E186: The money self sabotage that no one talks about

What happens after the money comes in?Because the truth is…most money blocks don’t show up before success. The blocks show up the moment you receive it.In this episode, Jamie breaks down the subtle forms of money self-sabotage that many entrepreneurs experience once their income starts growing. If you’ve ever hit a revenue goal and immediately moved the goalpost, felt the urge to control every dollar, spent money quickly, overworked to “justify” what you earned, or suddenly wanted to disappear after a big win… this conversation will help you understand what’s really happening.Jamie walks through five common behaviors that signal your body doesn’t yet feel safe holding the next level of wealth, and why awareness is the first step to creating a completely different experience of success.If this episode resonates, Jamie invites you to go deeper inside The Seated Wealth Challenge - a 4-day experience designed to help you build the internal capacity to hold more wealth without the pressure, urgency, or self-sabotage that often comes with growth. Because the real shift isn’t just learning how to make more money…it’s learning how to feel safe receiving and keeping it.Join the challenge here:https://thejamiesea.com/seated-workshop-join?utm_source=Podcast&utm_medium=Challenge&utm_campaign=Profile✨ Find Jamie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jamieseaofficial✨ Check out the Jamie Sea Website: www.thejamiesea.com?utm_source=Podcast&utm_medium=Challenge&utm_campaign=ProfileDisclaimer:The Jamie Sea Show is a space for personal stories, reflections, and conversations around business and life. The content shared is not intended as medical, legal, financial, or professional advice. Please use your own judgment and consult with a qualified provider when making decisions related to your health, business, or well-being. No results are guaranteed. By listening, you agree to take full responsibility for your actions and interpretations.

Are your money goals about strategy…or something deeper?In this episode, Jamie breaks down the five key behaviors of someone who is truly a match for their money goals. If you’ve ever set a big revenue goal and then noticed yourself spiraling into overthinking, procrastination, urgency, self-doubt, or the need to constantly “fix” something, this conversation will help you understand why.You’ll learn how the wealth container shapes your ability to receive more, why the subconscious and nervous system have to be on board with the goal, and how protective patterns can keep you stuck (even when you deeply want the next level).If this conversation resonates, Jamie is inviting you to go deeper inside The Seated Wealth Challenge, a 4-day experience designed to help you build the internal capacity to hold more wealth. Because the goal isn’t just reaching the next number… it’s learning how to actually feel safe sitting in it. https://thejamiesea.com/seated-workshop-join?utm_source=Podcast&utm_medium=Challenge&utm_campaign=Profile✨ Find Jamie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jamieseaofficial✨ Check out the Jamie Sea Website: www.thejamiesea.com?utm_source=Podcast&utm_medium=Challenge&utm_campaign=ProfileDisclaimer:The Jamie Sea Show is a space for personal stories, reflections, and conversations around business and life. The content shared is not intended as medical, legal, financial, or professional advice. Please use your own judgment and consult with a qualified provider when making decisions related to your health, business, or well-being. No results are guaranteed. By listening, you agree to take full responsibility for your actions and interpretations.

Sales slow down…and suddenly you feel the urge to fix something… launch something… change something…But what if that reaction isn’t about strategy at all?In this episode, Jamie breaks down five reasons your nervous system panics when revenue dips or business enters a quieter season. If you’ve ever felt anxious during slow sales days, questioned your success when numbers fluctuate, or found yourself chasing momentum just to feel safe, this conversation will help you understand what’s really happening beneath the surface.You’ll learn how the brain links predictability with safety, why many entrepreneurs unknowingly regulate their emotions through revenue, and how old experiences around money, risk, or approval can silently shape the way you lead your business today.Jamie also shares why so many high-achievers struggle to sit with “enough,” how the body can become addicted to urgency and stress, and what it actually looks like to build internal safety that isn’t dependent on sales notifications.This episode is an invitation to move from survival-driven leadership into grounded leadership, so you can navigate the natural ebb and flow of business (without the urgency or burnout).Join Jamie in The Seated Wealth Challenge - a 4 day experience designed to build the internal capacity to hold more wealth. You don’t need to earn your seat, you need to learn how to feel good in it.https://thejamiesea.com/seated-workshop-join?utm_source=Podcast&utm_medium=Challenge&utm_campaign=Profile✨ Find Jamie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jamieseaofficial✨ Check out the Jamie Sea Website: www.thejamiesea.com?utm_source=Podcast&utm_medium=Challenge&utm_campaign=ProfileDisclaimer:The Jamie Sea Show is a space for personal stories, reflections, and conversations around business and life. The content shared is not intended as medical, legal, financial, or professional advice. Please use your own judgment and consult with a qualified provider when making decisions related to your health, business, or well-being. No results are guaranteed. By listening, you agree to take full responsibility for your actions and interpretations.

