146: Why People Pleasing Is Sabotaging Your Sobriety - You Don’t Owe Anyone a Drink

This one is all about how people pleasing can totally derail your sobriety without you even realizing it. Like how saying yes to things just to make others comfortable can leave you feeling drained and disconnected. If you’ve ever felt like you had to drink to fit in, this one’s for you.Start your journey with our FREE course:⁠⁠ The Sober Girl Blueprint⁠⁠Need a Sober Community?Join our ⁠Sober Girls Mastermind here⁠—a space for women ready to transform their relationship with alcohol and fully heal body, mind, and spirit.Inside: weekly group calls, expert masterclasses, exclusive trainings, private group chat, and direct support from Michaela & Erinn.We love hearing from you!DM us with questions, comments, coaching inquiries, or episode topic ideas. Let’s connect!Follow us on Instagram →⁠ @2sobergirlspodcast⁠Join our VIP email list →⁠ 2sobergirls.com/vip⁠Resources & SupportConnect with us:⁠Michaela on Instagram⁠ | ⁠Download Michaela’s Free Resources⁠⁠Erinn on Instagram⁠ | ⁠Get Erinn’s Sober Life Simplified Guide⁠Loved the episode? Treat us to a coffee:⁠ buymeacoffee.com/2sobergirlspodcast⁠Don’t forget to rate, review, and share the show!Subscribe so you never miss an episode.Support our sponsors:⁠ 2sobergirls.com/sponsors⁠Disclaimer: We are not addiction specialists, but we can help guide you to the right support if needed. This podcast is intended to inspire, educate, and support your personal journey. It is not medical advice.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this episode, we’re talking about something so many women in this community carry quietly—feeling embarrassed to admit that you picked up again. Whether it was one drink or a string of them, that moment can feel heavy with shame, secrecy, and self-judgment. We get it. We've seen it. And we want you to know: you’re not alone, and you are still worthy of this journey.We’re unpacking why it feels so hard to come clean about a slip, the lies shame will try to sell you, and how to actually use that moment as fuel for your comeback. This conversation is here to remind you that healing isn’t linear—and you never lose the progress, wisdom, or growth you’ve already built.You are not starting from scratch—you’re starting from experience. Let’s talk about it.Start your journey with our FREE course:⁠⁠ The Sober Girl Blueprint⁠⁠Need a Sober Community?Join our ⁠Sober Girls Mastermind here⁠—a space for women ready to transform their relationship with alcohol and fully heal body, mind, and spirit.Inside: weekly group calls, expert masterclasses, exclusive trainings, private group chat, and direct support from Michaela & Erinn.We love hearing from you!DM us with questions, comments, coaching inquiries, or episode topic ideas. Let’s connect!Follow us on Instagram →⁠ @2sobergirlspodcast⁠Join our VIP email list →⁠ 2sobergirls.com/vip⁠Resources & SupportConnect with us:⁠Michaela on Instagram⁠ | ⁠Download Michaela’s Free Resources⁠⁠Erinn on Instagram⁠ | ⁠Get Erinn’s Sober Life Simplified Guide⁠Loved the episode? Treat us to a coffee:⁠ buymeacoffee.com/2sobergirlspodcast⁠Don’t forget to rate, review, and share the show!Subscribe so you never miss an episode.Support our sponsors:⁠ 2sobergirls.com/sponsors⁠Disclaimer: We are not addiction specialists, but we can help guide you to the right support if needed. This podcast is intended to inspire, educate, and support your personal journey. It is not medical advice.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

