EP 98 my man is broke

This week on Oversharers, we’re joined by the gorgeous Shahd Batal to unpack THREE dilemmas that had us stressed 😭☕️First up: a woman has been married for 8 years and has just discovered her husband has been LYING about his salary. Meanwhile, she’s been covering the rent, paying for her own holidays, raising THREE kids with him… and every month he somehow makes her feel like SHE’S the reason they have no money?! 🚩Next: imagine finding out the guy you’re dating used to be your sister’s situationship… and now your sister wants him back. 😭 Who gets priority here — sisterhood or your new relationship?And finally: corporate girlies, this one is for you. One woman feels like her colleagues are constantly criticising her, picking at everything she does and making work feel uncomfortable. Are they genuinely giving feedback… or are they just haters? 👀 And how do you deal with workplace bullying without losing your mind?Want more Oversharers? Join our Patreon for exclusive content and even more oversharing 🤭https://www.patreon.com/THEOVERSHARERSPODCASTGot a dilemma or scenario you want us to unpack? Send it to mailto:[email protected] 💌Follow us for clips, updates & more:TikTok: @oversharerspodcastInstagram: @oversharerspodcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on Oversharers, we’ve got internet drama, secret affairs and a funeral dilemma that had us questioning EVERYTHING 😭First up: the internet has been doing what it does best — investigating 👀 We discuss the woman who created an elaborate online story about completing a two-year degree… only for people to start digging and claim the whole thing was made up. How far is too far when it comes to creating a life online?!Then, imagine your husband admitting he had an affair years ago… and now the woman he was seeing has passed away. He’s grieving and wants to attend her funeral — but during the affair, he told her she was the woman he “couldn’t live without.” 😭 Does his wife let him go, or is that asking WAY too much?!Want more Oversharers? Join our Patreon for exclusive content and even more oversharing 🤭https://www.patreon.com/THEOVERSHARERSPODCASTGot a dilemma or scenario you want us to unpack? Send it to mailto:[email protected] 💌Follow us for clips, updates & more:TikTok: @oversharerspodcastInstagram: @oversharerspodcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on Oversharers, we’ve got two scenarios that had us questioning EVERYTHING 😭First up: a woman starts getting suspicious about her husband… so she creates a fake account and impersonates a female colleague he worked with 15 YEARS AGO 😭 She messages him to see how he’ll respond and things start getting a little TOO interesting. Does he clock the trap… or does he completely fall for it? 👀📱Then we have a woman dealing with her own sister’s wedding demands after already stepping down as Maid of Honour. She sets one simple boundary around hair and makeup… and suddenly the whole family thinks SHE’S the problem 😭💍The manipulation, the traps, the family drama… there is A LOT to unpack this week. Grab your snacks because the Oversharers courtroom is officially in session. 🎙️😭Want more Oversharers? Join our Patreon for exclusive content and even more oversharing 🤭https://www.patreon.com/THEOVERSHARERSPODCASTGot a dilemma or scenario you want us to unpack? Send it to [email protected] 💌Follow us for clips, updates & more:TikTok: @oversharerspodcastInstagram: @oversharerspodcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on Oversharers, we’ve got two dilemmas that genuinely left us SPEECHLESS 😭First up: imagine going through one of the scariest moments of your life — doctors are investigating a possible tumour, you’ve had surgery on your chest for a biopsy — and your husband decides now is the perfect time to compare it to… his vasectomy?! 😭 And somehow, the conversation ends with YOU needing to do more around the house. Sir???Then we have a listener facing a terminal illness who bravely tells her family and friends what’s happening. Everyone’s devastated… well, almost everyone. Because one friend seems VERY concerned about one thing: who’s getting the designer bags when she dies?! 😭👜The audacity levels are at an all-time high this week. Grab your snacks because we have A LOT to unpack. 🎙️😭Want more Oversharers? Join our Patreon for exclusive content and even more oversharing 🤭https://www.patreon.com/THEOVERSHARERSPODCASTGot a dilemma or scenario you want us to unpack? Send it to [email protected] 💌Follow us for clips, updates & more:TikTok: @oversharerspodcastInstagram: @oversharerspodcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, we’re getting into two dilemmas that had us questioning EVERYTHING.First up, a listener finds herself third-wheeling HARD when her married best friend brings her along… only to spend the whole time completely wrapped up in her man. Are there rules to bringing your single friends around your partner, or does she just need to accept the third-wheel life? 