You landed your first client. And then... they started asking for more. And more. And you said yes. And now you're wondering how the hell you get things back on track.In this episode of Dear Jamie, I'm answering a question from a new entrepreneur who's navigating a client that keeps demanding beyond what they paid for — and how to handle it with grace, clarity, and zero guilt.Here's what we cover: → Why scope clarity at onboarding is everything → Exact scripts you can use to redirect out-of-scope requests → What it means energetically when a client doesn't respect your boundaries → How to reset expectations mid-engagement (yes, it's allowed) → Why protecting your energy IS good businessBecause boundaries aren't just a business strategy. They're an energetic standard for how you want to show up — and who you want to show up for.You're allowed to change. You're allowed to create structures that support your time, your energy, and you as a person. Find Us + Links to Resources:Do you have a question for Jamie about business, wealth, growth, or energetics? Submit your here: https://thejamiesea.com/dearjamie ✨ Find Jamie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jamieseaofficial/✨ Check out the Jamie Sea Website: https://thejamiesea.com/#hero?utm_source=YouTube&utm_medium=Shownotes&utm_campaign=Feb25Disclaimer: The Jamie Sea Show is a space for personal stories, reflections, and conversations around business and life. The content shared is not intended as medical, legal, financial, or professional advice. Please use your own judgment and consult with a qualified provider when making decisions related to your health, business, or well-being. No results are guaranteed. By listening, you agree to take full responsibility for your actions and interpretations.Music: MB01HAP5LX8UMLO

In this Dear Jamie episode, we’re diving into what’s really happening when you feel stuck, frozen, or caught in overthinking, especially when you have big dreams and no clarity on the next step.This episode is here to remind you that there’s nothing wrong with you. We talk about:Why safety in your nervous system matters more than strategyHow urgency creates freeze modeWhy doubt is often a younger version of you asking for reassuranceThe pressure of “getting it right” and how to release itHow to take the first step without needing the entire planIf you’ve recently made a life shift, are rebuilding, or feel like you should be further along… this conversation will feel like exhale.You don’t need the whole book figured out. You just need the first page.💌 Submit your own Dear Jamie question below for a future episode.Find Us + Links to Resources:Do you have a question for Jamie about business, wealth, growth, or energetics? Submit your here: https://thejamiesea.com/dearjamie ✨ Find Jamie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jamieseaofficial/✨ Check out the Jamie Sea Website: https://thejamiesea.com/#hero?utm_source=YouTube&utm_medium=Shownotes&utm_campaign=Feb18Disclaimer: The Jamie Sea Show is a space for personal stories, reflections, and conversations around business and life. The content shared is not intended as medical, legal, financial, or professional advice. Please use your own judgment and consult with a qualified provider when making decisions related to your health, business, or well-being. No results are guaranteed. By listening, you agree to take full responsibility for your actions and interpretations.Music: MB01HAP5LX8UMLO

If you’re building your business while still working a day job… this is for you.In the very first episode of Dear Jamie, Jamie answers a question from a listener who feels like success is still “so far away.” What do you do when you’re in the building phase… when you haven’t “made it” yet… and it feels like you’re stuck in the in-between?Jamie shares:How rushing your journey creates nervous system pressureWhy gratitude for your current stability actually accelerates growthHow to define what success feels like (not just what it looks like)Why being present in this season is powerfulHow to connect with the future version of yourself nowFind Us + Links to Resources:Do you have a question for Jamie about business, wealth, growth, or energetics? Submit your here: https://thejamiesea.com/dearjamie ✨ Find Jamie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jamieseaofficial/✨ Check out the Jamie Sea Website: https://thejamiesea.com/#hero?utm_source=YouTube&utm_medium=Shownotes&utm_campaign=Feb18Disclaimer: The Jamie Sea Show is a space for personal stories, reflections, and conversations around business and life. The content shared is not intended as medical, legal, financial, or professional advice. Please use your own judgment and consult with a qualified provider when making decisions related to your health, business, or well-being. No results are guaranteed. By listening, you agree to take full responsibility for your actions and interpretations.

Money is a mirror.Money reflects your relationship with responsibility, visibility, pressure, and how safe your body feels holding more.In this episode, Jamie breaks down why desiring more money requires understanding your relationship to “more.” If you’ve ever made more money and suddenly felt the urge to hide, overwork, spend impulsively, or rush to “fix” something, this conversation will help you understand why.You’ll learn how your nervous system and subconscious create a set point for what feels safe to receive and how behaviors like urgency, burnout, and income plateaus are signals of what needs healing.This episode is an invitation to stop overriding your body and start listening to it, so money can flow in a way that actually feels grounded, sustainable, and clean.Stay until the end for a powerful reflection that reveals what your future self is asking you to do more of right now. Find Us + Links to Resources:💌 Rewire Your Relationship To More Inside of Currency Academy- https://thejamiesea.com/the-currency-academy?utm_source=YouTube&utm_medium=Shownotes&utm_campaign=Feb11🎙️Listen to Mind Body Millions - Jamie’s Private Podcast (for only $27!). An 8 part episode series on aligning your subconscious mind & nervous system with your money goals.https://thejamiesea.com/mind-body-millions?utm_source=YouTube&utm_medium=Shownotes&utm_campaign=FEB11✨ Find Jamie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jamieseaofficial/✨ Check out the Jamie Sea Website: https://thejamiesea.com/#hero?utm_source=YouTube&utm_medium=Shownotes&utm_campaign=Feb11Disclaimer: The Jamie Sea Show is a space for personal stories, reflections, and conversations around business and life. The content shared is not intended as medical, legal, financial, or professional advice. Please use your own judgment and consult with a qualified provider when making decisions related to your health, business, or well-being. No results are guaranteed. By listening, you agree to take full responsibility for your actions and interpretations.