We’re turning up the heat—minus the hangover. In this episode, we share how to step into your Sober Girl Summer Era with confidence, clarity, and connection. From setting fresh intentions to creating alcohol-free adventures, we talk mindset shifts, wellness hacks, and how to build a summer that actually feels good. This is your season to glow, grow, and do it all alcohol-free. Start your journey with our FREE course:⁠⁠ The Sober Girl Blueprint⁠⁠ Need a Sober Community? Join our ⁠Sober Girls Mastermind here⁠—a space for women ready to transform their relationship with alcohol and fully heal body, mind, and spirit. Inside: weekly group calls, expert masterclasses, exclusive trainings, private group chat, and direct support from Michaela & Erinn. We love hearing from you! DM us with questions, comments, coaching inquiries, or episode topic ideas. Let’s connect! Follow us on Instagram →⁠ @2sobergirlspodcast⁠ Join our VIP email list →⁠ 2sobergirls.com/vip⁠ Resources & Support Connect with us:⁠Michaela on Instagram⁠ | ⁠Download Michaela’s Free Resources⁠ ⁠Erinn on Instagram⁠ | ⁠Get Erinn’s Sober Life Simplified Guide⁠ Loved the episode? Treat us to a coffee:⁠ buymeacoffee.com/2sobergirlspodcast⁠ Don’t forget to rate, review, and share the show! Subscribe so you never miss an episode. Support our sponsors:⁠ 2sobergirls.com/sponsors⁠ Disclaimer: We are not addiction specialists, but we can help guide you to the right support if needed. This podcast is intended to inspire, educate, and support your personal journey. It is not medical advice. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

We’re turning up the heat—minus the hangover. In this episode, we share how to step into your Sober Girl Summer Era with confidence, clarity, and connection. From setting fresh intentions to creating alcohol-free adventures, we talk mindset shifts, wellness hacks, and how to build a summer that actually feels good. This is your season to glow, grow, and do it all alcohol-free. Start your journey with our FREE course:⁠⁠ The Sober Girl Blueprint⁠⁠ Need a Sober Community? Join our ⁠Sober Girls Mastermind here⁠—a space for women ready to transform their relationship with alcohol and fully heal body, mind, and spirit. Inside: weekly group calls, expert masterclasses, exclusive trainings, private group chat, and direct support from Michaela & Erinn. We love hearing from you! DM us with questions, comments, coaching inquiries, or episode topic ideas. Let’s connect! Follow us on Instagram →⁠ @2sobergirlspodcast⁠ Join our VIP email list →⁠ 2sobergirls.com/vip⁠ Resources & Support Connect with us:⁠Michaela on Instagram⁠ | ⁠Download Michaela’s Free Resources⁠ ⁠Erinn on Instagram⁠ | ⁠Get Erinn’s Sober Life Simplified Guide⁠ Loved the episode? Treat us to a coffee:⁠ buymeacoffee.com/2sobergirlspodcast⁠ Don’t forget to rate, review, and share the show! Subscribe so you never miss an episode. Support our sponsors:⁠ 2sobergirls.com/sponsors⁠ Disclaimer: We are not addiction specialists, but we can help guide you to the right support if needed. This podcast is intended to inspire, educate, and support your personal journey. It is not medical advice. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What does it really mean to become your best sober self? We talk about breaking free from old norms, owning your worth, and choosing thoughts that actually serve you. Sobriety isn’t just about removing alcohol—it’s about rediscovering who you are, spiritually and emotionally. If you’re craving deeper connection, clarity, and transformation… this one’s for you. Start your journey with our FREE course:⁠⁠ The Sober Girl Blueprint⁠⁠ Need a Sober Community? Join our ⁠Sober Girls Mastermind here⁠—a space for women ready to transform their relationship with alcohol and fully heal body, mind, and spirit. Inside: weekly group calls, expert masterclasses, exclusive trainings, private group chat, and direct support from Michaela & Erinn. We love hearing from you! DM us with questions, comments, coaching inquiries, or episode topic ideas. Let’s connect! Follow us on Instagram →⁠ @2sobergirlspodcast⁠ Join our VIP email list →⁠ 2sobergirls.com/vip⁠ Resources & Support Connect with us:⁠Michaela on Instagram⁠ | ⁠Download Michaela’s Free Resources⁠ ⁠Erinn on Instagram⁠ | ⁠Get Erinn’s Sober Life Simplified Guide⁠ Loved the episode? Treat us to a coffee:⁠ buymeacoffee.com/2sobergirlspodcast⁠ Don’t forget to rate, review, and share the show! Subscribe so you never miss an episode. Support our sponsors:⁠ 2sobergirls.com/sponsors⁠ Disclaimer: We are not addiction specialists, but we can help guide you to the right support if needed. This podcast is intended to inspire, educate, and support your personal journey. It is not medical advice. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

