S6E32: I am my own solid ground (on fear + freedom being two sides of the same coin) with Kylie Patchett

There's a version of safety that comes from control. From knowing what's coming, staying in familiar territory, not rocking the boat.And then there's the other kind.The kind that doesn't need circumstances to cooperate. The kind that doesn't need the external world to hold still so you can feel okay.This is a solo episode, and it's a personal one. In the middle of one of the biggest life transitions I've made in years, handing back the keys to our family home and preparing to fly out to Southeast Asia for a Gen X gap year, I had a moment in my kitchen that stopped me in my tracks.Heart pounding. Brain spinning. Fear doing its very convincing thing.And then, through the noise, a single clear message: I am my own solid ground.In this episode I share what that moment actually felt like in my body, the stories fear was running to try to keep me stuck, and why your capacity to hold yourself through fear is directly proportional to how much ease, flow and green lights you get to experience on the other side of it.We also talk about:Why fear isn't your enemy, but it will absolutely lie to youWhat happened in the weeks after that kitchen moment (hint: green light, green light, green light)The two "self-care snacks" I keep coming back to when my nervous system is running hotWhat it actually means to be your own solid ground and why that changes everythingThe question I want to leave you with: what would be possible for you if you truly heard that voice?Fear and freedom really are two sides of the same coin. This episode is about learning to hold both. __Come Say Hi on InstagramDownload your FREE True Sidereal Human Design chart here Or take the Free Visibility Blocks in Entrepreneurship quiz to uncover which visibility fear is muzzling your magic here 

What if burnout isn’t failure?What if exhaustion is your nervous system asking for regulation - not more hustle?In this episode, I sit down with Ms Elizabeth Munoz - founder of Soulhaven and creator of the Radiance Reclamation OS™ - to explore what it really means to reclaim your radiance and rise as a regulated, embodied leader.This is a conversation about nervous system healing, feminine power, sacred sisterhood, and the rise of the Radiant CEO™.In This Episode, We Explore:        •        Elizabeth’s 17-year corporate career and the burnout that changed everything        •        The moment she realised it wasn’t corporate that was the problem - it was dysregulation        •        The “too much / not enough” paradox so many women live inside        •        Why ego isn’t your enemy - it’s protection        •        Heart-brain coherence and becoming magnetic through alignment        •        Sacred sisterhood and healing in community        •        Raising emotionally regulated children in a dysregulated world        •        Why your purpose isn’t prodcutivity - it's joyConnect with Ms Elizabeth Munoz at🌐 Website: www.soulhaven.com📲 Instagram: @mselizabethmunoz 📖 Download the Free Sacred Sisterhood Guide: “Too Much, Not Enough” - A Sacred Sisterhood Guide to Rising Into Radiant Radiance here   __Come Say Hi on InstagramDownload your FREE True Sidereal Human Design chart here Or take the Free Visibility Blocks in Entrepreneurship quiz to uncover which visibility fear is muzzling your magic here 

Nic MacDowall is an authentic astrologer working with the true visible sky. She translates your celestial blueprint through True Sidereal astrology and teaches how to consciously work with the 12th house - the layer of mind that does not respond to force.The work we speak about in this episode centres around Superconscious Scripting: orienting your conscious awareness to what already exists beneath it, without pressure or performance.In part one of this two part episode, we pulled astrology out of abstraction and back into the actual sky above our heads.In part two, we move from structure to depth.From the architecture of the chart…to the layer of mind beneath it. There is a layer of your mind that does not respond to force or control. Most people sense it - but don’t know how to work with it directly.Here, we explore:        •      What the superconscious actually is - and what it absolutely isn’t        •        Why it doesn’t respond to pressure, urgency or “manifest harder” energy        •        How it responds instead - recognition, clarity and conscious direction        •        The 12th House Superconscious Scripting framework Nic created to consciously work with this layer        •        Real stories of how this unfolds in grounded, life-changing ways        •        The felt difference between fear and intuition        •        Where effort supports alignment - and where it quietly sabotages itLinks mentioned in this ep:The 12th House Superconscious Scripting offering here  The 12th Portal community for onoging guidance and communityNic's website here Connect with Nic on instagram hereHerbal Charts - Discover your personalized herbal and spice recommendations based on your astrological birth chart that can energetically support you!  __Come Say Hi on InstagramDownload your FREE True Sidereal Human Design chart here Or take the Free Visibility Blocks in Entrepreneurship quiz to uncover which visibility fear is muzzling your magic here 

Nic MacDowall is an authentic astrologer working with the true visible sky. She translates your celestial blueprint through True Sidereal astrology and teaches how to consciously work with the 12th house - the layer of mind that does not respond to force.The work we speak about in this episode centres around Superconscious Scripting: orienting your conscious awareness to what already exists beneath it, without pressure or performance.In part one of this two part episode, we pull astrology out of abstraction and back into the actual sky above our heads.We explore:        •        Tropical vs True Sidereal - and why your chart may not have fully landed before        •        The houses as the architecture of your life - identity, home, relationships, vocation, retreat        •        Why the world feels too fast - and how that speed disconnects us from ourselves        •        The 12th house as retreat, stillness and sacred withdrawal        •        “I don’t have time” vs “I’m not prioritising myself”        •        External authority vs embodied orientationThis is not astrology as prediction. It’s astrology as gateway to self connection and self mastery.A remembering that your blueprint was never meant to box you in - it was meant to help you navigate.👉 In Part 2, we shift into a direct conversation about the superconscious - what it is, how it functions and how to consciously work with it.Links mentioned in this ep:The 12th House Superconscious Scripting offering here  The 12th Portal community for onoging guidance and communityNic's website here Connect with Nic on instagram hereHerbal Charts - Discover your personalized herbal and spice recommendations based on your astrological birth chart that can energetically support you!  __Come Say Hi on InstagramDownload your FREE True Sidereal Human Design chart here Or take the Free Visibility Blocks in Entrepreneurship quiz to uncover which visibility fear is muzzling your magic here 

This is your call to stop negotiating your powerLet’s name it: most confidence is conditional as hell.It depends on approval. Results. Praise. Progress. Other people behaving nicely.And the moment any of that wobbles? So does your sense of self.In this solo episode, Kylie draws a hard line between confidence that performs and confidence that endures - and why only one of them can actually carry you as a leader, creator, and paradigm shifter.This isn’t about hype, mindset, or “just believe in yourself” nonsense.It’s about embodied, grounded, unshakeable self-trust - the kind that doesn’t disappear when the room goes quiet.In this episode, Kylie explores:Why “I’ll be confident when…” keeps you small and manageableWhy confidence is a state of embodiment, not a personality traitThe visceral difference between borrowed confidence and real powerHow to resource yourself so your confidence doesn’t collapse under pressureHow comparison, consumption, and overexposure quietly dismantle self-trustThis is a rally call for anyone who knows they’re here to lead, speak, disrupt, and reshape what’s possible - without waiting for permission, proof, or perfect conditions.🔸WHAT'S NEXT 🔸🎙️ GENIUS: YOU – Your True Sidereal Human Design decoded for voice, visibility, and purpose. This isn’t another reading – it’s a reckoning with your own brilliance. You’ll receive a 60+ page personalised report and audio intuitive coaching take on your innate genius, magnetic message, and how you’re designed to be seen, heard, and richly rewarded. Introductory offer of 50% off GENIUS: You readings at https://kyliepatchett.com/genius🛒 Explore the store — packed with resources + programs to help you unleash your voice, visibility, storytelling, magnetism, Human Design power, and unapologetic truth… no matter how wild, witchy, or woo woo you are.🔸CONNECT WITH ME🔸 Instagram:   / @kyliepatchettstorytellingFacebook:   / @kyliepatchettonline __Come Say Hi on InstagramDownload your FREE True Sidereal Human Design chart here Or take the Free Visibility Blocks in Entrepreneurship quiz to uncover which visibility fear is muzzling your magic here 

In this solo episode, Kylie dives into the pressure to follow external timelines, business rules, and “expert advice” - and why none of that matters if it doesn’t match your felt sense.This is a grounded, honest conversation about cyclical energy, seasonal rhythms, and why forcing yourself to operate like everyone else is often the fastest way to burn out or disconnect from your genius.If you’ve ever felt behind, out of sync, or like your business energy doesn’t match what the internet says it “should” look like, this episode is for you.In this episode, we explore:Why January doesn’t feel like a “new year” for everyoneSeasonal energy cycles and how they actually show up in real bodies and real livesWhy rest, retreat, and integration are not failures - they’re part of sustainable successThe problem with one-size-fits-all business adviceWhat it really means to honour your resources, energy, and nervous systemHow undefined identity (hello, Blurpreneurs 👀) can amplify conditioning in businessWhy human design and astrology are tools for self-trust, not external authorityThe danger of outsourcing your inner knowing to systems, coaches, or strategiesBreaking free from old paradigm business rules and building in alignment insteadThis episode is an invitation to stop forcing yourself into someone else’s spring when you’re clearly in a winter - and to start listening inward instead.Resources mentioned in this episode:Get your free True Sky Human Design chart👉 www.kyliepatchett.com/freechartExplore Genius U - Voice + Visibility readings & reports👉 www.kyliepatchett.com/genius🔸WHAT'S NEXT 🔸🎙️ GENIUS: YOU – Your True Sidereal Human Design decoded for voice, visibility, and purpose. This isn’t another reading – it’s a reckoning with your own brilliance. You’ll receive a 60+ page personalised report and audio intuitive coaching take on your innate genius, magnetic message, and how you’re designed to be seen, heard, and richly rewarded. Introductory offer of 50% off GENIUS: You readings at https://kyliepatchett.com/genius🛒 Explore the store — packed with resources + programs to help you unleash your voice, visibility, storytelling, magnetism, Human Design power, and unapologetic truth… no matter how wild, witchy, or woo woo you are.🔸CONNECT WITH ME🔸 Instagram:   / @kyliepatchettstorytellingFacebook:   / @kyliepatchettonline __Come Say Hi on InstagramDownload your FREE True Sidereal Human Design chart here Or take the Free Visibility Blocks in Entrepreneurship quiz to uncover which visibility fear is muzzling your magic here 

What if joy wasn’t a reward for success… but the whole damn point?In this solo episode, Kylie shares some long-held news and the deeper realisation behind it: that feeling stuck, flat, or trapped in repetition isn’t a personal failure - it’s a signal.After a heavy year of life and business, this episode is about choosing joy, freedom, and aliveness on purpose and designing both business and life to support that choice.This is the moment where “making it work” gives way to making it feel good.In this episode, Kylie explores:Letting go of grind, obligation, and success-by-enduranceWhy joy is a powerful (and under-rated) business strategyHow Groundhog Day became a catalyst instead of a comfort zoneSaying YES to a to a long-held desire for a grand adventure and taking business on the roadChoosing adventure, simplicity, and lived experience as fuelThis episode is an invitation to stop waiting for permission, stop postponing joy, and start treating aliveness as non-negotiable - in life and in business.🔸WHAT'S NEXT 🔸🎙️ GENIUS: YOU – Your True Sidereal Human Design decoded for voice, visibility, and purpose. This isn’t another reading – it’s a reckoning with your own brilliance. You’ll receive a 60+ page personalised report and audio intuitive coaching take on your innate genius, magnetic message, and how you’re designed to be seen, heard, and richly rewarded. Introductory offer of 50% off GENIUS: You readings at https://kyliepatchett.com/genius🛒 Explore the store — packed with resources + programs to help you unleash your voice, visibility, storytelling, magnetism, Human Design power, and unapologetic truth… no matter how wild, witchy, or woo woo you are. 🔸CONNECT WITH ME🔸 Instagram:   / @kyliepatchettstorytellingFacebook:   / @kyliepatchettonline __Come Say Hi on InstagramDownload your FREE True Sidereal Human Design chart here Or take the Free Visibility Blocks in Entrepreneurship quiz to uncover which visibility fear is muzzling your magic here 

What if your birthday wasn’t just a celebration - but a cosmic reset point?In this episode, Kylie sits down with Etai Nahary for a live, unscripted True Sidereal Human Design Solar Return reading for Kylie just before her 51st birthday - a deep dive into the energetic themes or "cosmic weather" shaping the year ahead.Together, they explore what a solar return actually is, how it differs from natal Human Design, and why these charts aren’t about prediction - but awareness, permission, and conscious navigation.This conversation weaves Human Design, psychology, archetypes, and lived experience to unpack:What a Solar Return chart reveals about the themes of the coming yearHow transits overlay (but never replace) your natal designThe difference between confirmation vs prescription in Human DesignBurnout, power, rest, and discernment through the lens of defined vs undefined centresEmotional waves, expectations, and learning when to waitIdentity, direction, and self-trust when the G Centre comes onlineWhy clarity, mutation, leadership, and embodiment are front and centre right nowThis episode is reflective, exploratory, and deeply human - less “here’s what will happen” and more “here’s what you’re invited to notice.”A powerful listen for anyone curious about True Sidereal Human Design, life cycles, and how to move through a year with more self-trust and less force.  About Etai NaharyEtai offers Human Design explorations including natal charts, connection charts, life cycles, and intuitive deep-dives grounded in psychology, archetypes, and lived wisdom.🔗 Connect with EtaiInstagram - @intuitivehdguideLinkedIn - @intuitivehdguide __Come Say Hi on InstagramDownload your FREE True Sidereal Human Design chart here Or take the Free Visibility Blocks in Entrepreneurship quiz to uncover which visibility fear is muzzling your magic here 

What happens when a woman stops behaving?In Part 1 of this wide-ranging, fire-lit conversation, I’m joined by Tara Sullivan - Spiritual Anarchist, High Priestess of The Church of Tara, and proud W.I.T.C.H. (Woman in True Celebration of HerSelf).We talk about spiritual anarchy, internal oppression, and the quiet (and not-so-quiet) ways women are trained to become obedient, palatable, and self-policing.This episode moves through Tara’s path from actor to healer, the power of language to clarify identity, and why reclaiming sovereignty begins by dismantling the inner jailer.We explore:Spiritual anarchy and blowing up the boxes we’ve internalisedLanguage, naming, and how clarity sharpens purposeHow obedience, “goodness,” and self-monitoring become internal oppressionHealing as remembering the original blueprint beneath conditioningWhy reclaiming pleasure, body, and intuition restores powerCommunity, ritual, and creating spaces where women can speak freely🎧 Part 2 continues with embodiment, pleasure as protest, political conditioning, and the creation of Elements of W.I.T.C.H.Mentioned in this ep:Listen to Tara's Call to Arms on Instagram here.Elements of W.I.T.C.H. | A Crash Course in Spiritual Anarchy, Self Sovereignty, & Sacred Insurgency🗓 February 15–22, 2026🔥 8 days. 5 elements. 1 revolution.💥 $88👉 Join the revolution at www.churchoftara.com/elements PLEASURE | A Life-Lubricating Soul SoakAn on-demand pleasure-packed masterclass for women ready to fuel life, leadership, and liberation with aliveness.👉 Say yes to pleasure as protest here  __Come Say Hi on InstagramDownload your FREE True Sidereal Human Design chart here Or take the Free Visibility Blocks in Entrepreneurship quiz to uncover which visibility fear is muzzling your magic here 

What happens when a woman stops behaving?In Part 1 of this wide-ranging, fire-lit conversation, I’m joined by Tara Sullivan - Spiritual Anarchist, High Priestess of The Church of Tara, and proud W.I.T.C.H. (Woman in True Celebration of HerSelf).We talk about spiritual anarchy, internal oppression, and the quiet (and not-so-quiet) ways women are trained to become obedient, palatable, and self-policing.This episode moves through Tara’s path from actor to healer, the power of language to clarify identity, and why reclaiming sovereignty begins by dismantling the inner jailer.We explore:Spiritual anarchy and blowing up the boxes we’ve internalisedLanguage, naming, and how clarity sharpens purposeHow obedience, “goodness,” and self-monitoring become internal oppressionHealing as remembering the original blueprint beneath conditioningWhy reclaiming pleasure, body, and intuition restores powerCommunity, ritual, and creating spaces where women can speak freely🎧 Part 2 continues with embodiment, pleasure as protest, political conditioning, and the creation of Elements of W.I.T.C.H.Mentioned in this ep:Listen to Tara's Call to Arms on Instagram here.Elements of W.I.T.C.H. | A Crash Course in Spiritual Anarchy, Self Sovereignty, & Sacred Insurgency🗓 February 15–22, 2026🔥 8 days. 5 elements. 1 revolution.💥 $88👉 Join the revolution at www.churchoftara.com/elements PLEASURE | A Life-Lubricating Soul SoakAn on-demand pleasure-packed masterclass for women ready to fuel life, leadership, and liberation with aliveness.👉 Say yes to pleasure as protest here  __Come Say Hi on InstagramDownload your FREE True Sidereal Human Design chart here Or take the Free Visibility Blocks in Entrepreneurship quiz to uncover which visibility fear is muzzling your magic here