How spoiled is too spoiled

In this latest episode, I am discussing the factors that lead to parents spoiling their kids. There is a line that you shouldn't cross, but it is ultimately left up to the individual. I will give you the three things you can do to provide the key to not doing too much. Hopefully you will enjoy what you hear.

This episode dives into the mindset and actual dollar amount you need to live on your own in this country. You may think that the money you make now is enough but once you see this on paper, it may change your outlook. Also, As you decide on how to make money, you have to know your motivation level. How hard you willing to work in order to be independent? In this description are a few links to things I stated. https://www.dir.ca.gov/databases/das/aigstart.asp https://www.best-trade-schools.net/locations/california/ file:///Users/johnturner/Pictures/Photos%20Library.photoslibrary/private/com.apple.Photos/ExternalEditSessions/953283DD-B279-4E78-A534-92210B58C374/IMG_6277.jpg file:///Users/johnturner/Pictures/Photos%20Library.photoslibrary/private/com.apple.Photos/ExternalEditSessions/E0F1FCA2-41BF-4993-ADC3-549C24B2634C/IMG_6276.jpg

What happens when a family member leaves a house or money to their heirs? In this episode, I discuss the ways that family, when uneducated, may not make the best decision. It sometimes can be as something simple as that, getting educated. In the black family too many times, we are left with the only having property in the family for one generation. Sad times but not the end all be all. Please take a listen.

This episode discusses the how we sometimes think we're somewhere at the right time but it isn't the right place. The life of PnB Rock was taken because he thought he could go to an establishment and eat without harm coming his way. This is only an analogy of how our life is sometimes. Think before you act.

In this episode I discuss what it means to take the sex out of your relationship. So many times, women can think that all they have to do is open their legs and the man in their life will be pleased. Not the case. There is more to pleasing a man than just him busting a nut. I challenge you to ask yourself, "what is my value?"

In the 6th episode, I discuss how sexual desires can come with a price. Meaning, sometimes we act on impulse without using good logic. I discuss the Deshawn Watson situation. If he did act upon his impulses, how much will it ultimately end up costing him? In the end, I give you some good ways to navigate through them. (The audio is a little off for some reason)

This episode is close to me because I myself was not there for my own daughter. With that being said, I discuss the various reasons as to why so many black men are not there for their kids. I also give solutions as how we can stop this problem. Link to the youtube page mentioned is: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBZlIOmMOMA8kjuC47MfeKA

In the episode, I discuss the various reasons on why people can't find a successful relationship to be in. I give some of the answers to these reasons. Look in the mirror first before you judge someone else.

In this episode, I explore the highs and lows of how the beliefs bestowed upon me by family and respected people in my life had an impact on my decision making. Also, my first guest, Jamie Turner stopped by to share thoughts. The 3 subjects I focused on were: 1. Family 2. Finance 3. Education We all were taught something by someone and from that we started to belief based from that. Hopefully you have realized the negative ones and changed your outlook in hopes of your life being better off.

In this episode, I discuss the why's and excuses that are used to stay in a relationship too long. If you don't have the self-worth or are scared to leave a situation that you're not happy with, I include the remedies on how to address this with your mate. Also included are the exact steps to take.  1. Write down your WHY's for staying 2. Write down a pros/cons list 3. Look in the mirror and do a self-introspection on your worth 4. Have that talk with your partner 5. Seek a trusted person to talk to about this. They may give you insight. 6. Make a decision