Navigating Perfectionism and Chronic Pain/Symptoms: Transforming Coping Mechanisms

Ever felt the weight of the holiday season bearing down on you, especially when managing chronic pain or illness? You're not alone. Join us as we promise to equip you with a "mind-body holiday toolkit" designed to navigate the intense pressures of festive obligations, relationship dynamics, and financial strains. Our heartfelt discussion sheds light on the common yet overwhelming experience of striving for perfection during the holidays. We share personal stories and effective strategies to help you prioritize your well-being, embrace authenticity, and foster emotional balance during one of the busiest times of the year.Throughout our conversation, we emphasize the power of setting boundaries as a crucial step towards maintaining regulation and peace during the holiday rush. From limiting the number of activities you commit to each day to confidently saying no to certain requests, we provide actionable advice to shield yourself from stress and its impact on chronic conditions. Dive into our insights about letting go of perfectionism and celebrating genuine, spontaneous moments that truly matter. Whether you're grappling with chronic pain or just the seasonal hustle, our episode offers support and guidance to help make your holiday experience more manageable and fulfilling.This podcast is owned by Pain Psychotherapy Canada Inc. This podcast is produced by Alex Klassen.Together we have a therapy agency called Pain Psychotherapy Canada. Learn more about our work on our website and book in for a free 20 minute consultation with one of our therapists: https://www.painpsychotherapy.ca/Our agency MBody Community provides an in depth course to support you in healing from chronic pain and symptoms: https://www.mbodycommunity.com/We also post daily on instagram: @painpsychotherapyFinally check out Tanner's YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@painpsychotherapyDisclaimer: The information provided by Anne and Tanner on this podcast is for general informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice, psychotherapy, or counselling. It you choose to utilize any of the education, strategies, or techniques in this podcast you are doing so at your own risk. Education and techniques discussed in this Podcast originate from Polyvagal Theory, Pain Reprocessing Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and Emotional Awareness and Expression Therapy. Reference: Peter Levine, Deb Dana, Dr. Porges, Pain Reprocessing Therapy Center, Alan Gordon, Dr. Schubiner, and Dr. Lumley.

Unlock the secrets to navigating uncertainty in your healing journey with insights from the MindBodyCouple podcast. Ever wondered how your nervous system's subconscious signals might be impacting your emotional regulation and perception of safety? Join us as we explore the concept of neuroception from polyvagal theory, revealing how childhood adversity, trauma, and chronic pain can skew these signals, leaving you feeling more vulnerable. You'll learn practical strategies to enhance emotional regulation and reduce the fear of uncertainty, empowering you to transform your response to life's unknowns.Embrace a new way of living by letting go of the excessive control that binds you. Our episode guides you through recognizing whether your actions are fear-driven or genuinely rooted in self-care. Tanner and Anne introduce a mindful practice that shifts your focus from pain and symptoms to engaging in valued activities, helping you identify how uncertainty manifests in your body. With a compassionate approach, they explain the importance of staying within a "healing window" to avoid overwhelming sensations. By practicing presence and observation, you'll cultivate a greater tolerance for uncertainty, enabling you to live more fully and freely.This podcast is owned by Pain Psychotherapy Canada Inc. This podcast is produced by Alex Klassen.Together we have a therapy agency called Pain Psychotherapy Canada. Learn more about our work on our website and book in for a free 20 minute consultation with one of our therapists: https://www.painpsychotherapy.ca/Our agency MBody Community provides an in depth course to support you in healing from chronic pain and symptoms: https://www.mbodycommunity.com/We also post daily on instagram: @painpsychotherapyFinally check out Tanner's YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@painpsychotherapyDisclaimer: The information provided by Anne and Tanner on this podcast is for general informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice, psychotherapy, or counselling. It you choose to utilize any of the education, strategies, or techniques in this podcast you are doing so at your own risk. Education and techniques discussed in this Podcast originate from Polyvagal Theory, Pain Reprocessing Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and Emotional Awareness and Expression Therapy. Reference: Peter Levine, Deb Dana, Dr. Porges, Pain Reprocessing Therapy Center, Alan Gordon, Dr. Schubiner, and Dr. Lumley.

