268 | Dating Apps, Divorce, and Building My Own Foundation

If you've ever felt disorganized, overwhelmed, or just like you’re just not an “organized person”? In this fun, collaborative episode, I sit down with Tracy Hoth, professional organizer, certified life coach, and host of The Organized Coach podcast, to talk about all things mindset, identity, decluttering, and organizing. I hope you are able to get some inspiration and guidance from this episode. XO, Amber   XO, Amber Check out Tracey's Podcast HERE Follow Tracy HERE  🙌 Declutter Your Chaos helps women clear clutter, without overwhelm and perfectionism.  Join your journey with Amber today at www.declutteryourchaos.com 🔍Follow along on Instagram for more helpful tips and updates:  🌟 Follow on Instagram Join my email list for updates by downloading your free decluttering planner: https://declutteryourchaos.com/decluttering-planner 💬 Love the show? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts — it means the world to me and helps more women find Declutter Your Chaos!   👉 Click here to leave a five star ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ review! 🛑 Disclaimer: I am not a licensed therapist, counselor, or mental health professional. This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only and is not intended as a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you are experiencing emotional distress or mental health concerns, please seek help from a qualified mental health provider.

How are decluttering, depression, overwhelm, & spirituality related? Well... today’s episode dives into how your home and your inner world are connected, and why clutter can make depression and overwhelm worse. And what to do about it! Have you ever looked around your house and thought, “I just can’t do this anymore”? The dishes, the piles, the endless to-dos… and before you’ve even had your morning coffee, you feel buried. You’re not alone — and you’re not broken. In this episode of Declutter Your Chaos, Amber shares her own lived experience with anxiety, depression, and clutter — and how a profound spiritual awakening cracked her open and changed everything. Then she brings in the groundbreaking research of Dr. Lisa Miller, Columbia University psychologist and author of The Awakened Brain, who has proven that spirituality protects the brain against depression and helps rewire us for resilience. XO, Amber   🙌 Declutter Your Chaos helps women clear clutter, without overwhelm and perfectionism.  Join your journey with Amber today at www.declutteryourchaos.com 🔍Follow along on Instagram for more helpful tips and updates:  🌟 Follow on Instagram Join my email list for updates by downloading your free decluttering planner: https://declutteryourchaos.com/decluttering-planner 💬 Love the show? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts — it means the world to me and helps more women find Declutter Your Chaos!   👉 Click here to leave a five star ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ review! 🛑 Disclaimer: I am not a licensed therapist, counselor, or mental health professional. This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only and is not intended as a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you are experiencing emotional distress or mental health concerns, please seek help from a qualified mental health provider.

Hey Friends, Your bedroom iis a place of rest, calm, and renewal—but clutter often sneaks in and steals that peace. In today’s episode of Declutter Your Chaos, Amber walks you step by step through how to clear out the overlooked clutter zones in your bedroom so you can create a space that truly supports sleep, relaxation, and ease. XO, Amber 🙌 Declutter Your Chaos™ helps women clear clutter, without overwhelm and perfectionism.  Join your journey with Amber today at www.declutteryourchaos.com 🔍Follow along on Instagram for helpful tips and updates:  🌟 Follow on Instagram Join my email list for updates by downloading your free decluttering planner: https://declutteryourchaos.com/decluttering-planner 💬 Love the show? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts — it means the world to me and helps more women find Declutter Your Chaos!   👉 Click here to leave a five star ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ review! 🛑 Disclaimer: I am not a licensed therapist, counselor, or mental health professional. This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only and is not intended as a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you are experiencing emotional distress or mental health concerns, please seek help from a qualified mental health provider.

Hey Friends, If you’ve ever started decluttering with the best of intentions and then found yourself knee-deep in a different project across the house, this episode is for you. Today, you’ll learn a simple, ADHD-friendly system to help you stay anchored and finish what you start. This isn’t about fixing yourself — it’s about creating a system that works with your brain, not against it. XO, Amber 🙌 Declutter Your Chaos™ helps women clear clutter, without overwhelm and perfectionism.  Join your journey with Amber today at www.declutteryourchaos.com 🔍Follow along on Instagram for helpful tips and updates:  🌟 Follow on Instagram Join my email list for updates by downloading your free decluttering planner: https://declutteryourchaos.com/decluttering-planner 💬 Love the show? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts — it means the world to me and helps more women find Declutter Your Chaos!   👉 Click here to leave a five star ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ review! 🛑 Disclaimer: I am not a licensed therapist, counselor, or mental health professional. This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only and is not intended as a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you are experiencing emotional distress or mental health concerns, please seek help from a qualified mental health provider.      

