The Subtle Art of Subtlety

In this episode, I touch on a cornerstone of good game–how to be subtle.Chapters:(00:00) Nonchalance explained(03:30) Overdoing it(06:15) It's the little things...(07:15) Honest signals(10:30) Simply don't quit.(15:00) What's my honest reaction to this?(20:20) You are the prize.(24:30) A story...Here are links to the programs mentioned on the podcast:Bootcamps and ImmersionsSubmit questions to [email protected]

In this episode, I break down a new, ridiculously simple method for never running out of things to say.Chapters:(00:00) Intro(02:30) The "PMI" Framework.(07:30) Figuring out what to say.(17:45) Teasing in the later phases of game.Here are links to the programs mentioned on the podcast:Bootcamps and ImmersionsSubmit questions to [email protected]

In this episode, I break down everything you need to know about qualifying.Join me on a Bootcamp to learn game live from me.

In this episode, I break down everything you need to know about social circle game.Chapters:(00:00) Intro(01:30) The ADVANTAGES of social circle game(04:55)  How to open in social circle game(10:00)  How to create social proof in social circles(12:25)  What to do if you've seen this girl before(14:15)  How to open in social circle game(18:25)  Best places to do social circle game(23:30)  Indirect social circle game explainedHere are links to the programs mentioned on the podcast:Bootcamp

In this episode, I break down the repeatable thought process that I believe is the key to mastering game. A guy who develops the right mindset, routines, and learning process is guaranteed to succeed in game. By focusing on systematic self-evaluation, running small experiments, and refining my approach, I’ve always been confident in my ability to improve, and I'm going to show you how you can do the same.Chapters:00:00 - Intro01:15 - Having the right thought process8:30 - Ask yourself these questions18:30 - All you need in game...21:20 - The 3-step model for her emotional journey24:00 - Escalate like thisHere are links to the programs mentioned on the podcast:Bootcamp

In this episode, I share some unconventional but insanely effective exercises to level up your game without even leaving the house. These drills are all about isolating key skills—like openers, push-pulls, and emotional spikes—so you can get sharper, faster, and more confident when it matters most.Chapters:00:00 - Magic Pill for Game01:27 - Interactive Game Exercises04:38 - Surprise Openers Drill09:37 - Day Game Dynamics17:39 - Question-Answer Tease ExerciseHere are links to the programs mentioned on the podcast:BootcampThe SystemVerbal Game AcademyMentorship

My advice on how to game without relying on alcohol.00:00 - Intro and Listener's Question 02:00 - The impact of alcohol on both self-improvement and dating06:00 - Personal experiences and strategies without alcohol10:00 - Navigating bars and social dynamics without drinking  14:00 - Final thoughts on balancing a healthy lifestyle and dating

In this episode of The Todd V Show, Todd tackles the question of whether "game" is sexist, reinforces traditional gender stereotypes, or is appropriate in today's society. He explores the biological basis for gender differences, addresses common criticisms, and encourages listeners to form their opinions through real-world experiences rather than media narratives.Chapters:00:00 - Listener question02:00 - Mother nature's thoughts on game...07:30 - Does game work in today's world?13:45 - My response to critics of game...20:30 - Get real.Join me on a bootcamp:https://toddvdating.com/coaching

In this episode of the Todd V Show, Todd explores the advantages of going out solo versus relying on a wingman. He shares his personal experiences and offers practical advice on how going out alone can build character, improve social skills, and accelerate learning in game.Chapters:00:00 - Introduction: Going Out Solo  00:26 - Learning Game Solo  01:40 - Preference for Solo Game  03:05 - Solo Game vs. Wingman  04:38 - Wingman Dependency Issues  06:12 - Wingman Limitations in Groups  08:25 - Solo Game: Character Building  10:18 - Approaching Girls Alone  12:05 - Group Dynamics in Night Game  14:45 - Cataloging Attractive Girls in Clubs  17:35 - Best Solo Approach Scenarios  19:55 - Handling Groups and Isolation  23:10 - Warm-Up Sets in Clubs  26:00 - Drinking in Game  28:50 - Dealing with Approach Anxiety  31:45 - Benefits of Night Game  35:30 - Conclusion: Going Solo Builds Character Join me on a bootcamp:https://toddvdating.com/coaching

In this episode of the Todd V Show, Todd discusses the importance of asking the right questions to improve your game and avoid common pitfalls. He breaks down how to turn unhelpful, overly specific or broad questions into actionable insights that lead to real-world progress.Chapters:00:00 - Intro & Bootcamp Announcement01:10 - Importance of Asking the Right Questions03:00 - Learning Game as a Scientific Process05:15 - Types of Bad Questions: Specific & Theoretical**08:30 - The Problem with Overly Specific Questions10:50 - The Issue with Overly General Questions14:00 - Turning Bad Questions into Good Questions16:15 - The Importance of Field Experience18:40 - Learning Game Step by Step 21:00 - Self-Coaching & Owning Your Process24:00 - Debriefing After Game Sessions  27:30 - Biggest Takeaway & Focus  29:30 - Game as a Journey33:00 - Process Over Natural Talent  Join me on a bootcamp:https://toddvdating.com/coachingJoin my mentorship program – designed to get you faster growth, practical answers, real results, and life-changing transformations:https://toddvmentoring.com/