What if the chronic pain you experience isn't just a physical ailment, but a complex interplay of emotions and neurological patterns? Join us on the MindBodyCouple podcast as Simon unravels his personal journey of battling chronic pain. Despite expert opinions leaving him at a loss, Simon's story is one of resilience and discovery. He sheds light on the neuroplastic nature of his symptoms and how hypervigilance and maladaptive coping mechanisms played a role in his suffering. His journey takes many twists, from feeling isolated and frustrated to finding hope in new therapeutic approaches and psychological insights that paved the way for his healing.In this compelling episode, we explore Simon's experiences with treatments like myofascial release therapy and discover the transformative impact of Alan Gordon's book, "The Way Out." With a focus on pain reprocessing therapy and the courage to confront personal growth challenges, Simon offers a message that healing is not just possible but multifaceted, leaving listeners inspired by his resilience and hopeful for their own journeys.Check out his YouTube channel here: https://www.youtube.com/@déjouerladouleurchroniqueThis podcast is owned by Pain Psychotherapy Canada Inc. This podcast is produced by Alex Klassen.Together we have a therapy agency called Pain Psychotherapy Canada. Learn more about our work on our website and book in for a free 20 minute consultation with one of our therapists: https://www.painpsychotherapy.ca/Our agency MBody Community provides an in depth course to support you in healing from chronic pain and symptoms: https://www.mbodycommunity.com/We also post daily on instagram: @painpsychotherapyFinally check out Tanner's YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@painpsychotherapyDisclaimer: The information provided by Anne and Tanner on this podcast is for general informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice, psychotherapy, or counselling. It you choose to utilize any of the education, strategies, or techniques in this podcast you are doing so at your own risk. Education and techniques discussed in this Podcast originate from Polyvagal Theory, Pain Reprocessing Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and Emotional Awareness and Expression Therapy. Reference: Peter Levine, Deb Dana, Dr. Porges, Pain Reprocessing Therapy Center, Alan Gordon, Dr. Schubiner, and Dr. Lumley.

Imagine discovering a path to healing chronic pain/symptoms and  trauma that involves something as simple and joyful as play. Join us, Tanner and Anne, as we embark on an insightful journey through the intricate workings of the autonomic nervous system and its vital role in well-being. Our series kicks off with a lighthearted exploration of the ventral vagal, sympathetic, and dorsal vagal states, adorned with personal tales and a sprinkle of humor. We reveal how balancing these states can lead to profound recovery and why an occasional ping pong match can be both healing and stressful.As we share our commitment to embracing playfulness and sticking to a plan, we also reflect on the challenges faced by trauma survivors in reclaiming a playful spirit. Discover strategies to gently invite play into your life, even when it feels daunting. Our anecdotes offer relatable insight, paving the way for a newfound appreciation of the playful side of healing.This podcast is owned by Pain Psychotherapy Canada Inc. This podcast is produced by Alex Klassen.Together we have a therapy agency called Pain Psychotherapy Canada. Learn more about our work on our website and book in for a free 20 minute consultation with one of our therapists: https://www.painpsychotherapy.ca/Our agency MBody Community provides an in depth course to support you in healing from chronic pain and symptoms: https://www.mbodycommunity.com/We also post daily on instagram: @painpsychotherapyFinally check out Tanner's YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@painpsychotherapyDisclaimer: The information provided by Anne and Tanner on this podcast is for general informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice, psychotherapy, or counselling. It you choose to utilize any of the education, strategies, or techniques in this podcast you are doing so at your own risk. Education and techniques discussed in this Podcast originate from Polyvagal Theory, Pain Reprocessing Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and Emotional Awareness and Expression Therapy. Reference: Peter Levine, Deb Dana, Dr. Porges, Pain Reprocessing Therapy Center, Alan Gordon, Dr. Schubiner, and Dr. Lumley.

