And Now We Drink Episode 436: With Robert Dean

On this thought-provoking episode of "And Now We Drink," host Matt Slayer returns with guest Robert Dean as they dive back into conversations in person for the first time since the pandy. The two reflect on the surreal nature of the pandemic era, reminiscing about the unique social dynamics it ushered in, from virtual gatherings to underground speakeasy parties in Texas and Los Angeles. The discussion shifts from personal antics to broader societal critiques. Robert, now embracing a life of sobriety, shares his insights into the misconceptions about creativity and substance use, advocating for a sober approach to life's challenges and the best work he's done under this lifestyle. With humor and raw honesty, the conversation traverses through Robert's European travels, mishaps in Dublin, and profound experiences in Barcelona that shaped his writing career. As they discuss the influence of cultural icons like Ozzy Osbourne and the impact of their passings, the show takes a reflective turn, exploring the interplay between nostalgia, societal changes, and the enduring impact of music and culture on personal identity. Tackling political discourse passionately, Robert introduces his upcoming projects that delve into reactionary politics and the importance of having informed political conversations. Together, Robert and Matt stir up laughter, debates, and a touch of cynicism while encouraging listeners to embrace small acts of kindness amidst the chaos. Tune in for a compelling blend of humor, introspection, and societal commentary, all underscored by the familiar camaraderie between Matt and Robert.   New Sponsor ALERT   We are proud to be brought to you by BellFlask   www.bellflask.com use promo code slayer20 for 20% off at checkout     Cover your shame in our wares. New Merch! anwd.net/merch The Patreon is full of exclusive content and directly supports the show. patreon.com/mattslayer   Subscribe to the youtube youtube.com/andnowwedrink

In the latest episode of "And Now We Drink," host Matt Slayer sits down with the multifaceted Travis Keller for an intriguing conversation that delves deep into the trials and triumphs of a life devoted to art, resilience, and self-discovery. The conversation kicks off with Travis recounting a tumultuous year marked by displacement due to wildfires, a series of relocations, and ongoing efforts to complete a compelling documentary about his long-time collaborator Joe Cardamone band, The Icarus Line. Keller, who has worn many hats as a music industry maven and independent filmmaker, shares heartfelt insights into his recovery from addiction, . His narrative serves as a backdrop to a larger discussion on art as a medium for healing and activism, particularly within the framework of his upcoming projects, including a film and companion book chronicling a pivotal era in  rock history. Listeners are treated to Keller's perspectives on the contemporary music scene, expressing nostalgia for pre-digital discovery methods and the organic energy of the punk scene. He laments the challenges of finding new music in today's algorithm-driven landscape while championing independent voices and resurgence through platforms like his website, Buddyhead.com. The episode takes a reflective turn as Keller shares his newfound love for running, linking it back to his relentless drive for personal growth and connection. As a staunch advocate for authentic expression and social consciousness, Travis emphasizes the importance of solidarity and class awareness amid today's turbulent political climate. Whether you're a long-time fan or new to his world, Travis Keller's story is one of transformation and unwavering commitment to art's transformative power.   New Sponsor ALERT   We are proud to be brought to you by BellFlask   www.bellflask.com use promo code slayer20 for 20% off at checkout     Cover your shame in our wares. New Merch! anwd.net/merch The Patreon is full of exclusive content and directly supports the show. patreon.com/mattslayer   Subscribe to the youtube youtube.com/andnowwedrink