What does it really mean to become your best sober self? We talk about breaking free from old norms, owning your worth, and choosing thoughts that actually serve you. Sobriety isn’t just about removing alcohol—it’s about rediscovering who you are, spiritually and emotionally. If you’re craving deeper connection, clarity, and transformation… this one’s for you. Start your journey with our FREE course:⁠⁠ The Sober Girl Blueprint⁠⁠ Need a Sober Community? Join our ⁠Sober Girls Mastermind here⁠—a space for women ready to transform their relationship with alcohol and fully heal body, mind, and spirit. Inside: weekly group calls, expert masterclasses, exclusive trainings, private group chat, and direct support from Michaela & Erinn. We love hearing from you! DM us with questions, comments, coaching inquiries, or episode topic ideas. Let’s connect! Follow us on Instagram →⁠ @2sobergirlspodcast⁠ Join our VIP email list →⁠ 2sobergirls.com/vip⁠ Resources & Support Connect with us:⁠Michaela on Instagram⁠ | ⁠Download Michaela’s Free Resources⁠ ⁠Erinn on Instagram⁠ | ⁠Get Erinn’s Sober Life Simplified Guide⁠ Loved the episode? Treat us to a coffee:⁠ buymeacoffee.com/2sobergirlspodcast⁠ Don’t forget to rate, review, and share the show! Subscribe so you never miss an episode. Support our sponsors:⁠ 2sobergirls.com/sponsors⁠ Disclaimer: We are not addiction specialists, but we can help guide you to the right support if needed. This podcast is intended to inspire, educate, and support your personal journey. It is not medical advice. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, we dive into the misunderstood concepts of powerlessness and surrender—two pillars of the recovery journey. We share personal stories, reflect on how admitting powerlessness can actually lead to deep strength, and explore how surrendering to a higher power shifts everything. Whether it’s alcohol or another struggle, this conversation is a reminder that there’s strength in letting go and courage in asking for help. Press play and let’s explore the freedom found in surrender. Start your journey with our FREE course: The Sober Girl Blueprint⁠⁠ Need a Sober Community? Join our ⁠Sober Girls Mastermind here⁠—a space for women ready to transform their relationship with alcohol and fully heal body, mind, and spirit. Inside: weekly group calls, expert masterclasses, exclusive trainings, private group chat, and direct support from Michaela & Erinn. We love hearing from you! DM us with questions, comments, coaching inquiries, or episode topic ideas. Let’s connect! Follow us on Instagram →⁠ @2sobergirlspodcast⁠ Join our VIP email list →⁠ 2sobergirls.com/vip⁠ Resources & Support Connect with us:⁠Michaela on Instagram⁠ | ⁠Download Michaela’s Free Resources⁠ ⁠Erinn on Instagram⁠ | ⁠Get Erinn’s Sober Life Simplified Guide⁠ Loved the episode? Treat us to a coffee:⁠ buymeacoffee.com/2sobergirlspodcast⁠ Don’t forget to rate, review, and share the show! Subscribe so you never miss an episode. Support our sponsors:⁠ 2sobergirls.com/sponsors⁠ Disclaimer: We are not addiction specialists, but we can help guide you to the right support if needed. This podcast is intended to inspire, educate, and support your personal journey. It is not medical advice. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, we dive into the misunderstood concepts of powerlessness and surrender—two pillars of the recovery journey. We share personal stories, reflect on how admitting powerlessness can actually lead to deep strength, and explore how surrendering to a higher power shifts everything. Whether it’s alcohol or another struggle, this conversation is a reminder that there’s strength in letting go and courage in asking for help. Press play and let’s explore the freedom found in surrender. Start your journey with our FREE course: The Sober Girl Blueprint⁠⁠ Need a Sober Community? Join our ⁠Sober Girls Mastermind here⁠—a space for women ready to transform their relationship with alcohol