Imagine a world where chronic pain is not a lifelong sentence but a puzzle that can be solved. That's exactly what Paul Lapointe, our esteemed guest from the Pain Psychotherapy Canada Clinic, discovered on his remarkable journey. After facing his own debilitating chronic pain, Paul unearthed the transformative concept of neuroplastic pain—a revelation that turned his world upside down. Join us as Paul shares his story of struggle and breakthroughs. He offers insights that challenge our deepest beliefs about pain and our bodies.Emotions can be both a burden and a balm, especially in the realm of healing chronic pain. In this episode, we unpack the profound role of emotional awareness and expression therapy (EAET) in both our personal and professional lives. The conversation highlights the continuous journey of emotional work, shedding light on the societal norms that can hinder us from truly connecting with our emotions. Anecdotes, including a touching story about teaching a child to express anger, illustrate the transformative power of embracing emotional expression. Discover how connecting with our emotions, whether naturally or through therapy, can lead to significant reductions in chronic symptoms.This podcast is owned by Pain Psychotherapy Canada Inc. This podcast is produced by Alex Klassen.Together we have a therapy agency called Pain Psychotherapy Canada. Learn more about our work on our website and book in for a free 20 minute consultation with one of our therapists: https://www.painpsychotherapy.ca/Our agency MBody Community provides an in depth course to support you in healing from chronic pain and symptoms: https://www.mbodycommunity.com/We also post daily on instagram: @painpsychotherapyFinally check out Tanner's YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@painpsychotherapyDisclaimer: The information provided by Anne and Tanner on this podcast is for general informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice, psychotherapy, or counselling. It you choose to utilize any of the education, strategies, or techniques in this podcast you are doing so at your own risk. Education and techniques discussed in this Podcast originate from Polyvagal Theory, Pain Reprocessing Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and Emotional Awareness and Expression Therapy. Reference: Peter Levine, Deb Dana, Dr. Porges, Pain Reprocessing Therapy Center, Alan Gordon, Dr. Schubiner, and Dr. Lumley.

In this episode we dive into discussing symptom imperative, a fascinating phenomenon where new symptoms arise as one heals from chronic pain/symptoms through a neuroplastic approach.We guide you through effective strategies for overcoming the symptom imperative, emphasizing the need to recognize symptoms without an obsessive urge to fix them. Beware of the trap of consulting "Dr. Google," and instead, consider gentle brain retraining practices, somatic tracking, and challenging your limiting beliefs as constructive alternatives. Understand the emotional messages or unresolved traumas that might be linked to these symptoms, but avoid becoming consumed by the search for meaning. Through sharing our personal experiences, we highlight the importance of identifying patterns and managing the focus on symptoms to keep them from becoming overwhelming. Join us as we explore these techniques to help navigate the often perplexing terrain of healing and transformation.This podcast is owned by Pain Psychotherapy Canada Inc. This podcast is produced by Alex Klassen.Together we have a therapy agency called Pain Psychotherapy Canada. Learn more about our work on our website and book in for a free 20 minute consultation with one of our therapists: https://www.painpsychotherapy.ca/Our agency MBody Community provides an in depth course to support you in healing from chronic pain and symptoms: https://www.mbodycommunity.com/We also post daily on instagram: @painpsychotherapyFinally check out Tanner's YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@painpsychotherapyDisclaimer: The information provided by Anne and Tanner on this podcast is for general informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice, psychotherapy, or counselling. It you choose to utilize any of the education, strategies, or techniques in this podcast you are doing so at your own risk. Education and techniques discussed in this Podcast originate from Polyvagal Theory, Pain Reprocessing Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and Emotional Awareness and Expression Therapy. Reference: Peter Levine, Deb Dana, Dr. Porges, Pain Reprocessing Therapy Center, Alan Gordon, Dr. Schubiner, and Dr. Lumley.

Discover the secrets of taming the "spooky beast" of chronic pain/symptoms as we unravel the intricate dance between our brains and our bodies. Ever wondered how your brain's misinterpretation of signals keeps you ensnared in a relentless cycle of discomfort? We'll demystify the science of nervous system survival responses like fight, flight, fawn, and freeze and explore how these reactions can exacerbate chronic symptoms. We'll illuminate how fostering a sense of safety can help break free from this cycle, offering a path toward healing inspired by the insights of Alan Gordon.Join us as we unpack the transformative power of shifting beliefs to foster healing. We dive into the world of pain reprocessing therapy, illustrating how cognitive safety messages can be your guiding light away from fear and frustration. Learn to retrain your brain to reinterpret bodily sensations, replacing fear with a mindset of safety and opening the door to personal exploration. Through this episode, we aim to equip you with knowledge and strategies to empower your healing journey, encouraging a shift from danger to safety in your perception of pain.This podcast is owned by Pain Psychotherapy Canada Inc. This podcast is produced by Alex Klassen.Together we have a therapy agency called Pain Psychotherapy Canada. Learn more about our work on our website and book in for a free 20 minute consultation with one of our therapists: https://www.painpsychotherapy.ca/Our agency MBody Community provides an in depth course to support you in healing from chronic pain and symptoms: https://www.mbodycommunity.com/We also post daily on instagram: @painpsychotherapyFinally check out Tanner's YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@painpsychotherapyDisclaimer: The information provided by Anne and Tanner on this podcast is for general informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice, psychotherapy, or counselling. It you choose to utilize any of the education, strategies, or techniques in this podcast you are doing so at your own risk. Education and techniques discussed in this Podcast originate from Polyvagal Theory, Pain Reprocessing Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and Emotional Awareness and Expression Therapy. Reference: Peter Levine, Deb Dana, Dr. Porges, Pain Reprocessing Therapy Center, Alan Gordon, Dr. Schubiner, and Dr. Lumley.

In this episode of the MindBodyCouple podcast, Tanner reveals how chronic pain and mental health struggles led him away from work and into a cycle of avoidance that only deepened his challenges. Discover Tanner's personal story of healing through a mind-body approach, a method that helped him gradually and safely reintegrate into the workplace. We discuss why it's crucial to solidify recovery before making the leap back to work, offering insights into strategies that can turn this challenging transition into a positive experience.We also explore overcoming work fears and the challenges of navigating toxic work environments. By using methods like graded exposure Tanner and Anne share practical tips for reintroducing work-related tasks slowly and with compassion. The significance of community engagement, socialization, and adopting a positive attitude is underscored, alongside how small victories can foster a sense of safety and positivity. This episode is packed with actionable advice for transforming the workplace into a supportive environment by leaning into passions and values, which can be a game changer for those managing neuroplastic pain. Join us as we navigate these complexities and aim to inspire a more manageable return to work life.This podcast is owned by Pain Psychotherapy Canada Inc. This podcast is produced by Alex Klassen.Together we have a therapy agency called Pain Psychotherapy Canada. Learn more about our work on our website and book in for a free 20 minute consultation with one of our therapists: https://www.painpsychotherapy.ca/Our agency MBody Community provides an in depth course to support you in healing from chronic pain and symptoms: https://www.mbodycommunity.com/We also post daily on instagram: @painpsychotherapyFinally check out Tanner's YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@painpsychotherapyDisclaimer: The information provided by Anne and Tanner on this podcast is for general informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice, psychotherapy, or counselling. It you choose to utilize any of the education, strategies, or techniques in this podcast you are doing so at your own risk. Education and techniques discussed in this Podcast originate from Polyvagal Theory, Pain Reprocessing Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and Emotional Awareness and Expression Therapy. Reference: Peter Levine, Deb Dana, Dr. Porges, Pain Reprocessing Therapy Center, Alan Gordon, Dr. Schubiner, and Dr. Lumley.