In this lively and revealing episode of "And Now We Drink," host Matt Slayer sits down with Zariah Aura for an unfiltered conversation that covers everything from wild youthful adventures and unexpected encounters to the deeply personal journey of self-discovery and authenticity. Zariah opens up about a memorable incident from her past involving  reflecting on how these early experiences were stepping stones on her path to adulting. The conversation takes a turn when Zariah candidly discusses her life before transitioning, offering insight into overcoming personal adversities and the transformation from doubt to self-acceptance. The two delve into the complexities of relationships, both familial and romantic, exploring how Zariah navigates these waters with her husband. She shares the dynamic and barrier-breaking experiences of their open relationship, which is as authentic off-camera as it is on, giving listeners an intimate glimpse into their multifaceted life together. Matt and Zariah also tackle societal issues, from the challenges of being authentic in today's digital age to the inequities embedded in economic structures. Zariah speaks passionately about the importance of staying true to oneself despite the world's pressures, noting how her industry's stigmatization impacts her, while also enlightening listeners on the broader spectrum of SW. Throughout the episode, Zariah's vibrant personality and unwavering confidence shine. Whether you're here for the laughs, the candid moments, or the heartfelt introspection, this episode promises an engaging listen. Tune in for an episode that balances humor with heartfelt narratives, offering a genuine peek into Zariah Aura's world.   New Sponsor ALERT   We are proud to be brought to you by BellFlask   www.bellflask.com use promo code slayer20 for 20% off at checkout     Cover your shame in our wares. New Merch! anwd.net/merch The Patreon is full of exclusive content and directly supports the show. patreon.com/mattslayer   Subscribe to the youtube youtube.com/andnowwedrink

In this vivacious episode of "And Now We Drink," host Matt Slayer invites back the effervescent Paige Bundy for a spirited catch-up. It's been a year since Paige last graced the show, and a lot has happened—or hasn't, depending on how you look at her podcast promises. Listeners will find themselves chuckling and nodding along as Paige candidly navigates the highs and lows of modern dating, the intricate art of loving and loathing Los Angeles men, and her charmingly complex relationship with building a dating roster. She even delves into her life aspirations as she contemplates whether to keep "bartending or finally start that podcast." The episode dances through humor-laden anecdotes, such as Paige's hilarious reflections on whether she may have some level of autism due to her penchant for repeat phrases and her unique sensory experiences. Her openness invites comfort, revealing both a depth of introspection and a knack for comedic storytelling. As the drinks flow, so does the candid conversation, from tales of wild nights at L.A. bars to the culinary adventures she'd like to embark on, particularly her disdain for pork. With Matt's tongue-in-cheek probing and Paige's unfiltered realness, this episode is a rollercoaster of laughter, personal revelations, and the quirky challenges that come from living in L.A. Don't miss out on a single sip of this intoxicating dialogue. Cheers to keeping it real and always having a comeback for every cringe-worthy moment.      New Sponsor ALERT   We are proud to be brought to you by BellFlask   www.bellflask.com use promo code slayer20 for 20% off at checkout     Cover your shame in our wares. New Merch! anwd.net/merch The Patreon is full of exclusive content and directly supports the show. patreon.com/mattslayer   Subscribe to the youtube youtube.com/andnowwedrink

In this lively episode of "And Now We Drink," host Matt Slayer welcomes the fabulous duo of Ariel Demure and Jade Venus. Together, they dive headfirst into a freewheeling conversation that spans topics from hilarious, behind-the-scenes  industry tales to personal revelations and everything in between. Ariel and Jade share candid stories about their experiences in the  film world, and dish on their upcoming feature "The Naughty Nanny"  They also highlight the highs and lows of working in an industry often viewed with both allure and controversy. They touch upon the challenges they face, particularly as trans performers, sharing insights into how they navigate industry expectations, personal boundaries, and societal perceptions. The trio discusses the logistical nuances of their craft, offering humorous anecdotes about unexpected wardrobe malfunctions and creative on-set improvisations. The conversation also delves into more personal territories, as Ariel and Jade reflect on their backgrounds, their journey to personal acceptance, and the empowerment they find in their work. They candidly discuss relationships and personal growth, providing a nuanced perspective on living authentically both on and off-camera. This episode is not just a journey into the film industry but also an exploration of identity, resilience, and the joy of self-expression. Whether you're a longtime listener or new to the show, this episode offers a fascinating glimpse into the real-life stories of two captivating personalities, all while keeping you entertained from start to finish. Tune in for a conversation that's as thought-provoking as it is entertaining.     New Sponsor ALERT   We are proud to be brought to you by BellFlask   www.bellflask.com use promo code slayer20 for 20% off at checkout     Cover your shame in our wares. New Merch! anwd.net/merch The Patreon is full of exclusive content and directly supports the show. patreon.com/mattslayer   Subscribe to the youtube youtube.com/andnowwedrink

