Using Anger For Personal Growth

Send us Fan MailJoël and Rick explore a tough question for Christians: how do you care for people who haven’t cared for themselves? They dig into the line between compassion and enabling, the danger of “God will provide” thinking, and why wisdom, planning, and personal responsibility matter in ministry and beyond.In This Episode:00:00 Intro and Missionary Retirement Center Dream03:00 Trusting God Versus Personal Responsibility08:00 Giving Cheerfully and Avoiding Enabling13:00 Life Is Parenting: Caring Without Bailing Out18:00 Trust God and Do Your PartKey Takeaways:Distinguish between those who truly cannot provide for themselves and those who choose not to take responsibility.Plan ahead financially, even in ministry, so you are not dependent on others later.Trust God while doing your part, because faith and responsibility work together.Love people enough to let them face the consequences of poor choices, while still helping them survive.Give cheerfully from what you have, and avoid giving out of resentment or pressure.

Send us Fan MailTwo bad options. One vote. What does a Christian do?This episode of Conquer Your Mountains tackles how to choose the lesser evil when every candidate falls short. Joël and Rick explore biblical wisdom for hard decisions in politics and in life.In this podcast:How to weigh moral choices when no option is perfectWhat Romans 13 teaches about government and authorityWhy voting for policy and character both matterHow David and Esther model faith-driven decisionsDiscern wisely. Keep your eyes on the ideal while living in the real. Subscribe for more biblical teaching on faith, leadership, and hard choices.00:00 Choosing Between Two Flawed Texas Candidates02:12 Biblical Lessons on Choosing Hard Options06:53 Immigration, Congregation Concerns, and Agency11:15 Changing Hearts Versus Systemic Political Change15:04 Scripture, Bible Interpretation, and Political Labels17:02 Government Authority, Voting, and Discernment20:41 Closing Remarks and Book Promotion#ChristianVoting#BiblicalWisdom #ChoosingTheLesserEvil

Send us Fan MailHow do you show honor to someone who drives you crazy? Joel and Rick Malm are back (after six months) to tackle one of the toughest relational puzzles in the Christian life.Learn how to honor difficult bosses, impossible in-laws, and stubborn authorities while still protecting your own peace. Joel and Rick share honest advice, biblical examples, and stories that prove why learning from others saves you a lot of pain.00:00 Welcome Back and the Dilemma of Honor05:25 Honor Versus Respect and Boundaries11:55 Speaking Truth and Learning From the PastSend your questions to [email protected] to get them answered on the show. 

Send us Fan MailEver wonder why you get so angry over little things? It turns out, anger is just a signal. It’s a sign that something deeper is being threatened – your need for safety, connection, or feeling empowered. Join us as Joël breaks down the real reasons behind your anger. Learn how to listen to that “dashboard light” instead of ignoring it, and turn it into a powerful tool for understanding yourself better and improving your leadership. LINKS TO BOOKS:Love Slows Down: https://amzn.to/42QUuWhFully You: https://amzn.to/42QUuWh

Send us Fan MailGot a great thoughts or idea but struggle to put it on paper? In this episode, Joël talks to Kim, an artist and equine therapy advocate, who faces the challenge of translating years of experience into a tangible curriculum. She grapples with self-doubt and financial concerns, questioning how to dedicate time to this project when income generation is tied to immediate art sales. The conversation explores practical solutions, including AI-powered content creation and the importance of taking imperfect action.

Send us Fan MailDo you feel held back by what others might think? This episode dives into the pervasive fear of man, a snare that keeps so many from stepping into their true potential. Discover how to break free from seeking approval and embrace the liberating power of living according to your calling.

Send us Fan MailEver feel like you’re a high-functioning procrastinator? You get things done, but always at the last minute, causing stress? Join Joël as he chats with Darren, a screenwriter, about his journey with procrastination and perfectionism. We explore why it’s so hard to start, even when you love the work, and how to finally cross that finish line.#procrastinationtips #perfectionism

Send us Fan MailAre you waiting for the “perfect” moment to chase your dreams? Idealism can be a beautiful vision, but when it becomes an impossible standard, it can destroy the very things you long for. Discover how to break free from the grip of perfectionism and step into God’s calling, even when life is messy.Chapter Summary:00:00 Idealism vs. Reality02:58 Idealism Destroys Community07:22 Vision vs. Idealism10:12 Let Your Idealism Die

Send us Fan MailFeeling stuck and getting in your own way? The biggest obstacle isn’t external. It’s in your mindset. Learn how to face the fears that keep you from your potential. This week, Joël talks to James about wrestling with fear, self-doubt, and the surprising fear of success. Discover the emotional toll of self-imposed limits and the hope for moving past them. 00:00 Getting Out of My Own Way 02:52 Fear of Success and Family Legacy 06:32 Defining Success and Contentment 10:09 Self-Worth and Perfectionism 15:45 Overcoming Past Failures and Defense Mode 20:50 Trusting God’s Plan and Values Ready to stop holding yourself back? Find the support you need. Visit joelmalm.com/coaching to learn more. #FearOfSuccess #OvercomingDoubt #PersonalJourney #EmotionalGrowth

Send us Fan MailThis week, Joël talks to Bill. He built a thriving handyman business, but the success came at the cost of his passion. Feeling drained and alone, he’s questioning how to reignite his drive without jeopardizing his family and finances. This episode delves into his struggle with burnout and the potential for a new chapter, working alongside his capable daughter. Contents00:00 Lost Motivation, Successful Business 01:24 Work-Life Balance and Values 03:10 Shifting Roles and Physical Strain 05:53 Working with Daughter Ella 09:44 Daughter’s Potential and Mindset Shift 12:42 Transitioning the Business 16:27 Redefining Purpose and Legacy 20:15 Rest and Renewed Motivation If you want to book your own session with Joël visit http://joelmalm.com/coaching#motivation #burnout #fyp #foryou