Dominance Is About Leadership

NEW COUPLES’ RETREAT!Hello Everyone.  I’m very excited to be offering a new week-long, couples’ retreat, especially for men and women who know that they want the man to be in the lead/dominant position in their dynamic, and they want the woman to move deeper into her feminine submission.For the first time, I will be teaching on the topic of RELATIONAL DOMINANCE-SUBMISSION, compared to only sharing about EROTIC DOMINANCE-SUBMISSION (BDSM).This couples’ retreat will be 50% RELATIONAL D/S, 50% EROTIC D/S (BDSM).These are charge-y topics.  There is a lot of misunderstanding and bad ideas around the notions of any hierarchical dynamic, particularly around the idea of a woman submitting to a man.  In this conversation I want to cover two foundation points that might help people clarify their thoughts and expectations around this matter — at least in the manner that I teach these topics.These are the two main cornerstones of how I conceive this exploration: SELF - INTEREST.GOOD LEADERSHIP / GOOD FOLLOWERSHIP.This video/podcast discusses these two cornerstones.One more important point worth touching on early, for all those who think they want to occupy the Dominant position.  These are my 3 basic criteria for what a good Dominant brings — into their Relationship and into the EROTIC field with their submissive: The Dom should deserve to lead their submissive.  Meaning, the Dom should have integrity, be self-contained, keep their word, be consistent, be reliable.  These are not soft prerequisites.The Dom must have the Mastery to Contain their submissive, as well as the Mastery to handle their submissive’s Eros, Under the Dom’s leadership, their submissive’s life and eros should thrive more fully than it would without the Dom’s leadership.COURSE PAGE : https://omrupani.org/dscoupleswww.OmRupani.org

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WOMEN’S EROTIC RECEPTIVITY, RELATIONAL RECEPTIVITY & LIFE RECEPTIVITYLauren and I are prepping for our upcoming training for women : EROS IN HER HANDS.  This training is as much for female practitioners who want to raise their skill levels in handling the bodies of other women.Even more than that, this training is an invitation to ALL women to come into this immersive container for a week to create more erotic flow in their systems — and as a result to widen their Erotic Receptivity channels.Doing a training that expands one’s Eros is amazing enough, but we believe that opening the aperture on one’s Erotic Receptivity also has deep impact on one’s receptivity in other areas of life, including in one’s partnerships.Lauren and I discuss some of these topics in this video.We hope many of you will join us in this amazing training in a month, in Cyprus!Please reach out to us if you have any questions.Course Page : https://omrupani.org/eros-in-her-hands— Om Rupaniwww.OmRupani.org

COURTESAN MASTERY TRAINING - WEBINARLauren and I talk about our expanded Courtesan Mastery Training, and our upcoming Dominatrix Training, Level I in Tulum, December 8-14.CONVERSATION TOPICS:Expanding from Dominatrix Training towards a fuller COURTESAN MASTERY curriculum.Dark Eros is one aspect of a Courtesan’s mastery.The Courtesan Archetype is one of the most ancient and elegant feminine archetypes through history.The Courtesan as Muse, as Consort, as Influencer.Self-activation is a necessary cornerstone for a Courtesan’s embodiment of her mastery.How much Permission we have for pleasure is a big determinant regarding how much pleasure we feel or allow ourselves to feel.Skills in Somatic Mastery are going to be in high demand through the AI job demolishment apocalypse of the next 5  - 10 years.Testimonials from Priestess graduates.Erotic expansion as an aspect of Spiritual growth.People often let their Dom see them more deeply than they allow their therapist to see them.The Dom holds space for whatever comes out of a submissive during a scene.Please reach out if you have any questions.  Lauren and I are happy to get on a zoom call to answer your questions and concerns.COURTESAN MASTERY CURRICULUM : https://omrupani.org/#/modern-priestess-of-eros/PRIESTESS OF DARK EROS, LEVEL I : https://omrupani.org/the-priestess-of-dark-erosEROS IN HER HANDS : https://omrupani.org/eros-in-her-handswww.OmRupani.org