and fully heal body, mind, and spirit. Inside: weekly group calls, expert masterclasses, exclusive trainings, private group chat, and direct support from Michaela & Erinn. We love hearing from you! DM us with questions, comments, coaching inquiries, or episode topic ideas. Let’s connect! Follow us on Instagram →⁠ @2sobergirlspodcast⁠ Join our VIP email list →⁠ 2sobergirls.com/vip⁠ Resources & Support Connect with us:⁠Michaela on Instagram⁠ | ⁠Download Michaela’s Free Resources⁠ ⁠Erinn on Instagram⁠ | ⁠Get Erinn’s Sober Life Simplified Guide⁠ Loved the episode? Treat us to a coffee:⁠ buymeacoffee.com/2sobergirlspodcast⁠ Don’t forget to rate, review, and share the show! Subscribe so you never miss an episode. Support our sponsors:⁠ 2sobergirls.com/sponsors⁠ Disclaimer: We are not addiction specialists, but we can help guide you to the right support if needed. This podcast is intended to inspire, educate, and support your personal journey. It is not medical advice. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

This one is for the woman who’s questioning what’s next — and is ready to feel lit up by her life again. From sober dating to wellness routines to expressing your truth through art, Kristen reminds us that sobriety isn’t the end… it’s the beginning of everything good. Connect with Kristen on IG @creativesobriety Grab your FREE course on our website:⁠⁠ The Sober Girl Blueprint⁠⁠ Need a Sober Community? Join our ⁠Sober Girls Mastermind here⁠—a space for women ready to transform their relationship with alcohol and fully heal body, mind, and spirit. Inside: weekly group calls, expert masterclasses, exclusive trainings, private group chat, and direct support from Michaela & Erinn. We love hearing from you! DM us with questions, comments, coaching inquiries, or episode topic ideas. Let’s connect! Follow us on Instagram →⁠ @2sobergirlspodcast⁠ Join our VIP email list →⁠ 2sobergirls.com/vip⁠ Resources & Support Connect with us:⁠Michaela on Instagram⁠ | ⁠Download Michaela’s Free Resources⁠ ⁠Erinn on Instagram⁠ | ⁠Get Erinn’s Sober Life Simplified Guide⁠ Loved the episode? Treat us to a coffee:⁠ buymeacoffee.com/2sobergirlspodcast⁠ Don’t forget to rate, review, and share the show! Subscribe so you never miss an episode. Support our sponsors:⁠ 2sobergirls.com/sponsors⁠ Disclaimer: We are not addiction specialists, but we can help guide you to the right support if needed. This podcast is intended to inspire, educate, and support your personal journey. It is not medical advice. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

This one is for the woman who’s questioning what’s next — and is ready to feel lit up by her life again. From sober dating to wellness routines to expressing your truth through art, Kristen reminds us that sobriety isn’t the end… it’s the beginning of everything good. Connect with Kristen on IG @creativesobriety Grab your FREE course on our website:⁠⁠ The Sober Girl Blueprint⁠⁠ Need a Sober Community? Join our ⁠Sober Girls Mastermind here⁠—a space for women ready to transform their relationship with alcohol and fully heal body, mind, and spirit. Inside: weekly group calls, expert masterclasses, exclusive trainings, private group chat, and direct support from Michaela & Erinn. We love hearing from you! DM us with questions, comments, coaching inquiries, or episode topic ideas. Let’s connect! Follow us on Instagram →⁠ @2sobergirlspodcast⁠ Join our VIP email list →⁠ 2sobergirls.com/vip⁠ Resources & Support Connect with us:⁠Michaela on Instagram⁠ | ⁠Download Michaela’s Free Resources⁠ ⁠Erinn on Instagram⁠ | ⁠Get Erinn’s Sober Life Simplified Guide⁠ Loved the episode? Treat us to a coffee:⁠ buymeacoffee.com/2sobergirlspodcast⁠ Don’t forget to rate, review, and share the show! Subscribe so you never miss an episode. Support our sponsors:⁠ 2sobergirls.com/sponsors⁠ Disclaimer: We are not addiction specialists, but we can help guide you to the right support if needed. This podcast is intended to inspire, educate, and support your personal journey. It is not medical advice. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices