S2 E17: NO MORE MR. NICE GUY: Making Peace with Quiet Dignity

Wanna text us? Have a suggestion? Want a question answered? Just want to comment? We got you.This week we start tackling a few frequently asked questions, while also updating you on the never ending misery that is family court. Support the show

Wanna text us? Have a suggestion? Want a question answered? Just want to comment? We got you.Is there a difference in being a peacemaker vs. a peacekeeper?  Is there a difference between being nice vs. being kind?  Has culture improved in the way we look at these things?  Let's talk about it.Support the show

Wanna text us? Have a suggestion? Want a question answered? Just want to comment? We got you.Things are falling apart, but Julie is still standing.  We are talking about the latest series of unfortunate events, what's got Julie fired up and the purpose behind the fight.  Her struggle is real, and unfortunately many of you can relate.Support the show

Wanna text us? Have a suggestion? Want a question answered? Just want to comment? We got you.Today we talk about some of Julie’s experiences in mediation, how easy it is to gaslight yourself, and the need for a support system. Julie and Carley remind us that even gritty mamas need empathetic friends and some time sitting in the mud.Support the show

Wanna text us? Have a suggestion? Want a question answered? Just want to comment? We got you.In this podcast, Julie talks vaguely about the latest court update and the infuriating unfairness about it all.  We talk about the frustrations with money and the challenges of a single mom trying to do it all alone.Support the show

Wanna text us? Have a suggestion? Want a question answered? Just want to comment? We got you.Starting with a focus on goals, Julie prompts a discussion that covers a variety of topics ranging from lowering expectations to taking time to be still and looking for Jesus along the way. Somehow they find themselves wading in the familiar but vulnerable waters of Carley’s miscarriage experience and the lessons she learned as she has healed throughout the years. Support the show

Wanna text us? Have a suggestion? Want a question answered? Just want to comment? We got you.Some fun news! Julie has new puppies up for grabs right in the middle of the Christmas busy season and she and Carley discuss what it means to “give it to Jesus” and how that’s easier said than done. Support the show

Wanna text us? Have a suggestion? Want a question answered? Just want to comment? We got you.My goodness, when you're not believed by the men you respect and love, and when you've experienced betrayal, deceit and degradation, it's hard to trust anyone anymore or have the courage to speak up.  Church leaders are human.  And sometimes they get it wrong.1974 Elder Benson talk: https://youtu.be/s7bZ6WH4OY8Support the show

Wanna text us? Have a suggestion? Want a question answered? Just want to comment? We got you.Lots of emotions come up when we discuss how the Church stays out of legal stuff, but the courts 100% get involved in church stuff. There is so much anger, resentment, betrayal and pain, but how does one grapple with this when you know the gospel of Jesus Christ is true?Support the show

Wanna text us? Have a suggestion? Want a question answered? Just want to comment? We got you.Sign the form for FIRST DIBS ON THE GRITTY MAMAS FIRST EDITION HAT! https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe_aCxLdd_Qxmda6uY0tWHZjOEl57i2S8eiDQmFGDWInfzIUQ/viewform?usp=sharing&ouid=100634865782320029201Can she make up for what he let go of?  Is she still sealed on the records of the church and in the eyes of God? Or was that broken long before he left?  Join us as Julie grapples with believing she must have had something to do with breaking the sealing since he "left because of her."  Tune in on how this messes with your brain and the trauma it causes.Here is the article on "Peace vs Relief."https://publicsquaremag.org/faith/gospel-fare/are-you-feeling-peace-or-just-relief/And here is the Aktivate link for single moms for Christmas!https://raise.aktivate.com/campaign/donate/009535a2-a84a-49c9-ab5e-66276e7eb853Support the show