule to fit theirs Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join Our 5000+ Members Over At Charisma University Today: http://bit.ly/4nfpVlUSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account:  http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe We’ve all had conversations that feel forced or boring, or are filled with awkward silences. It can be almost painful. That’s why in this video we're going to go over 5 steps to make small talk with anyone. We’ll do so by breaking down some tricks that Joe Rogan uses on his podcast to connect with everyone from academics to athletes to celebrities.   The goal of each of these is to either get the person to like you more OR get you off small talk and into a real conversation that lets you form a genuine connection. Some will be mindsets and some will be word for word questions you can steal. They’re all easy to do, but most people don’t do them.   ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰  0:00 - Intro. 0:54 - #1: Grease the wheels early with a compliment. 2:17 - #2: Transition between topics using “reminds me of” thinking. 4:07 - #3: Ping for topics of mutual interest. 4:31 - #4: Get other people excited about the conversation. 6:27 - #5: Create a connection with people while listening. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #JoeRogan #JRE #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Link to tip to master your emotions: https://goo.gl/UHklkpThe Core of Self-ConfidenceSelf-confidence is one of those things the we recognize when we see it. But we don't usually know how to build it. The reason is because we often misattribute self-confidence. We feel good when people give us compliments and assume that's where self-confidence must come from. After all, if we heard those nice things all the time, how could we not be confident.But while praise and compliments may help temporarily boost self confidence, they don't last long. The leave us searching for the next hit. What truly contributes to enduring self-confidence is building self-esteem. Because nothing inhibits confidence like low self esteem.Self-esteem can be a tricky concept, but it really boils down to how you feel about you. If you are proud of the way you are living, you'll have high self-esteem. If you're not, all the compliments in the world can float that sinking ship. Your have low self esteem.This video explores a few of the fundamentals of self-esteem so you know how to build your self-esteem from a rock solid foundation.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join Over 14,000 Members At Charisma University:https://bit.ly/CoCCharismaMistakesSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeIn today’s video we’re going to show you 7 bad charisma habits that will consistently make people dislike you.By becoming aware of these mistakes, you can hopefully avoid making them.⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:08 - #1: Vulnerability Dropping0:55 - #2: Conversational Narcissism2:14 - #3: Question Cutting3:17 - #4: Trampling Boundaries5:22 - #5: Teasing Sensitive Topics6:42 - #6: Giving Unsolicited Advice7:42 - #7: Instant Aggression-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The fastest way I know to become more naturally magnetic, confident, and authentic: https://bit.ly/008-26-LoganLoTSMost people hold back the parts of themselves that would actually make them more charismatic. They try to act cool, hide their enthusiasm, and stay trapped in safe social scripts.In this video, we break down what Love on the Spectrum teaches about real charisma, from saying the honest thing, to making simple jokes, to expressing appreciation without needing anything back. You’ll learn how to be more charming without acting fake, and how to bring more of your real personality into every interaction.0:00 - Intro0:46 - Literal jokes2:07 - Cocky jokes2:58 - Tension diffusers3:56 - Honest appreciation5:24 - The fastest way to become more charismaticConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandCredits:Written by Charlie HoupertEdited by Akash RajpurohitDirected by Andre Ringkjoeb Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices