#385 The truth about performance anxiety

What you will learn in this episode:✅ Reframe the definition of control—it's not just about staying hard or lasting longer, it’s about how you respond to emotional tension✅ Discover how your reactions (not her behavior) drive the cycle you're stuck in✅ Learn the role emotional regulation plays in building a sex life that actually feels freeReady to improve your sex life? Apply to work with me: https://www.stephanieganowski.com/coaching-application-video/Description of this episode:Most men think freedom in sex means doing whatever they want. But real freedom? It's about how you feel—and how much control you take over those feelings. In this episode, Stephanie shares a personal story about summiting Mount Shasta and unpacks how your interpretation of events, not the events themselves, determine your sex life satisfaction.

In this episode you will learn: How to show up as and speak like a leader when your needs are not being met. How to not come across needy to your woman and gain respect from her in the process.The specific communication that builds true trust, connection and intimacy.Work with me 1:1 and I will help you with your sex performance:https://www.stephanieganowski.com/coaching-application-video/

"High Agency in 30 minutes" (article) by George Mackhttps://www.highagency.com/Work with me 1:1 and I will help you with your sex performance:https://app.stephanieganowski.com/high-performing-men-still-struggle-in-bed 

What you'll learn in this episode:✅ How to look at masturbation in a way that works for your sex life, instead of against it.Work with me to overcome sexual performance issues:https://stephanieganowski.typeform.com/to/Fm6LGfa9

What you'll learn in this episode:✅ Why and how being a sexologist changed the way I viewed various parts of sex from a distance and also in my own relationship. Work with me to transform your sex life:https://stephanieganowski.typeform.com/to/Fm6LGfa9

What you'll learn in this episode:✅ How to take back control over your emotional state. This is a reminder that you get to choose how you move forward. You are never "stuck" the way you think you are.Work with me to transform your sex life:https://stephanieganowski.typeform.com/to/Fm6LGfa9Sign up for Sex Meditations here:https://meditations.supercast.com

What you'll learn in this episode:✅ How to notice a disconnect between you and your partner sexually and then communicate it! Work with me and transform your sex life:https://stephanieganowski.typeform.com/to/Fm6LGfa9Sign up for Sex Meditations here:https://meditations.supercast.com

What you'll learn in this episode:✅ You usually don't just want more of the sex you're having. You want to make it better first and then have more of that. Work with me and transform your sex life:https://stephanieganowski.typeform.com/to/Fm6LGfa9Sign up for Sex Meditations here:https://meditations.supercast.com

What you'll learn in this episode:✅ Why you are feeling so reliant on viagra and how to slowly step away from it!If you're ready to transform yourself and your sex life:Apply to work with me here:https://stephanieganowski.typeform.com/to/Fm6LGfa9Sign up for Sex Meditations here:https://meditations.supercast.com

What you'll learn in this episode: ✅ Why you should never ever apologize for your sex performance!If you're ready to transform yourself and your sex life FAST...Apply to work with me here!: https://stephanieganowski.typeform.com/to/Fm6LGfa9Free Guide:3 Steps To Fix Your Sex LifeSex Meditations https://meditations.supercast.com