577 | Annabel Bower, Stillbirth, Grief After Loss, NICU, Placental Insufficiency

Maddie shares her transformative journey from receiving an unexpected cleft lip and palate diagnosis at 22 weeks to achieving her dream home birth despite numerous challenges. As a 36-year-old first-time mother living in Melbourne's Bayside area, Maddie's story beautifully illustrates the power of informed choice, trusting your body, and finding the right support team. Her experience navigating the complexities of birthing a baby with additional needs whilst maintaining her vision for a physiological home birth offers invaluable insights for expectant parents facing similar circumstances.Follow us on Instagram for photos from today's interview and more. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

For this week’s episode and in honour of Infant Loss Week, I interview Annabel Bower who takes us through her experience of stillbirth and the immense, layered grief that followed. Two weeks after her fourth child – a boy named Miles – was born still, she started writing about her experience so she could record all the little details that she knew would eventually fade. As she journeyed through a grief that stripped all colour from her world, she documented the days and weeks of life after loss and went on to interview women who had experienced miscarriage, stillbirth or infant loss. The finished project is her book, Miles Apart, a heartfelt offering of support for those who have lost a baby and are enduring the incomprehensible grief. Annabel hopes that her words break the stigma and the silence of miscarriage and stillbirth and open a vital conversation for us all to have. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Lauren shares her contrasting birth experiences with her two boys, Charles and Harvey, whilst navigating the challenges of building two innovative businesses for parents. From her anxiety-filled first pregnancy during COVID to her blissfully calm second experience, Lauren's story highlights the profound difference that continuity of care and mental preparation can make. She opens up about her struggle with postnatal anxiety, the healing power of a positive second birth, and how her experiences as a mother directly inspired her to create BubbaDesk (co-working spaces with childcare) and Wombee (a purpose-built app for mothers). This episode is particularly valuable for expectant mothers dealing with anxiety, those considering epidurals, and anyone interested in how birth experiences can shape entrepreneurial ventures.Today's episode is brought to you by Wombee. We all know that finding your village as a new mum can feel overwhelming. Traditional mothers groups don't start until 6-8 weeks after birth, but what about all those questions and moments of uncertainty before then? That's where Wombee comes in. Whether you're looking for a group or already have one and want a better way to stay organised, Wombee makes it easy.Wombee - helping you build your village and take the pressure off finding support, because every mum deserves her people. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In today's episode I chat with Dr Daniela Aiello, a registered osteopath specialising in pregnancy and postpartum care at Bulleen Osteopathy in Melbourne's northern suburbs. Daniela brings over two decades of experience treating pregnant and postpartum women, combined with her personal journey as a mother of two (aged 14 and 11) and founder of Continuall, a compression wear brand designed specifically for women during pregnancy and postpartum recovery. This episode serves as an essential guide for expectant mothers, doulas, and midwives seeking to understand the most common musculoskeletal complaints during pregnancy and the fourth trimester.    Today's sponsor - iL Tutto iL Tutto design nursery furniture that’s as stylish as it is supportive. Their Trend Collection has already given parents the award-winning Frankie and Louie Nursery Chairs in our signature teddy-fleece. And now, we’re so excited to welcome Louie in Corduroy — a brand new textured fabric available in three colours: Taupe, Green Olive, and Coconut.Corduroy brings a modern, tactile finish to the nursery, while Louie delivers the comfort parents love — with plush cushioning, smooth gliding, and thoughtful design for every feed, cuddle, and nap-time story.To celebrate, we’re giving Australian Birth Stories listeners an exclusive discount:Use the code BIRTHSTORIES20 at checkout to receive 20% off your iL Tutto order, but hurry — this offer ends 12th October 2025.Shop the collection now at iltutto.com.au Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Liza takes us through her transformative journey across three very different birth experiences in the Northern Rivers region of New South Wales. From an unexpected first pregnancy at 24 whilst her husband was deployed, through a traumatic second birth that led to essential mental health support, to finally achieving her dream VBAC after two caesareans - Liza's story is one of resilience, growth, and the power of therapeutic healing. Her candid discussion about birth trauma, the importance of mental health care, and how changing