ALEX LEHMANN PODCASTTOPICS:What can men get out of BDSM training?Holding FRAME vs. Giving CONTAINMENT.Leadership is needed to be a good Dom, to hold a scene from beginning to end.A man needs to be self-contained first if he is going to contain anyone else.It takes a while for men to come into their own.  It makes sense that women pair with men older than themselves.First contain your woman, then see what problems still exist in your dynamic.Women are getting sick of weak men, en masse.There is a difference between showing a woman your heart and asking her to contain you.Arousal lives on the other side of Containment.Understanding archetypes and their necessity.The Dom & sub archetypes hold the erotic reservoir; the husband & wife archetypes do not hold eros.Role Play is a gateway to switching over from domestic archetypes.Human beings seem experts today in screwing up great Loverships.Mastery as a genuine source of self-esteem.Contribution as a genuine source of self-esteem.The man who finds himself right is very attractive.It’s good for men to fail early and often.Leadership mastery translates to different domains — from erotic to professional.Leaders promise a brighter future.— Om Rupani BALI COURSE PAGE : https://omrupani.org/bdsm-principles-dom-sub-exploration-coursewww.OmRupani.org

WEBINAR—COURTESAN TRAINING FOR PERSONAL EXPANSIONLauren and I have designed our COURTESAN MASTERY CURRICULUM to be a robust enough training to create superlative practitioners.  But this is also a training that can be tremendously valuable to women simply for their own activation and expansion.  A good 30%-40% of women who have done our training have done it simply for their own benefit.In this conversation, we focus on these personal aspects that each of our course modules can serve for women.COURTESAN MASTERY CURRICULUM : https://omrupani.org/#/modern-priestess-of-eros/—  Om Rupaniwww.OmRupani.org

DOM-SUB WISDOM FOR OTHER DOMAINSLauren and I discuss how mastering the Dominant and Submissive archetypes can have applications in other areas of our life.COURTESAN MASTERY CURRICULUM : https://omrupani.org/#/modern-priestess-of-eros/www.OmRupani.org

THE ART OF CONCENTRATED RELATING.  OR, WHY WOMEN ARE IN A DISAPPOINTMENT SPIRAL WITH MEN.Courtesan Mastery Curriculum : https://omrupani.org/#/modern-priestess-of-eros/www.OmRupani.org

MIKAAL BATES PODCASTTOPICS:What it means to be a dangerous man?To be loyal, a man needs to be dangerous.Who were the mothers of feminism?Men need to build before pursuing women.Men need a hierarchy to climb.Men want to be of use to others.Women don’t want to lead their men.Women are in shadow about their desire for submission.It’s difficult for women to create what they are in shadow about.Dominance is about leadership.Don’t try to lead people who don’t want to follow you.Men need to build their life before chasing women.Men should fall in love with women before falling in love with a particular woman.I don’t hate women; feminism hates women.Women are the biggest cock-blockers of other women’s eros.Have the mindset of incremental change in your eros and relationships.Men need an appetite for hearing the bad news in their life.A man in denial is not a good look.You cannot lead if you live in denial.Failure and getting off the dirt is how men are forged.Men should be reality-testing other men.Women’s unconditional eros is indeed magnificent; and it is so big that it scares even women.Women’s eros stops following rules after a certain point.Focus on what you have to offer the other — men to women; women to men.Acquire more mastery so you have more to contribute to others.Give to the right people, and then look for reciprocity.UPCOMING WORKSHOPS : https://omrupani.org/workshops-test/— Om Rupaniwww.OmRupani.org

SOMATIC PRACTITIONERS WILL THRIVE IN THE COMING AI JOB DISPLACEMENTLauren are I are thrilled to be launching the next cohort and version of our very successful Priestess of Dark Eros — a premier BDSM training for women — for women who want to be practitioners, as well those who simply want to have this expansion for their personal growth.For those of you who do want to bring the BDSM arts into your mastery as practitioners, let us just say that our graduates are doing quite well and lucratively with our training.  And, we believe that in the coming few years, the need, desire and demand for somatic practitioners is going to skyrocket, while so many other lines of work become obsolete by the coming onslaught of technology.Our Level I of Dark Priestess launches in Tulum in December, 8-14.  Please reach out if you have any questions.  Lauren and I are happy to get on a zoom call with you to answer any questions.Hope to see you in Tulum.COURSE PAGE : https://omrupani.org/the-priestess-of-dark-erosWarmly,Om www.OmRupani.org