To sign up for private coaching before the price increase email me at [email protected]  Hey friends, In today’s episode, we’re talking about the three simple systems that can transform your home and your peace of mind: a mindful morning routine, a 15-minute daily reset, and an intentional evening routine. But here’s the secret — systems alone don’t work without the essential foundation of self-worth. You’ll learn: Why self-worth and systems feed each other in a powerful upward spiral The research-backed benefits of morning and evening routines How a 15-minute daily reset prevents clutter from creeping back Why mindfulness is the glue that keeps these systems grounded How consistency rewires your identity long-term If you’re ready for a once-in-a-lifetime reset, my private coaching program is open at the current price until the end of this weekend. On August 31st, the price goes up by $1,000. This high-touch program is your chance to clear the clutter for good — and finally enjoy a peaceful home that stays that way. XO, Amber   🙌 Declutter Your Chaos helps women clear clutter, without overwhelm and perfectionism.  Join your journey with Amber today at www.declutteryourchaos.com 🔍Follow along on Instagram for more helpful tips and updates:  🌟 Follow on Instagram Join my email list for updates by downloading your free decluttering planner: https://declutteryourchaos.com/decluttering-planner 💬 Love the show? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts — it means the world to me and helps more women find Declutter Your Chaos!   👉 Click here to leave a five star ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ review! 🛑 Disclaimer: I am not a licensed therapist, counselor, or mental health professional. This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only and is not intended as a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you are experiencing emotional distress or mental health concerns, please seek help from a qualified mental health provider.  

Hy Friends, Do you ever feel like rebelling against housework is your way of saying “I’m not playing this game”? 🙋‍♀️ Maybe you leave the dishes, ignore the laundry, or let the clutter pile up because it feels like freedom. Here’s the paradox: sometimes saying no to chores is self-love. And sometimes saying yes to chores is also self-love. The key isn’t the task—it’s the energy and mindset you bring to it. In this episode of Declutter Your Chaos, I’ll show you how to: ✨ Recognize when skipping chores is actually an act of rebellion that honors your needs. ✨ Reframe cleaning as a radical act of self-love (instead of an obligation). ✨ Use one simple question before every task: Am I rebelling through self-love, or am I tending through self-love? ✨ Shift your mindset so that even ordinary chores become an opportunity to recharge, restore, and remind yourself of your worth. We’ll dig into research on motivation, stress, and cognitive reframing—and I’ll give you approachable practices to help you check your energy in the moment. Because when you change the why behind your chores, you change the way you feel in your home. So whether you’re resisting housework or craving order, this episode will help you find peace in the paradox. XO, Amber   🙌 Declutter Your Chaos helps women clear clutter, without overwhelm and perfectionism.  Join your journey with Amber today at www.declutteryourchaos.com 🔍Follow along on Instagram for more helpful tips and updates:  🌟 Follow on Instagram Join my email list for updates by downloading your free decluttering planner: https://declutteryourchaos.com/decluttering-planner 💬 Love the show? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts — it means the world to me and helps more women find Declutter Your Chaos!   👉 Click here to leave a five star ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ review! 🛑 Disclaimer: I am not a licensed therapist, counselor, or mental health professional. This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only and is not intended as a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you are experiencing emotional distress or mental health concerns, please seek help from a qualified mental health provider.  

Ever feel like decluttering is just one more chore on your endless to-do list? In this episode, I share the story of moving into a new neighborhood, feeling completely alone, and how a simple plate of cookies helped me shift my energy from isolation to connection. Decluttering works the same way. When we reframe it from “I have to get rid of this” to “I get to give this,” the whole process transforms. Instead of feeling like drudgery, letting go becomes a privilege — a chance to create space, share abundance, and invite new energy into your life. If you’ve ever struggled to stay motivated while decluttering, this perspective shift will change everything.   XO, Amber   🙌 Declutter Your Chaos helps women clear clutter, without overwhelm and perfectionism.  Join your journey with Amber today at www.declutteryourchaos.com 🔍Follow along on Instagram for more helpful tips and updates:  🌟 Follow on Instagram Join my email list for updates by downloading your free decluttering planner: https://declutteryourchaos.com/decluttering-planner 💬 Love the show? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts — it means the world to me and helps more women find Declutter Your Chaos!   👉 Click here to leave a five star ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ review! 🛑 Disclaimer: I am not a licensed therapist, counselor, or mental health professional. This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only and is not intended as a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you are experiencing emotional distress or mental health concerns, please seek help from a qualified mental health provider.

Hey Guys, This episode isn’t a step-by-step decluttering session — it’s more of a behind-the-scenes update from me. So if you’re looking for a checklist-style episode, feel free to scroll back to one of my many step-by-step guides. But if you’re curious about what’s been going on in my personal life — and how it all connects back to worthiness, energy, and decluttering — this one’s for you. XO, Amber   🙌 Declutter Your Chaos helps women clear clutter, without overwhelm and perfectionism.  Join your journey with Amber today at www.declutteryourchaos.com 🔍Follow along on Instagram for more helpful tips and updates:  🌟 Follow on Instagram Join my email list for updates by downloading your free decluttering planner: https://declutteryourchaos.com/decluttering-planner 💬 Love the show? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts — it means the world to me and helps more women find Declutter Your Chaos!   👉 Click here to leave a five star ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ review! 🛑 Disclaimer: I am not a licensed therapist, counselor, or mental health professional. This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only and is not intended as a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you are experiencing emotional distress or mental health concerns, please seek help from a qualified mental health provider.

Hey Guys! What if “self-care” isn’t about bubble baths or spa days… but about cleaning your toilet? Stay with me here. In today’s episode of Declutter Your Chaos, I’m breaking down the myth of self-care, why the word selfless makes me want to scream, and how decluttering is actually one of the most radical acts of self-love you can practice. We’ll talk about: Why calling women selfless is not a compliment (and why I hate when people do it) The difference between self-care and self-love — and why the language we use matters Why decluttering is so much more than “just cleaning” — it’s about self-worth, clarity, and reclaiming your energy A simple 3-step plan to start treating decluttering as self-care, even if you only have 15 minutes By the end of this episode, you’ll have a clear, actionable way to nurture yourself that doesn’t involve pretending a bubble bath will fix your exhaustion. Instead, you’ll see how even the smallest act of clearing clutter can shift your energy, your mindset, and your sense of worthiness. Because you deserve a home that supports you — not one that drains you.   🙌 Declutter Your Chaos helps women clear clutter, without overwhelm and perfectionism.  Join your journey with Amber today at www.declutteryourchaos.com 🔍Follow along on Instagram for more helpful tips and updates:  🌟 Follow on Instagram Join my email list for updates by downloading your free decluttering planner: https://declutteryourchaos.com/decluttering-planner 💬 Love the show? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts — it means the world to me and helps more women find Declutter Your Chaos!   👉 Click here to leave a five star ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ review! 🛑 Disclaimer: I am not a licensed therapist, counselor, or mental health professional. This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only and is not intended as a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you are experiencing emotional distress or mental health concerns, please seek help from a qualified mental health provider.

Hey Friends! If you’ve ever started decluttering and then… just stopped, you’re not alone. It’s not because you’re lazy. It’s not because you’re bad at organizing. And it’s definitely not because you “just need more motivation.” There’s often something deeper happening — something your clutter might actually be protecting you from. I hope this episode shifts something in you and allows you to move forward.  It's about who we become in the process that creates the transformation of both you. and your home. XO, Amber 🙌 Declutter Your Chaos helps women clear clutter, without overwhelm and perfectionism.  Join your journey with Amber today at www.declutteryourchaos.com 🔍Follow along on Instagram for more helpful tips and updates:  🌟 Follow on Instagram Join my email list for updates by downloading your free decluttering planner: https://declutteryourchaos.com/decluttering-planner 💬 Love the show? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts — it means the world to me and helps more women find Declutter Your Chaos!   👉 Click here to leave a five star ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ review! 🛑 Disclaimer: I am not a licensed therapist, counselor, or mental health professional. This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only and is not intended as a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you are experiencing emotional distress or mental health concerns, please seek help from a qualified mental health provider.