In this episode of the Jamie Sea Show, Jamie breaks down Human Design and why understanding your energy type can completely change how you lead, market, rest, and make money. From Projectors and Generators to Manifestors, Manifesting Generators, and Reflectors, this conversation explains why burnout, frustration, and inconsistency are often signs of misalignment.This episode is for entrepreneurs who are tired of forcing strategies that don’t feel good and are ready to build success in a way that actually supports their nervous system.Inside this episode:- The 5 Human Design energy types (and how they’re meant to work)- Why burnout is often a design mismatch- How decision-making, rest, and visibility change by type- Why alignment creates ease, clarity, and sustainable income- How Human Design becomes a blueprint for business and leadershipFind Us + Links to Resources:✨ Find Jamie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jamieseaofficial/✨ Check out the Jamie Sea Website: https://thejamiesea.com/#hero?utm_source=YouTube&utm_medium=Shownotes&utm_campaign=Jan28Disclaimer: The Jamie Sea Show is a space for personal stories, reflections, and conversations around business and life. The content shared is not intended as medical, legal, financial, or professional advice. Please use your own judgment and consult with a qualified provider when making decisions related to your health, business, or well-being. No results are guaranteed. By listening, you agree to take full responsibility for your actions and interpretations.

Procrastination isn’t a motivation or discipline problem. Procrastination is your nervous system keeping you safe.In this episode of the Jamie Sea show, Jamie breaks down why procrastination shows up when pressure, visibility, or emotional risk feels high and why forcing productivity only makes it worse. Through real client examples and her own experience as a business owner, she explains how freeze mode works, what your body is protecting you from, and how to start creating movement without pushing yourself.If you’ve ever felt frustrated, stuck, or confused about why “simple tasks” feel impossible… this conversation will help you understand what’s really happening and how to meet it with compassion instead of judgment.Find Us + Links to Resources:💌Align to your next level of wealth through Currency Academy https://thejamiesea.com/the-currency-academy?utm_source=YouTube&utm_medium=Shownotes&utm_campaign=Jan28✨ Find Jamie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jamieseaofficial/✨ Check out the Jamie Sea Website: https://thejamiesea.com/#hero?utm_source=YouTube&utm_medium=Shownotes&utm_campaign=Jan28Disclaimer: The Jamie Sea Show is a space for personal stories, reflections, and conversations around business and life. The content shared is not intended as medical, legal, financial, or professional advice. Please use your own judgment and consult with a qualified provider when making decisions related to your health, business, or well-being. No results are guaranteed. By listening, you agree to take full responsibility for your actions and interpretations.

Most “millionaire morning routines” are built on discipline, willpower, and doing more. But what if you could build yours around regulation, gratitude, and identity?In this episode of The Jamie Sea Show, Jamie shares the exact 3-minute morning practice she’s used for years to rewire her subconscious, regulate her nervous system, and expand her wealth container. You’ll learn why the first 60 seconds of your morning matter more than your entire to-do list, how gratitude and sensation shape your income capacity, and why sustainable wealth starts with how your body feels—not how hard you push.If you want more money, clarity, and ease—this episode shows you where it actually begins.Find Us + Links to Resources:🎙️Listen to Mind Body Millions - Jamie’s Private Podcast (for only $27!). An 8 part episode series on aligning your subconscious mind & nervous system with your money goals.https://thejamiesea.com/mind-body-millions?utm_source=YouTube&utm_medium=Shownotes&utm_campaign=Jan21✨ Find Jamie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jamieseaofficial/✨ Check out the Jamie Sea Website: https://thejamiesea.com/#hero?utm_source=YouTube&utm_medium=Shownotes&utm_campaign=Jan21Disclaimer: The Jamie Sea Show is a space for personal stories, reflections, and conversations around business and life. The content shared is not intended as medical, legal, financial, or professional advice. Please use your own judgment and consult with a qualified provider when making decisions related to your health, business, or well-being. No results are guaranteed. By listening, you agree to take full responsibility for your actions and interpretations.