😭Then, a listener meets a potential husband online and thinks she may have found the one — but the deeper things get, the more she finds herself questioning whether she actually likes the person she’s becoming around him. Her heart is telling her one thing, her mind is telling her another, and the duas she’s been making might have been answered in a way she wasn’t expecting…Oh, and somehow, another woman ends up in the picture 👀Want more Oversharers? Join our Patreon for exclusive content and even more oversharing 🤭https://www.patreon.com/THEOVERSHARERSPODCASTGot a dilemma or scenario you want us to unpack? Send it to [email protected] 💌Follow us for clips, updates & more:TikTok: @oversharerspodcastInstagram: @oversharerspodcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week we kick things off by reviewing and dissecting The Odyssey, before chatting about the World Cup and discussing the online backlash surrounding the new Somali film starring Sabrina Elba, where she plays a single mother who falls in love with a Jamaican man.We also react to some of the negative comments we’ve received over the last few episodes and have an honest conversation about criticism, growth and staying true to ourselves.Our first dilemma is from a woman in a long-distance relationship with a man who once agreed to marriage but now seems distant, follows other women online and leaves her questioning whether she’s wasting her time.We then read through a viral post where women share the biggest lessons they’ve learned from past relationships… and the responses are eye-opening.Our second dilemma comes from a wife and mother who feels completely overwhelmed. She’s carrying the mental load of raising children, paying bills, receiving little affection or appreciation from her husband and admits she’s emotionally checked out of the marriage.We wrap up the episode with a reminder that no matter how heavy life feels, Allah is greater than every worry, fear and anxiety we carry.💌 We’d love to hear your thoughts in the comments.📧 Send us your dilemmas and scenarios: [email protected]🎧 Follow the podcast so you never miss an episode.✨ Join our Patreon for exclusive episodes, bonus content and behind-the-scenes conversations you won’t find anywhere else. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on Oversharers, we’re unpacking the dilemma that had us questioning everything… 😭💄 A husband gave away his wife’s luxury makeup hamper without asking – was it an innocent mistake or completely out of line?💍 We also discuss a woman who’s been married for 4-5 years but feels exhausted from carrying the financial burden while her husband still hasn’t found stable work. Is there a point where it’s okay to walk away?🎙️ Plus, we have an honest conversation about why discussions from Islamic students of knowledge can sometimes feel one-sided when it comes to women, and why these conversations deserve more nuance.As always, we’d love to hear your thoughts. Send your dilemmas to [email protected] – they could be featured in a future episodes.Don’t forget to like, subscribe and share this episode 💗 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

A quick note on the audio - thanks for bearing with us! From next week's episode onwards, we have upgraded the setup so the audio quality improves DRAMATICALLY. We can't wait for you to hear the difference.This week we're covering a bit of everything... we start by unpacking The Stranger and the moment a wife discovers her husband has been having an affair with a colleague who has young children. Then it's time for a brand new round of Guess the Event, where we have viral moments stuck on our foreheads and have to figure them out, we also dive into a listener dilemma about a woman who's ready to marry her partner, but his family's behaviour has left her questioning everything.As always we wrap up with some reflections ending on a beautiful reminder from Ibn al Qayyim rahimahulAllah. Grab a drink and get comfortable - what would you have done in the scenario? Let us know in the comments and don't forget to subscribe, download etc etc xxx Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We discuss seeing famous Somali singers, whether it’s halal to have postpartum surgery, a dilemma from a young man worried about his future with the love of his life, and we play Top 3: Things We Would Never Invent 😂📩 Send your dilemmas to [email protected]💖 Join our 1% Club on Patreon for bonus episodes and exclusive content. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week we’re talking about the highs and lows of breastfeeding, whether AI is becoming the new co-parent for some women, and playing Top 3 as we rank the happiest countries in the world.We also discuss a dilemma from a Somali woman studying in Korea who has fallen in love with her brother’s friend—but her family refuses to let her marry outside of her ethnicity. Is it fair, or is love enough?✨ Want even more Oversharers?Join Oversharers Plus on Patreon for exclusive bonus episodes, extra dilemmas, games, behind-the-scenes content and access to our members-only community. We release new Patreon content every week! 💗 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.