her mindset completely transformed her final birth experience offers invaluable insights for anyone navigating challenging birth experiences or considering a VBAC.If you'd like to prepare for birth with our courses, you can find them here:The Birth Class The Caesarean Birth ClassWelcome to the First Trimester Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Claire - a midwife and nurse from south of Sydney - shares her first birth experience with baby Maeve. Despite her professional background, Claire's journey from planned home water birth to emergency caesarean beautifully illustrates that birth often doesn’t goes to plan, but can still be incredibly empowering. Her story offers invaluable insights for birth workers and expectant parents alike, showing how informed decision-making, trusted care providers, and a positive mindset can transform any birth experience into something beautiful.Today's episode is brought to you by Bare Mum. Whether your C-section is planned or unexpected, having the right recovery support makes all the difference. The C-Section Birth Care Kit by Bare Mum is perfect for your hospital bag - because being prepared means faster, more comfortable healing. Bare Mum is offering you 15% off storewide with the discount code ABS2025. Visit baremum.com.au and give yourself the gentle, specialised care you deserve during recovery.Bare Mum - supporting you through every step of your recovery journey. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Nonny Naitanui shares her journey from fertility concerns to an unexpectedly early but beautiful birth experience. After receiving concerning AMH results that initially sparked fears about her fertility, Nonny conceived within three months of trying.Today's sponsor - iL Tutto iL Tutto design nursery furniture that’s as stylish as it is supportive. Their Trend Collection has already given parents the award-winning Frankie and Louie Nursery Chairs in our signature teddy-fleece. And now, we’re so excited to welcome Louie in Corduroy — a brand new textured fabric available in three colours: Taupe, Green Olive, and Coconut.Corduroy brings a modern, tactile finish to the nursery, while Louie delivers the comfort parents love — with plush cushioning, smooth gliding, and thoughtful design for every feed, cuddle, and nap-time story.To celebrate, we’re giving Australian Birth Stories listeners an exclusive discount:Use the code BIRTHSTORIES20 at checkout to receive 20% off your iL Tutto order, but hurry — this offer ends 12th October 2025.Shop the collection now at iltutto.com.au Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Today I chat with Sophie, a clinical psychologist and mother of two who runs her own practice, Nimble Minds Clinical Psychology, in Sydney's Sutherland Shire. Sophie shares her journey from a 10-month conception period during COVID lockdowns to two incredibly positive birth experiences at the Royal Hospital for Women. Her first birth with daughter Charlotte (Lottie) was a beautifully managed hospital birth, whilst her second pregnancy brought the surprise of a 4.6kg baby boy, Henry, and initial plans for a home birth that ultimately led to another wonderful hospital experience. Sophie's story is particularly valuable for expectant mothers as she navigates the mental preparation for birth through her professional lens whilst experiencing the raw emotions of becoming a mother herself.Connect with us:Instagram @australianbirthstoriesTikTok @australianbirthstoriesWebsite australianbirthstories.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Tamsyn shares her journey from first-time mum to birthing fraternal twins vaginaly at 40+6 weeks. After experiencing a medicalised first birth with Maya during COVID lockdowns, Tamsyn was determined to achieve the physiological birth she envisaged for her twins. Despite facing significant pressure from hospital staff to accept routine interventions, Tamsyn's story demonstrates the importance of having strong support people and trusting your body's ability to birth. With the guidance of her private midwife Helen and support person Shelly (a midwife and family friend), Tamsyn navigated challenging conversations with obstetricians and ultimately achieved her dream birth - birthing both babies naturally within 10 minutes of each other after just 90 minutes in hospital.Prepare for your birth with our courses and products, The Birth ClassThe Caesarean Birth ClassWelcome to the First Trimester Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, Ruby - a registered nurse turned midwife and maternal child health nurse - shares her positive birth experience through the Royal Women's Hospital homebirth program in Melbourne. After initially planning a homebirth, Ruby's journey took several turns including a low-lying placenta scare that kept her in limbo for months, waters breaking early, and ultimately birthing her daughter Clementine in hospital with syntocinon induction. Ruby's story beautifully illustrates how birth can unfold differently than planned whilst still being incredibly positive and empowering.Follow us on Instagram for photos and more from this episode. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.