Ever wondered if perfectionism could be causing your chronic pain or symptoms? Join us on the MindBodyCouple podcast, where we unravel the fascinating link between these two issues, drawing from our recent experiences at the Psychophysiologic Disorders Association conference in Colorado. Our insights are breaking new ground by challenging the notion that perfectionism is an immutable part of your personality. Instead, we offer a new perspective: perfectionism is a trait that can be transformed to reduce the stress, guilt, and shame that may accompany it. Our listeners have shared powerful stories on how embracing these ideas has brought them solace and healing, and we are excited to bring these transformative insights to you.This episode takes you on a personal journey through the origins of perfectionism as a coping mechanism from childhood, especially in high-demand environments. We explore how societal pressures perpetuate a relentless cycle of anxiety and self-criticism, and share firsthand accounts of navigating the fears of losing acceptance and success. Through this process, we highlight the profound benefits of embracing imperfections and practicing self-compassion. With practical examples, like simplifying tasks and valuing downtime, we provide actionable steps to help you ease perfectionist tendencies. Our YouTube channel and courses offer additional resources for this transformative journey, empowering you to accept vulnerabilities for greater peace and productivity.This podcast is owned by Pain Psychotherapy Canada Inc. This podcast is produced by Alex Klassen.Together we have a therapy agency called Pain Psychotherapy Canada. Learn more about our work on our website and book in for a free 20 minute consultation with one of our therapists: https://www.painpsychotherapy.ca/Our agency MBody Community provides an in depth course to support you in healing from chronic pain and symptoms: https://www.mbodycommunity.com/We also post daily on instagram: @painpsychotherapyFinally check out Tanner's YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@painpsychotherapyDisclaimer: The information provided by Anne and Tanner on this podcast is for general informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice, psychotherapy, or counselling. It you choose to utilize any of the education, strategies, or techniques in this podcast you are doing so at your own risk. Education and techniques discussed in this Podcast originate from Polyvagal Theory, Pain Reprocessing Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and Emotional Awareness and Expression Therapy. Reference: Peter Levine, Deb Dana, Dr. Porges, Pain Reprocessing Therapy Center, Alan Gordon, Dr. Schubiner, and Dr. Lumley.

What if the path to healing chronic fatigue syndrome and long COVID lies not in medication or supplements, but within our own minds? Discover how special guest Raelan Agle transformed her decade-long battle with chronic fatigue syndrome into a journey of recovery and empowerment. As the creator of a thriving YouTube channel, Raelan Agle shares the evolving stories of resilience and recovery, highlighting a critical shift towards understanding the interconnectedness of stress, emotions, and the autonomic nervous system. Together, we delve into the powerful role lifestyle choices, career paths, and self-perception play in the healing process, as individuals within the chronic illness community are increasingly recognizing the profound connection between emotional and physical well-being.Join us in this enlightening conversation where we explore the revolutionary impact of neuroplasticity and brain retraining practices on chronic symptoms. Through engaging discussions, we reveal how these innovative approaches focus on internal transformation and creating a sense of safety and calm, offering a promising alternative to traditional treatments. Learn how brain retraining, initially designed for chronic pain, is now making waves in treating conditions like Chronic Fatigue Syndrome and long COVID by addressing the brain's response to perceived threats. We invite you to explore the diverse methods and resources available for those eager to embrace this forward-thinking approach to healing and reclaim their lives.Learn more about Raelan Agle's work below:Website - https://raelanagle.com/YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/RaelanAgleInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/raelan.agle/My book - Finding Freedom: Escaping From the Prison of Chronic Fatigue Syndrome https://amzn.to/3LJcTgkCourse - Brain Retraining 101: For ME/CFS & Long Covid Recovery raelan-agle-s-school1.teachable.com/p/Brain_Retraining_101This podcast is owned by Pain Psychotherapy Canada Inc. This podcast is produced by Alex Klassen.Together we have a therapy agency called Pain Psychotherapy Canada. Learn more about our work on our website and book in for a free 20 minute consultation with one of our therapists: https://www.painpsychotherapy.ca/Our agency MBody Community provides an in depth course to support you in healing from chronic pain and symptoms: https://www.mbodycommunity.com/We also post daily on instagram: @painpsychotherapyFinally check out Tanner's YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@painpsychotherapyDisclaimer: The information provided by Anne and Tanner on this podcast is for general informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice, psychotherapy, or counselling. It you choose to utilize any of the education, strategies, or techniques in this podcast you are doing so at your own risk. Education and techniques discussed in this Podcast originate from Polyvagal Theory, Pain Reprocessing Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and Emotional Awareness and Expression Therapy. Reference: Peter Levine, Deb Dana, Dr. Porges, Pain Reprocessing Therapy Center, Alan Gordon, Dr. Schubiner, and Dr. Lumley.