In this raucous episode of "And Now We Drink," Matt Slayer is joined by the intriguing Michelle Masque, acontent creator with a passion for adventure and an untamed sense of freedom. The conversation kicks off with musings on  preferences and personal rosters, but soon segues into deeper, more existential territories. Michelle talks candidly about her love of freedom, the joys of a mobility-oriented lifestyle, and the unique experiences that come with it, all while maintaining an open mind towards life's potential relocations, like Portugal. As laughter and whiskey flow, the pair delve into the concept of breaking generational trauma and why Michelle has opted for a child-free life. Matt shares his vasectomy anniversary, adding his own insights into the societal pressures and personal choices surrounding parenthood. Guests' tales of misadventures and life choices blend with philosophical musings on art, morality, and culture, all met with Matt's classic wit and unexpected depth. Michelle opens up about her past experiences with guns and wild, youthful nights in Texas, swapping stories over thoughts on societal norms and their impact on personal identity. From the highs of heavy metal concerts to hotel room adventures, Michelle and Matt navigate through an animated discussion on the experiences that shape their lives. Whether indulging in the nostalgia of iconic metal bands like Slayer and Black Sabbath or exposing the absurdities of Uber etiquette, "And Now We Drink" offers its audience a glimpse into the exhilarating blend of spectacle, substance, and singularity. So, pour yourself a drink, get comfortable, and prepare to laugh, think, and maybe even question the tides of your own life decisions. Cheers! 🍸   New Sponsor ALERT   We are proud to be brought to you by BellFlask   www.bellflask.com use promo code slayer20 for 20% off at checkout     Cover your shame in our wares. New Merch! anwd.net/merch The Patreon is full of exclusive content and directly supports the show. patreon.com/mattslayer   Subscribe to the youtube youtube.com/andnowwedrink

In this spicy, engaging episode of "And Now We Drink," host Matt Slayer welcomes the unapologetically candid comedian Wyatt Feegrado to discuss everything from the cultural differences between the bustling cities of LA and New York to the wild dynamics of the comedy and entertainment industries. Wyatt delves into his thoughts on the LA lifestyle. The conversation quickly shifts gears to the world of comedy, as Wyatt recounts his experiences performing across the U.S., the cultural nuances he observes, and how comedians like him navigate the delicate balance between daring humor and the ever-watchful eye of cancel culture. The pair also explore the intimate, often misunderstood elements of the  industry. With Matt's firsthand experiences providing insight on everything from behind-the-scenes shoot logistics to the evolving markets of entertainment, the discussion takes on a rich, informative tone, shedding light on a side of the industry few hear about. Wyatt reveals his plans for a nationwide tour, offering fans new content and a taste of his comedic exploits. Along the way, the duo traverses topics like societal expectations, and the relativity of norms across diverse professional landscapes. Tune in to experience a conversation that is equal parts humorous, thought-provoking, and at times, beautifully chaotic. Whether you're a fan of comedy, intrigued by the industry, or just in for a laugh, this episode promises an unfiltered glimpse into the lives of those who thrive on the edge of controversy and creativity.   New Sponsor ALERT   We are proud to be brought to you by BellFlask   www.bellflask.com use promo code slayer20 for 20% off at checkout     Cover your shame in our wares. New Merch! anwd.net/merch The Patreon is full of exclusive content and directly supports the show. patreon.com/mattslayer   Subscribe to the youtube youtube.com/andnowwedrink

