Looks Aren't Everything... Right?

What are some common dating dealbreakers? Signs of a toxic and/or abusive relationship? How do you know whether to commit to a relationship or let go of it? These are some core questions this episode revolves around and my ~attempt~ to answer them with help from some of the sources listed below :) **Domestic Violence Hotline/Resources: www.thehotline.org** Dealbreakers research study:  ⁠https://phys.org/news/2022-03-partners-relationship-dealbreakers.html⁠ When Is It Time to Leave a Relationship? (blog post by a LCSW): https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/staying-sane-inside-insanity/202205/when-is-it-time-leave-relationship Toxic/Abusive Relationships https://www.berkeleywellbeing.com/toxic-relationships.html https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/addiction-and-recovery/202103/what-is-toxic-relationship https://www.healthline.com/health/toxic-relationship  https://www.verywellmind.com/toxic-relationships-4174665  https://au.reachout.com/articles/signs-of-an-abusive-relationship

It's a big question! To get started, I polled listeners via the pod's Instagram asking what they think is key to healthy relationships. I share their answers in this episode, as well as discuss a healthy relationship model from world-renowned psychologists and researchers, the Gottmans. Check us out on IG :) @thevirginandthebeespodcast RESOURCES: The Gottman Institute & The Sound House Relationship Model: https://www.gottman.com/about/the-gottman-method/ Sharing Fondness & Admiration: https://www.gottman.com/blog/share-fondness-and-admiration/  Turning Towards Bids: https://www.gottman.com/blog/turn-toward-instead-of-away/ Managing Conflict: https://www.gottman.com/blog/managing-vs-resolving-conflict-relationships-blueprints-success/ Positive Perspective: https://www.gottman.com/blog/the-sound-relationship-house-the-positive-perspective/  Shared Meaning: https://www.gottman.com/blog/shared-meaning-is-key-to-a-successful-relationship/

Hello lovely bees! This month's episode is about ~being perceived~ and how social media and the pandemic have impacted the way we view our bodies. Thanks for tuning in and keep on buzzing!

 We're back with Part 2 of our revisit of (500) Days of Summer. This time, guest Sophia and I discuss: how (and even if) the characters grow throughout the film  our thoughts on the film's take on love & rom-coms  the manic pixie dream girl   does Tom actually love Summer? the villainization of people who want casual relationships  the bench scene the ending ☀️☀️☀️ You can watch a video version of this podcast on YouTube. Sophia's YouTube: youtu.be/Hk9l7ta2hgY Sophia's plant IG & TikTok: @sophiasgreengarden We're on the 'gram too! @thevirginandthebeespodcast. Thanks for listening! Keep on buzzing 🐝

My childhood bestie Sophia and I revisit the thought-provoking movie (500) Days of Summer and discuss....    the roadblocks in Summer & Tom's relationship the problem with the "nice guy" trope & how toxic masculinity presents in Tom situations in which we reminded ourselves of Tom situations in which we felt like Summer rejection (and some of our experiences with it, on both sides) the best character of the whole film... Tom's little sister! ☀️☀️☀️ You can watch a video version of this podcast on YouTube (channel name: Zareena Evelina). Sophia's YouTube: youtu.be/Hk9l7ta2hgY Sophia's plant IG & TikTok: @sophiasgreengarden We're on the 'gram too! @thevirginandthebeespodcast. Thanks for listening! Keep on buzzing 🐝

LINKS/RESOURCES Letter to Congress template More info on the effects of overturning Roe v Wade Resources for those seeking abortion Donation Funds & Action Item Resources The Judiciary Act of 2021 More info on reasons for the impeachment of Clarence Thomas & more on the political history of Clarence and Ginni Thomas

HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY! ❤️  Join us for a fun lil chat as guest Darcy and I reflect on Valentine's Day and share ideas of what to do if you're single, mindful reminders if you're in a relationship, and some of our previous Valentine's Day experiences. Find the podcast on IG: @thevirginandthebeespodcast RELATED EPISODES ❤️ Figuring Out Your Sexuality for Yourself (with the same guest: Darcy) A Look Into Hookup Culture (featuring multiple guests including Darcy) Navigating Online Dating (with guest Chelsea) People Pleasing in Dating, Sex and Relationships (with guest Carly)

2022 is just around the corner! So I thought I'd share some rituals for transitioning from the old year to the new <3 This is also my first solo episode! Let me know what your word is for 2022 — or if you have any rituals of your own! DM or comment on IG (@thevirginandthebeespodcast) or email [email protected] Happy New Year and keep on buzzing 🐝

Moving on is messy. Whether you've broken up with a longtime partner you co-owned a cat with or you're trying to get over someone you never even dated — both are painful and difficult in their own way — and we're here to talk about it and share what we've learned along the way. Thank you to Olivia for joining us today, and thank YOU for tuning in :) Keep on buzzing! Find the podcast on IG ❤️ @thevirginandthebeespodcast GETTING OVER SOMEONE PLAYLIST: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4nblICaAYnje5nW2XCbaJL?si=0c9cc67fe64948ba

I made a playlist curated with songs that fit the vibe of the podcast!  Available on Spotify here