In this engaging and candid episode of "And Now We Drink," host Matt Slayer sits down with the vivacious Jessica Aaren for a lively conversation promptly fueled by good drinks and even better banter. The episode kicks off with Jessica sharing her favorite concoction, a Blueberry Mint Mule, along with tales of her culinary exploits hailing from North Dakota, revealing her prowess in the kitchen—especially during Thanksgiving. As the show progresses, Jessica talks about her transition from North Dakota to the vibrant streets of Las Vegas, and potentially, to the greener pastures of Los Angeles. She shares insights into her life in the  industry, highlighting the dynamics between civilian and industry friendships, and what she has found to be essential in maintaining them. Jessica openly discusses her career aspirations, aiming to explore more feature work in the  film industry, capturing the nuanced performances that make movies memorable. Her thoughts are interspersed with witty reflections on life, friendships, and unabashed appreciation for good food and drink, which she cites as part of her Las Vegas routine. Listeners are treated to a blend of humor and honesty, as Jessica unpacks personal anecdotes, bursts some myths about life in and out of the industry, and courageously hints at her journey towards self-improvement and career growth. Whether you're interested in the nuances of the  industry or fascinated by Jessica's life story and bubbly personality, this episode provides an entertaining peek behind the curtain of Jessica Aaren's life.   New Sponsor ALERT   We are proud to be brought to you by BellFlask   www.bellflask.com use promo code slayer20 for 20% off at checkout     Cover your shame in our wares. New Merch! anwd.net/merch The Patreon is full of exclusive content and directly supports the show. patreon.com/mattslayer   Subscribe to the youtube youtube.com/andnowwedrink

Indulge in the hilariously chaotic world of  "And Now We Drink" host Matt Slayer as he welcomes Millie Morgan to the show. In this episode, they dive headfirst into a maelstrom of engaging anecdotes, from unexpected dating misadventures with "piss pants" to navigating the trials of modern relationships in the  industry. The conversation takes wild detours into their love-hate relationships with societal norms,  and humorous musings on the concept of an ideal date at a strip club. Listeners are treated to a candid window into Millie’s life, filled with laughter and sincerity, as she discusses her career milestones, including manifesting a hotdog stand scene and her previous role as a cam girl. The episode takes a sincere turn as romance, spontaneity, and the struggle to reconcile personal and professional life in adult entertainment are laid bare with heart and humor. Engage with this sidesplitting narrative that captures raw moments and larger-than-life personalities in a single breath. This episode delivers another wildly entertaining showcase of engaging tales and realness straight from the heart of two industry mavericks. Tune in for laughs, unexpected philosophies, and a glimpse into Millie Morgan's uniquely vibrant world!     New Sponsor ALERT   We are proud to be brought to you by BellFlask   www.bellflask.com use promo code slayer20 for 20% off at checkout     Cover your shame in our wares. New Merch! anwd.net/merch The Patreon is full of exclusive content and directly supports the show. patreon.com/mattslayer   Subscribe to the youtube youtube.com/andnowwedrink

Join host Matt Slayer for another rollicking episode of "And Now We Drink," featuring the vivacious Lola Fae. Get ready to dive headfirst into a whirlwind of topics that range from the delightfully absurd to the genuinely introspective. This week's episode unfolds with Lola and Matt exchanging witty banter about manga, touching upon its role as a precursor to their favorite "hand-drawn" entertainment. But don't expect discussions about snowballs—Matt makes it clear that's not on the agenda! As the conversation lurches forward, Lola and Matt dive into everything from dietary preferences, debating the merits of veggies versus meat, to amusing anecdotes about past experiences in religious institutions. Lola, always the entertainer, brings up her culinary escapades with mushrooms and the ethics of eating meat, balancing the heaviness with her playful humor about leaving lava lamps behind during fictional break-ins. The episode isn't all laughs—Lola gets candid about personal fears and relationships, especially her musings about romantic dynamics and self-identity. The underlying theme here is the courage it takes to embrace one's true self and fears, whether it be about relationships or other personal choices.  Matt and Lola take listeners on a nostalgia trip as they reminisce about the old-school Concluding with Lola's thoughts and playful tussle over tacos, this episode weaves through diverse topics with charm and a touch of irreverence. Whether you're here for the laughs, the insightful discussions, or the wild tangents—there's something for everyone. Tune in and enjoy the ride with Matt and Lola!     New Sponsor ALERT   We are proud to be brought to you by BellFlask   www.bellflask.com use promo code slayer20 for 20% off at checkout     Cover your shame in our wares. New Merch! anwd.net/merch The Patreon is full of exclusive content and directly supports the show. patreon.com/mattslayer   Subscribe to the youtube youtube.com/andnowwedrink